The Center for Connection, Healing and Change
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, LPC, LCSW
Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
21495 Ridgetop Circle, Suite 200, Sterling, VA 20166
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We support clients to feel connected, worthy, and whole, both within themselves and in their love relationships. We specialize in the power of relationships and the profound way they shape us - through comfort, validation, and joy, as well as pain, unmet needs, or patterns that keep us from the secure connections we long for. You may notice yourself always putting others first, striving to be perfect, or working harder than anyone else just to feel “enough.” You might avoid conflict, silence your needs, or carry everything on your own. Perhaps you’ve endured too much for too long or gone without the comfort or protection you need.
You may notice painful relationship cycles, such as pursuing for closeness and reassurance, or shutting down to avoid criticism and rejection. Our skilled therapists can help you explore the pain you have carried and the protective strategies that helped you survive. Here, you don’t have to perform or hold it together, but be met with care and curiosity.
We go beyond symptom relief to help you make sense of your experiences, get to the roots of struggles, and deepen your ability to love and be loved as yourself. We specialize in individual and couples therapy, focusing on loosening old patterns, sharing feelings and needs openly, and creating new ways of relating that feel authentic, secure, and connected.
Call or Email The Center for Connection, Healing and Change now for a free 15 minute consultation - (703) 952-3496
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The Center for Connection, Healing and Change
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, LPC, LCSW
Call or Email us for a free 15 minute consultation now - (703) 952-3496
Qualifications
- Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of Virginia / 0717001367 Elayne Smithf
- In Practice for 10 years
- Certificate from Intergenerational Cycle Breaking, EMDR, Somatic Psychotherapy, Financial Therapy
- Certificate from Emotionally Focused Couples and Individual Therapy, Internal Family Systems Therapy, Sex Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist: Elayne Smithf
Education and Years In Practice
Additional Credentials
The Center for Connection, Healing and Change
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, LPC, LCSW
Call or Email us for a free 15 minute consultation now - (703) 952-3496
Specialties and Expertise
Top Specialties
- Anxiety
- Marital and Premarital
- Trauma and PTSD
Expertise
- ADHD
- Adult Attachment
- Career Counseling
- Chronic Illness
- Codependency
- Coping Skills
- Depression
- Divorce
- Emotional Disturbance
- Family Conflict
- Grief
- Infidelity
- Life Transitions
- Men's Issues
- Peer Relationships
- Relationship Issues
- Self Esteem
- Sex Therapy
- Sexual Abuse
- Stress
- Veterans
- Women's Issues
The Center for Connection, Healing and Change
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, LPC, LCSW
Call or Email us for a free 15 minute consultation now - (703) 952-3496
Client Focus
Age
Adults
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples
Communities
Queer Allied ,
Racial Justice Allied
Ethnicity
Black and African American ,
Other Racial or Ethnic Background
Age
Adults
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples
Communities
Queer Allied ,
Racial Justice Allied
Ethnicity
Black and African American ,
Other Racial or Ethnic Background
Treatment Approach
Types of Therapy
- Attachment-based
- Culturally Sensitive
- EMDR
- Emotionally Focused
- Emotionally Focused Individual and Couples Therapy
- Existential
- Family / Marital
- Family Systems
- Intergenerational Cycle Breaking
- Internal Family Systems (IFS)
- Psychodynamic
- Relational
- Somatic
- Strength-Based
- Trauma Focused
The Center for Connection, Healing and Change
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, LPC, LCSW
Call or Email us for a free 15 minute consultation now - (703) 952-3496
Location
Primary Location
The Center for Connection, Healing & Change
21495 Ridgetop Circle
Suite 200
Sterling, VA 20166
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Additional Location
Leesburg, VA 20176
(703) 952-3496Nearby Areas
The Center for Connection, Healing and Change
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, LPC, LCSW
Call for a free consultation now - (703) 952-3496