Thaddeus
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT (he, they)
Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
2 Endorsed
Let's Connect (323) 745-2433

When you look in the mirror, do you not like who you see? Have you betrayed your partner? Yourself? Maybe you're carrying shame, guilt, and a fear that you're beyond repair. You're not. But staying stuck in that shame — without understanding what drove you there — keeps you trapped in those patterns. I work with men and couples navigating infidelity and betrayal. I don't believe this is something to just diagnose. It came from somewhere, and mapping where is what makes real change possible. Through a humanist approach, I help you make honest sense of what happened. I also work with men and non-binary folx on anxiety and identity.
Here's how we work: first, we stabilize — getting you through the crisis and the day-to-day emotional fallout. Then we go deeper — using IFS to understand the parts of you that drove your choices and continue to sabotage. From there, we focus on repair — with your partner or within yourself. I bring equal parts warmth and directness.
You can keep carrying this alone — replaying it, managing it, hoping it fades. But it won't, not without honest understanding. Or you can reach out and start making sense of what happened in a space where you won't be judged or diagnosed. That's what I offer. One conversation is all it takes to know if this is the right fit.
Call or Email Thaddeus Shafer now for a free 15 minute consultation - (323) 745-2433
Let's Connect (323) 745-2433

Finances
Fees
- Individual Sessions $150
- Couple Sessions $180
- Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible
Payment Methods
American Express, Check, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, VisaInsurance
- Health Net
Thaddeus Shafer
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Check fees and, if listed, ask to verify your insurance coverage. Email or (323) 745-2433
Qualifications
- Verified by Psychology Today Prelicense by State of California / 155389 Supervised by Kellum Lewis (California / 42989) Thaddeus Peter Shafer
- In Practice for 3 years
- Attended Antioch University Los Angeles, Master's in Clinical Psychology, Graduated 2024
Education and Years In Practice
Thaddeus Shafer
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Feel free to ask about qualifications and training experience. Email or (323) 745-2433
Specialties and Expertise
Top Specialties
- Depression
- Anxiety
- Infidelity
Expertise
- Family Conflict
- LGBTQ+
- Relationship Issues
- Self Esteem
- Stress
Thaddeus Shafer
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (323) 745-2433
2 Endorsements
Client Focus
Age
Adults
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples ,
Group
Communities
Bisexual Allied ,
Gay Allied ,
Non-Binary Allied ,
Queer Allied
Age
Adults
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples ,
Group
Communities
Bisexual Allied ,
Gay Allied ,
Non-Binary Allied ,
Queer Allied
Location
Nearby Areas
Thaddeus Shafer
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (323) 745-2433