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Susan Heemstra

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA

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Available both in-person and online
2251 San Diego Avenue Suite B-150 San Diego, CA 92110
Most couples don't come to therapy because they stopped loving each other, they come because they're exhausted from the same fights, the silence, or drifting apart. If that sounds familiar, you're in the right place. I specialize exclusively in couples therapy, and I bring two of the most research-backed approaches to every session: Gottman Method (fully trained) & Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT). Together, these help couples not just manage conflict but actually understand what's underneath it & build the kind of connection that makes your relationship feel worth fighting for.
Whether you're navigating infidelity, feeling more like roommates than partners, struggling after a big life transition, or simply wanting to invest in your relationship before things get worse, I'd love to help. I offer a free 15-minute consultation so you can get a feel for whether we're a good fit.
I am available in Old Town of San Diego, as well as providing online therapy throughout CA.
Call or Susan Heemstra now for a free 15 minute consultation - (619) 332-1912

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

The Heart of the Matter Relationship Counseling

2251 San Diego Avenue

Suite B-150

San Diego, CA 92110 map

(619) 332-1912
My website
I have immediate openings to support you and your partner.
I specialize in Relationship Issues, Marital and Premarital and Infidelity 
I accept insurance 
I see couples  
Hello there!
Susan Heemstra
Let's Connect (619) 332-1912
Photo of Susan Heemstra, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

The Heart of the Matter Relationship Counseling

2251 San Diego Avenue

Suite B-150

San Diego, CA 92110 map

(619) 332-1912
My website
I have immediate openings to support you and your partner.
I specialize in Relationship Issues, Marital and Premarital and Infidelity 
I accept insurance 
I see couples  
Hello there!
Susan Heemstra

Finances

Fees

  • Couple Sessions $230
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

ACH Bank transfer, American Express, Cash, Check, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Visa

Insurance

  • Blue Cross Out-of-Network direct billing service
  • Mutual of Omaha
  • Out-of-Network
  • Out of Network
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Susan Heemstra
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Check fees and, if listed, ask to verify your insurance coverage. or (619) 332-1912
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Susan Heemstra
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Check fees and, if listed, ask to verify your insurance coverage. or (619) 332-1912

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of California / 103201 Susan Heemstra
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Susan Heemstra
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Feel free to ask about qualifications and training experience. or (619) 332-1912
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Susan Heemstra
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Feel free to ask about qualifications and training experience. or (619) 332-1912

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Relationship Issues
  • Marital and Premarital
  • Infidelity

Expertise

  • Addiction
  • Alcohol Use
  • Anger Management
  • Anxiety
  • Behavioral Issues
  • Chronic Illness
  • Coping Skills
  • Depression
  • Divorce
  • Dual Diagnosis
  • Family Conflict
  • Geriatric and Seniors
  • Grief
  • Life Transitions
  • Mood Disorders
  • Parenting
  • Peer Relationships
  • Pregnancy, Prenatal, Postpartum
  • Self Esteem
  • Stress
  • Trauma and PTSD
  • Women's Issues
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Susan Heemstra
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Do these issues align with your needs? or (619) 332-1912
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Susan Heemstra
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Do these issues align with your needs? or (619) 332-1912

9 Endorsements

Neha Rathaur
Neha Rathaur
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Susan's empathy and kindness makes her an excellent support.
The Heart of the Matter Relationship Counseling
The Heart of the Matter Relationship Counseling
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Susan is a great part of Heart of the Matter. She dedicates her practice to working with couples. She is fully trained in both Gottman and EFT.
Elizabeth 'betsy' Hegardt
Elizabeth 'betsy' Hegardt
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Susan is a highly skilled couples therapist- with an expertise in Gottman Method she supports couples in increasing their communication skills and strengthening relationship satisfaction.
Jenna Evans
Jenna Evans
Pre-Licensed Professional, APCC
Susan is a highly experienced therapist who skillfully integrates Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Therapy interventions to support clients in creating meaningful, lasting change in their lives.
Sabrina Kaiser
Sabrina Kaiser
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Susan is a fantastic therapist and I have learned so much from her supervision. She approaches her work with openness, empathy, and thoughtfulness. Our team is lucky to be led by such a skilled professional!
Amber Gayler
Amber Gayler
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Susan is a kind, warm, and deeply knowledgable therapist and supervisor. She has extensive experience utilizing the Gottman method with her couples and brings meaning and peace back into her client's lives.

Client Focus

Age

Adults , 
Elders (65+)

Participants

Couples

Communities

Single Parent

Age

Adults , 
Elders (65+)

Participants

Couples

Communities

Single Parent

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Attachment-based
  • Emotionally Focused
  • Family Systems
  • Gottman Method
  • Internal Family Systems (IFS)
  • Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
  • Motivational Interviewing
  • Positive Psychology
  • Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)
  • Strength-Based
  • Trauma Focused
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Susan Heemstra
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. or (619) 332-1912
Photo of Susan Heemstra, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Susan Heemstra
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. or (619) 332-1912

Location

Primary Location

The Heart of the Matter Relationship Counseling

2251 San Diego Avenue

Suite B-150

San Diego, CA 92110

(619) 332-1912
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I have immediate openings to support you and your partner.
Photo of Susan Heemstra, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Susan Heemstra
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Call for a free consultation now - (619) 332-1912
"
I have immediate openings to support you and your partner.
Photo of Susan Heemstra, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Susan Heemstra
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Call for a free consultation now - (619) 332-1912