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Stephen McAlister

Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, LCMHC, LCAS, CST (he, him)

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122 Gateway Blvd C Mooresville, NC 28117
I am an advocate for empowering secret-holders to let go of their burdens to create new freedom. Whether it's dealing with the shame of substance abuse issues, fear surrounding sexual identity concerns, underlying dread from childhood traumas, or ongoing guilt of "forgotten crimes" from the past. I offer a safe space to put your story to rest. Working together, we create a new story that gives you authenticity, community, and possibility.
I combine 5 years of experience with substance abuse counseling with 9 years of experience collaborating with people confronted by childhood trauma, anxiety, depression, and other diagnoses. I specialize in interpersonal communication skills, (parent/child employee/employer spouse/partner). I enjoy working with couples.
I have a special interest in helping couples communicate better, especially in complex situations such as faith, sex, and substances. I also am an advocate for LGBTQ individuals, specifically when they have conflicts with their faith backgrounds.
Call or Stephen McAlister now for a free 15 minute consultation - (828) 759-5160

My Practice at a Glance

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LifeStance Health

122 Gateway Blvd C

Mooresville, NC 28117 map

(828) 759-5160
My website
Please send me an email if you're interested in working with me. I may have more online spaces available than are scheduled if you call.
I specialize in Sex Therapy, Veterans and Life Transitions 
$150 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals, couples and families  
How can I help change your story? Relationship struggles, substance abuse secrets, or identity issues may require support at times.
Stephen McAlister
Let's Connect (828) 759-5160
Photo of Stephen McAlister, Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, LCMHC, LCAS, CST

My Practice at a Glance

Waitlist. Contact to join the list for in-person and online therapy.

LifeStance Health

122 Gateway Blvd C

Mooresville, NC 28117 map

(828) 759-5160
My website
Please send me an email if you're interested in working with me. I may have more online spaces available than are scheduled if you call.
I specialize in Sex Therapy, Veterans and Life Transitions 
$150 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals, couples and families  
How can I help change your story? Relationship struggles, substance abuse secrets, or identity issues may require support at times.
Stephen McAlister

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $150
  • Couple Sessions $180
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

American Express, Cash, Check, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Visa

Insurance

  • Aetna
  • BlueCross and BlueShield
  • Carolina Behavioral Health Alliance
  • HealthGram /Primary Physicians Care
  • Humana
  • Magellan
  • MedCost
  • MultiPlan
  • Optum
  • TRICARE
  • UnitedHealthcare UHC | UBH
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I work with several insurances through LifeStance Health at (704) 360-3637. (Before you call, please contact me first through email, so I can create a space in my schedule and let the administrator know you want to see me!)
Photo of Stephen McAlister, Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, LCMHC, LCAS, CST
Stephen McAlister
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, LCMHC, LCAS, CST
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (828) 759-5160
"
I work with several insurances through LifeStance Health at (704) 360-3637. (Before you call, please contact me first through email, so I can create a space in my schedule and let the administrator know you want to see me!)
Photo of Stephen McAlister, Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, LCMHC, LCAS, CST
Stephen McAlister
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, LCMHC, LCAS, CST
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (828) 759-5160

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of North Carolina / 8706 Stephen McAlister
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 16 years
  • Attended Lenoir Rhyne University, Graduated 2010
  • Additional Credentials

  • Membership with AASECT: The American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists Stephen Paul McAlister LCMHC, LCAS / 2025
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I am a mental health and relationship therapist who is trauma-informed, couples-focused, faith-story-sensitive, LGBTQ supportive and a SA-experienced therapist. In the past 16 years, I worked with over 200 couples as a Gottman-trained therapist. I am now AASECT-certified for clinical sex therapy.
Photo of Stephen McAlister, Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, LCMHC, LCAS, CST
Stephen McAlister
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, LCMHC, LCAS, CST
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (828) 759-5160
"
I am a mental health and relationship therapist who is trauma-informed, couples-focused, faith-story-sensitive, LGBTQ supportive and a SA-experienced therapist. In the past 16 years, I worked with over 200 couples as a Gottman-trained therapist. I am now AASECT-certified for clinical sex therapy.
Photo of Stephen McAlister, Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, LCMHC, LCAS, CST
Stephen McAlister
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, LCMHC, LCAS, CST
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (828) 759-5160

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Sex Therapy
  • Veterans
  • Life Transitions

Expertise

  • ADHD
  • Anger Management
  • Anxiety
  • Body Image
  • Cancer
  • Coping Skills
  • Cross-cultural communication
  • Depression
  • Dual Diagnosis
  • Family Conflict
  • Family issues
  • Grief
  • LGBTQ+
  • Mood Disorders
  • Polyamory & ENM
  • Relationship Issues
  • Self Esteem
  • Sex-Positive & Kink Friendly
  • Spirituality
  • Stress
  • Substance Use
  • Trauma and PTSD
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Most clients seek my support for improving communication issues and intimacy concerns with a partner. I've worked with over 200 couples as a Gottman-trained Couples Therapist and many more individual clients as a "Relationship Coach" for tough conversations about intimacy, substance abuse, spiritual struggles, sex, and even separation/divorce. LGBT issues and faith issues are both welcome.
Photo of Stephen McAlister, Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, LCMHC, LCAS, CST
Stephen McAlister
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, LCMHC, LCAS, CST
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (828) 759-5160
"
Most clients seek my support for improving communication issues and intimacy concerns with a partner. I've worked with over 200 couples as a Gottman-trained Couples Therapist and many more individual clients as a "Relationship Coach" for tough conversations about intimacy, substance abuse, spiritual struggles, sex, and even separation/divorce. LGBT issues and faith issues are both welcome.
Photo of Stephen McAlister, Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, LCMHC, LCAS, CST
Stephen McAlister
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, LCMHC, LCAS, CST
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (828) 759-5160

Client Focus

Age

Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Communities

Aviation Professionals
Gay Allied
HIV / AIDS Allied
Queer Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Single Parent

I also speak

Conversational Spanish (beginning/intermediate)

Religion

Other Spiritual or Religious Affiliations

Age

Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Communities

Aviation Professionals
Gay Allied
HIV / AIDS Allied
Queer Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Single Parent

I also speak

Conversational Spanish (beginning/intermediate)

Religion

Other Spiritual or Religious Affiliations

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Acceptance and Commitment (ACT)
  • Clinical Sex Therapy
  • Coaching
  • Compassion Focused
  • Family / Marital
  • Gottman Method
  • Imago
  • Internal Family Systems (IFS)
  • Interpersonal
  • Motivational Interviewing
  • Multicultural
  • Narrative
  • Person-Centered
  • Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)
  • Strength-Based
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I love helping couples improve intimacy and basic communication skills so they have consistently happier lives together. I am Gottman-trained, but also use CBT, Solution-focused Brief Therapy, IFST, and Narrative Therapy to reinforce joyful moments. I am also a Certified Sex Therapist. I practice gently facing tough issues around ADHD. I am honored to work with Veterans. Individuals welcome.
Photo of Stephen McAlister, Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, LCMHC, LCAS, CST
Stephen McAlister
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, LCMHC, LCAS, CST
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (828) 759-5160
"
I love helping couples improve intimacy and basic communication skills so they have consistently happier lives together. I am Gottman-trained, but also use CBT, Solution-focused Brief Therapy, IFST, and Narrative Therapy to reinforce joyful moments. I am also a Certified Sex Therapist. I practice gently facing tough issues around ADHD. I am honored to work with Veterans. Individuals welcome.
Photo of Stephen McAlister, Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, LCMHC, LCAS, CST
Stephen McAlister
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, LCMHC, LCAS, CST
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (828) 759-5160

Location

Primary Location

LifeStance Health

122 Gateway Blvd C

Mooresville, NC 28117

(828) 759-5160
"
Please send me an email if you're interested in working with me. I may have more online spaces available than are scheduled if you call.
Photo of Stephen McAlister, Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, LCMHC, LCAS, CST
Stephen McAlister
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, LCMHC, LCAS, CST
Call for a free consultation now - (828) 759-5160
"
Please send me an email if you're interested in working with me. I may have more online spaces available than are scheduled if you call.
Photo of Stephen McAlister, Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, LCMHC, LCAS, CST
Stephen McAlister
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, LCMHC, LCAS, CST
Call for a free consultation now - (828) 759-5160