Stephen Jacob Coffey

Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT

Stephen Jacob Coffey

Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT (he, him)

Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today

6 Endorsed

San Francisco, CA 94114

(415) 329-7705

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You’ve been told your whole life that “family is everything.” Yet for you, it’s a source of profound, soul-crushing pain. Holidays are a minefield, birthdays feel heavy, your heart aches for a connection that simply isn’t there, or perhaps never was. You're at your wits' end, exhausted by the relentless emotional tightrope of low contact or the profound, often misunderstood, silence of no contact. This isn't just a choice; it's a battle for your peace. And you wonder when it will be okay for you to admit how much it hurts.

Ready to stop just surviving? Let's unpack why these relationships feel impossible. In sessions together, we confront gut-wrenching grief, decimate crushing guilt, and forge a future rooted in your well-being. This challenging work is met with unwavering kindness, unfiltered curiosity, boundless space, and support to navigate every brutal truth.

This isn't about fixing or forgetting; it's fierce resilience. Shed the emotional mask of past wounds. Trust intuition. Pursue what ignites your soul—no permission needed to live fully. Embrace innate power, tune into your inner voice, fiercely live your life, unburdened. Free discovery call. Take the first step and email me to explore how I can help!

Call or Email Stephen Jacob Coffey now for a free 15 minute consultation - (415) 329-7705

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

San Francisco, CA 94114

(415) 329-7705

Center for Psychotherapy,Spirituality &Creativity

Sonoma, CA 95476

Time is precious. Are you living the life you truly desire? Let's explore what might be holding you back and uncover your full potential!

$200 Per Session

I see individuals, couples and groups

East Coast roots, West Coast state of mind. This blend informs my therapeutic approach, offering a dependable and dynamic space for growth!

Let's Connect (415) 329-7705

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

San Francisco, CA 94114

(415) 329-7705

Center for Psychotherapy,Spirituality &Creativity

Sonoma, CA 95476

Time is precious. Are you living the life you truly desire? Let's explore what might be holding you back and uncover your full potential!

$200 Per Session

I see individuals, couples and groups

East Coast roots, West Coast state of mind. This blend informs my therapeutic approach, offering a dependable and dynamic space for growth!

Finances

Fees

Individual Sessions $200
Couple Sessions $200
Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

American Express, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Visa

Insurance

Out of Network

My practice is private pay, meaning I work directly with you. I can give you the paperwork (a superbill) to submit to your insurance for potential reimbursement. I also partner with Mentaya to help you get the most out of your insurance benefits. Reach out if you have any questions!

Stephen Jacob Coffey

Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 329-7705

Stephen Jacob Coffey

Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 329-7705

Qualifications

Verified by Psychology Today Prelicense by State of California / 120292 Supervised by Israel Perla Ph.D., LMFT (California / 43965) Stephen Jacob Coffey

Education and Years In Practice

Attended California Institute of Integral Studies , M.A. Integral Counseling Psychology , Graduated 2020

Additional Credentials

Membership with SFCAMFT 2024

Membership with CAMFT 148385 / 2020

You've mastered the grind-now it's time to focus on the connections that truly matter. Success feels empty when real relationships take a backseat. It's time to build something deeper-stronger bonds, real meaning, a life that feels as good as it looks. Let's make it happen, send me an email today!

Stephen Jacob Coffey

Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 329-7705

Stephen Jacob Coffey

Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 329-7705

Specialties and Expertise

Expertise

Estrangement
LGBTQ+
Men's Issues
Relationship Issues
Self Esteem
Sexual Abuse
Trauma and PTSD

Therapy isn't about fixing you-you aren't broken. It's about giving yourself the space to relate to life in a new way, one where you set the pace. No pressure. No expectations. Just the chance to finally make sense of what's been weighing you down, on your terms. Email me now to set up your free discovery call!

Stephen Jacob Coffey

Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 329-7705

Stephen Jacob Coffey

Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 329-7705

6 Endorsements

Taune Lyons

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA, SEP

Stephen evokes trust by bringing his present, authentic self in. His attunement and mirroring paired with wit and humor feels like a relieving blend of West Coast warmth and East Coast honesty.

Joanna Lay

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

Blue Mudbhary

Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, JD, AMFT

Stephen is a highly skilled therapist, and will bring his significant lived experience into session when it benefits the client. He leads with care and deep sincerity and is always present with the client on their therapeutic journey. He's the real deal!

Paul Rubin

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

I have had the pleasure to work alongside Stephen. I highly recommend Stephen for his firm, yet gentle approach and particularly for men who have experienced trauma related to sexual abuse. Stephen genuinely cares and is passionate about the work he does.

Selena Mitchell

Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT

Stephen is a gem of a human being. His intuitive insight, warmth and positive regard come through in all his interactions. Having worked alongside him for several years, I can attest to his excellent, thoughtful clinical skills. I highly recommend him!

Jayeon Kim

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA

If you know what you want but can't quite make it happen, Stephen is the one to see. He specializes in working with clients who have a clear vision in their minds but face challenges from past disappointments in bringing that vision into tangible reality.

Client Focus

Age

Teen ,

Adults

Participants

Individuals ,

Couples ,

Group

Age

Teen ,

Adults

Participants

Individuals ,

Couples ,

Group

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

Attachment-based
Family Systems
Gestalt
Humanistic
Psychodynamic
Relational
Somatic
Transpersonal
Trauma Focused

My approach is flexible, built around you. Trauma can warp how you see yourself and connect with others, keeping you stuck. In our work together, we face what surfaces-without pressure, without force-on your terms and your timeline. Real change happens through meaningful connection, and you don't have to do it alone.

Stephen Jacob Coffey

Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 329-7705

Stephen Jacob Coffey

Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 329-7705

Groups

Men Who've Experienced Sexual Trauma -Online

Hosted by

Stephen Jacob Coffey

Exhausted of navigating the impact of sexual trauma in isolation? This online process group for adult men in California the opportunity to cut through the noise, share the tough stuff, and find genuine connection with others who get it. We're here to support each other in navigating challenges and building a stronger path forward. Perspective start date: May 2025, we meet online Tuesdays from 6:00 PM to 7:30 PM PDT for 12 weeks. Ready to engage and wanna see if this is the right fit? Email me directly for more information and to schedule a discovery call!

Expertise

Men's Issues

Sexual Abuse

Types of Therapy

Trauma Focused

Age

Adults

Session Cost

up to $100

Group Meets

Every Tue 6 P.M. - 7:30 P.M.

Email Stephen Jacob Coffey about this group or call - (415) 329-7705

F-ck The Fairytale: Beyond Family Estrangement

Hosted by

Stephen Jacob Coffey

They say blood is thicker than water. Maybe. Sometimes, blood is just poison. If you've walked away, or been walked away from, you know the silence can be louder than any argument. The pain is real, the freedom is complex, and the path forward isn't neatly paved. If you've had enough of the silent treatment, the blame game, or the pressure to maintain toxic connections, this group is for you. Connect with others who understand the fight for freedom Your peace is non-negotiable. It's time to claim it!

Age

Adults

Session Cost

$100

Email Stephen Jacob Coffey about this group or call - (415) 329-7705

Location

Primary Location

San Francisco, CA 94114

(415) 329-7705

Email me

My website

Additional Location

Center for Psychotherapy,Spirituality &Creativity

Sonoma, CA 95476

(415) 329-7705

Nearby Areas

Cities

Counties

Zips

Neighborhoods

Time is precious. Are you living the life you truly desire? Let's explore what might be holding you back and uncover your full potential!

Stephen Jacob Coffey

Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT

Call for a free consultation now - (415) 329-7705

Time is precious. Are you living the life you truly desire? Let's explore what might be holding you back and uncover your full potential!

Stephen Jacob Coffey

Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT

Call for a free consultation now - (415) 329-7705

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