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Stephanie Bain

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT (she, her)

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Available both in-person and online
445 Bellevue Ave Oakland, CA 94610
You feel everything intensely, but struggle when emotions feel overwhelming. I work with adults who experience emotional storms, rocky relationships, chronic emptiness, anxiety, or depression. Many of my clients are queer, trans, politically engaged, neurodivergent, creative, or deeply feeling. They may be navigating anxiety, shame, burnout, trauma, and attachment wounds. If you've been told you're "too sensitive" or "too much," if you're tired of just managing symptoms and want therapy that gets to the heart of why emotions feel so hard to handle, I offer a space to explore yourself in a deeper, transformative way.
I specialize in intense emotions, relationship patterns, and attachment wounds. I work from a psychodynamic approach, integrating DBT, EMDR, and parts work. That means we will deepen your self-understanding, develop skills for handling distress, and break destructive cycles. My approach blends practical tools with deeper insight into your patterns.
Living with intense emotions can feel isolating and exhausting. You don't have to navigate this alone. I understand the shame that comes with feeling "too much" and the fear that you're broken. You deserve compassionate, skilled support to find stability, peace, and acceptance within yourself and your relationships. Reach out for a free consultation.
Call or Stephanie Bain now for a free 15 minute consultation - (510) 216-1376

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

445 Bellevue Ave

Oakland, CA 94610 map

(510) 216-1376
My website
I work with trauma, relationships, and sociopolitical stress. In-person sessions in Oakland and virtual sessions for anyone in California.
I specialize in Borderline Personality (BPD), Relationship Issues and Mood Disorders 
$195 Per Session  
I see individuals and couples  
I enthusiastically welcome activists, LGBTQIA, poly and kinky folks, artists, and highly sensitive and neurodivergent individuals.
Stephanie Bain
Let's Connect (510) 216-1376
Photo of Stephanie Bain, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

445 Bellevue Ave

Oakland, CA 94610 map

(510) 216-1376
My website
I work with trauma, relationships, and sociopolitical stress. In-person sessions in Oakland and virtual sessions for anyone in California.
I specialize in Borderline Personality (BPD), Relationship Issues and Mood Disorders 
$195 Per Session  
I see individuals and couples  
I enthusiastically welcome activists, LGBTQIA, poly and kinky folks, artists, and highly sensitive and neurodivergent individuals.
Stephanie Bain

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $195
  • Couple Sessions $220
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

American Express, Cash, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Venmo, Visa, Zelle

Insurance

  • Out of Network
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I am an out-of-network provider but can provide superbills for potential insurance reimbursement. You can use the reimbursement estimate tool (specific to your insurance plan) on my website's Fees and Policies tab.
Photo of Stephanie Bain, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Stephanie Bain
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (510) 216-1376
"
I am an out-of-network provider but can provide superbills for potential insurance reimbursement. You can use the reimbursement estimate tool (specific to your insurance plan) on my website's Fees and Policies tab.
Photo of Stephanie Bain, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Stephanie Bain
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (510) 216-1376

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of California / LMFT137288 Stephanie Bain
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • Attended Pacifica Graduate Institute
  • Additional Credentials

  • Membership with Gaylesta: The Psychotherapist Association For Gender & Sexual Diversity
  • Membership with CAMFT (California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists)
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I work integratively, calling on multiple techniques and philosophies to be the most effective therapist for you! I especially lean on my training in trauma theory, EMDR, EFT, mindfulness, depth psychology, existential theory, and DBT.
Photo of Stephanie Bain, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Stephanie Bain
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (510) 216-1376
"
I work integratively, calling on multiple techniques and philosophies to be the most effective therapist for you! I especially lean on my training in trauma theory, EMDR, EFT, mindfulness, depth psychology, existential theory, and DBT.
Photo of Stephanie Bain, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Stephanie Bain
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (510) 216-1376

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Borderline Personality (BPD)
  • Relationship Issues
  • Mood Disorders

Expertise

  • Anger Management
  • Anxiety
  • Autism
  • Bisexual
  • Body Image
  • Codependency
  • Emotional Disturbance
  • Grief
  • Lesbian
  • LGBTQ+
  • Life Transitions
  • Neurodivergence
  • Peer Relationships
  • Personality Disorders
  • Polyamory & ENM
  • Self Esteem
  • Self-Harming
  • Sex-Positive & Kink Friendly
  • Sexual Abuse
  • Suicidal Ideation
  • Transgender
  • Trauma and PTSD
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I work with trauma, emotional overwhelm and intensity, anxiety, relationships, and sociopolitically related stress using insight-based work, empathic validation, gentle challenging, trauma processing, and teaching emotional regulation skills. I work with couples experiencing high conflict and communication breakdown to help build trust and intimacy, with emphasis on supporting LGBTQIA folks.
Photo of Stephanie Bain, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Stephanie Bain
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (510) 216-1376
"
I work with trauma, emotional overwhelm and intensity, anxiety, relationships, and sociopolitically related stress using insight-based work, empathic validation, gentle challenging, trauma processing, and teaching emotional regulation skills. I work with couples experiencing high conflict and communication breakdown to help build trust and intimacy, with emphasis on supporting LGBTQIA folks.
Photo of Stephanie Bain, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Stephanie Bain
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (510) 216-1376

11 Endorsements

Mary Fleisch: EMDR and Ketamine Therapy Intensives
Mary Fleisch: EMDR and Ketamine Therapy Intensives
Clinical Social Work/TherapistLCSWMA
Looking for relationship therapy with a therapist who truly gets it? Stephanie is amazing! She specializes in relationship therapy, queer relationships, & non-monogamy. In sessions, you'll feel understood & supported. I highly recommend Stephanie!
Audre Mowry
Audre Mowry
Marriage & Family TherapistLMFT
Stephanie continues to be a trusted colleague who I feel honored to know and work with. She has the ability to meet her clients with curiosity and skill in a way that I admire. Stephanie is very clinically experienced. I highly recommend working with her!
Kara Petersen
Kara Petersen
Marriage & Family TherapistMALMFT
I strongly recommend Stephanie for her intelligent compassion, expertly curated resources, and clinical skills. Stephanie's warm curiosity and open-hearted engagement create a safe environment for exploration, healing, and growth.
Jennie Tranter
Jennie Tranter
Marriage & Family TherapistMALPCCLMFT
Stephanie combines her great warmth and curiosity about her clients' inner worlds with the keen sharpness of her intellect in a beautiful way that opens up new insights and avenues of healing for her clients. I admire her work, and recommend her highly.
Kai Lillie
Kai Lillie
Marriage & Family TherapistMALMFT
I highly recommend Stephanie as an incredible clinician, combining evidence-based modalities with a depth approach while creating a warm and safe environment to explore what ever arises in session.
Natalie Ducastelle
Natalie Ducastelle
Marriage & Family TherapistLMFTSEPCPCC
I deeply value Stephanie's skillful, integrative approach. I have first-hand experience of the impact of her work, having a couples' therapy client of hers as an individual client of mine. Her work has true impact and I would refer to her without question.
Jace Lawa
Jace Lawa
Marriage & Family TherapistMALMFT
Stephanie is an incredibly insightful clinician who bings in humor and warm directness to support her clients in achieving their goals. She is passionate about her work, and you can tell she is meant to be a therapist!
Evan Loofbourrow
Evan Loofbourrow
Marriage & Family TherapistMALMFT
Stephanie is a wonderful person and therapist! She is warm, inviting, and caring. I would happily refer clients to her.
Juliet Small Ernst
Juliet Small Ernst
CounselorLPCCLMFT
Stephanie is a rare blend of a therapist: warm, sharp, good-humored, and deeply compassionate. She offers both depth and practical support for her clients and approaches her work with great care.
Julie Stroud
Julie Stroud
Clinical Social Work/TherapistLCSW
Stephanie is a profoundly attuned, perceptive, and insightful therapist who has the rare ability to stay curious about complexity which helps clients find their way through it, particularly in work around trauma, identity, and relationship challenges.
Luca Oliver Chang
Luca Oliver Chang
Marriage & Family TherapistLMFT
I feel confident sending LGBTQIA and poly / open couples to Stephanie knowing that she has the directness, insight, and intuition to help guide them through the stickiest moments in their relationship when they might otherwise struggle to see the way.

Client Focus

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Communities

Bisexual Allied
HIV / AIDS Allied
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Transgender Allied

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Communities

Bisexual Allied
HIV / AIDS Allied
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Transgender Allied

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Attachment-based
  • Clinical Supervision and Licensed Supervisors
  • Compassion Focused
  • Culturally Sensitive
  • Dialectical Behavior (DBT)
  • EMDR
  • Emotionally Focused
  • Existential
  • Family / Marital
  • Humanistic
  • Internal Family Systems (IFS)
  • Psychodynamic
  • Relational
  • Trauma Focused
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I work psychodynamically (insight-based talk therapy) using a social justice lens, integrating EMDR, mindfulness, and cognitive behavioral skill-based modalities when useful, and adding a healthy dose of humor when appropriate. Much of my practice is dedicated to partners work; I help couples get out of frustrating loops of conflict and to increase connection and intimacy.
Photo of Stephanie Bain, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Stephanie Bain
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (510) 216-1376
"
I work psychodynamically (insight-based talk therapy) using a social justice lens, integrating EMDR, mindfulness, and cognitive behavioral skill-based modalities when useful, and adding a healthy dose of humor when appropriate. Much of my practice is dedicated to partners work; I help couples get out of frustrating loops of conflict and to increase connection and intimacy.
Photo of Stephanie Bain, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Stephanie Bain
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (510) 216-1376

Location

Primary Location

445 Bellevue Ave

Oakland, CA 94610

(510) 216-1376
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I work with trauma, relationships, and sociopolitical stress. In-person sessions in Oakland and virtual sessions for anyone in California.
Photo of Stephanie Bain, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Stephanie Bain
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (510) 216-1376
"
I work with trauma, relationships, and sociopolitical stress. In-person sessions in Oakland and virtual sessions for anyone in California.
Photo of Stephanie Bain, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Stephanie Bain
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (510) 216-1376