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Santa Rosa, CA 95404
Do you seek a safe space where your unique identity is understood and celebrated? Do you straddle the complexities of multiple marginalized identities, i.e.: LGBTQIA+, POC/BIPOC, ADHD/neurodivergent, 1st-gen American or adult child of immigrant (or narcissistic) parents? Does the weight from social pressure to conform to family roles or expectations—especially the “minority model” stereotype and resulting perfectionism—leave you feeling anxious, depressed, overwhelmed, and/or even suicidal? Navigating these challenges can feel scary and stressful, but I can help you find the answers / guidance you seek.
A trauma psychotherapist for 10 years, I offer compassionate and inclusive therapy services to help you heal from trauma so you can finally move on with your life…on your terms! If you seek a mental health professional well-versed in the nuances of diverse cultural backgrounds, esp. those with intersecting, marginalized identities—I'm your new therapist!
Using evidence-based therapeutic approaches, I help empower you with personalized coping skills, tools, strategies, and resources to help you manage symptoms and thrive. Overcome your past, embrace your strengths, and consciously create a more balanced and fulfilling life. Book a free, 15-min consultation with me now by clicking on my website!
Call or Stara Shakti now for a free 15 minute consultation - (310) 919-5877

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Private Practice / Telehealth

Santa Rosa, CA 95404

(310) 919-5877

Petaluma, CA 94952

My website
I just moved (from L.A./SoCal), so currently only offer telehealth in CA but I want to soon offer in-person/in nature therapy so check back!
I specialize in LGBTQ+, ADHD and Codependency 
$250 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals, couples and groups  
Feeling stuck and stagnant in your life? Ready to take your health, relationships and finances to the next level? Say yes to yourself today!
Stara Shakti
Let's Connect (310) 919-5877
Photo of Stara Shakti, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Private Practice / Telehealth

Santa Rosa, CA 95404

(310) 919-5877

Petaluma, CA 94952

My website
I just moved (from L.A./SoCal), so currently only offer telehealth in CA but I want to soon offer in-person/in nature therapy so check back!
I specialize in LGBTQ+, ADHD and Codependency 
$250 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals, couples and groups  
Feeling stuck and stagnant in your life? Ready to take your health, relationships and finances to the next level? Say yes to yourself today!
Stara Shakti

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $250
  • Couple Sessions $350
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

Cash, Check, Health Savings Account, Venmo, Zelle

Insurance

  • Aetna
  • Aetna EAP
  • Anthem
  • Anthem EAP
  • Blue Cross
  • Blue Shield
  • BlueCross and BlueShield
  • Cigna EAP
  • UnitedHealthcare / Optum EAP
  • UnitedHealthcare UHC | UBH
  • Out of Network
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I only accept a few insurances as in-network provider. If you don't have or want to use your insurance and pay OON (out-of-network) / on a cash-pay basis, I can provide a superbill for you to submit to your insurance for total or partial reimbursement.
Photo of Stara Shakti, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Stara Shakti
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (310) 919-5877
"
I only accept a few insurances as in-network provider. If you don't have or want to use your insurance and pay OON (out-of-network) / on a cash-pay basis, I can provide a superbill for you to submit to your insurance for total or partial reimbursement.
Photo of Stara Shakti, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Stara Shakti
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (310) 919-5877

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of California / 124897 Stara Shakti
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 11 years
  • Attended Antioch University-Los Angeles, M.A in Clinical Psychology, Graduated 2016
  • Additional Credentials

  • License: CA 124897 / 2026
  • Membership with CAMFT (and LA-CAMFT) 2025
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I have a M.A. in Clinical Psychology from Antioch University-L.A. with a specialization in Trauma Studies. I have 10 years of experience working with LGBTQ, BIPOC, Neuro-divergent, 1st/2nd-gen Americans healing from childhood abuse by narcissistic or immigrant parents. Deep psychodynamic trauma work
Photo of Stara Shakti, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Stara Shakti
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (310) 919-5877
"
I have a M.A. in Clinical Psychology from Antioch University-L.A. with a specialization in Trauma Studies. I have 10 years of experience working with LGBTQ, BIPOC, Neuro-divergent, 1st/2nd-gen Americans healing from childhood abuse by narcissistic or immigrant parents. Deep psychodynamic trauma work
Photo of Stara Shakti, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Stara Shakti
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (310) 919-5877

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • LGBTQ+
  • ADHD
  • Codependency

Expertise

  • Anxiety
  • BIPOC/POC
  • Bisexual
  • Body Image
  • Coping Skills
  • Depression
  • Family Conflict
  • Lesbian
  • Life Transitions
  • Mood Disorders
  • Narcissistic Personality (NPD)
  • Personality Disorders
  • Racial Identity
  • Relationship Issues
  • Self Esteem
  • Spirituality
  • Stress
  • Trauma and PTSD
  • White Allies
  • Women's Issues
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The deep trauma healing work I do is a form of social justice activism for my clients - multiply marginalized people (ADHD/Neurodivergent, POC/BIPOC, LGBTQ, first-generation Americans). Let's work together to HEAL your childhood trauma from your family of origin, any internalized sexism, racism, misogyny, homophobia, etc. As you heal, your symptoms of anxiety and depression lift & you lighten up!
Photo of Stara Shakti, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Stara Shakti
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (310) 919-5877
"
The deep trauma healing work I do is a form of social justice activism for my clients - multiply marginalized people (ADHD/Neurodivergent, POC/BIPOC, LGBTQ, first-generation Americans). Let's work together to HEAL your childhood trauma from your family of origin, any internalized sexism, racism, misogyny, homophobia, etc. As you heal, your symptoms of anxiety and depression lift & you lighten up!
Photo of Stara Shakti, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Stara Shakti
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (310) 919-5877

6 Endorsements

Wellspring Mental Health
Wellspring Mental Health
Psychiatric Nurse PractitionerNPPMHNPND
Stara is a powerhouse of a therapist. I have referred clients to her and will continue to do so.
Christina Cacho Sakai
Christina Cacho Sakai
Marriage & Family TherapistMALMFTSEP
Stara is a genuinely curious therapist who asks meaningful questions and offers a warm, affirming presence and has a deep understanding of intersectionality. She also has a gift for incorporating guided meditation that will melt your stress & worry away.

Client Focus

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Group

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Deaf Allied
Gay Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Transgender Allied

Ethnicity

Asian
Black and African American

I also speak

Non-Violent Communication (NVC)?

Religion

Secular and Non-Religious

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Group

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Deaf Allied
Gay Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Transgender Allied

Ethnicity

Asian
Black and African American

I also speak

Non-Violent Communication (NVC)?

Religion

Secular and Non-Religious

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Attachment-based
  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Culturally Sensitive
  • Eclectic
  • Family Systems
  • Feminist
  • Integrative
  • Interpersonal
  • Jungian
  • Multicultural
  • Person-Centered
  • Positive Psychology
  • Psychodynamic
  • Trauma Focused
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I approach my clients from a family systems/attachment theory, trauma-informed background. The trauma work can go I deep, way back to the attachment relationships you had in childhood, as they often form the basis of your present-day, adult interactions, mental health symptoms, and more! For persistent, negative self-talk, I use CBT to help you reframe them into healthier thoughts about yourself!
Photo of Stara Shakti, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Stara Shakti
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (310) 919-5877
"
I approach my clients from a family systems/attachment theory, trauma-informed background. The trauma work can go I deep, way back to the attachment relationships you had in childhood, as they often form the basis of your present-day, adult interactions, mental health symptoms, and more! For persistent, negative self-talk, I use CBT to help you reframe them into healthier thoughts about yourself!
Photo of Stara Shakti, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Stara Shakti
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (310) 919-5877

Groups


Location

Primary Location

Private Practice / Telehealth

Santa Rosa, CA 95404

(310) 919-5877

Additional Location

Petaluma, CA 94952

(310) 919-5877
"
I just moved (from L.A./SoCal), so currently only offer telehealth in CA but I want to soon offer in-person/in nature therapy so check back!
Photo of Stara Shakti, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Stara Shakti
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (310) 919-5877
"
I just moved (from L.A./SoCal), so currently only offer telehealth in CA but I want to soon offer in-person/in nature therapy so check back!
Photo of Stara Shakti, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Stara Shakti
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (310) 919-5877