Photo of Sobia Saleem, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Sobia Saleem
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Email Me
or
Email Me

Sobia Saleem

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA (they, them)

Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
6 Endorsed
Call Me
Let's Connect (657) 286-7337
Photo of Sobia Saleem, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Available online only
Costa Mesa, CA 92626
English
 | 
ਪੰਜਾਬੀ  | اُردُو
Sliding scale slots available! Are you a trans, nonbinary, or polyamorous adult wanting to be seen in your full identity? An adult seeking an ADHD or Autism diagnosis - or struggling with one? A queer Muslim seeking a therapist who gets both your faith and your queerness? Chronically ill and tired of explaining your body to uninformed therapists? I’d love to support your intersectional journey in exploring your queerness and neurodivergence, navigating faith & family, deepening your relationships, obtaining HRT/GAS letters, and receiving formal adult ADHD & Autism assessments. You’ve found a therapist who truly understands you here.
As a queer, enby, South Asian, Muslim therapist trained at the LGBTQ Center OC, I have experience working with clients with marginalized QTBIPOC and neurodivergent identities. I've also served chronic illness communities for 10+ years and am UCSF trained to diagnose Autism. I use EMDR, Imago, Attachment, and Gottman therapy to help you heal and empower you.
I may not know your story yet, but I’m familiar with the pain of living in a world that misunderstands you. My clients and loved ones share many of the stories & traumas you carry—I might even share some myself. Helping you heal is more than my work; it’s my calling. Let’s chat for 20 minutes and see if we’re a good fit. You don't have to do this alone.
Call or Sobia Saleem now for a free 15 minute consultation - (657) 286-7337

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Costa Mesa, CA 92626

(657) 286-7337

San Jose, CA 95134

My website
I specialize in Queer and Spiritual Background, LGBTQ+ Muslim, Autism and/or ADHD Diagnoses, Neurodivergent and Marital and Premarital 
$285 Per Session  
I see individuals, couples and families  
Hi! Sobia here! I'm a queer therapist who works with the trans, poly, kinky, and chronically ill communities. Let's see if we're a good fit!
Sobia Saleem
Let's Connect (657) 286-7337
Photo of Sobia Saleem, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Costa Mesa, CA 92626

(657) 286-7337

San Jose, CA 95134

My website
I specialize in Queer and Spiritual Background, LGBTQ+ Muslim, Autism and/or ADHD Diagnoses, Neurodivergent and Marital and Premarital 
$285 Per Session  
I see individuals, couples and families  
Hi! Sobia here! I'm a queer therapist who works with the trans, poly, kinky, and chronically ill communities. Let's see if we're a good fit!
Sobia Saleem

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $285
  • Couple Sessions $350
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

American Express, Cash, Discover, Mastercard, Paypal, Venmo, Visa, Zelle
"
I'm happy to provide you with a super bill for your insurance provider. I recommend your call your insurance's Member Benefits Department to discuss your Explanation of Benefits (EOB). Your insurance may be able to apply your super bill towards your out-of-network deductible and/or reimburse you.
Photo of Sobia Saleem, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Sobia Saleem
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (657) 286-7337
"
I'm happy to provide you with a super bill for your insurance provider. I recommend your call your insurance's Member Benefits Department to discuss your Explanation of Benefits (EOB). Your insurance may be able to apply your super bill towards your out-of-network deductible and/or reimburse you.
Photo of Sobia Saleem, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Sobia Saleem
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (657) 286-7337

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of California / 141480 Sobia Saleem
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • Attended Hope International University, Masters in Marriage and Family Therapy
  • Additional Credentials

  • Membership with California Association of Marriage and Family Therapy, CAMFT 2025
  • Membership with Sexual Health Alliance Inner Circle 2023
"
I am an EMDR trauma trained therapist. I am a MAPS's certified MDMA-assisted therapy therapist trained in psychedelic integration. I am a member of the Sexual Health Alliance's (SHA) Inner Circle. Finally, I have a Death Doula Certificate and a NEDA End-of-Life Doula Proficiency Badge.
Photo of Sobia Saleem, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Sobia Saleem
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (657) 286-7337
"
I am an EMDR trauma trained therapist. I am a MAPS's certified MDMA-assisted therapy therapist trained in psychedelic integration. I am a member of the Sexual Health Alliance's (SHA) Inner Circle. Finally, I have a Death Doula Certificate and a NEDA End-of-Life Doula Proficiency Badge.
Photo of Sobia Saleem, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Sobia Saleem
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (657) 286-7337

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Queer and Spiritual Background, LGBTQ+ Muslim
  • Autism and/or ADHD Diagnoses, Neurodivergent
  • Marital and Premarital

Expertise

  • ADHD
  • Autism
  • Bisexual
  • Borderline Personality (BPD)
  • Chronic Illness
  • Chronic Pain
  • Grief
  • Lesbian
  • LGBTQ+
  • Mood Disorders
  • Personality Disorders
  • Polyamory & ENM
  • Racial Identity
  • Relationship Issues
  • Sex Therapy
  • Sex-Positive & Kink Friendly
  • Spirituality
  • Stress
  • Transgender
  • Trauma and PTSD
  • Veterans
  • Women's Issues
"
My clients often hold intersecting identities: neurodivergent, queer, chronically ill, and/or from faith backgrounds, like Islam or Hinduism. Together, we unpack how marginalization shapes their relationships, daily life, and trauma. I create safety, self-trust, and space to feel fully seen, centered, and empowered in who they are. Clients can expect warmth, honesty, and collaborative care.
Photo of Sobia Saleem, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Sobia Saleem
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (657) 286-7337
"
My clients often hold intersecting identities: neurodivergent, queer, chronically ill, and/or from faith backgrounds, like Islam or Hinduism. Together, we unpack how marginalization shapes their relationships, daily life, and trauma. I create safety, self-trust, and space to feel fully seen, centered, and empowered in who they are. Clients can expect warmth, honesty, and collaborative care.
Photo of Sobia Saleem, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Sobia Saleem
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (657) 286-7337

6 Endorsements

Kai Lewis
Kai Lewis
Marriage & Family TherapistMSLMFT
Sobia approaches you with genuine compassion and care for your well-being. They put in the work right alongside you, helping you create the outcomes you desire in therapy and beyond. Reach out today!
Sadie Hernández
Sadie Hernández
Marriage & Family TherapistMALMFT
Sobia is the therapist for you if you need someone who knows what's it like to navigate the world with a multitude of marginalized identities. They will affirm, validate, and see you. You will feel both safe and challenged. You won't regret reaching out!
Alicia Marciela Guerrero
Alicia Marciela Guerrero
Marriage & Family Therapist AssociateMAAMFT
Sobia is a gifted therapist who cares immensely for their clients- always striving to provide an affirming, safe space. I highly recommend reaching out today!
Lisa Maurel
Lisa Maurel
Marriage & Family TherapistLMFT
Sobia is an engaging therapist who is skilled in creating rapport with her patients. I refer to her with confidence.
Hanna Jeong
Hanna Jeong
Clinical Social Work/TherapistLCSW
Sobia is warm, kind, thoughtful, and inviting. They immediately create a safe and nurturing space for everyone they work with and offer knowledge and insights that stay with you long after. Reach out to them today!

Client Focus

Age

Preteen
Teen
Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Communities

Aviation Professionals
Bisexual Allied
Deaf Allied
Gay Allied
HIV / AIDS Allied
Immuno-disorders
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Single Parent
Transgender Allied

Ethnicity

Asian
Black and African American

I also speak

Hindi
Urdu

Religion

Muslim

Age

Preteen
Teen
Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Communities

Aviation Professionals
Bisexual Allied
Deaf Allied
Gay Allied
HIV / AIDS Allied
Immuno-disorders
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Single Parent
Transgender Allied

Ethnicity

Asian
Black and African American

I also speak

Hindi
Urdu

Religion

Muslim

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Attachment-based
  • Culturally Sensitive
  • Dialectical Behavior (DBT)
  • EMDR
  • Feminist
  • Gottman Method
  • Imago
  • Internal Family Systems (IFS)
  • Narrative
  • Psychedelic Integration (Ketamine, MDMA, Psilo.)
  • Psychodynamic
  • Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)
  • Somatic
  • Spiritual / Faith-Based Therapy
  • Trauma Focused
"
I use relational approaches (Gottman & Imago therapy), somatic approaches (EMDR & DBT therapy), and trauma-informed care (EMDR, Internal Family Systems, & Narrative therapy). Initially, we collaboratively outline treatment goals. Next, we learn about your emotions and trauma both in relationship and in your body. Finally, we work on emotional processing and solutions for your personalized care.
Photo of Sobia Saleem, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Sobia Saleem
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (657) 286-7337
"
I use relational approaches (Gottman & Imago therapy), somatic approaches (EMDR & DBT therapy), and trauma-informed care (EMDR, Internal Family Systems, & Narrative therapy). Initially, we collaboratively outline treatment goals. Next, we learn about your emotions and trauma both in relationship and in your body. Finally, we work on emotional processing and solutions for your personalized care.
Photo of Sobia Saleem, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Sobia Saleem
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (657) 286-7337

Groups


Location

Primary Location

Costa Mesa, CA 92626

(657) 286-7337

Additional Location

San Jose, CA 95134

(657) 286-7337
Photo of Sobia Saleem, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Sobia Saleem
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Call for a free consultation now - (657) 286-7337
Photo of Sobia Saleem, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Sobia Saleem
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Call for a free consultation now - (657) 286-7337