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Available both in-person and online
Santa Barbara, CA 93105
Reaching out for therapy can feel vulnerable, especially when people are carrying pain shaped by trauma, anxiety, depression, relationship conflict, parenting stress, immigration transitions, career concerns, or major life changes. I especially supporting multicultural individuals, immigrant families, and couples in cross-cultural relationships who may feel stuck in painful patterns influenced by family expectations, cultural identity, spirituality, or past wounds. Together, therapy helps uncover deeper emotional and relational patterns so clients can move forward with more clarity, stronger connection, and lasting healing.
By integrating Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Gottman Method Couples Therapy, somatic and cognitive approaches and attachment-based work. The focus is both reducing distress and helping client move forward with more clarity, confidence, emotional safety, and a deeper connection to yourself, your values, and relationship.
Therapy offers a space where you do not need to have all the answers before you begin. Together, we can slow things down, make sense of the deeper emotional, relational, and cultural patterns beneath the distress, and begin creating a path that feels more grounded and sustainable. I look forward to meeting you and creating a supportive space for healing.
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Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Santa Barbara, CA 93105

(805) 429-4465

Syntropy Family Counseling

Santa Barbara, CA 93110

Therapy sessions are available both in person and secure online video, with appointments offered on most weekends and weekday evenings.
$175 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals, couples and groups  
Let's Connect (805) 429-4465
Photo of Shuai Xu - Shuai Xu, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA

Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Santa Barbara, CA 93105

(805) 429-4465

Syntropy Family Counseling

Santa Barbara, CA 93110

Therapy sessions are available both in person and secure online video, with appointments offered on most weekends and weekday evenings.
$175 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals, couples and groups  

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $175
  • Couple Sessions $225

Insurance

  • Blue Shield
  • CenCal
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I am in-network with CenCal and Blue Shield, and I also welcome private-pay clients. Please feel free to reach out with any questions—I would be happy to explore how we can work together.
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Shuai Xu
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (805) 429-4465
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I am in-network with CenCal and Blue Shield, and I also welcome private-pay clients. Please feel free to reach out with any questions—I would be happy to explore how we can work together.
Photo of Shuai Xu - Shuai Xu, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA
Shuai Xu
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (805) 429-4465

Qualifications

    Marriage & Family Therapist Associate: Shuai Xu

  • Verified by Psychology Today Prelicense by State of California / 160014 Supervised by Crystal Ramirez, PhD, LMFT (California / 48909) Shuai Xu
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 2 years
  • Attended Antioch University of Santa Barbara, Master in Clinical Psychology, Graduated 2025
  • Additional Credentials

  • Membership with California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists 10058992 / 2025
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Trained in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) and Gottman Method Couples Therapy, integrate into my work with individuals, couples, and families. To support trauma recovery, anxiety, and negative beliefs, strengthen communication, rebuild trust, and create healthier relationship.
Photo of Shuai Xu - Shuai Xu, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA
Shuai Xu
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (805) 429-4465
"
Trained in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) and Gottman Method Couples Therapy, integrate into my work with individuals, couples, and families. To support trauma recovery, anxiety, and negative beliefs, strengthen communication, rebuild trust, and create healthier relationship.
Photo of Shuai Xu - Shuai Xu, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA
Shuai Xu
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (805) 429-4465

Specialties and Expertise

Expertise

  • Anxiety
  • Behavioral Issues
  • Career Counseling
  • Depression
  • Family Conflict
  • Grief
  • Neurodivergence
  • Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD)
  • Suicidal Ideation
  • Trauma and PTSD
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I work with clients (couples/individuals) who may be struggling with depression, trauma, or emotional pain connected to relationships, family dynamics, immigration experiences, and major life transitions. I also support individuals navigating broader life stressors, identity concerns, and career-related challenges with clarity, compassion, and practical guidance.
Photo of Shuai Xu - Shuai Xu, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA
Shuai Xu
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (805) 429-4465
"
I work with clients (couples/individuals) who may be struggling with depression, trauma, or emotional pain connected to relationships, family dynamics, immigration experiences, and major life transitions. I also support individuals navigating broader life stressors, identity concerns, and career-related challenges with clarity, compassion, and practical guidance.
Photo of Shuai Xu - Shuai Xu, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA
Shuai Xu
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (805) 429-4465

Endorsement

Rolan Hakim
Rolan Hakim
Marriage & Family Therapist AssociateMAAMFT
Shuai shines through her compassionate presence, insight, and ability to create a safe space for growth. She is warm, attentive, and gently challenging when needed, helping clients feel understood while encouraging progress. Shuai has a positive impact.

Client Focus

Age

Toddler
Children (6 to 10)
Preteen
Teen
Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Group

Ethnicity

Asian
Hispanic and Latino

I also speak

Mandarin

Age

Toddler
Children (6 to 10)
Preteen
Teen
Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Group

Ethnicity

Asian
Hispanic and Latino

I also speak

Mandarin

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Applied Behavioral Analysis (ABA)
  • Art Therapy
  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Dialectical Behavior (DBT)
  • EMDR
  • Emotionally Focused
  • Experiential Therapy
  • Gestalt
  • Gottman Method
  • Internal Family Systems (IFS)
  • Parent-Child Interaction (PCIT)
  • Play Therapy
  • Somatic
  • Structural Family Therapy
  • Trauma Focused
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I often integrate Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), somatic approaches, EMDR for trauma, and Internal Family Systems-informed work to help clients explore both present challenges and the deeper roots beneath them. I also integrate Gottman Method Couples Therapy to strengthen communication, rebuild trust, and create healthier relationship patterns.
Photo of Shuai Xu - Shuai Xu, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA
Shuai Xu
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (805) 429-4465
"
I often integrate Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), somatic approaches, EMDR for trauma, and Internal Family Systems-informed work to help clients explore both present challenges and the deeper roots beneath them. I also integrate Gottman Method Couples Therapy to strengthen communication, rebuild trust, and create healthier relationship patterns.
Photo of Shuai Xu - Shuai Xu, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA
Shuai Xu
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (805) 429-4465

Location

Primary Location

Santa Barbara, CA 93105

(805) 429-4465

Additional Location

Syntropy Family Counseling

Santa Barbara, CA 93110

(805) 429-4465

Nearby Areas

Counties

Neighborhoods

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Therapy sessions are available both in person and secure online video, with appointments offered on most weekends and weekday evenings.
Photo of Shuai Xu - Shuai Xu, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA
Shuai Xu
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA
Call for a free consultation now - (805) 429-4465
"
Therapy sessions are available both in person and secure online video, with appointments offered on most weekends and weekday evenings.
Photo of Shuai Xu - Shuai Xu, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA
Shuai Xu
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA
Call for a free consultation now - (805) 429-4465