Sexual Addiction Therapists in Jackson, NJ

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Dr. Asher Lipner
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Jackson, NJ 08527
“I want to grow up to have a sex addiction," said nobody ever... But that is the challenge many people face. As a therapist with 20+ years of experience and certified as a Sexual Recovery Therapist, I can help you. If you’re struggling with sex addiction yourself - I can help you quit your behavior and stop feeling like you’re living a double life and get your life back on track. If you are the partner of someone who is struggling - I can help you process your confusion and heal from the trauma of betrayal. Clients feel good about working through this tough subject with me because:
“I want to grow up to have a sex addiction," said nobody ever... But that is the challenge many people face. As a therapist with 20+ years of experience and certified as a Sexual Recovery Therapist, I can help you. If you’re struggling with sex addiction yourself - I can help you quit your behavior and stop feeling like you’re living a double life and get your life back on track. If you are the partner of someone who is struggling - I can help you process your confusion and heal from the trauma of betrayal. Clients feel good about working through this tough subject with me because:
(609) 806-5549 View (609) 806-5549
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New Path Therapy
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Jackson, NJ 08527
Making a change can be a scary process but with the guidance of the right person it can be rewarding. Therapy can help you overcome challenges, learn more about yourself, achieve goals, and increase satisfaction in your life. I provide a genuine, warm, and open environment that allows you to explore your difficulties, understand your strengths and weaknesses, and develop insight. I view each individual I work with as unique and strive to create an environment that is best suited for your personal needs. I will come up with a comprehensive treatment plan and adjust as you and I may see fit throughout the course of treatment.
Making a change can be a scary process but with the guidance of the right person it can be rewarding. Therapy can help you overcome challenges, learn more about yourself, achieve goals, and increase satisfaction in your life. I provide a genuine, warm, and open environment that allows you to explore your difficulties, understand your strengths and weaknesses, and develop insight. I view each individual I work with as unique and strive to create an environment that is best suited for your personal needs. I will come up with a comprehensive treatment plan and adjust as you and I may see fit throughout the course of treatment.
(732) 652-9084 View (732) 652-9084
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Integrated Care Concepts & Consultation
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MD, LPC, LCSW, LCADC
Verified Verified
Jackson, NJ 08527
Integrated Care Concepts and Consultation is a dynamic behavioral health practice that uses innovative treatment concepts to provide integrated care solutions for individuals, families, professionals, agencies, and communities.  Integrated Care Concepts and Consultation embraces the total body healing modalities found in both Western and Eastern philosophies. We believe that healing oneself is a partnership with one's mind through traditional psychotherapy and with one's body. Our team of therapists are trained, certified and experienced in the most sensitive fields of care that affect us as individuals, couples, families, children,
Integrated Care Concepts and Consultation is a dynamic behavioral health practice that uses innovative treatment concepts to provide integrated care solutions for individuals, families, professionals, agencies, and communities.  Integrated Care Concepts and Consultation embraces the total body healing modalities found in both Western and Eastern philosophies. We believe that healing oneself is a partnership with one's mind through traditional psychotherapy and with one's body. Our team of therapists are trained, certified and experienced in the most sensitive fields of care that affect us as individuals, couples, families, children,
(848) 206-6988 View (848) 206-6988
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Dr. Tara King
Drug & Alcohol Counselor, EdD, MA, LPC, LCADC, SAC
Verified Verified
Jackson, NJ 08527
I would like to commend you on your courage to seek professional help! At 19, I entered into my first counseling experience so I know this process can be difficult. My experience was so positive, I decided to become a therapist. I truly understand what you are going through and I KNOW how to help you! I make feeling safe and secure my first priority. Therapy is a collaborative process, meaning we work together on finding solutions toward resolving the issues that are causing challenges in your life. I have over 30 years experience in the mental health and substance abuse field. I do CBT. I have in-person Availability!
I would like to commend you on your courage to seek professional help! At 19, I entered into my first counseling experience so I know this process can be difficult. My experience was so positive, I decided to become a therapist. I truly understand what you are going through and I KNOW how to help you! I make feeling safe and secure my first priority. Therapy is a collaborative process, meaning we work together on finding solutions toward resolving the issues that are causing challenges in your life. I have over 30 years experience in the mental health and substance abuse field. I do CBT. I have in-person Availability!
(848) 333-9330 View (848) 333-9330
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James Joseph Murray
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Jackson, NJ 08527
Helping individuals and families lead more healthy and productive lives.Clinical areas:martial/couples counseling,problems of youth(12yrs and up,SAP evaluations,anxiety/depressive dirorders, post traumatic stress disorder,addiction:substance abuse(alcohol,gambling,sexual addiction.major treament approach is cognative behavioral therapy
Helping individuals and families lead more healthy and productive lives.Clinical areas:martial/couples counseling,problems of youth(12yrs and up,SAP evaluations,anxiety/depressive dirorders, post traumatic stress disorder,addiction:substance abuse(alcohol,gambling,sexual addiction.major treament approach is cognative behavioral therapy
(732) 372-0991 View (732) 372-0991
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Frank J Resola
Counselor, MEd, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Jackson, NJ 08527
I am a dedicated Licensed Professional Counselor who has over 25 years of counseling experience. I have provided counseling for adolescences and adults from many different cultural and ethnic backgrounds. I am very sensitive to individual differences and will provide an atmosphere of trust, safety, and protect the confidentiality of my clients. It is my goal to assist individuals, couples, and families in identifying the issues and develop strategies for positive solutions.
I am a dedicated Licensed Professional Counselor who has over 25 years of counseling experience. I have provided counseling for adolescences and adults from many different cultural and ethnic backgrounds. I am very sensitive to individual differences and will provide an atmosphere of trust, safety, and protect the confidentiality of my clients. It is my goal to assist individuals, couples, and families in identifying the issues and develop strategies for positive solutions.
(732) 831-7343 View (732) 831-7343
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Serenity Counseling Center NJ LLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, LCADC, NCC, CCS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Jackson, NJ 08527
At Serenity Counseling Center NJ we have Licensed Counselors with multiple years of experience. We are committed to helping clients reach their treatment goals and learn skills to cope with any life challenges. We provide a safe, comfortable therapeutic environment and utilize various treatment approaches that best meet the needs of each client. Skilled in Motivational Interviewing, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Group Therapy, Crisis Intervention, and Mental Health Counseling. Owner of practice has Master's degree in Science and Counseling Psychology from Monmouth University LPC. Visit us at www.serenitycounselingcenternj.org
At Serenity Counseling Center NJ we have Licensed Counselors with multiple years of experience. We are committed to helping clients reach their treatment goals and learn skills to cope with any life challenges. We provide a safe, comfortable therapeutic environment and utilize various treatment approaches that best meet the needs of each client. Skilled in Motivational Interviewing, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Group Therapy, Crisis Intervention, and Mental Health Counseling. Owner of practice has Master's degree in Science and Counseling Psychology from Monmouth University LPC. Visit us at www.serenitycounselingcenternj.org
(848) 251-0184 View (848) 251-0184
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Gina Frigiola
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LCADC
Verified Verified
Jackson, NJ 08527  (Online Only)
**Accepting new clients! Evening and weekend appointments available** Everyone has a story to tell…I would like to hear yours. Your story might include sadness, pain, hurt, loss, trauma, injustice, addiction, or many other challenges that interfere with your daily functioning. My goal is to create a safe, compassionate, nonjudgmental space where you can be heard and valued. We can work together to help you sort through the difficulty, rediscover your strengths, and find the joy and peace you deserve in life. You can return your story to one of hope, recovery, and good health.
**Accepting new clients! Evening and weekend appointments available** Everyone has a story to tell…I would like to hear yours. Your story might include sadness, pain, hurt, loss, trauma, injustice, addiction, or many other challenges that interfere with your daily functioning. My goal is to create a safe, compassionate, nonjudgmental space where you can be heard and valued. We can work together to help you sort through the difficulty, rediscover your strengths, and find the joy and peace you deserve in life. You can return your story to one of hope, recovery, and good health.
(848) 257-9532 View (848) 257-9532

More Therapists Nearby

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Andrew Green
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, SRT
Verified Verified
Lakewood, NJ 08701
, an expert in the field of sexual addiction and have been helping clients and their spouses who suffer from sexual addictions.
Do you suffer from sexual or internet addiction? Substance or alcohol abuse? Depression or Anxiety? I have been successfully helping clients suffering from addiction, mood, and anxiety disorders regain control of their lives. I use my warmth, sensitivity, and humor to create a healthy and balanced therapeutic relationship with my clients. My philosophy is to help clients obtain the necessary skills they need to eventually "be their own therapist." This is achieved through a combination of Cognitive Behavioral and Insight Oriented therapy techniques. I challenge my clients to think, gain insight and understanding, and make concrete changes in their daily lives.
, an expert in the field of sexual addiction and have been helping clients and their spouses who suffer from sexual addictions.
Do you suffer from sexual or internet addiction? Substance or alcohol abuse? Depression or Anxiety? I have been successfully helping clients suffering from addiction, mood, and anxiety disorders regain control of their lives. I use my warmth, sensitivity, and humor to create a healthy and balanced therapeutic relationship with my clients. My philosophy is to help clients obtain the necessary skills they need to eventually "be their own therapist." This is achieved through a combination of Cognitive Behavioral and Insight Oriented therapy techniques. I challenge my clients to think, gain insight and understanding, and make concrete changes in their daily lives.
(732) 504-3256 View (732) 504-3256
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Sexual Addiction Sex Misbehavior Infidelity Expert
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, SOTS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Freehold, NJ 07728
Absolute sexual addiction elite level expert 26 years + 45,000 hours sexual misbehavior specialist psychotherapy provided, faster recovery evidence based research oriented treating of Infidelity / Cheating /Affairs, Prostitution Use, "Seeking Arrangements", Sugar Daddy, Sex Apps, Strip Clubs, Massage Parlors, Sex Misconduct, Certified Specialist. I created government funded sexual misbehavior programs, utilizing highly effective clinical models. I use my most up to date understanding to have you change your thinking and learn how to end self destructive actions and love yourself and the great life you have. All I do is these cases.
Absolute sexual addiction elite level expert 26 years + 45,000 hours sexual misbehavior specialist psychotherapy provided, faster recovery evidence based research oriented treating of Infidelity / Cheating /Affairs, Prostitution Use, "Seeking Arrangements", Sugar Daddy, Sex Apps, Strip Clubs, Massage Parlors, Sex Misconduct, Certified Specialist. I created government funded sexual misbehavior programs, utilizing highly effective clinical models. I use my most up to date understanding to have you change your thinking and learn how to end self destructive actions and love yourself and the great life you have. All I do is these cases.
(201) 379-6085 View (201) 379-6085
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Mordechai Weiss
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CSAT-C
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Lakewood, NJ 08701
As a psychotherapist with extensive training and experience working with the adolescent and adult population, I’ve helped many individuals suffering from OCD, Anxiety, and Sex Addiction. My clients have seen powerful results as they learn to transform negative patterns towards living calm, productive, and meaningful lives. Having received training from Dr. Jonathan Grayson and Dr. Reid Wilson, world renowned OCD and Anxiety experts respectively, I have gained particular expertise in the treatment of these disorders.
As a psychotherapist with extensive training and experience working with the adolescent and adult population, I’ve helped many individuals suffering from OCD, Anxiety, and Sex Addiction. My clients have seen powerful results as they learn to transform negative patterns towards living calm, productive, and meaningful lives. Having received training from Dr. Jonathan Grayson and Dr. Reid Wilson, world renowned OCD and Anxiety experts respectively, I have gained particular expertise in the treatment of these disorders.
(732) 360-5173 View (732) 360-5173
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Naomi Lewis Afriat
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CSAT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Lakewood, NJ 08701
I'm a Licensed Certified Social Worker with many years of clinical experience, currently licensed in CA, FL, NJ and NY. The focus of my work is with betrayed partners (of sex addicts). Most of my clients approach me trying to understand and process the trauma that they have suffered. For many patients, their recent trauma, is not their first. Patients often tell me that I’m so easy to talk to and that they feel comfortable and validated when working with me. In helping my clients understand their trauma, and the dynamics around it, I work gently and carefully, while ensuring comfort and safety as we talk about these difficult topics
I'm a Licensed Certified Social Worker with many years of clinical experience, currently licensed in CA, FL, NJ and NY. The focus of my work is with betrayed partners (of sex addicts). Most of my clients approach me trying to understand and process the trauma that they have suffered. For many patients, their recent trauma, is not their first. Patients often tell me that I’m so easy to talk to and that they feel comfortable and validated when working with me. In helping my clients understand their trauma, and the dynamics around it, I work gently and carefully, while ensuring comfort and safety as we talk about these difficult topics
(213) 205-0874 View (213) 205-0874
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Institute for Personal Growth (Sex Therapy)
Psychologist, PhD, LCSW, LPC, LMFT
Verified Verified
Freehold, NJ 07728
Thinking of therapy? Ask for the for the first session free. IPG has 3 offices throughout New Jersey (Highland Park, Jersey City, and Freehold), with almost 30 therapists, many of whom are experts in sex therapy. Because many sexual problems affect relationships, not just individuals, our sex therapists also have extensive training in various forms of couples therapy, so we are ideally equipped to handle relationship problems with a sexual component. Whether your concern is primarily a sexual issue or part of a larger marital issue, we are the right choice. We also work of course with individuals for various sex-related concerns.
Thinking of therapy? Ask for the for the first session free. IPG has 3 offices throughout New Jersey (Highland Park, Jersey City, and Freehold), with almost 30 therapists, many of whom are experts in sex therapy. Because many sexual problems affect relationships, not just individuals, our sex therapists also have extensive training in various forms of couples therapy, so we are ideally equipped to handle relationship problems with a sexual component. Whether your concern is primarily a sexual issue or part of a larger marital issue, we are the right choice. We also work of course with individuals for various sex-related concerns.
(866) 948-7629 View (866) 948-7629
Michael L Nover
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Howell, NJ 07731  (Online Only)
I have been in private practice for 25 years, treating adolescents and adults. I specialize in the treatment of sexual behavior problems, sexual abuse, sexual dysfunction, and sexual and chemical addiction. I use cognitive-behavior therapy and relapse prevention therapy to help people who suffer from addiction, depression, anxiety, PTSD/trauma, and dissociative disorders.
I have been in private practice for 25 years, treating adolescents and adults. I specialize in the treatment of sexual behavior problems, sexual abuse, sexual dysfunction, and sexual and chemical addiction. I use cognitive-behavior therapy and relapse prevention therapy to help people who suffer from addiction, depression, anxiety, PTSD/trauma, and dissociative disorders.
(732) 820-3585 View (732) 820-3585
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Robert A Axel
Psychologist, PhD, CSAT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Freehold, NJ 07728  (Online Only)
You want emotional intimacy but disappointment and blame distance you. You withdraw or act out sexually to avoid pain? Do romantic obsessions or resentment towards your partner/spouse fuel your inability to connect and feel loved? I reach out from my decades of experience with individuals and couples who are intimacy avoidant and I help resolve your past and present blocks to intimacy by facilitating the examination and change of life-long patterns in my safe office space. My willingness to listen, to observe, to enter your world with a structured understanding is my therapeutic strength that has transferred to online sessions.
You want emotional intimacy but disappointment and blame distance you. You withdraw or act out sexually to avoid pain? Do romantic obsessions or resentment towards your partner/spouse fuel your inability to connect and feel loved? I reach out from my decades of experience with individuals and couples who are intimacy avoidant and I help resolve your past and present blocks to intimacy by facilitating the examination and change of life-long patterns in my safe office space. My willingness to listen, to observe, to enter your world with a structured understanding is my therapeutic strength that has transferred to online sessions.
(646) 490-9986 View (646) 490-9986
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Sarina A Mulleavey
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Brick, NJ 08724
Waitlist for new clients
I am passionate about working with men and women ages 18 years-old to older adults who are navigating life’s challenges, who feel blue, overwhelmed, depressed, anxious, angry, who are not able to concentrate in college or at the workplace, who are unsettled due to their trauma and utilize bad coping skills. I help individuals grow while they feel stuck and shut down. I provide various forms of therapeutic treatment, not just talk therapy. My specialized experience and trainings are broad from: Gottman Marriage/Couples L1 L2 Psycho-education, CBT, DBT, Mindfulness, EMDR, Trauma, Gestalt , Hypnosis, Yoga, and Holistic Treatments.
I am passionate about working with men and women ages 18 years-old to older adults who are navigating life’s challenges, who feel blue, overwhelmed, depressed, anxious, angry, who are not able to concentrate in college or at the workplace, who are unsettled due to their trauma and utilize bad coping skills. I help individuals grow while they feel stuck and shut down. I provide various forms of therapeutic treatment, not just talk therapy. My specialized experience and trainings are broad from: Gottman Marriage/Couples L1 L2 Psycho-education, CBT, DBT, Mindfulness, EMDR, Trauma, Gestalt , Hypnosis, Yoga, and Holistic Treatments.
(848) 224-6305 View (848) 224-6305
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Levi Miller
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Toms River, NJ 08755
Do you feel so overwhelmed and numb that you feel everything and nothing at the same time? Do you struggle with self-doubt, low self-esteem, depression, or anxiety? My approach works to address the internal dialogue that contributes to problematic patterns of behavior and painful emotions. I understand how limiting it can be when critical, perfectionistic, or other negative self-talk inhibits you from making the positive changes that you are seeking. I aim to help you become your greatest supporter instead of your biggest critic and to learn to relate with yourself in a new way that promotes growth and healing.
Do you feel so overwhelmed and numb that you feel everything and nothing at the same time? Do you struggle with self-doubt, low self-esteem, depression, or anxiety? My approach works to address the internal dialogue that contributes to problematic patterns of behavior and painful emotions. I understand how limiting it can be when critical, perfectionistic, or other negative self-talk inhibits you from making the positive changes that you are seeking. I aim to help you become your greatest supporter instead of your biggest critic and to learn to relate with yourself in a new way that promotes growth and healing.
(347) 794-6273 View (347) 794-6273
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Victor Venokur
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Brick, NJ 08723
Life has recently shown me that curveballs are bound to happen with no warning whatsoever. COVID-19 was a clear example of that. This past years have shown me just how quickly life can be derailed and how pivotal it is for mental health professionals like myself to exist. I have spent the last year working with individuals struggling with anxiety, depression, biomedical issues, their various relationships, traumas from the past and present, family matters, and substance use.
Life has recently shown me that curveballs are bound to happen with no warning whatsoever. COVID-19 was a clear example of that. This past years have shown me just how quickly life can be derailed and how pivotal it is for mental health professionals like myself to exist. I have spent the last year working with individuals struggling with anxiety, depression, biomedical issues, their various relationships, traumas from the past and present, family matters, and substance use.
(732) 517-7615 View (732) 517-7615
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Sharon Miller
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Toms River, NJ 08755
Immediate availability! I focus on treating anxiety; depression; trauma; alcohol and substance abuse; gambling and other addictions; aging; gender identity; and relationship issues. Navigating life’s challenges can leave us feeling unsure of how to move forward, or that we are not our best selves, or that we are not living in a way we want to be living. Each of our paths through life are different, and each of our challenges are different. Some of us have challenges at work or at home that we aren't handling well. For some, past experiences can complicate how we live our current lives.
Immediate availability! I focus on treating anxiety; depression; trauma; alcohol and substance abuse; gambling and other addictions; aging; gender identity; and relationship issues. Navigating life’s challenges can leave us feeling unsure of how to move forward, or that we are not our best selves, or that we are not living in a way we want to be living. Each of our paths through life are different, and each of our challenges are different. Some of us have challenges at work or at home that we aren't handling well. For some, past experiences can complicate how we live our current lives.
(732) 416-7703 View (732) 416-7703
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Footprints to Feel Better
Licensed Professional Counselor
Verified Verified
Lakewood, NJ 08701
Footprints was started by a therapist who realized that often times the services provided to low socio-economic communities is lacking quality care. We noticed these communities were confronted with long wait times, disrespectful admins, and subpar treatment. The one and only purpose was to exploit the community for profit without providing the level of care deserved. Footprints began from the inspiration to provide quality mental health care to the poorest of communities and treating the clients of this community the same way a rich patient would be treated in a clinic treating affluent clients.
Footprints was started by a therapist who realized that often times the services provided to low socio-economic communities is lacking quality care. We noticed these communities were confronted with long wait times, disrespectful admins, and subpar treatment. The one and only purpose was to exploit the community for profit without providing the level of care deserved. Footprints began from the inspiration to provide quality mental health care to the poorest of communities and treating the clients of this community the same way a rich patient would be treated in a clinic treating affluent clients.
(646) 204-2295 View (646) 204-2295

Sexual Addiction Therapists

When should someone seek treatment for sex addiction?

People should seek treatment for sex addiction if they cannot control their sexual thoughts or behaviours to the point that it disrupts their ability to function in daily life, for example by threatening their finances, career, or relationships. This may include spending an excessive amount of time obsessing over sex, planning sex, watching pornography, or masturbating, as well as consistently engaging in risky sexual activities, using sex to escape distressing feelings, or attempting yet failing to control sexual behavior.

What are the most common treatment options for sex addiction?

Psychotherapy is the most common treatment for sex addiction; therapy helps patients better understand their compulsive thoughts and behaviors and develop strategies to manage their desires. Therapy may be supplemented by medications, such as antidepressants, mood stabilizers, anti-androgens, and the alcohol and substance use medication Naltrexone, as well as support groups, such as 12-step programs.

How long does therapy take for sex addiction?

Recovering from compulsive behavior takes time and effort. There’s no precise timeline for treatment, but research suggests 12 therapy sessions may be enough to see change. Treatment for sexual compulsions requires honesty in therapy, a commitment to understanding triggers and developing coping skills, and potential lifestyle changes such as cutting out alcohol or drugs.

What if sex addiction is left untreated?

Compulsive sexual behavior can have serious repercussions if left unaddressed. For example, if sexual obsessions consume the vast majority of a person’s time, they may lose their job. If they can’t stop paying for sex, their finances may suffer. If they’re dishonest in their relationships, their partner may leave them. If they consistently feel shame, they may struggle with anxiety, depression, or loneliness. Therapy can help people develop the tools to manage sexual thoughts and behaviors that feel uncontrollable.