Sexual Addiction Therapists in New York

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John D Kelly
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10010
I am a licensed therapist who specializes in treating sexual addiction, problematic sexual behaviors, betrayal trauma and couples therapy for relationship restoration.
Are you overwhelmed with emotional pain and feeling betrayed after discovering your partner's secret sex life? Are you engulfed with shame, anxiety, and depression because you cannot stop your problematic sexual behaviors? If you are experiencing these complex life issues and are filled with emotional turmoil, you do not have to deal with these issues alone and I am here to help.
I am a licensed therapist who specializes in treating sexual addiction, problematic sexual behaviors, betrayal trauma and couples therapy for relationship restoration.
Are you overwhelmed with emotional pain and feeling betrayed after discovering your partner's secret sex life? Are you engulfed with shame, anxiety, and depression because you cannot stop your problematic sexual behaviors? If you are experiencing these complex life issues and are filled with emotional turmoil, you do not have to deal with these issues alone and I am here to help.
(332) 378-5847 View (332) 378-5847
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John D Kelly
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New York, NY 10010
I am a licensed therapist who specializes in treating sexual addiction, problematic sexual behaviors, betrayal trauma and couples therapy for relationship restoration.
Are you overwhelmed with emotional pain and feeling betrayed after discovering your partner's secret sex life? Are you engulfed with shame, anxiety, and depression because you cannot stop your problematic sexual behaviors? If you are experiencing these complex life issues and are filled with emotional turmoil, you do not have to deal with these issues alone and I am here to help.
I am a licensed therapist who specializes in treating sexual addiction, problematic sexual behaviors, betrayal trauma and couples therapy for relationship restoration.
Are you overwhelmed with emotional pain and feeling betrayed after discovering your partner's secret sex life? Are you engulfed with shame, anxiety, and depression because you cannot stop your problematic sexual behaviors? If you are experiencing these complex life issues and are filled with emotional turmoil, you do not have to deal with these issues alone and I am here to help.
(332) 248-0721 View (332) 248-0721
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Scott Abbott | Abbott Mental Health
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
Brooklyn, NY 11231
With over two decades of experience in faith-based psychotherapy, mental health counseling and inpatient rehabilitation, I am uniquely competent integrating clinical expertise and Christian spirituality in a holistic approach to thoughts, emotions and behaviors. I specialize in sexual addiction breakthrough, substance abuse recovery, OCD treatment (ERP and ACT), trauma processing (EMDR), anxiety relief, relational connection, anger management, identity formation and faith/work/life/sex integration. I see couples and adult clients, and have other counselors (with lower fees) at my practice who work with adolescents and children.
With over two decades of experience in faith-based psychotherapy, mental health counseling and inpatient rehabilitation, I am uniquely competent integrating clinical expertise and Christian spirituality in a holistic approach to thoughts, emotions and behaviors. I specialize in sexual addiction breakthrough, substance abuse recovery, OCD treatment (ERP and ACT), trauma processing (EMDR), anxiety relief, relational connection, anger management, identity formation and faith/work/life/sex integration. I see couples and adult clients, and have other counselors (with lower fees) at my practice who work with adolescents and children.
(347) 609-7259 View (347) 609-7259
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Barbara Mazzarella
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R, ACSW
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10017  (Online Only)
In a safe, supportive environment we will work together to help you live a happier, healthier and more fulfilling life. While I have extensive experience helping clients with depression, anxiety, trauma & other painful conditions, I also offer specialized treatment for those seeking healing & recovery from sexual addiction/compulsivity, love & romance addiction, attachment disorders & other problematic behavior patterns involving relationships. My clients describe me as empathetic & caring while also highly effective at facilitating positive growth & transformation in their lives. All sexual orientations/gender identities welcome.
In a safe, supportive environment we will work together to help you live a happier, healthier and more fulfilling life. While I have extensive experience helping clients with depression, anxiety, trauma & other painful conditions, I also offer specialized treatment for those seeking healing & recovery from sexual addiction/compulsivity, love & romance addiction, attachment disorders & other problematic behavior patterns involving relationships. My clients describe me as empathetic & caring while also highly effective at facilitating positive growth & transformation in their lives. All sexual orientations/gender identities welcome.
(917) 791-1123 View (917) 791-1123
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Sexual Addiction Sex Misbehavior Infidelity Expert
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MSW, SOTS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Valley Stream, NY 11581
Absolute sexual addiction elite level expert, 26 years & 45,000 hours sexual misbehavior specialist psychotherapy provided, faster recovery. Evidence based research oriented treating of Infidelity/Cheating/Affairs, Prostitution Use, "Seeking Arrangements", Sugar Daddy, Sex Apps, Strip Clubs, Massage Parlors, Sex Misconduct, Certified Specialist. I created government funded sexual misbehavior programs, utilizing highly effective clinical models. I use my most up to date understanding to have you change your thinking and learn how to end self destructive actions and love yourself and the great life you have. All I do is these cases
Absolute sexual addiction elite level expert, 26 years & 45,000 hours sexual misbehavior specialist psychotherapy provided, faster recovery. Evidence based research oriented treating of Infidelity/Cheating/Affairs, Prostitution Use, "Seeking Arrangements", Sugar Daddy, Sex Apps, Strip Clubs, Massage Parlors, Sex Misconduct, Certified Specialist. I created government funded sexual misbehavior programs, utilizing highly effective clinical models. I use my most up to date understanding to have you change your thinking and learn how to end self destructive actions and love yourself and the great life you have. All I do is these cases
(516) 774-4317 View (516) 774-4317
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Brad Salzman - Sex Addiction Expert
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MSW, CSAT, EMDR
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
New York, NY 10001
Certified Sexual Addiction Therapist (CSAT), under the leadership of Dr.
I treat sexual addicts around the world via Zoom. In addition, I offer fully customized intensive therapy programs remotely and face to face. Are you addicted to sex, pornography, or relationships? Do you have problems with compulsive sexual behaviors that you just can't quit? Sex addiction and compulsive sexual behavior can ruin your life -- your family, your relationships, your career, your health. If you are serious about getting help and you want expert psychotherapy with an experienced therapist, then give me a call. I have helped many people struggling with sex addiction to turn their lives around. Free phone consultation.
Certified Sexual Addiction Therapist (CSAT), under the leadership of Dr.
I treat sexual addicts around the world via Zoom. In addition, I offer fully customized intensive therapy programs remotely and face to face. Are you addicted to sex, pornography, or relationships? Do you have problems with compulsive sexual behaviors that you just can't quit? Sex addiction and compulsive sexual behavior can ruin your life -- your family, your relationships, your career, your health. If you are serious about getting help and you want expert psychotherapy with an experienced therapist, then give me a call. I have helped many people struggling with sex addiction to turn their lives around. Free phone consultation.
(917) 791-1255 View (917) 791-1255
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Sexual Addiction, Infidelity, Absolute Expert
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW , SOTS
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10005
Absolute sexual addiction elite level expert 26 years + 45,000 hours sexual misbehavior specialist psychotherapy provided, faster recovery evidence based research oriented treating of Infidelity / Cheating /Affairs, Prostitution Use, "Seeking Arrangements", Sugar Daddy, Sex Apps, Strip Clubs, Massage Parlors, Sex Misconduct, Certified Specialist. I created government funded sexual misbehavior programs, utilizing highly effective clinical models. I use my most up to date understanding to have you change your thinking and learn how to end self destructive actions and love yourself and the great life you have. All I do is these cases.
Absolute sexual addiction elite level expert 26 years + 45,000 hours sexual misbehavior specialist psychotherapy provided, faster recovery evidence based research oriented treating of Infidelity / Cheating /Affairs, Prostitution Use, "Seeking Arrangements", Sugar Daddy, Sex Apps, Strip Clubs, Massage Parlors, Sex Misconduct, Certified Specialist. I created government funded sexual misbehavior programs, utilizing highly effective clinical models. I use my most up to date understanding to have you change your thinking and learn how to end self destructive actions and love yourself and the great life you have. All I do is these cases.
(646) 362-8996 View (646) 362-8996
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Michael Pagana
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CSAT, BCC
Verified Verified
Goshen, NY 10924
I offer affordable & knowledgeable sexual addiction recovery care that is Biblically centered, and clinically sound. I'm a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT) trained thru IITAP. I'm also a trained thru APSATS in the multidimensional Partner Trauma Model. I work as a Marriage & Family Therapist, and Board Certified Coach. I alsoprovide pastoral counseling if desired, and I have experience supporting Jewish couples. I will utilize an individual's faith perspective to their desire or comfort. I help men and their partners, heal and grow, from unwanted sexual behaviors, infidelity & partner betrayal. Affair recovery is possible.
I offer affordable & knowledgeable sexual addiction recovery care that is Biblically centered, and clinically sound. I'm a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT) trained thru IITAP. I'm also a trained thru APSATS in the multidimensional Partner Trauma Model. I work as a Marriage & Family Therapist, and Board Certified Coach. I alsoprovide pastoral counseling if desired, and I have experience supporting Jewish couples. I will utilize an individual's faith perspective to their desire or comfort. I help men and their partners, heal and grow, from unwanted sexual behaviors, infidelity & partner betrayal. Affair recovery is possible.
(845) 867-2405 View (845) 867-2405
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Kalman Canant
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CSAT, EMDR
Verified Verified
Brooklyn, NY 11230
As an eclectic, creative therapist, I believe in doing what works. I use EMDR, an evidence based treatment, to heal trauma and correct negative core beliefs that drive your problems. I provide a safe environment for painful emotions where you can heal and discover your true authentic self. Break free and resolve destructive relationship patterns and discover true and healthy intimacy. End compulsive and addictive behaviors, instead of using a substance, a process, or a relationship for instant gratification and to escape intolerable realities. As a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, I treat sexual addiction, infidelity and intimacy anorexia.
As an eclectic, creative therapist, I believe in doing what works. I use EMDR, an evidence based treatment, to heal trauma and correct negative core beliefs that drive your problems. I provide a safe environment for painful emotions where you can heal and discover your true authentic self. Break free and resolve destructive relationship patterns and discover true and healthy intimacy. End compulsive and addictive behaviors, instead of using a substance, a process, or a relationship for instant gratification and to escape intolerable realities. As a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, I treat sexual addiction, infidelity and intimacy anorexia.
(917) 635-2479 View (917) 635-2479
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Alissa Foglia
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10010
My clinical areas include working with anxiety, depression, family enmeshment, PTSD, sexual addiction and compulsivity and supporting those struggling with addiction and their families.
I believe the collaborative relationship between therapist and client is the foundation for healing. With warmth and curiosity, we will work together to explore and understand your patterns of feelings, behaviors and beliefs and identify areas for change and create a path forward. I strive to offer a non-judgmental and compassionate space to encourage individuals to work towards a more connected and fulfilling life. As a therapist, it is my privilege to guide people in discovering their own capacity to heal and recover.
My clinical areas include working with anxiety, depression, family enmeshment, PTSD, sexual addiction and compulsivity and supporting those struggling with addiction and their families.
I believe the collaborative relationship between therapist and client is the foundation for healing. With warmth and curiosity, we will work together to explore and understand your patterns of feelings, behaviors and beliefs and identify areas for change and create a path forward. I strive to offer a non-judgmental and compassionate space to encourage individuals to work towards a more connected and fulfilling life. As a therapist, it is my privilege to guide people in discovering their own capacity to heal and recover.
(332) 249-8290 View (332) 249-8290
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Sexual Addiction Sex Misbehavior Infidelity Expert
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW , SOTS
Verified Verified
Brooklyn, NY 11201
Absolute sexual addiction elite level expert, 26 years & 45,000 hours sexual misbehavior specialist psychotherapy provided, faster recovery. Evidence based research oriented treating of Infidelity/Cheating/Affairs, Prostitution Use, "Seeking Arrangements", Sugar Daddy, Sex Apps, Strip Clubs, Massage Parlors, Sex Misconduct, Certified Specialist. I created government funded sexual misbehavior programs, utilizing highly effective clinical models. I use my most up to date understanding to have you change your thinking and learn how to end self destructive actions and love yourself and the great life you have. All I do is these cases.
Absolute sexual addiction elite level expert, 26 years & 45,000 hours sexual misbehavior specialist psychotherapy provided, faster recovery. Evidence based research oriented treating of Infidelity/Cheating/Affairs, Prostitution Use, "Seeking Arrangements", Sugar Daddy, Sex Apps, Strip Clubs, Massage Parlors, Sex Misconduct, Certified Specialist. I created government funded sexual misbehavior programs, utilizing highly effective clinical models. I use my most up to date understanding to have you change your thinking and learn how to end self destructive actions and love yourself and the great life you have. All I do is these cases.
(347) 408-1013 View (347) 408-1013
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Sexual Addiction Sex Misbehavior Infidelity Expert
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, SOTS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New York, NY 10028
Absolute sexual addiction elite level expert, 26 years & 45,000 hours sexual misbehavior specialist psychotherapy provided, faster recovery. Evidence based research oriented treating of Infidelity/Cheating/Affairs, Prostitution Use, "Seeking Arrangements", Sugar Daddy, Sex Apps, Strip Clubs, Massage Parlors, Sex Misconduct, Certified Specialist. I created government funded sexual misbehavior programs, utilizing highly effective clinical models. I use my most up to date understanding to have you change your thinking and learn how to end self destructive actions and love yourself and the great life you have. All I do is these cases.
Absolute sexual addiction elite level expert, 26 years & 45,000 hours sexual misbehavior specialist psychotherapy provided, faster recovery. Evidence based research oriented treating of Infidelity/Cheating/Affairs, Prostitution Use, "Seeking Arrangements", Sugar Daddy, Sex Apps, Strip Clubs, Massage Parlors, Sex Misconduct, Certified Specialist. I created government funded sexual misbehavior programs, utilizing highly effective clinical models. I use my most up to date understanding to have you change your thinking and learn how to end self destructive actions and love yourself and the great life you have. All I do is these cases.
(914) 352-5260 View (914) 352-5260
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Chris Samuels
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10005
I am among the pioneers of addressing the issue of sexual addiction, founding The Sexual Addiction Treatment and Training Institute (SATTI) in 1992.
Although I specialise in sex and porn addiction treatment, my work encompasses more than just helping my clients stop their self-destructive behaviours. Of course, sexual sobriety is crucial for therapeutic progress, but I have found that healing the childhood neglect and abuse that--without exception--underlie the development of a sexual addiction is also essential if the individual is to have the truly transformative recovery he or she deserves. I aspire to offer patience, empathy, expertise, and loving, respectful care to my clients, which I hope they experience from me in our work together.
I am among the pioneers of addressing the issue of sexual addiction, founding The Sexual Addiction Treatment and Training Institute (SATTI) in 1992.
Although I specialise in sex and porn addiction treatment, my work encompasses more than just helping my clients stop their self-destructive behaviours. Of course, sexual sobriety is crucial for therapeutic progress, but I have found that healing the childhood neglect and abuse that--without exception--underlie the development of a sexual addiction is also essential if the individual is to have the truly transformative recovery he or she deserves. I aspire to offer patience, empathy, expertise, and loving, respectful care to my clients, which I hope they experience from me in our work together.
(646) 941-7691 View (646) 941-7691
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Sexual Addiction Sex Misbehavior Infidelity Expert
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, SOTS
Verified Verified
23 Endorsed
New York, NY 10165
Absolute sexual addiction elite level expert 26 years + 45,000 hours sexual misbehavior specialist psychotherapy provided, faster recovery evidence based research oriented treating of Infidelity / Cheating /Affairs, Prostitution Use, "Seeking Arrangements", Sugar Daddy, Sex Apps, Strip Clubs, Massage Parlors, Sex Misconduct, Certified Specialist. I created government funded sexual misbehavior programs, utilizing highly effective clinical models. I use my most up to date understanding to have you change your thinking and learn how to end self destructive actions and love yourself and the great life you have. All I do is these cases.
Absolute sexual addiction elite level expert 26 years + 45,000 hours sexual misbehavior specialist psychotherapy provided, faster recovery evidence based research oriented treating of Infidelity / Cheating /Affairs, Prostitution Use, "Seeking Arrangements", Sugar Daddy, Sex Apps, Strip Clubs, Massage Parlors, Sex Misconduct, Certified Specialist. I created government funded sexual misbehavior programs, utilizing highly effective clinical models. I use my most up to date understanding to have you change your thinking and learn how to end self destructive actions and love yourself and the great life you have. All I do is these cases.
(347) 997-8676 View (347) 997-8676
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Timothy Lee - Sex Addiction Therapy
LCSW, CSAT
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10001
Timothy Lee, Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW), Licensed Therapist, and Certified Sexual Addiction Therapist, (CSAT), has 15 years experience in the treatment of sexual addiction and helping individuals, couples and families find recovery. As Founder and Director at New York Pathways, Timothy developed the addiction treatment model based upon training with Patrick Carnes, Ph.D, Doug Weiss, Ph.D, and the addiction treatment model utilized at Hazeldon Betty Ford. Timothy brings a highly personal and compassionate attitude to his work, and facilitates a safe and confidential environment where you can heal.
Timothy Lee, Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW), Licensed Therapist, and Certified Sexual Addiction Therapist, (CSAT), has 15 years experience in the treatment of sexual addiction and helping individuals, couples and families find recovery. As Founder and Director at New York Pathways, Timothy developed the addiction treatment model based upon training with Patrick Carnes, Ph.D, Doug Weiss, Ph.D, and the addiction treatment model utilized at Hazeldon Betty Ford. Timothy brings a highly personal and compassionate attitude to his work, and facilitates a safe and confidential environment where you can heal.
(646) 679-5850 View (646) 679-5850
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Harvey Weissman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CSAT
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
New York, NY 10016
I am a licensed therapist specializing in the treatment of sexual addiction and compulsivity. I utilize a variety of therapeutic approaches including Internal Family Systems (IFS), EMDR, motivational interviewing, and mindfulness-based practices to help people regain agency in their lives. I work with people struggling with addiction, as well as their partners and loved ones who may be affected by the addiction. My practice provides individual therapy, couples therapy, and process-oriented group therapy.
I am a licensed therapist specializing in the treatment of sexual addiction and compulsivity. I utilize a variety of therapeutic approaches including Internal Family Systems (IFS), EMDR, motivational interviewing, and mindfulness-based practices to help people regain agency in their lives. I work with people struggling with addiction, as well as their partners and loved ones who may be affected by the addiction. My practice provides individual therapy, couples therapy, and process-oriented group therapy.
(917) 979-8356 View (917) 979-8356
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Bart Mandell
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R, CSAT-S
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10001
Bart Mandell, Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW-R) and Certified Sexual Addiction Therapist (CSAT-S), specializes in the treatment of sexual addiction. In addition to his expertise in sex addiction, he has treated individuals suffering from substance abuse, compulsive behaviors, interactive addictions and trauma. With more than 25 years in the field, Bart helps individuals, couples and families overcome the effects of addiction and transform their lives. Bart's empathic, caring and sensitive style have been noted as one of the keys to his success.
Bart Mandell, Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW-R) and Certified Sexual Addiction Therapist (CSAT-S), specializes in the treatment of sexual addiction. In addition to his expertise in sex addiction, he has treated individuals suffering from substance abuse, compulsive behaviors, interactive addictions and trauma. With more than 25 years in the field, Bart helps individuals, couples and families overcome the effects of addiction and transform their lives. Bart's empathic, caring and sensitive style have been noted as one of the keys to his success.
(646) 832-2234 View (646) 832-2234
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Deanna Doherty
Licensed Master Social Worker, LMSW
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10036  (Online Only)
Hey there! I am Deanna, a trauma informed, holistic psychotherapist practicing in the state of New York. Humans are unique, and I make it a priority to make therapy client centered and tailored to you. I have extensive experience working with grief, chronic PTSD and acute PTSD, anxiety, and addictions including sexual addiction. I also work extensively with perfectionism, care giver burn out, traumatic/sudden loss, anticipatory grief and folks raised in non-traditional families. This includes but is not limited to adoptees and people raised by their grandparents. In my work I utilize EMDR, IFS, DBT and CBT.
Hey there! I am Deanna, a trauma informed, holistic psychotherapist practicing in the state of New York. Humans are unique, and I make it a priority to make therapy client centered and tailored to you. I have extensive experience working with grief, chronic PTSD and acute PTSD, anxiety, and addictions including sexual addiction. I also work extensively with perfectionism, care giver burn out, traumatic/sudden loss, anticipatory grief and folks raised in non-traditional families. This includes but is not limited to adoptees and people raised by their grandparents. In my work I utilize EMDR, IFS, DBT and CBT.
(929) 335-2269 View (929) 335-2269
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Sexual Addiction, Infidelity Absolute Expert
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R, SOTS
Verified Verified
Forest Hills, NY 11375
Absolute sexual addiction elite level expert, 26 years & 45,000 hours sexual misbehavior specialist psychotherapy provided, faster recovery. Evidence based research oriented treating of Infidelity /Cheating/Affairs, Prostitution Use, "Seeking Arrangements", Sugar Daddy, Sex Apps, Strip Clubs, Massage Parlors, Sex Misconduct, Certified Specialist. I created government funded sexual misbehavior programs, utilizing highly effective clinical models. I use my most up to date understanding to have you change your thinking and learn how to end self destructive actions and love yourself and the great life you have. All I do are these cases
Absolute sexual addiction elite level expert, 26 years & 45,000 hours sexual misbehavior specialist psychotherapy provided, faster recovery. Evidence based research oriented treating of Infidelity /Cheating/Affairs, Prostitution Use, "Seeking Arrangements", Sugar Daddy, Sex Apps, Strip Clubs, Massage Parlors, Sex Misconduct, Certified Specialist. I created government funded sexual misbehavior programs, utilizing highly effective clinical models. I use my most up to date understanding to have you change your thinking and learn how to end self destructive actions and love yourself and the great life you have. All I do are these cases
(929) 456-5190 View (929) 456-5190
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Jean Tamara Geffen
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, BCD
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10024
I have a specialty in trauma, sexual addiction, sexuality and relationship issues including pre-marital counseling, infertility, pregnancy and adjustment to parenthood.
People often ask me "How do you listen to people's problems all day?" I am inspired by the people I meet who often have difficult backgrounds and lives, yet are willing to work hard to grow and be happy, healthy, human beings. I am touched by their commitment and dedication to work on themselves instead of being angry, miserable people. What more important investment is there than investing time and energy in oneself?
I have a specialty in trauma, sexual addiction, sexuality and relationship issues including pre-marital counseling, infertility, pregnancy and adjustment to parenthood.
People often ask me "How do you listen to people's problems all day?" I am inspired by the people I meet who often have difficult backgrounds and lives, yet are willing to work hard to grow and be happy, healthy, human beings. I am touched by their commitment and dedication to work on themselves instead of being angry, miserable people. What more important investment is there than investing time and energy in oneself?
(516) 468-7175 View (516) 468-7175
Sexual Addiction Therapists

When should someone seek treatment for sex addiction?

People should seek treatment for sex addiction if they cannot control their sexual thoughts or behaviours to the point that it disrupts their ability to function in daily life, for example by threatening their finances, career, or relationships. This may include spending an excessive amount of time obsessing over sex, planning sex, watching pornography, or masturbating, as well as consistently engaging in risky sexual activities, using sex to escape distressing feelings, or attempting yet failing to control sexual behavior.

What are the most common treatment options for sex addiction?

Psychotherapy is the most common treatment for sex addiction; therapy helps patients better understand their compulsive thoughts and behaviors and develop strategies to manage their desires. Therapy may be supplemented by medications, such as antidepressants, mood stabilizers, anti-androgens, and the alcohol and substance use medication Naltrexone, as well as support groups, such as 12-step programs.

How long does therapy take for sex addiction?

Recovering from compulsive behavior takes time and effort. There’s no precise timeline for treatment, but research suggests 12 therapy sessions may be enough to see change. Treatment for sexual compulsions requires honesty in therapy, a commitment to understanding triggers and developing coping skills, and potential lifestyle changes such as cutting out alcohol or drugs.

What if sex addiction is left untreated?

Compulsive sexual behavior can have serious repercussions if left unaddressed. For example, if sexual obsessions consume the vast majority of a person’s time, they may lose their job. If they can’t stop paying for sex, their finances may suffer. If they’re dishonest in their relationships, their partner may leave them. If they consistently feel shame, they may struggle with anxiety, depression, or loneliness. Therapy can help people develop the tools to manage sexual thoughts and behaviors that feel uncontrollable.