Sexual Addiction Therapists in Ottawa County, MI

Photo of Tony Bordenkircher, Marriage & Family Therapist in Ottawa County, MI
Tony Bordenkircher
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CSAT
Verified Verified
Holland, MI 49423
I am a Marriage and Family Therapist in the Holland / Zeeland area providing supportive yet challenging services in my specialty areas of couples, family, and their teens. I also specialize in the assessment and treatment of Sexual Addiction. Clients choose me because of my specific training, particularly with couples, and my ability to integrate matters of faith. Please view my website or contact me to schedule an appointment!
I am a Marriage and Family Therapist in the Holland / Zeeland area providing supportive yet challenging services in my specialty areas of couples, family, and their teens. I also specialize in the assessment and treatment of Sexual Addiction. Clients choose me because of my specific training, particularly with couples, and my ability to integrate matters of faith. Please view my website or contact me to schedule an appointment!
(616) 420-2579 View (616) 420-2579
Photo of Gayle Marie Beach, Licensed Professional Counselor in Ottawa County, MI
Gayle Marie Beach
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA , LPC, CAADC, ADS
Verified Verified
Holland, MI 49424
Struggling? Not sure what to do? Reaching out for help can be both empowering and scary at the same time. We provide non-insurance related services to assure the highest level of confidentiality and accept most insurances. I have been working with clients for over 18 years helping each person find an individual plan that works for them. Restoring balance and hope in our lives can be difficult on our own. I provide empathetic services that move at your pace. Watching lives transformed is the most rewarding part of my professional life. Let us help you be the best version of you possible and find peace and joy in life again.
Struggling? Not sure what to do? Reaching out for help can be both empowering and scary at the same time. We provide non-insurance related services to assure the highest level of confidentiality and accept most insurances. I have been working with clients for over 18 years helping each person find an individual plan that works for them. Restoring balance and hope in our lives can be difficult on our own. I provide empathetic services that move at your pace. Watching lives transformed is the most rewarding part of my professional life. Let us help you be the best version of you possible and find peace and joy in life again.
(616) 404-3251 View (616) 404-3251
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Matthew Mulder
Counselor, MA, LLPC
Verified Verified
Holland, MI 49423
I specialize in walking with individual's who are struggling with pornography addiction or other forms of unwanted sexual behavior. I also walk with individuals who have experienced the horrors of sexual, physical, emotional or spiritual abuse and the stress that often follows. And I have a heart for journeying with individual's who are grieving and those who are struggling with questions of identity and spirituality.
I specialize in walking with individual's who are struggling with pornography addiction or other forms of unwanted sexual behavior. I also walk with individuals who have experienced the horrors of sexual, physical, emotional or spiritual abuse and the stress that often follows. And I have a heart for journeying with individual's who are grieving and those who are struggling with questions of identity and spirituality.
(616) 303-4763 View (616) 303-4763
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Dawn M Wilburn
Counselor, MA, LPC, NCC, MITS
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Grand Haven, MI 49417
I like to create for my clients an environment that is conducive to cultivating open communication and trust. I respect and value the thoughts and feelings of my clients and each individual is treated as their own person, tried by challenges specific to themselves. Through self-exploration, understanding and deepened insight, I believe that individuals can heal and foster change.
I like to create for my clients an environment that is conducive to cultivating open communication and trust. I respect and value the thoughts and feelings of my clients and each individual is treated as their own person, tried by challenges specific to themselves. Through self-exploration, understanding and deepened insight, I believe that individuals can heal and foster change.
(231) 715-3174 View (231) 715-3174
Photo of Sheila D Wilkinson, Counselor in Ottawa County, MI
Sheila D Wilkinson
Counselor, MA, LPC, FLE
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Spring Lake, MI 49456
Life can be difficult at times and often we struggle to navigate those challenging times. Marriage and trauma difficulties, in particular, can be very personal and often leave us feeling extremely confused and lonely. As a therapist I use the Gottman Method Therapy and Emotion Focused Therapy to assist couples. I work with my clients to identify a specific cycle of conflict, identify and express personal longings, increase level of intimacy, and put trust/commitment back into relationships. I also use EMDR, and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to explore, educate and empower those with trauma and each person I come in contact with.
Life can be difficult at times and often we struggle to navigate those challenging times. Marriage and trauma difficulties, in particular, can be very personal and often leave us feeling extremely confused and lonely. As a therapist I use the Gottman Method Therapy and Emotion Focused Therapy to assist couples. I work with my clients to identify a specific cycle of conflict, identify and express personal longings, increase level of intimacy, and put trust/commitment back into relationships. I also use EMDR, and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to explore, educate and empower those with trauma and each person I come in contact with.
(231) 597-4054 View (231) 597-4054
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Kris Pence - Pivot Counseling
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, LMFT, NCC
Verified Verified
Zeeland, MI 49464
Unhelpful thoughts, unwise choices, honest mistakes, unforeseen change, traumatic pasts… Life will include very difficult circumstances. You may question your ability to change, lack clarity about which direction to go, and doubt whether you deserve something better. Men and women, individuals and couples, have worked with me to: 1) change their understanding of who they are, 2) achieve freedom from unhealthy sexual desires and behaviors, 3) develop a plan to build the life they want, 4) gain clarity about what they want, and 5) repair or reinvigorate their marriage.
Unhelpful thoughts, unwise choices, honest mistakes, unforeseen change, traumatic pasts… Life will include very difficult circumstances. You may question your ability to change, lack clarity about which direction to go, and doubt whether you deserve something better. Men and women, individuals and couples, have worked with me to: 1) change their understanding of who they are, 2) achieve freedom from unhealthy sexual desires and behaviors, 3) develop a plan to build the life they want, 4) gain clarity about what they want, and 5) repair or reinvigorate their marriage.
(616) 504-2954 View (616) 504-2954
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Second Story Counseling
Counselor, LLPC, MA
Verified Verified
Hudsonville, MI 49426  (Online Only)
All of our stories are different. We have parts of our stories that are bright and beautiful, but we also have parts of our stories that are dark and painful. We may not have been able to control the things that have happened in our story but we can control how we respond and how we move forward. We all struggle to navigate through this life. This life is confusing and stressful. I recognize that you are the expert of your life, you know yourself best. I aim to come alongside you not only through the warm seasons but most importantly the dark cold ones we often find ourselves in.
All of our stories are different. We have parts of our stories that are bright and beautiful, but we also have parts of our stories that are dark and painful. We may not have been able to control the things that have happened in our story but we can control how we respond and how we move forward. We all struggle to navigate through this life. This life is confusing and stressful. I recognize that you are the expert of your life, you know yourself best. I aim to come alongside you not only through the warm seasons but most importantly the dark cold ones we often find ourselves in.
(616) 404-3614 View (616) 404-3614
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Jack W. Grenan
PhD, MS, MA, BA
Verified Verified
Spring Lake, MI 49456
Let Me Help, You Help Yourself ! Dr. Grenan, ,Christian, was raised in inner City Detroit by a dad who abused me mentally & physically. . My grandparents, mom & God saved my life. I am the first person in my family to attend college MSU ,as a father of 5 children, I had 4th stage colon cancer, a 4 month coma & DIED! God may have planned for my struggles to help me be a good therapist who understands & helps people in pain. I also have a PhD in Hypnotherapy, a sliding pay scale and give a free 15 minute consult. Email me at: jackgrenan@netscape.net or call 616-414-7246. God Bless You! I help all who want HELP! If in pain call NOW!
Let Me Help, You Help Yourself ! Dr. Grenan, ,Christian, was raised in inner City Detroit by a dad who abused me mentally & physically. . My grandparents, mom & God saved my life. I am the first person in my family to attend college MSU ,as a father of 5 children, I had 4th stage colon cancer, a 4 month coma & DIED! God may have planned for my struggles to help me be a good therapist who understands & helps people in pain. I also have a PhD in Hypnotherapy, a sliding pay scale and give a free 15 minute consult. Email me at: jackgrenan@netscape.net or call 616-414-7246. God Bless You! I help all who want HELP! If in pain call NOW!
(616) 344-9179 View (616) 344-9179
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Ryan Kuja
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA
Verified Verified
Holland, MI 49423
By the time I was 24, I had been diagnosed with OCD, PTSD, depression, anxiety disorder & panic disorder. I intimately know the affliction of mental health struggles. After years of lived personal experience with trauma & a myriad of diagnoses; a two decades long healing journey involving seeing over 50 different practitioners and tens of thousands of dollars; countless hours of training; and 2 master's degrees, I have honed an approach to therapy that weaves ancient wisdom, contemporary neuroscience, and compassionate inquiry into a tapestry of healing. And unlike most therapists, I only treat what I have personally experienced.
By the time I was 24, I had been diagnosed with OCD, PTSD, depression, anxiety disorder & panic disorder. I intimately know the affliction of mental health struggles. After years of lived personal experience with trauma & a myriad of diagnoses; a two decades long healing journey involving seeing over 50 different practitioners and tens of thousands of dollars; countless hours of training; and 2 master's degrees, I have honed an approach to therapy that weaves ancient wisdom, contemporary neuroscience, and compassionate inquiry into a tapestry of healing. And unlike most therapists, I only treat what I have personally experienced.
(616) 612-1314 View (616) 612-1314
Photo of Konfara Counseling and Supervision, Licensed Professional Counselor in Ottawa County, MI
Konfara Counseling and Supervision
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Holland, MI 49423
People enter into a counseling relationship when nothing else seems to be working. Although most people soon make comments such as, “(Counseling) was a lot better than I thought it would be”, few people seek counseling as a first option. More often we seek out techniques that either help us to temporarily avoid (e.g., media, social networking) our anxiety, or we seek temporary shots of pleasure (e.g., alcohol, food, pornography) that make us feel good for a short time. Soon enough we realize that all of these things leave us feeling more hollow and lonely, and that is when we start thinking about counseling.
People enter into a counseling relationship when nothing else seems to be working. Although most people soon make comments such as, “(Counseling) was a lot better than I thought it would be”, few people seek counseling as a first option. More often we seek out techniques that either help us to temporarily avoid (e.g., media, social networking) our anxiety, or we seek temporary shots of pleasure (e.g., alcohol, food, pornography) that make us feel good for a short time. Soon enough we realize that all of these things leave us feeling more hollow and lonely, and that is when we start thinking about counseling.
(616) 310-4614 View (616) 310-4614
Photo of Sollars and Associates, Psychologist in Ottawa County, MI
Sollars and Associates
Psychologist, PhD, LP
Verified Verified
Holland, MI 49424
I am a Licensed Psychologist and the Clinical Director of Sollars and Associates Integrative Counseling and Psychological Services. I have been providing counseling and psychotherapy for over 30 years in the Metro Detroit area and our group practice spans across the state of Michigan. Our group is trained in dealing with a variety of issues including: Attention Deficit Disorder, School Difficulties, Interpersonal Issues such as bullying, adult ADD and related issues, Depression, Anxiety, Trauma, Mood Disorders, Grief and Loss, Parenting, Educational Concerns, Relationship Concerns, Career and Work Issues, and Sexual Issues.
I am a Licensed Psychologist and the Clinical Director of Sollars and Associates Integrative Counseling and Psychological Services. I have been providing counseling and psychotherapy for over 30 years in the Metro Detroit area and our group practice spans across the state of Michigan. Our group is trained in dealing with a variety of issues including: Attention Deficit Disorder, School Difficulties, Interpersonal Issues such as bullying, adult ADD and related issues, Depression, Anxiety, Trauma, Mood Disorders, Grief and Loss, Parenting, Educational Concerns, Relationship Concerns, Career and Work Issues, and Sexual Issues.
(248) 862-1171 View (248) 862-1171
Photo of Headwaters Counseling, LLC Keith A. Louwerse, PsyD, Psychologist in Ottawa County, MI
Headwaters Counseling, LLC Keith A. Louwerse, PsyD
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Zeeland, MI 49464
Dr. Keith Louwerse is a West Michigan native, licensed psychologist and founder of Headwaters Counseling. A Hope College alumnus, he earned his doctorate from George Fox School of Clinical Psychology. He worked closely with Dr. Mark McMinn, Ph.D., ABBP, a pioneer of Integrative Psychotherapy. Dr. Louwerse is expertly trained to work with a broad range of clients from an integrative paradigm and has a keen interest for the encounter between spirituality, faith and wellness. He carefully balances the advantages of scientific methodologies, psychological theory and theological factors in therapy; embracing not only matters of cognition, affect and behavior, but also care for the soul.
Dr. Keith Louwerse is a West Michigan native, licensed psychologist and founder of Headwaters Counseling. A Hope College alumnus, he earned his doctorate from George Fox School of Clinical Psychology. He worked closely with Dr. Mark McMinn, Ph.D., ABBP, a pioneer of Integrative Psychotherapy. Dr. Louwerse is expertly trained to work with a broad range of clients from an integrative paradigm and has a keen interest for the encounter between spirituality, faith and wellness. He carefully balances the advantages of scientific methodologies, psychological theory and theological factors in therapy; embracing not only matters of cognition, affect and behavior, but also care for the soul.
(616) 552-4738 View (616) 552-4738
Photo of Bob Eggleston, Counselor in Ottawa County, MI
Bob Eggleston
Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Holland, MI 49423
If you are going through a major life transition, or if the everyday stresses of life are getting too much to handle, I am here to help. I understand that we all have issues unique to ourselves. These issues can be addressed and worked on through counseling. I will help you identify your emotions and help you use them as navigational tools throughout your life. I will allow you to feel safe and comfortable as you explore your thoughts and emotions. I can offer tools to help you communicate with others in your life. I am here to listen and empathize with you as you grow to understand yourself and others.
If you are going through a major life transition, or if the everyday stresses of life are getting too much to handle, I am here to help. I understand that we all have issues unique to ourselves. These issues can be addressed and worked on through counseling. I will help you identify your emotions and help you use them as navigational tools throughout your life. I will allow you to feel safe and comfortable as you explore your thoughts and emotions. I can offer tools to help you communicate with others in your life. I am here to listen and empathize with you as you grow to understand yourself and others.
(616) 379-6585 View (616) 379-6585
Photo of Brian McCusker, Pre-Licensed Professional in Ottawa County, MI
Brian McCusker
Pre-Licensed Professional, MS, LLPC
Verified Verified
Grand Haven, MI 49417  (Online Only)
In order to get the most out of therapy there needs to be clear, defined goals that are built out of trust between the client and the therapist. What do you want out of therapy and why? After a period of time your goals and needs as a client can change based on the progress made throughout therapy. I believe a good therapist will, "work themselves out of a job". This means that we will work towards self-sufficiency where you don't need therapy and you are the best version of yourself, no matter how long it takes. For some it might be a few sessions, and for others it might take much longer. Therapy is based on your needs!
In order to get the most out of therapy there needs to be clear, defined goals that are built out of trust between the client and the therapist. What do you want out of therapy and why? After a period of time your goals and needs as a client can change based on the progress made throughout therapy. I believe a good therapist will, "work themselves out of a job". This means that we will work towards self-sufficiency where you don't need therapy and you are the best version of yourself, no matter how long it takes. For some it might be a few sessions, and for others it might take much longer. Therapy is based on your needs!
(616) 441-3683 View (616) 441-3683
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GR TherapyGroup - Holland
Counselor
Verified Verified
Holland, MI 49423
Experience a Difference! GR TherapyGroup offers experienced and innovative counseling and therapy for any situation. By creating the best possible setting to practice, GR TherapyGroup ensures our therapists can provide West Michigan with the best family, individual, and couples counseling services. In-person and online counseling available.
Experience a Difference! GR TherapyGroup offers experienced and innovative counseling and therapy for any situation. By creating the best possible setting to practice, GR TherapyGroup ensures our therapists can provide West Michigan with the best family, individual, and couples counseling services. In-person and online counseling available.
(616) 404-4652 View (616) 404-4652
Photo of Adam R Shanty, Licensed Professional Counselor in Ottawa County, MI
Adam R Shanty
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, CAADC
Verified Verified
Grand Haven, MI 49417
I view counseling as discipleship where I come along side you to help you reach your personal hopes and goals for your life. I personally believe that trauma is a mind/body issue and look at therapy in a holistic manor. The things we struggle with today are often caused by past experiences and to find freedom, we need to address that past.
I view counseling as discipleship where I come along side you to help you reach your personal hopes and goals for your life. I personally believe that trauma is a mind/body issue and look at therapy in a holistic manor. The things we struggle with today are often caused by past experiences and to find freedom, we need to address that past.
(231) 388-7527 View (231) 388-7527
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John L Tuttle
Counselor, MA, MEd, LPC
Verified Verified
Jenison, MI 49428
John Tuttle graduated from Western Michigan University with a Master of the Arts degree. John is licensed in the State of Michigan as a clinical mental health counselor. At his most recent placement he diagnosed and treated patients with various disorders and worked with clients desiring help with relationship issues, difficult circumstances, and life stage adjustments. He currently owns and is the primary therapist at Lakeshore Guidance, LLC. John also holds a Master of Education degree from Grand Valley State University and has worked in elementary and middle schools on anti-bullying programs and crisis response intervention.
John Tuttle graduated from Western Michigan University with a Master of the Arts degree. John is licensed in the State of Michigan as a clinical mental health counselor. At his most recent placement he diagnosed and treated patients with various disorders and worked with clients desiring help with relationship issues, difficult circumstances, and life stage adjustments. He currently owns and is the primary therapist at Lakeshore Guidance, LLC. John also holds a Master of Education degree from Grand Valley State University and has worked in elementary and middle schools on anti-bullying programs and crisis response intervention.
(616) 438-9826 View (616) 438-9826
Photo of Tony VandenHoek, Counselor in Ottawa County, MI
Tony VandenHoek
Counselor, MA, LLC
Verified Verified
Holland, MI 49423
We are all journeying through life, and it is a privilege for me to be welcomed into your story. Of all the people I have met in all the locations I have traveled to, I have found the following to be true: though each story is unique, everyone faces challenges, and everyone has the need to be heard, to be valued, and to be loved. I care deeply about all people and aim to demonstrate that by valuing who you are as an individual and listening attentively to your story. I view counseling as a collaborate process in which we work together to meet your unique needs.
We are all journeying through life, and it is a privilege for me to be welcomed into your story. Of all the people I have met in all the locations I have traveled to, I have found the following to be true: though each story is unique, everyone faces challenges, and everyone has the need to be heard, to be valued, and to be loved. I care deeply about all people and aim to demonstrate that by valuing who you are as an individual and listening attentively to your story. I view counseling as a collaborate process in which we work together to meet your unique needs.
(616) 207-2297 x605 View (616) 207-2297 x605
Photo of Dorie Bekins, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Ottawa County, MI
Dorie Bekins
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LLMSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Grand Haven, MI 49417  (Online Only)
Sometimes life is messy, hard to understand, or simply overwhelming; and sometimes you just need someone to talk to. Hi! My name is Dorie, and I would love to work with you! My practice is a mix of looking at your strengths, validating and understanding, mindfulness and helping to find a new perspective. If you are looking for someone to talk to and help you find the tools to navigate the messiness of life, then I would love to work with you. Let's walk through the messiness together.
Sometimes life is messy, hard to understand, or simply overwhelming; and sometimes you just need someone to talk to. Hi! My name is Dorie, and I would love to work with you! My practice is a mix of looking at your strengths, validating and understanding, mindfulness and helping to find a new perspective. If you are looking for someone to talk to and help you find the tools to navigate the messiness of life, then I would love to work with you. Let's walk through the messiness together.
(616) 421-9457 View (616) 421-9457
Photo of Joshua Campbell, Limited Licensed Psychologist in Ottawa County, MI
Joshua Campbell
Limited Licensed Psychologist, MA, DTLLP
Verified Verified
Holland, MI 49423
When working with clients, I stand by the phrase, "whatever the client brings, I will work with". Whatever issue or concern that is presented to me, I will help meet the needs to the best of my ability. In terms of specialty, I am primarily focused on relationship issues, which consists of couples work, sex issues, infidelity, adjustment issues, and so on.
When working with clients, I stand by the phrase, "whatever the client brings, I will work with". Whatever issue or concern that is presented to me, I will help meet the needs to the best of my ability. In terms of specialty, I am primarily focused on relationship issues, which consists of couples work, sex issues, infidelity, adjustment issues, and so on.
(616) 303-3552 View (616) 303-3552

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Sexual Addiction Therapists

When should someone seek treatment for sex addiction?

People should seek treatment for sex addiction if they cannot control their sexual thoughts or behaviours to the point that it disrupts their ability to function in daily life, for example by threatening their finances, career, or relationships. This may include spending an excessive amount of time obsessing over sex, planning sex, watching pornography, or masturbating, as well as consistently engaging in risky sexual activities, using sex to escape distressing feelings, or attempting yet failing to control sexual behavior.

What are the most common treatment options for sex addiction?

Psychotherapy is the most common treatment for sex addiction; therapy helps patients better understand their compulsive thoughts and behaviors and develop strategies to manage their desires. Therapy may be supplemented by medications, such as antidepressants, mood stabilizers, anti-androgens, and the alcohol and substance use medication Naltrexone, as well as support groups, such as 12-step programs.

How long does therapy take for sex addiction?

Recovering from compulsive behavior takes time and effort. There’s no precise timeline for treatment, but research suggests 12 therapy sessions may be enough to see change. Treatment for sexual compulsions requires honesty in therapy, a commitment to understanding triggers and developing coping skills, and potential lifestyle changes such as cutting out alcohol or drugs.

What if sex addiction is left untreated?

Compulsive sexual behavior can have serious repercussions if left unaddressed. For example, if sexual obsessions consume the vast majority of a person’s time, they may lose their job. If they can’t stop paying for sex, their finances may suffer. If they’re dishonest in their relationships, their partner may leave them. If they consistently feel shame, they may struggle with anxiety, depression, or loneliness. Therapy can help people develop the tools to manage sexual thoughts and behaviors that feel uncontrollable.