Sexual Abuse Therapists in Saint James, NY

I am an Addiction Specialist with over three decades of experience, especially skilled at helping families help themselves and their addicted loved ones. I am a Certified Clinical Interventionist, an Advanced Certified Relapse Prevention Specialist and a Certified Structured Family Recovery Counselor. I will help you customize a strategy to develop healthier boundaries, healthier communication skills and regain the connection and integrity you all deserve. I also counsel individuals in there own recovery, looking to develop or sharpen their relapse prevention skills. If you are impacted by addiction, do not hesitate to reach out.

Choosing a therapist is an important decision, and the success of therapy often depends on the "match" between client and therapist. Contact me and determine whether I might be a good fit for you. I work with individuals in a collaborative manner who are feeling stuck, sad, anxious, overwhelmed with changes in their lives or who are struggling in relationships. I most often focus on issues related to depression, anxiety, adjustment/life transitions, relationship problems, trauma and abuse, self-esteem and body image.

Are you having problems feeling calm, happy and satisfied? Are issues related to anxiety, self esteem, ADHD, family discord or a history of trauma getting in your way of contentment? Together we can work through difficult emotions and situations, life transitions, relationship challenges, and issues involving bereavement, parenting, and adoption. You can become a happier, more fulfilled version of yourself, and I can help!

Thank you for considering me as an option for treatment. I offer psychotherapy for couples and individuals, and specialize in sex therapy. My therapeutic practice is to build on your current strengths, while learning new skills in therapy to improve your day to day life and, your self-confidence and worth. Learning how to better cope and work through your challenges is possible and vital to mental wellness. The therapy is collaborative and my patients recovery is also driven through their own determination in improving their mental health.

Learn to treat yourself with the same kindness you so easily extend to others! You may have previously examined your childhood issues in therapy yet still struggle with your self-esteem. You may judge yourself harshly, placing your needs last. You may experience difficulties in relationships or dealing with painful transitions, or feel you have lost your sense of self. My nearly 20 years as a Clinician coupled with advanced training allows me to work with you on a meaningful and compassionate level you have not experienced previously. Learn to appreciate your sensitivities and vulnerabilities as strengths, not weaknesses.

Do you feel that your marriage has lost the spark? Are you asking yourself, what is wrong with my partner? Do you feel that you drink more than you used to? Is your teenage child acting as a runaway train? Does my child drink? Does she use drugs? Is she sexually active? Are you second-guessing your parenting skills? Is it them? Is it me? Do you feel that you have lost your grip on things? Contact me and I will help you better understand these concerns.Some people listen, and some wait to speak. I listen.

You feel a knot in your stomach, worried about every choice you make. When you think about your loved one who passed, you feel your heart breaking in your chest. After many years as part of a “we”, the new adjective of "single” is way more painful to hear than anticipated. Just a handful of weeks ago, you were a college student, and now you find yourself in the real world, with new, scary, adult responsibilities. You have swapped your tried and true professional skillset for your "doing your best" parental responsibilities as a new, stay at home parent. While change is challenging and painful, you want to be able to endure it.

“Mental health is not a destination, but a process. It's about how you drive, not where you're going" (Shpancer, Ph.D.). Each of us is on a personal journey striving to be our best selves. Sometimes, these journeys can leave us feeling unequipped to navigate their rough terrain. For most, this is the human experience. While we can't escape the realities and emotions of this experience, we can certainly learn more effective ways to cope. We can find ways to be gentler, more loving, and kinder to ourselves so that we may share this with our loved ones and our community.

Do you feel overwhelmed by life’s challenges? Are you stuck in self-defeating behavior patterns that you want to change? The good news is, if you are reading this, you have already taken the first step. Seeking help can seem intimidating; sometimes we are afraid to admit we might need it. The reality is: we all need help sometimes. I am dedicated to helping those who are brave enough to take that first step.