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Sandra Simmons
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-S
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Antonio, TX 78230  (Online Only)
I am a sex positive therapist; I focus on sexual health and body positivity.
Choosing a therapist you feel you can work well with is critical to successful treatment. I offer a safe, collaborative, empathic & trusting relational space in which you can explore your issues and concerns without fear of judgment. We will work together to help you develop greater self-understanding, foster close, connected relationships, uncover thought & behavioral patterns that interfere with happiness, master coping skills and achieve the emotional vitality necessary to a healthy, productive and satisfying life.
I am a sex positive therapist; I focus on sexual health and body positivity.
Choosing a therapist you feel you can work well with is critical to successful treatment. I offer a safe, collaborative, empathic & trusting relational space in which you can explore your issues and concerns without fear of judgment. We will work together to help you develop greater self-understanding, foster close, connected relationships, uncover thought & behavioral patterns that interfere with happiness, master coping skills and achieve the emotional vitality necessary to a healthy, productive and satisfying life.
(210) 880-9104 View (210) 880-9104
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Rachael Lindberg
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
San Antonio, TX 78250  (Online Only)
I offer individual or couples/partnership counseling as well as sex coaching.
Are you experiencing anxiety, perfectionism, and relationship concerns or having trouble with people-pleasing, improving communication, and setting healthy boundaries? Or maybe you are in a relationship that is navigating premarital/wedding prep, conflicts in communication styles, building emotional/physical intimacy, or infertility/reproductive decisions. If so, I would love to work with you! We'd also be a great fit if you are a "recovering" high achiever and an aspiring "good-enough-ist." I'd love to guide you in improving your life satisfaction and well-being through gentle challenges, self-reflection, and self-compassion.
I offer individual or couples/partnership counseling as well as sex coaching.
Are you experiencing anxiety, perfectionism, and relationship concerns or having trouble with people-pleasing, improving communication, and setting healthy boundaries? Or maybe you are in a relationship that is navigating premarital/wedding prep, conflicts in communication styles, building emotional/physical intimacy, or infertility/reproductive decisions. If so, I would love to work with you! We'd also be a great fit if you are a "recovering" high achiever and an aspiring "good-enough-ist." I'd love to guide you in improving your life satisfaction and well-being through gentle challenges, self-reflection, and self-compassion.
(210) 972-9413 View (210) 972-9413
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Dr. Monte Miller - Christian Psychologist
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
22 Endorsed
San Antonio, TX 78209  (Online Only)
Infidelity (and/or other sexual issues - porn, performance anxiety, depression, anxiety) can be crushing to you and your family. I know all the steps needed to repair the relationship and make it better than ever. Am a full psychologist & sex therapist. No shaming or judging. I offer direct & tough, but compassionate, Biblically-based Christian care. I also deal with relationship problems, especially for men who haven't been in therapy before, but for women as well. I work with Performance Anxiety, & PTSD Abuse/Trauma recovery. I have both my Masters & Doctoral degrees. I use CBT. No psychobabble BS. 25 yrs of experience.
Infidelity (and/or other sexual issues - porn, performance anxiety, depression, anxiety) can be crushing to you and your family. I know all the steps needed to repair the relationship and make it better than ever. Am a full psychologist & sex therapist. No shaming or judging. I offer direct & tough, but compassionate, Biblically-based Christian care. I also deal with relationship problems, especially for men who haven't been in therapy before, but for women as well. I work with Performance Anxiety, & PTSD Abuse/Trauma recovery. I have both my Masters & Doctoral degrees. I use CBT. No psychobabble BS. 25 yrs of experience.
(210) 361-3354 View (210) 361-3354
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Rosie Cantu
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
San Antonio, TX 78213
I am a sex therapist.
I believe that we are all here on borrowed time and that tomorrow is not promised. I would like to sit with you and have a conversation about your struggles, and needs. Let's talk about your happiness and what steps need to be taken to work towards the BEST version of yourself. In a session with me expect for us to explore your thinking patterns because how you think and what you do impacts your everyday life. Expect exploration of goals, a comfortable, and safe place for sharing.
I am a sex therapist.
I believe that we are all here on borrowed time and that tomorrow is not promised. I would like to sit with you and have a conversation about your struggles, and needs. Let's talk about your happiness and what steps need to be taken to work towards the BEST version of yourself. In a session with me expect for us to explore your thinking patterns because how you think and what you do impacts your everyday life. Expect exploration of goals, a comfortable, and safe place for sharing.
(210) 899-6298 View (210) 899-6298
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Yvette Massey - Certified Sex Therapist
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, CST
Verified Verified
San Antonio, TX 78258
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor and AASECT - Certified Sex Therapist.
Need help with sexual issues or other life challenges? I help couples and individuals overcome obstacles that interfere with living their best life. Maybe you struggle with anxiety or depression. Maybe you have low sexual desire, or pain during intercourse. Maybe you just had a baby and have postpartum depression. Maybe you want more enjoyable sex, or you want to stop watching porn. Maybe you're haunted by past trauma and can't move forward. Maybe you've never had an orgasm, or you have erection difficulties. Maybe you just need a safe place to talk about life. I can help with all these issues and more. Call me and let's talk!
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor and AASECT - Certified Sex Therapist.
Need help with sexual issues or other life challenges? I help couples and individuals overcome obstacles that interfere with living their best life. Maybe you struggle with anxiety or depression. Maybe you have low sexual desire, or pain during intercourse. Maybe you just had a baby and have postpartum depression. Maybe you want more enjoyable sex, or you want to stop watching porn. Maybe you're haunted by past trauma and can't move forward. Maybe you've never had an orgasm, or you have erection difficulties. Maybe you just need a safe place to talk about life. I can help with all these issues and more. Call me and let's talk!
(210) 887-1670 View (210) 887-1670
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Kizzy Griffin
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, LMSW
Verified Verified
San Antonio, TX 78229  (Online Only)
My experience includes working with life transitions (military and civilian), intimacy barriers, sexuality connections, depression, anxiety, LGBTQIA+ challenges, trauma, race-related trauma, Military Trauma, PTSD, and addiction.
Since 2018, I have utilized person-centered and strength-based practices to promote the "Power of Self." These practices empower individuals to direct their therapeutic process. Establishing a safe zone and welcoming client feedback allows methods that are proven to be effective in managing difficulties, promoting personal growth, and accomplishing personal goals. I also provide therapy services to individuals exploring their sexuality; sexually fluent; and those that are experiencing a decrease or increase in sexual functioning.
My experience includes working with life transitions (military and civilian), intimacy barriers, sexuality connections, depression, anxiety, LGBTQIA+ challenges, trauma, race-related trauma, Military Trauma, PTSD, and addiction.
Since 2018, I have utilized person-centered and strength-based practices to promote the "Power of Self." These practices empower individuals to direct their therapeutic process. Establishing a safe zone and welcoming client feedback allows methods that are proven to be effective in managing difficulties, promoting personal growth, and accomplishing personal goals. I also provide therapy services to individuals exploring their sexuality; sexually fluent; and those that are experiencing a decrease or increase in sexual functioning.
(254) 232-5631 View (254) 232-5631
Photo of Christina Hidalgo, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in San Antonio, TX
Christina Hidalgo
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
San Antonio, TX 78204
I would like to support your journey of finding a stronger connection to your true authentic self by exploring your concerns, strengths, limitations, background, beliefs, desires and goals. You are an expert on yourself and with my support we can facilitate a safe trusting space with curiosity and compassion. I provide individual and couples therapy from a trauma informed, anti-oppression, inclusive space. I support clients navigate through sexuality/sexual wellness, relationships, anxiety, depression, life transitions, trauma, and grief issues.
I would like to support your journey of finding a stronger connection to your true authentic self by exploring your concerns, strengths, limitations, background, beliefs, desires and goals. You are an expert on yourself and with my support we can facilitate a safe trusting space with curiosity and compassion. I provide individual and couples therapy from a trauma informed, anti-oppression, inclusive space. I support clients navigate through sexuality/sexual wellness, relationships, anxiety, depression, life transitions, trauma, and grief issues.
(713) 581-3564 View (713) 581-3564
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Angelica Picado-Sinclair
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Antonio, TX 78204  (Online Only)
Currently, I am working towards my Certification in Sex Therapy.
As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, I specialize in assisting individuals and couples, in overcoming life’s challenges with compassion and professional expertise. In my practice, you will find a supportive and nonjudgmental space to freely explore your thoughts, feelings, and experiences. My holistic, client-centered approach integrates physical, emotional, and mental health, catering to your unique personal growth journey.
Currently, I am working towards my Certification in Sex Therapy.
As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, I specialize in assisting individuals and couples, in overcoming life’s challenges with compassion and professional expertise. In my practice, you will find a supportive and nonjudgmental space to freely explore your thoughts, feelings, and experiences. My holistic, client-centered approach integrates physical, emotional, and mental health, catering to your unique personal growth journey.
(737) 258-9429 View (737) 258-9429
Photo of Julia Ruth Bowman, Licensed Professional Counselor in San Antonio, TX
Julia Ruth Bowman
Licensed Professional Counselor
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Antonio, TX 78202
I have a sex therapy certification through the Sexual Health Alliance, a Kink Informed Certification in progress, and will be pursuing AASECT certification as well.
Hello and Welcome! It has been a dream of mine to become a therapist since I was about 11 years old. Sexual health discussions have never made me uncomfortable in any way, and I like to provide a safe space for clients to discuss these issues. Many people experience shame about their relationship preferences, kinks, and sexual orientation. I like to help individuals and couples who may be struggling in this area. I also enjoy working with clients who are gender diverse, are thinking about or currently transitioning, and so forth.
I have a sex therapy certification through the Sexual Health Alliance, a Kink Informed Certification in progress, and will be pursuing AASECT certification as well.
Hello and Welcome! It has been a dream of mine to become a therapist since I was about 11 years old. Sexual health discussions have never made me uncomfortable in any way, and I like to provide a safe space for clients to discuss these issues. Many people experience shame about their relationship preferences, kinks, and sexual orientation. I like to help individuals and couples who may be struggling in this area. I also enjoy working with clients who are gender diverse, are thinking about or currently transitioning, and so forth.
(512) 991-5407 View (512) 991-5407
Photo of Allison Maspero, Licensed Professional Counselor in San Antonio, TX
Allison Maspero
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
San Antonio, TX 78225  (Online Only)
In addition to anxiety and depression, I treat trauma and those that desire to explore their sexuality and/or have relationship problems.
Society tells us what to feel, enjoy, experience, and what is beautiful. Screw societal norms and expectations. Let's break those barriers and create new norms. Want to try kink, poly, or open marriage? Great! Let's find the best way to do it! Feel that panic growing during confrontation? So do I. Let's find healthy ways to reduce it. Having relationship problems? We all do, no one is perfect; but we can learn to communicate better. Overweight? Me too! I'm beautiful and so are you!
In addition to anxiety and depression, I treat trauma and those that desire to explore their sexuality and/or have relationship problems.
Society tells us what to feel, enjoy, experience, and what is beautiful. Screw societal norms and expectations. Let's break those barriers and create new norms. Want to try kink, poly, or open marriage? Great! Let's find the best way to do it! Feel that panic growing during confrontation? So do I. Let's find healthy ways to reduce it. Having relationship problems? We all do, no one is perfect; but we can learn to communicate better. Overweight? Me too! I'm beautiful and so are you!
(817) 952-6412 View (817) 952-6412
Photo of Paul S Martinez, Licensed Professional Counselor in San Antonio, TX
Paul S Martinez
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC-S, LSOTP-S
Verified Verified
San Antonio, TX 78217
I have worked with a multitude of issues: anxiety, Depression, relationship issues, trauma, sex abuse, sex addiction, drug addiction, and alcohol addiction.
Sometimes life feels like it gets so big that we feel that getting a solid grip on it is impossible. I work with the individual to help them see that the problem is not as big as it may seem. We work together, by using their tools and strengths, to break it down to a manageable size. This allows the client to create a better way of coping with the issues.
I have worked with a multitude of issues: anxiety, Depression, relationship issues, trauma, sex abuse, sex addiction, drug addiction, and alcohol addiction.
Sometimes life feels like it gets so big that we feel that getting a solid grip on it is impossible. I work with the individual to help them see that the problem is not as big as it may seem. We work together, by using their tools and strengths, to break it down to a manageable size. This allows the client to create a better way of coping with the issues.
(210) 756-9369 View (210) 756-9369
Photo of Dr. Faith Christie Leigh Roby, Marriage & Family Therapist in San Antonio, TX
Dr. Faith Christie Leigh Roby
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, EdD, MMFT, MA, BS
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
San Antonio, TX 78205  (Online Only)
Life has a way of throwing curve balls that may feel insurmountable. The curve balls of life can affect you mentally, emotionally, physically, and spiritually. Do you have sex-based issues in your marriage? Do you have an ongoing issue with your children & believe as though you are the most clueless parent in the world? Have you experienced trauma, adultery, abuse, church/religious issues, or mental anguish? There is hope. I specialize in marital, premarital, individual & family therapy. Bring your mustard of seed faith & I will bring my empathetic care with expertise. Together through God healing can be achieved!
Life has a way of throwing curve balls that may feel insurmountable. The curve balls of life can affect you mentally, emotionally, physically, and spiritually. Do you have sex-based issues in your marriage? Do you have an ongoing issue with your children & believe as though you are the most clueless parent in the world? Have you experienced trauma, adultery, abuse, church/religious issues, or mental anguish? There is hope. I specialize in marital, premarital, individual & family therapy. Bring your mustard of seed faith & I will bring my empathetic care with expertise. Together through God healing can be achieved!
(901) 245-5248 View (901) 245-5248
Photo of Red Apple Therapy, Licensed Professional Counselor in San Antonio, TX
Red Apple Therapy
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
San Antonio, TX 78239  (Online Only)
I specialize in treatment of military service members active duty and veterans, LGBTQIA+, sex related issues, kink positive, depression, trauma and PTSD, anxiety, ADHD and those with severe mental illness.
My name is Faith and I work with individuals and couples facing a range of concerns to include depression, trauma, abuse, PTSD, ADHD, relationship issues, sex related issues, sexuality, and other life issues. I will work to meet you where you are in your journey. Red Apple Therapy offers alternative therapies for those searching for a holistic and eclectic approach to counseling, including ecotherapy and mindfulness practices. Our goal is to assist you in meeting your goal by providing a safe, authentic and compassionate clinical setting with an individualized therapy experience.
I specialize in treatment of military service members active duty and veterans, LGBTQIA+, sex related issues, kink positive, depression, trauma and PTSD, anxiety, ADHD and those with severe mental illness.
My name is Faith and I work with individuals and couples facing a range of concerns to include depression, trauma, abuse, PTSD, ADHD, relationship issues, sex related issues, sexuality, and other life issues. I will work to meet you where you are in your journey. Red Apple Therapy offers alternative therapies for those searching for a holistic and eclectic approach to counseling, including ecotherapy and mindfulness practices. Our goal is to assist you in meeting your goal by providing a safe, authentic and compassionate clinical setting with an individualized therapy experience.
(512) 980-1226 View (512) 980-1226
Photo of Esmé Valette, Licensed Professional Counselor in San Antonio, TX
Esmé Valette
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, EdM, EMDR, LPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
San Antonio, TX 78201
Additionally, I have extensive training in sex therapy through the sexual health alliance and am working towards an AASECT certification.
I strive to create a therapeutic environment where you feel comfortable expressing whatever is on your mind without fear of judgment. I believe that you are the expert in your own healing, and I will work collaboratively with you to identify and reach your treatment goals. I use approaches that have been scientifically researched and found to be effective, including Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) and somatic and mindfulness-based interventions. I will work with you to ensure that you are not in therapy longer than is necessary to reach your treatment goals.
Additionally, I have extensive training in sex therapy through the sexual health alliance and am working towards an AASECT certification.
I strive to create a therapeutic environment where you feel comfortable expressing whatever is on your mind without fear of judgment. I believe that you are the expert in your own healing, and I will work collaboratively with you to identify and reach your treatment goals. I use approaches that have been scientifically researched and found to be effective, including Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) and somatic and mindfulness-based interventions. I will work with you to ensure that you are not in therapy longer than is necessary to reach your treatment goals.
(512) 548-2372 View (512) 548-2372
Photo of Shakiya Gadson in San Antonio, TX
Shakiya Gadson
MS
Verified Verified
San Antonio, TX 78255
I am solution-based coach. My clients are finding their voices, establish safe boundaries, effectively communicating their wants and desires, while learning to read and handle situations or relationships impacted by shame, guilty, trauma, religious/ social conflicts, health restrictions, aging, confusion, misinformation, and mental health hurdles. Seeing beyond the mask is my “Super Power”. It helps people to feel seen, safe and supported.
I am solution-based coach. My clients are finding their voices, establish safe boundaries, effectively communicating their wants and desires, while learning to read and handle situations or relationships impacted by shame, guilty, trauma, religious/ social conflicts, health restrictions, aging, confusion, misinformation, and mental health hurdles. Seeing beyond the mask is my “Super Power”. It helps people to feel seen, safe and supported.
(210) 796-6645 View (210) 796-6645
Photo of Jennive Henry, Licensed Professional Counselor in San Antonio, TX
Jennive Henry
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, NCC, LPC, CST
Verified Verified
San Antonio, TX 78254  (Online Only)
I expand my counseling services to include and encompass mental and sexual health. My aim is to provide a safe, respectful, supportive, and confidential space to explore and address a wide range of concerns to foster healthy, enhancing, and fulfilling life and relationships. Many of my clients come to me with issues with confidence, self-esteem, depression, intimacy issues, sexual dysfunction, low libido, communication problems, trauma or abuse, sexual identity exploration, infidelity, kink/fetish/BDSM, sexual compulsivity, sexual education, relationship enhancement, and/or preparation for major life changes. Virtual/Telehealth only
I expand my counseling services to include and encompass mental and sexual health. My aim is to provide a safe, respectful, supportive, and confidential space to explore and address a wide range of concerns to foster healthy, enhancing, and fulfilling life and relationships. Many of my clients come to me with issues with confidence, self-esteem, depression, intimacy issues, sexual dysfunction, low libido, communication problems, trauma or abuse, sexual identity exploration, infidelity, kink/fetish/BDSM, sexual compulsivity, sexual education, relationship enhancement, and/or preparation for major life changes. Virtual/Telehealth only
(361) 204-1844 View (361) 204-1844
Photo of Priscilla L. Rodriguez, Marriage & Family Therapist in San Antonio, TX
Priscilla L. Rodriguez
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
San Antonio, TX 78230  (Online Only)
You may have been experiencing yourself feel disconnected from yourself, your priorities, or relationships and perhaps even embarrassed that so many important parts of you are slipping through your hands. The constant struggle of wanting to feel at ease, calm and present, yet not knowing how to do that is making you feel defeated. You have found yourself here because you know that you cannot give up now, and that your life and relationships are your number one priority. Whether you are experiencing anxiety, stress, low self-esteem, or just "off," I know that you are ready for this change and you are so brave.
You may have been experiencing yourself feel disconnected from yourself, your priorities, or relationships and perhaps even embarrassed that so many important parts of you are slipping through your hands. The constant struggle of wanting to feel at ease, calm and present, yet not knowing how to do that is making you feel defeated. You have found yourself here because you know that you cannot give up now, and that your life and relationships are your number one priority. Whether you are experiencing anxiety, stress, low self-esteem, or just "off," I know that you are ready for this change and you are so brave.
(210) 899-6284 View (210) 899-6284
Photo of Da'Vet Nicole Williams, Marriage & Family Therapist in San Antonio, TX
Da'Vet Nicole Williams
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
San Antonio, TX 78201
Relationships are an essential component of life, yet the fact remains that they can get complicated. Whether it is a relationship with yourself, your partner, work, or family, therapy can be the catalyst to moving from complication to cultivation. Certainly time will pass, as it does, allow it to find you in better relationship with yourself and those in your life. Whether you are managing a life transition/adjustment, relationship trauma, marriage plateau, or family and life distress, you are welcome here.
Relationships are an essential component of life, yet the fact remains that they can get complicated. Whether it is a relationship with yourself, your partner, work, or family, therapy can be the catalyst to moving from complication to cultivation. Certainly time will pass, as it does, allow it to find you in better relationship with yourself and those in your life. Whether you are managing a life transition/adjustment, relationship trauma, marriage plateau, or family and life distress, you are welcome here.
(747) 281-4460 View (747) 281-4460
Photo of Brent Eric Armour, Licensed Professional Counselor Associate in San Antonio, TX
Brent Eric Armour
Licensed Professional Counselor Associate, LPC-A
Verified Verified
San Antonio, TX 78201  (Online Only)
While my experience and training afford a unique insight into the issues facing LGBTQ+ clients, clients seeking to explore their gender identity, and clients addressing matters related to atypical sexual interests, I believe my therapeutic approach can benefit anyone. My role in your therapeutic process is to use supportive and person-centered approaches to help you work through negative thinking, manage complicated feelings, expand your self-awareness, and improve your self-esteem. I will help you set goals at your own pace, leaving all judgments and preconceived notions at the door.
While my experience and training afford a unique insight into the issues facing LGBTQ+ clients, clients seeking to explore their gender identity, and clients addressing matters related to atypical sexual interests, I believe my therapeutic approach can benefit anyone. My role in your therapeutic process is to use supportive and person-centered approaches to help you work through negative thinking, manage complicated feelings, expand your self-awareness, and improve your self-esteem. I will help you set goals at your own pace, leaving all judgments and preconceived notions at the door.
(832) 966-3597 View (832) 966-3597
Photo of Jade Glover, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate in San Antonio, TX
Jade Glover
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, LPCA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Antonio, TX 78230
Are you tired of feeling unheard? Feeling as if life just won't let up & looking to discover or even rediscover who you are? I know exactly what you are felling. The anxiety and worry are beginning to pile up, your perception of "you" is starting to fade & life is "lifing". Don't get me started on losing site of friends, family, and loved ones. You don't have to do this alone anymore! Let's work together on finding your voice, getting back to self-love, healthy connections, and family.
Are you tired of feeling unheard? Feeling as if life just won't let up & looking to discover or even rediscover who you are? I know exactly what you are felling. The anxiety and worry are beginning to pile up, your perception of "you" is starting to fade & life is "lifing". Don't get me started on losing site of friends, family, and loved ones. You don't have to do this alone anymore! Let's work together on finding your voice, getting back to self-love, healthy connections, and family.
(726) 227-3539 View (726) 227-3539

Sex Therapy

Who is sex therapy for?

Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.

Why do people need sex therapy?

Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.

What happens in sex therapy?

People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.

What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?

Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.