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Elisha Cadena-Bowles
MS, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Dallas, TX 75235
As a queer Black, Indigenous therapist, I specialize in queer-affirmative therapy, sex therapy, racial & sexual identity formation, minority stress, and intergenerational trauma. I collaborate with clients through a social justice-oriented, culturally responsive, and systems-informed framework while rooted in a decolonial-based approach. This typically looks like working with individual adults who may be QTBIPOC, neurodiverse, navigating systemic inequities & oppression, struggling with life transitions, or someone experiencing the heaviness and despair of human suffering that may manifest as grief, loss, depression, and/or anxiety.
As a queer Black, Indigenous therapist, I specialize in queer-affirmative therapy, sex therapy, racial & sexual identity formation, minority stress, and intergenerational trauma. I collaborate with clients through a social justice-oriented, culturally responsive, and systems-informed framework while rooted in a decolonial-based approach. This typically looks like working with individual adults who may be QTBIPOC, neurodiverse, navigating systemic inequities & oppression, struggling with life transitions, or someone experiencing the heaviness and despair of human suffering that may manifest as grief, loss, depression, and/or anxiety.
(972) 472-2739 View (972) 472-2739
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Jamie Boulding-Bridges
Counselor, LPC, CST, FAC
Verified Verified
Dallas, TX 75201
Additionally, I am a board certified sex therapist with a sex positive stance.
I am excited that you have taken the first step towards finding a therapist to help you navigate your current life situation. I am a relational and emotionally focused therapist who will work collaboratively with you to listen to, understand, explore, and move past whatever you feel is holding you back from living your most authentic and fulfilling life. I have trained with The Gottman institute and integrate their methods through an emotionally focused lens when working with couples. While I openly welcome all couples, I have additional experience and special insight working with same sex couples.
Additionally, I am a board certified sex therapist with a sex positive stance.
I am excited that you have taken the first step towards finding a therapist to help you navigate your current life situation. I am a relational and emotionally focused therapist who will work collaboratively with you to listen to, understand, explore, and move past whatever you feel is holding you back from living your most authentic and fulfilling life. I have trained with The Gottman institute and integrate their methods through an emotionally focused lens when working with couples. While I openly welcome all couples, I have additional experience and special insight working with same sex couples.
(425) 414-7616 View (425) 414-7616
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Nïchelle M Wall
Licensed Professional Counselor, EdD, LPC-S, CST
Verified Verified
Dallas, TX 75254  (Online Only)
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor Supervisor (LPC-S) and a Certified Sex Therapist (CST).
I was born and raised in Texas. I love the Texas Summer nights and Autumn days. I grew up in a blended family of my mother, grandparents, biological brother, and many foster brothers and sisters. Let's just say things were always interesting, but I wouldn't trade it for the world. Those experiences helped shape who I am and gave me insight into a variety of people.
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor Supervisor (LPC-S) and a Certified Sex Therapist (CST).
I was born and raised in Texas. I love the Texas Summer nights and Autumn days. I grew up in a blended family of my mother, grandparents, biological brother, and many foster brothers and sisters. Let's just say things were always interesting, but I wouldn't trade it for the world. Those experiences helped shape who I am and gave me insight into a variety of people.
(469) 606-4249 View (469) 606-4249
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Ruby Bouie Johnson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Dallas, TX 75219
Sexuality education and sexual desire are mapped through sexual curiosity and creativity with me.
I provide a compassionate therapeutic environment that invites you to explore and to seek solution to resolve those struggles and challenges. I listen to our narrative and your desires in our collaborative process. I offer you a safe and an affirming environment that facilitates and nurtures practical and realistic therapeutic goals. As I empower you, we cope with issues such as addiction, love and relationship problems, sexual identity, gender identity and expression, and infidelity.
Sexuality education and sexual desire are mapped through sexual curiosity and creativity with me.
I provide a compassionate therapeutic environment that invites you to explore and to seek solution to resolve those struggles and challenges. I listen to our narrative and your desires in our collaborative process. I offer you a safe and an affirming environment that facilitates and nurtures practical and realistic therapeutic goals. As I empower you, we cope with issues such as addiction, love and relationship problems, sexual identity, gender identity and expression, and infidelity.
(469) 518-2960 View (469) 518-2960
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Elizabeth Newsom
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-S
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Dallas, TX 75287
Waitlist for new clients
Do you find that you have dissatisfaction with your life? Are your relationships strained? Is something wrong but you can't place what it is? Do you know what is wrong but just don't know how to fix it? Are your relationships not where you want them? Is your sex life not where you want it? Are you struggling with sexuality and/or gender issues? If find that you identify with any of these questions, Realistic Expectations, PLLC, can help you.
Do you find that you have dissatisfaction with your life? Are your relationships strained? Is something wrong but you can't place what it is? Do you know what is wrong but just don't know how to fix it? Are your relationships not where you want them? Is your sex life not where you want it? Are you struggling with sexuality and/or gender issues? If find that you identify with any of these questions, Realistic Expectations, PLLC, can help you.
(972) 325-5455 View (972) 325-5455
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Dr. Stephanie Christine Lang
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, LPC, LSOTP, NCC
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Dallas, TX 75206  (Online Only)
I’m Positive Psychology focused, believing that people tend to live up to your view of them. LGBTQ & sex worker friendly. I understand & I am comfortable working with the complexities of modern relationships. I teach a highly effective Emotion Regulation program. I’m an active learner of the Relationship and Happiness research. Whether you've had a long history of destructive relationships or this is the first time you’re having issues, I can help you turn your relationship(s) around. I can help you turn your level of life peace and joy around too. Specialties: sexual shame and relationship therapy.
I’m Positive Psychology focused, believing that people tend to live up to your view of them. LGBTQ & sex worker friendly. I understand & I am comfortable working with the complexities of modern relationships. I teach a highly effective Emotion Regulation program. I’m an active learner of the Relationship and Happiness research. Whether you've had a long history of destructive relationships or this is the first time you’re having issues, I can help you turn your relationship(s) around. I can help you turn your level of life peace and joy around too. Specialties: sexual shame and relationship therapy.
(214) 892-2291 View (214) 892-2291
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Ren Reed
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, LPC
Verified Verified
Dallas, TX 75205  (Online Only)
Whatever sex-positive goals you have, topics about kink/BDSM, non-monogamy, the queer community, sexual or gender identity, or if you are wrestling with a childhood of religious sexual shame, Ren wants to walk with you as you grow into your most authentic self.
Ren is a sex therapist who specializes with kink, non-monogamy, LGBTQIA+, and religious sexual shame. For those who feel different or outcast, Ren works with sexual, gender, and relationship minorities. Whether you have proudly left who you were behind or if you are just now questioning if who you were told you should be is really who you are, Ren wants to help you find your best self, beyond the confines of tradition or childhood beliefs. Find freedom from society's expectations. Reduce your shame. Become your most authentic self.
Whatever sex-positive goals you have, topics about kink/BDSM, non-monogamy, the queer community, sexual or gender identity, or if you are wrestling with a childhood of religious sexual shame, Ren wants to walk with you as you grow into your most authentic self.
Ren is a sex therapist who specializes with kink, non-monogamy, LGBTQIA+, and religious sexual shame. For those who feel different or outcast, Ren works with sexual, gender, and relationship minorities. Whether you have proudly left who you were behind or if you are just now questioning if who you were told you should be is really who you are, Ren wants to help you find your best self, beyond the confines of tradition or childhood beliefs. Find freedom from society's expectations. Reduce your shame. Become your most authentic self.
(512) 229-9606 View (512) 229-9606
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Kizzy Griffin
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, LMSW
Verified Verified
Dallas, TX 75215  (Online Only)
My experience includes working with life transitions (military and civilian), intimacy barriers, sexuality connections, depression, anxiety, LGBTQIA+ challenges, trauma, race-related trauma, Military Trauma, PTSD, and addiction.
Since 2018, I have utilized person-centered and strength-based practices to promote the "Power of Self." These practices empower individuals to direct their therapeutic process. Establishing a safe zone and welcoming client feedback allows methods that are proven to be effective in managing difficulties, promoting personal growth, and accomplishing personal goals. I also provide therapy services to individuals exploring their sexuality; sexually fluent; and those that are experiencing a decrease or increase in sexual functioning.
My experience includes working with life transitions (military and civilian), intimacy barriers, sexuality connections, depression, anxiety, LGBTQIA+ challenges, trauma, race-related trauma, Military Trauma, PTSD, and addiction.
Since 2018, I have utilized person-centered and strength-based practices to promote the "Power of Self." These practices empower individuals to direct their therapeutic process. Establishing a safe zone and welcoming client feedback allows methods that are proven to be effective in managing difficulties, promoting personal growth, and accomplishing personal goals. I also provide therapy services to individuals exploring their sexuality; sexually fluent; and those that are experiencing a decrease or increase in sexual functioning.
(254) 232-5631 View (254) 232-5631
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Cassandra Hesse
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-S, CST
Verified Verified
Dallas, TX 75205  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
Sex Therapy for Individuals, Couples, and All Relationship Lifestyles. Do you struggle with depression or anxiety within your relationship(s)? Do you not see eye-to-eye with your partner(s)? Do you struggle with meeting people but desire human interaction? What about struggling with sexual intimacy and having a hard time finding a therapist to talk freely about your Sex Life?
Sex Therapy for Individuals, Couples, and All Relationship Lifestyles. Do you struggle with depression or anxiety within your relationship(s)? Do you not see eye-to-eye with your partner(s)? Do you struggle with meeting people but desire human interaction? What about struggling with sexual intimacy and having a hard time finding a therapist to talk freely about your Sex Life?
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Natalia Olvera
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Dallas, TX 75205  (Online Only)
Hi there! My name is Natalia Olvera, LCSW. I am an individual therapist specializing in trauma. Whether it be a single experience or a complex history, we can work together to process and heal. I am also a sex therapist and I work on issues such as: desire discrepancies, sexual functioning, sexual orientation and gender issues. My practice is a safe and affirming space for BDSM/kink, polyamorous, neurodivergent and LGTBQIA+ folks. Todos mis servicios se ofrecen en Español.
Hi there! My name is Natalia Olvera, LCSW. I am an individual therapist specializing in trauma. Whether it be a single experience or a complex history, we can work together to process and heal. I am also a sex therapist and I work on issues such as: desire discrepancies, sexual functioning, sexual orientation and gender issues. My practice is a safe and affirming space for BDSM/kink, polyamorous, neurodivergent and LGTBQIA+ folks. Todos mis servicios se ofrecen en Español.
(817) 968-7113 View (817) 968-7113
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Laura Elizabeth Forrester
Licensed Professional Counselor, M Ed, LPC-S
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Dallas, TX 75206  (Online Only)
I work with adult clients & have clinical experience in the following areas: Addiction/Substance Use, Eating Disorders, PTSD/Trauma, Domestic Violence, Depression, Anxiety, Personality Disorders, Self-Esteem, Co-Occurring Disorders, Sexual/Physical Abuse, Mood Disorders, Crisis Intervention, Codependency, Women’s Issues, LGBTQIA+ Issues, Sex-Work.
Hello! I believe in the value of connection and authenticity. My therapeutic approach comes from a deep-seeded belief that all humans are worthy of love and compassion. I believe that each person needs different things and it is my hope to be available to you to offer guidance, support, empathy, compassion, and acceptance without judgement. I deeply value diversity and inclusivity, and connecting with my clients is of the utmost importance to me. My goal is to be present for my clients and for them to feel safe in sharing their stories with me.
I work with adult clients & have clinical experience in the following areas: Addiction/Substance Use, Eating Disorders, PTSD/Trauma, Domestic Violence, Depression, Anxiety, Personality Disorders, Self-Esteem, Co-Occurring Disorders, Sexual/Physical Abuse, Mood Disorders, Crisis Intervention, Codependency, Women’s Issues, LGBTQIA+ Issues, Sex-Work.
Hello! I believe in the value of connection and authenticity. My therapeutic approach comes from a deep-seeded belief that all humans are worthy of love and compassion. I believe that each person needs different things and it is my hope to be available to you to offer guidance, support, empathy, compassion, and acceptance without judgement. I deeply value diversity and inclusivity, and connecting with my clients is of the utmost importance to me. My goal is to be present for my clients and for them to feel safe in sharing their stories with me.
(512) 714-3403 View (512) 714-3403
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Nourish Wellness | NRSH
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, LMFT-A, CMHP, LMSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Dallas, TX 75243
Our experienced professionals specialize in addressing issues like depression, anxiety, addiction, trauma, life transitions, sexuality, family dynamics, and LGBTQ+ concerns.
Is life leaving you feeling emotionally exhausted? Do you find yourself in need of emotional nourishment as you navigate life's challenges? Think of life as a marathon without those crucial water breaks. Well, at Nourish, we're not just here alongside you every step of the way; we're also here to give you the support you need to nurture your inner self.
Our experienced professionals specialize in addressing issues like depression, anxiety, addiction, trauma, life transitions, sexuality, family dynamics, and LGBTQ+ concerns.
Is life leaving you feeling emotionally exhausted? Do you find yourself in need of emotional nourishment as you navigate life's challenges? Think of life as a marathon without those crucial water breaks. Well, at Nourish, we're not just here alongside you every step of the way; we're also here to give you the support you need to nurture your inner self.
(972) 299-8936 View (972) 299-8936
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Billie Beard
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA
Verified Verified
Dallas, TX 75254
Many of my clients are examining their gender identity and sexuality. Several are overwhelmed with their thoughts and feelings and have feelings of isolation. Therapy allows them space to explore these thoughts and feelings to gain confidence and acceptance of their true selves.
Many of my clients are examining their gender identity and sexuality. Several are overwhelmed with their thoughts and feelings and have feelings of isolation. Therapy allows them space to explore these thoughts and feelings to gain confidence and acceptance of their true selves.
(512) 402-6635 View (512) 402-6635
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Jordan Michael Edmondson-DeGraftenreed
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Dallas, TX 75219  (Online Only)
My ideal client is looking for a non-judgemental, sex positive, open, and straightforward approach to meeting you where you are. They are looking for someone to connect with and have me help them in practical ways. I enjoy working with the LGBTQIA+ communities, polyamorous communities, kink communities, individuals struggling with anxiety, religious-based issues, work/career related issues, life change issues, both men’s and women’s issues, as well as depression. I utilize various approaches to therapy including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Adlerian Therapy, and Brief Solution Focused Therapy.
My ideal client is looking for a non-judgemental, sex positive, open, and straightforward approach to meeting you where you are. They are looking for someone to connect with and have me help them in practical ways. I enjoy working with the LGBTQIA+ communities, polyamorous communities, kink communities, individuals struggling with anxiety, religious-based issues, work/career related issues, life change issues, both men’s and women’s issues, as well as depression. I utilize various approaches to therapy including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Adlerian Therapy, and Brief Solution Focused Therapy.
(469) 382-1856 View (469) 382-1856
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Kristina M. Stephens
Counselor, MA, LPC, RPT
Verified Verified
Dallas, TX 75231
I also provide sex therapy for married and premarital couples.
PLAY THERAPY (age 2 & up!), FAMILIES, COUPLES (marital, pre marital, other) or INDIVIDUALS! I have worked with children and families for 13+ years. I taught in the public schools for 6 years before leaving the classroom to work with children and families in a more intimate, counseling setting. As a registered play therapist, I work with young clients who are having issues in school as well as home. I have training on attachment and bonding issues and frequently work with adoption triad cases (birth families, adoptive families, and adoptees). My clients range in age 2-adulthood!
I also provide sex therapy for married and premarital couples.
PLAY THERAPY (age 2 & up!), FAMILIES, COUPLES (marital, pre marital, other) or INDIVIDUALS! I have worked with children and families for 13+ years. I taught in the public schools for 6 years before leaving the classroom to work with children and families in a more intimate, counseling setting. As a registered play therapist, I work with young clients who are having issues in school as well as home. I have training on attachment and bonding issues and frequently work with adoption triad cases (birth families, adoptive families, and adoptees). My clients range in age 2-adulthood!
(469) 908-3440 View (469) 908-3440
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Mindful Balance Psychological Wellness LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
Dallas, TX 75201  (Online Only)
Hamil has obtained training in multiple therapeutic areas, such as: DBT, solution-focused therapy, Progressive Counting, EMDR, and Intensive Sex Therapy.
ACCEPTING NEW PATIENTS throughout MI, FL, NY & TX (virtually). Helping you, help yourself! My passion is working with adolescents, and adults to help give you hope for a better tomorrow. Whether you are experiencing depression, anxiety, isolation, family/peer conflict, impaired functioning at school/work, difficulties coping, difficulties managing anger/stress, or struggle to use healthy coping skills, I can help you work through these challenges. I also enjoy working with couples to increase their understanding of self, their partner, and the patterns of interactions to help facilitate change that will enhance their relationship.
Hamil has obtained training in multiple therapeutic areas, such as: DBT, solution-focused therapy, Progressive Counting, EMDR, and Intensive Sex Therapy.
ACCEPTING NEW PATIENTS throughout MI, FL, NY & TX (virtually). Helping you, help yourself! My passion is working with adolescents, and adults to help give you hope for a better tomorrow. Whether you are experiencing depression, anxiety, isolation, family/peer conflict, impaired functioning at school/work, difficulties coping, difficulties managing anger/stress, or struggle to use healthy coping skills, I can help you work through these challenges. I also enjoy working with couples to increase their understanding of self, their partner, and the patterns of interactions to help facilitate change that will enhance their relationship.
(734) 605-5120 View (734) 605-5120
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Ali Ramos
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Dallas, TX 75201
Waitlist for new clients
Being a human is HARD...what can you do about it? I am here to support you on your journey, whatever that might look like. I am experienced with discussing religious trauma and patterns of distress to discover who you were, are, and who you want to become. I am a sex-positive, anti-oppressive therapist who focuses on trauma-informed methods when exploring identities. All identities are welcome and this includes sex workers, transhumans, polyamorous folx, kink/bdsm explorers, and questioning individuals.
Being a human is HARD...what can you do about it? I am here to support you on your journey, whatever that might look like. I am experienced with discussing religious trauma and patterns of distress to discover who you were, are, and who you want to become. I am a sex-positive, anti-oppressive therapist who focuses on trauma-informed methods when exploring identities. All identities are welcome and this includes sex workers, transhumans, polyamorous folx, kink/bdsm explorers, and questioning individuals.
(806) 414-8247 View (806) 414-8247
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Creative Inspirations Behavioral Health
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Dallas, TX 75207  (Online Only)
I am a sex-positive, poly, and kink-aware therapist.
Lost in Life's Maze? Find your exit with Creative Inspirations. Let's navigate together. I will met you where you are and walk beside you in your journey to healing and self-discovery. I've been immersed in the field of mental and behavioral health since 2011, earning both my bachelor's and master's degrees in social work from Texas A&M University in Commerce, Texas. Throughout my career, I've engaged with diverse populations, offering support in areas such as substance abuse, trauma, grief, life transitions, intimate relationships, anxiety, depression, perinatal issues, and behavioral challenges.
I am a sex-positive, poly, and kink-aware therapist.
Lost in Life's Maze? Find your exit with Creative Inspirations. Let's navigate together. I will met you where you are and walk beside you in your journey to healing and self-discovery. I've been immersed in the field of mental and behavioral health since 2011, earning both my bachelor's and master's degrees in social work from Texas A&M University in Commerce, Texas. Throughout my career, I've engaged with diverse populations, offering support in areas such as substance abuse, trauma, grief, life transitions, intimate relationships, anxiety, depression, perinatal issues, and behavioral challenges.
(469) 552-2481 View (469) 552-2481
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LaShaun Roberts
Licensed Professional Counselor, MBA, MA, LPC-S, LSOTP-S, CST
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Dallas, TX 75238
Marital, Pre-Marital, Couples, Relationships...my SPECIALTY! Infidelity/betrayal, affairs, lack of trust, intimacy issues, pornography, PE, ED, sexually unfulfilled, low or no sexual desire, sexual pain, or sexual challenges/difficulties are my PASSION. These are just SOME of the issues that can impact relationships but don't get stuck here Let Me Help! I know you may feel awkward, anxious, ashamed, embarrassed, uncomfortable, fear of judgement, or experience trouble talking about your personal life, yet let me help as I offer a "NO JUDGE-SAFE ZONE' to express. Go Beyond your fears & Trust me to assist in Bettering Your Life. Call!
Marital, Pre-Marital, Couples, Relationships...my SPECIALTY! Infidelity/betrayal, affairs, lack of trust, intimacy issues, pornography, PE, ED, sexually unfulfilled, low or no sexual desire, sexual pain, or sexual challenges/difficulties are my PASSION. These are just SOME of the issues that can impact relationships but don't get stuck here Let Me Help! I know you may feel awkward, anxious, ashamed, embarrassed, uncomfortable, fear of judgement, or experience trouble talking about your personal life, yet let me help as I offer a "NO JUDGE-SAFE ZONE' to express. Go Beyond your fears & Trust me to assist in Bettering Your Life. Call!
(214) 306-7771 View (214) 306-7771
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Nestor Presas
Marriage & Family Therapist, ABD, LMFTS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Dallas, TX 75231
A relationships expert focused on assisting individuals, couples and families to reconnect and experience relations that are sustainable, vibrant and engaged, while achieving their own definition of success. I work with individuals, families and couples who are stuck in patterns of interaction that don't seem to work by using a collaborative, evidence based, powerful and innovative style of therapy. I strive to be sensitive to your spiritual experience, your culture and your values. My expertise is in forging solid therapeutic alliances, through client validation, affirmative recognition of the client's rights and strengths and de-stigmatization of experiences
A relationships expert focused on assisting individuals, couples and families to reconnect and experience relations that are sustainable, vibrant and engaged, while achieving their own definition of success. I work with individuals, families and couples who are stuck in patterns of interaction that don't seem to work by using a collaborative, evidence based, powerful and innovative style of therapy. I strive to be sensitive to your spiritual experience, your culture and your values. My expertise is in forging solid therapeutic alliances, through client validation, affirmative recognition of the client's rights and strengths and de-stigmatization of experiences
(214) 296-0026 View (214) 296-0026
Sex Therapy

Who is sex therapy for?

Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.

Why do people need sex therapy?

Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.

What happens in sex therapy?

People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.

What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?

Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.