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Christine Mammes
Counselor, LMHC, ERYT
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Syosset, NY 11791
I am a warm and inviting therapist that has created a sacred space with your healing in mind. I offer my clients the elements that I find most valuable in any therapeutic relationship; support, encouragement, empathic listening, non-judgement, interaction, collaboration, and trust. With a varied toolbox and skill set that we can draw upon, I enjoy blending evidence based practices with more creative approaches when called for. Some clients are open to including mind/ body based practices in their work with me while others may pursue a more traditional route. Ultimately, we will work collaboratively on the issues you are facing.
I am a warm and inviting therapist that has created a sacred space with your healing in mind. I offer my clients the elements that I find most valuable in any therapeutic relationship; support, encouragement, empathic listening, non-judgement, interaction, collaboration, and trust. With a varied toolbox and skill set that we can draw upon, I enjoy blending evidence based practices with more creative approaches when called for. Some clients are open to including mind/ body based practices in their work with me while others may pursue a more traditional route. Ultimately, we will work collaboratively on the issues you are facing.
(516) 261-6263 View (516) 261-6263
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Simona Noaghiul Yland
Marriage & Family Therapist, MD, MPH, LMFT
Verified Verified
Syosset, NY 11773
Finding the right psychotherapist is challenging and can be a lengthy process. Once the search is completed, and the therapy is under way, it will become rewarding and healing. My approach to psychotherapy is mindful, accepting and supportive. Trained in individual, couple, and family therapy, complex trauma, as well as clinical medicine and public health epidemiology, I provide treatment from an individualized integrative perspective, based on what is most beneficial to each person. My cultural and crosscultural perspectives allow me to also factor in the cultural impact on human behavior.
Finding the right psychotherapist is challenging and can be a lengthy process. Once the search is completed, and the therapy is under way, it will become rewarding and healing. My approach to psychotherapy is mindful, accepting and supportive. Trained in individual, couple, and family therapy, complex trauma, as well as clinical medicine and public health epidemiology, I provide treatment from an individualized integrative perspective, based on what is most beneficial to each person. My cultural and crosscultural perspectives allow me to also factor in the cultural impact on human behavior.
(631) 850-3051 View (631) 850-3051

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Loseca Austral
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSEd
Verified Verified
Dix Hills, NY 11746  (Online Only)
I believe you are courageous & self-honoring for exploring therapy. Examining life challenges to unearth your truth is transformative. If you're ready to release stagnant patterns, perceptions, & thinking errors, while practicing new strategies to reach your highest potential, you're in the right place. With over 18 years of experience working with a trauma-informed lens, I help my clients strengthen their resilience & self confidence, while reclaiming their power to create a joy-filled life. My aim is always to treat my patients holistically: mind, body, spirit, & sex.
I believe you are courageous & self-honoring for exploring therapy. Examining life challenges to unearth your truth is transformative. If you're ready to release stagnant patterns, perceptions, & thinking errors, while practicing new strategies to reach your highest potential, you're in the right place. With over 18 years of experience working with a trauma-informed lens, I help my clients strengthen their resilience & self confidence, while reclaiming their power to create a joy-filled life. My aim is always to treat my patients holistically: mind, body, spirit, & sex.
(631) 597-8676 View (631) 597-8676
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Easton Gaines
Psychologist, MSEd, PsyD
Verified Verified
Old Westbury, NY 11568
I practice Holistic Psychology and am passionate about making evidence-based therapeutic practices accessible. Therapy with me is collaborative, flexible, and strengths-based. My approach is grounded in scientifically-backed methods with specialized training in Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT), and Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT). I see clients of all ages ranging from young childhood through adulthood, including families and couples.
I practice Holistic Psychology and am passionate about making evidence-based therapeutic practices accessible. Therapy with me is collaborative, flexible, and strengths-based. My approach is grounded in scientifically-backed methods with specialized training in Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT), and Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT). I see clients of all ages ranging from young childhood through adulthood, including families and couples.
(646) 736-4452 View (646) 736-4452
Photo of Megan Romano, Marriage & Family Therapist in Syosset, NY
Megan Romano
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Woodbury, NY 11797
I understand how difficult it can be to decide to seek help for life's obstacles. In my practice, my goal is to help my clients become experts on themselves. Every end is a new beginning. If you're challenged with relationship issues, family conflict, parenting, a trauma history, depression, anxiety or have a child or an adolescent who is struggling with behavioral issues, or just looking for support and guidance through a challenging situation and looking to move in a new direction, I encourage you to let me help you with your experiences. I am dedicated to getting to the root of stuck patterns. There are techniques out there!
I understand how difficult it can be to decide to seek help for life's obstacles. In my practice, my goal is to help my clients become experts on themselves. Every end is a new beginning. If you're challenged with relationship issues, family conflict, parenting, a trauma history, depression, anxiety or have a child or an adolescent who is struggling with behavioral issues, or just looking for support and guidance through a challenging situation and looking to move in a new direction, I encourage you to let me help you with your experiences. I am dedicated to getting to the root of stuck patterns. There are techniques out there!
(646) 845-0615 View (646) 845-0615
Photo of Mattie Chein, Licensed Master Social Worker in Syosset, NY
Mattie Chein
Licensed Master Social Worker, LMSW
Verified Verified
Roslyn, NY 11576  (Online Only)
If you're grappling with the weight of anxiety, feeling lost in insecurity, or wrestling with an inner voice that whispers you're not enough, you're not alone. It's okay to feel overwhelmed, to be irritated or unmotivated, to struggle with self-doubt or the pressures of daily life.
If you're grappling with the weight of anxiety, feeling lost in insecurity, or wrestling with an inner voice that whispers you're not enough, you're not alone. It's okay to feel overwhelmed, to be irritated or unmotivated, to struggle with self-doubt or the pressures of daily life.
(646) 681-1284 View (646) 681-1284
Photo of Kimberly Laudin, Counselor in Syosset, NY
Kimberly Laudin
Counselor, MS, LMHC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Wantagh, NY 11793
Hi, I’m Kimberly Laudin and I’m so glad you decided to read my bio! I’m a Licensed Mental Health Counselor and I unquestionably love what I do. I’ve worked with a variety of mental health issues, having extensive experience working with anxiety disorders, eating disorders, OCD and related disorders, trauma (PTSD/C-PTSD), self-esteem, depression, disordered eating, and body dysmorphia. I take a Health in Every Size (HAES) and Intuitive Eating (IE) approach providing a warm and non-judgment environment. The decision to start therapy can be difficult, but I’m here to extend you with that emotional safety, guidance and support.
Hi, I’m Kimberly Laudin and I’m so glad you decided to read my bio! I’m a Licensed Mental Health Counselor and I unquestionably love what I do. I’ve worked with a variety of mental health issues, having extensive experience working with anxiety disorders, eating disorders, OCD and related disorders, trauma (PTSD/C-PTSD), self-esteem, depression, disordered eating, and body dysmorphia. I take a Health in Every Size (HAES) and Intuitive Eating (IE) approach providing a warm and non-judgment environment. The decision to start therapy can be difficult, but I’m here to extend you with that emotional safety, guidance and support.
(516) 604-3531 View (516) 604-3531
Photo of Dorothy S. Hyde, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Syosset, NY
Dorothy S. Hyde
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, DCSW, LCSW, ACSW, EMDRIA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Hicksville, NY 11801
I believe in the dignity of every person and that we have the answers within ourselves. I will help you make the connections and you will be able to experience your best self. As an EMDRIA Approved Consultant and a Clinical Hypnotherapist , I always use the most recent therapeutic techniques that are are specifically designed for you..
I believe in the dignity of every person and that we have the answers within ourselves. I will help you make the connections and you will be able to experience your best self. As an EMDRIA Approved Consultant and a Clinical Hypnotherapist , I always use the most recent therapeutic techniques that are are specifically designed for you..
(516) 324-4070 View (516) 324-4070
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Blossoming Lotus Therapy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Lindenhurst, NY 11757
Congratulations on taking a step closer to becoming your best self! Are you looking for an inclusive safe space where you can be honest and help heal past traumatic experiences? Do you identify as a member of the LGBTQIA+ community or questioning if you are? We work with folx in all stages of their coming out journey. We specialize working with BIPOC individuals, LGBTQIA+ community members and those in non-monogamous relationships. We provide affirming surgery letters after our first session because we believe you should not have to wait any longer to be your authentic self.
Congratulations on taking a step closer to becoming your best self! Are you looking for an inclusive safe space where you can be honest and help heal past traumatic experiences? Do you identify as a member of the LGBTQIA+ community or questioning if you are? We work with folx in all stages of their coming out journey. We specialize working with BIPOC individuals, LGBTQIA+ community members and those in non-monogamous relationships. We provide affirming surgery letters after our first session because we believe you should not have to wait any longer to be your authentic self.
(631) 900-3405 View (631) 900-3405
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Agnes Wohl
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Jericho, NY 11753
I have been in practice for over 30 years and provide support, aide in growth and recovery through individual and group psychotherapy. "Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass....it's about learning to dance in the rain" (unknown). I deal with issues related to the impact of trauma . These can be eating disorders, self harming thoughts and behaviors, sexual issues, mood disorders, anxiety, etc. I provide a high level of skill within the context of a warm, nurturing environment. I use use a variety of techniques including art, music, DBT informed therapy, Sensorimotor Therapy & EMDR.
I have been in practice for over 30 years and provide support, aide in growth and recovery through individual and group psychotherapy. "Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass....it's about learning to dance in the rain" (unknown). I deal with issues related to the impact of trauma . These can be eating disorders, self harming thoughts and behaviors, sexual issues, mood disorders, anxiety, etc. I provide a high level of skill within the context of a warm, nurturing environment. I use use a variety of techniques including art, music, DBT informed therapy, Sensorimotor Therapy & EMDR.
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Unleashed Potential: Life Coaching & Counseling
L, C, S, W
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Huntington, NY 11743
ʏᴏᴜ ᴅᴇsᴇʀᴠᴇ ᴀ ʟɪғᴇ ᴛʜᴀᴛ ʟᴇᴀᴠᴇs ʏᴏᴜ ᴇxᴄɪᴛᴇᴅ ᴛᴏ ᴡᴀᴋᴇ ᴜᴘ ᴇᴀᴄʜ ᴍᴏʀɴɪɴɢ. I aim to give hope to those who feel paralyzed by intense emotions, haunted by the pain of their trauma. As a Trauma Informed Life Coach, as well as a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, I believe you can be freed of your emotional pain. By turning that pain into power and begin to live a life of fulfillment, joy, and freedom from unhealed trauma. I will assist you in working through symptoms, find solutions to hurdles that are holding you back, empower you to take agency of you're narrative and remind you that you are not defined by the story that you tell yourself!
ʏᴏᴜ ᴅᴇsᴇʀᴠᴇ ᴀ ʟɪғᴇ ᴛʜᴀᴛ ʟᴇᴀᴠᴇs ʏᴏᴜ ᴇxᴄɪᴛᴇᴅ ᴛᴏ ᴡᴀᴋᴇ ᴜᴘ ᴇᴀᴄʜ ᴍᴏʀɴɪɴɢ. I aim to give hope to those who feel paralyzed by intense emotions, haunted by the pain of their trauma. As a Trauma Informed Life Coach, as well as a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, I believe you can be freed of your emotional pain. By turning that pain into power and begin to live a life of fulfillment, joy, and freedom from unhealed trauma. I will assist you in working through symptoms, find solutions to hurdles that are holding you back, empower you to take agency of you're narrative and remind you that you are not defined by the story that you tell yourself!
(631) 201-0219 View (631) 201-0219
Photo of Alison Bulman, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Syosset, NY
Alison Bulman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Garden City, NY 11530  (Online Only)
As Garden City Living Magazine’s Mental Health Expert, I specialize in improving how couples talk to each other. I’ve developed a unique approach called “Mindful Communication.” In our first few sessions, I take you through the top ten blocks to intimacy I created for you to spot where you’re stuck. Then we review the Ground Rules - 10 dos and don’ts in your conversations going forward so you get on the same page about what’s acceptable and what’s not in how you talk to each other. Once we have this solid foundation, I coach you through real time conversations to make you expert communicators and empathizes - key to reviving love.
As Garden City Living Magazine’s Mental Health Expert, I specialize in improving how couples talk to each other. I’ve developed a unique approach called “Mindful Communication.” In our first few sessions, I take you through the top ten blocks to intimacy I created for you to spot where you’re stuck. Then we review the Ground Rules - 10 dos and don’ts in your conversations going forward so you get on the same page about what’s acceptable and what’s not in how you talk to each other. Once we have this solid foundation, I coach you through real time conversations to make you expert communicators and empathizes - key to reviving love.
(917) 809-6962 View (917) 809-6962

Online Therapists

Photo of Dr. Jillian Kaufman, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Syosset, NY
Dr. Jillian Kaufman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New York, NY 10003
I'm a clinical social worker with a decade of experience working with adolescents and adults through a holistic, humanistic, and somatic lens. I am also the founder of Wavelength Psychotherapy, a collective of mental health professionals who truly see our clients as people, not patients. My areas of focus include anxiety, burnout, men's mental health, post-traumatic stress, stress management, self-esteem, sex and intimacy, and healing survivors of sexual violence.
I'm a clinical social worker with a decade of experience working with adolescents and adults through a holistic, humanistic, and somatic lens. I am also the founder of Wavelength Psychotherapy, a collective of mental health professionals who truly see our clients as people, not patients. My areas of focus include anxiety, burnout, men's mental health, post-traumatic stress, stress management, self-esteem, sex and intimacy, and healing survivors of sexual violence.
(201) 636-1534 View (201) 636-1534
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Kristen O'Guin
MEd
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New York, NY 10024
My passions are supporting people with relationships and sexuality, calming the nervous system, and helping people communicate.
It's wonderful that you are here making the effort to have more peace and goodness in your life. Even with great challenges, you can have more calm and peace in your body, mind, and relationships. Move past places where you're stuck and connect more deeply with yourself and life, for a more authentic and fulfilling life. You have a very safe, non-judgmental space to talk with me about anything. I've been told many times that people can open up with me in ways that they haven't ever been able to before; also, that I have a calming effect, and that I've helped many people majorly transform their life. I'm happy to support you, too.
My passions are supporting people with relationships and sexuality, calming the nervous system, and helping people communicate.
It's wonderful that you are here making the effort to have more peace and goodness in your life. Even with great challenges, you can have more calm and peace in your body, mind, and relationships. Move past places where you're stuck and connect more deeply with yourself and life, for a more authentic and fulfilling life. You have a very safe, non-judgmental space to talk with me about anything. I've been told many times that people can open up with me in ways that they haven't ever been able to before; also, that I have a calming effect, and that I've helped many people majorly transform their life. I'm happy to support you, too.
(914) 895-5789 View (914) 895-5789
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Ric Mathews
Counselor, LMHC, CYT-500, MSEd
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10001
I hold certificates in sex therapy, gender and sexuality, trauma-informed clinical care, as well as multiple certifications in yoga and meditation.
If you’re feeling like something is missing and finding it difficult these days to feel grounded in yourself, I want to help you figure out what’s getting in the way so you can feel like your true self again. Unresolved grief, trauma, feelings of abandonment, shame, and anger can hide in the unconscious mind and keep us stuck in toxic patterns that ruin relationships, sex and our sense of self. Anxiety, fear, and unmanaged stress can wreak havoc on our ability to hold on to a sense of hope. For BIPOC and LGBTQIA+ individuals, fear of violence and oppression adds more stress to the weight of these hardships.
I hold certificates in sex therapy, gender and sexuality, trauma-informed clinical care, as well as multiple certifications in yoga and meditation.
If you’re feeling like something is missing and finding it difficult these days to feel grounded in yourself, I want to help you figure out what’s getting in the way so you can feel like your true self again. Unresolved grief, trauma, feelings of abandonment, shame, and anger can hide in the unconscious mind and keep us stuck in toxic patterns that ruin relationships, sex and our sense of self. Anxiety, fear, and unmanaged stress can wreak havoc on our ability to hold on to a sense of hope. For BIPOC and LGBTQIA+ individuals, fear of violence and oppression adds more stress to the weight of these hardships.
(646) 860-0869 View (646) 860-0869
Photo of Richard Mills-Malangone, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Syosset, NY
Richard Mills-Malangone
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, EdD, LCSW, CST, CHT
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10019
As a certified sex therapist trained in EMDR and hypnotherapy, I have the tools to help you overcome negative impacts on your life and relationships.
If you are feeling overwhelmed and alone, and everything seems to be going wrong, it's important to find a solution. You might be struggling to cope with the situation and it could be affecting your relationship. You might be experiencing constant fighting and hurtful words, which is taking a toll on your mental and emotional well-being. Additionally, intimacy may no longer be a priority. Given the current situation of isolation, it's crucial to seek help and support. It's time to make a change and move forward, so don't hesitate to ask for assistance.
As a certified sex therapist trained in EMDR and hypnotherapy, I have the tools to help you overcome negative impacts on your life and relationships.
If you are feeling overwhelmed and alone, and everything seems to be going wrong, it's important to find a solution. You might be struggling to cope with the situation and it could be affecting your relationship. You might be experiencing constant fighting and hurtful words, which is taking a toll on your mental and emotional well-being. Additionally, intimacy may no longer be a priority. Given the current situation of isolation, it's crucial to seek help and support. It's time to make a change and move forward, so don't hesitate to ask for assistance.
(929) 325-1816 View (929) 325-1816
Photo of Syd Seifert, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Syosset, NY
Syd Seifert
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MA, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New York, NY 10023
I believe all people deserve and deeply yearn to be seen, heard, and valued for who they authentically are, and it can be quite a journey to get there. I provide therapy services to adults and adolescents of all gender identities and sexual orientations facing challenges related to anxiety, depression, interpersonal conflict, life transitions, sexuality, self-harm, and trauma. I am dedicated to helping my clients build more robust, fulfilling relationships, heal from traumatic experiences, and connect to what brings them pleasure and calm. Let's co-create the space you need to explore and heal.
I believe all people deserve and deeply yearn to be seen, heard, and valued for who they authentically are, and it can be quite a journey to get there. I provide therapy services to adults and adolescents of all gender identities and sexual orientations facing challenges related to anxiety, depression, interpersonal conflict, life transitions, sexuality, self-harm, and trauma. I am dedicated to helping my clients build more robust, fulfilling relationships, heal from traumatic experiences, and connect to what brings them pleasure and calm. Let's co-create the space you need to explore and heal.
(347) 745-7685 View (347) 745-7685
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Haelinn Seu
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Brooklyn, NY 11201
My clients are open-minded, creative individuals addressing issues related to relationships (including addictive and codependent), sexuality, trauma (including religious trauma), multiracial identity, anxiety, spirituality, and self-esteem.
Finding the right therapist can feel daunting. I encourage you to trust your intuition and find someone with whom you truly resonate. I work from a relational perspective which means the therapeutic relationship is the foundation of a successful therapy experience and an integral part of the entire process. I believe that spiraling toward health is everyone's natural state of being. Incorporating body, mind, and spirit, I work together with clients to transform and transcend blocks that stand in the way of actualizing their ultimate potentials.
My clients are open-minded, creative individuals addressing issues related to relationships (including addictive and codependent), sexuality, trauma (including religious trauma), multiracial identity, anxiety, spirituality, and self-esteem.
Finding the right therapist can feel daunting. I encourage you to trust your intuition and find someone with whom you truly resonate. I work from a relational perspective which means the therapeutic relationship is the foundation of a successful therapy experience and an integral part of the entire process. I believe that spiraling toward health is everyone's natural state of being. Incorporating body, mind, and spirit, I work together with clients to transform and transcend blocks that stand in the way of actualizing their ultimate potentials.
(646) 970-1318 View (646) 970-1318
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Rebecca Bateman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, PsyA
Verified Verified
Brooklyn, NY 11242  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
I enjoy working with a diverse group of individuals and welcome clients of any race, gender, ethnicity, sexuality, lifestyle or religion.
I'm a licensed psychotherapist and yoga instructor, with a background in social work, psychoanalysis and mindfulness. I work holistically, integrating talk therapy, cognitive behavioral tools and mindfulness techniques to help people feel better and understand themselves more deeply. Everyone comes to therapy with their own unique constellation of strengths and challenges, and I tailor sessions accordingly. I help people work through a broad range of issues including stress, depression, anxiety, trauma, sexuality, identity and loss.
I enjoy working with a diverse group of individuals and welcome clients of any race, gender, ethnicity, sexuality, lifestyle or religion.
I'm a licensed psychotherapist and yoga instructor, with a background in social work, psychoanalysis and mindfulness. I work holistically, integrating talk therapy, cognitive behavioral tools and mindfulness techniques to help people feel better and understand themselves more deeply. Everyone comes to therapy with their own unique constellation of strengths and challenges, and I tailor sessions accordingly. I help people work through a broad range of issues including stress, depression, anxiety, trauma, sexuality, identity and loss.
(347) 427-5300 View (347) 427-5300
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Nisha Umesh
Pre-Licensed Professional, MHC-LP, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Brooklyn, NY 11238  (Online Only)
Welcome! I am a EMDR trained trauma-informed therapist and believe that as multi-faceted humans, we hold the stories and experiences of our trauma deeply within our bodies. I have special training in EMDR for both children and adults. My approach is collaborative and integrative as there is no one size fits all approach. I center my clients agency and voice, empowering them along the way. My work is intersectional, sex/kink positive and queer affirming. I have special interests in sexual trauma, dysfunction/pain, complex trauma, attachment trauma, racial trauma, gender-based trauma, immigration trauma, and chronic illness.
Welcome! I am a EMDR trained trauma-informed therapist and believe that as multi-faceted humans, we hold the stories and experiences of our trauma deeply within our bodies. I have special training in EMDR for both children and adults. My approach is collaborative and integrative as there is no one size fits all approach. I center my clients agency and voice, empowering them along the way. My work is intersectional, sex/kink positive and queer affirming. I have special interests in sexual trauma, dysfunction/pain, complex trauma, attachment trauma, racial trauma, gender-based trauma, immigration trauma, and chronic illness.
(929) 822-6987 View (929) 822-6987

Sex Therapy

Who is sex therapy for?

Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.

Why do people need sex therapy?

Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.

What happens in sex therapy?

People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.

What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?

Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.