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Victor Marchese
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
Glen Head, NY 11545  (Online Only)
Making that first call seeking help can be very difficult, but you'll be very happy you did. In practice for 20 years, this safe and comfortable environment is located in Glen Head, NY. My team and I specialize in working with children, adolescents and adults going through a variety of issues from personal crises, relationship issues, sexual identity issues, and/or substance addiction. Clients can also benefit from EMDR, EMI and Hypnotherapy, all of which are available to you here in this confidential, judgement-free environment where you are free to discuss any subject or issue you wish.
Making that first call seeking help can be very difficult, but you'll be very happy you did. In practice for 20 years, this safe and comfortable environment is located in Glen Head, NY. My team and I specialize in working with children, adolescents and adults going through a variety of issues from personal crises, relationship issues, sexual identity issues, and/or substance addiction. Clients can also benefit from EMDR, EMI and Hypnotherapy, all of which are available to you here in this confidential, judgement-free environment where you are free to discuss any subject or issue you wish.
(516) 962-2104 View (516) 962-2104
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Dennis Piliere LCSW-R Rosemary Cook PhD
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R, PhD
Verified Verified
Bellmore, NY 11710
DENNIS PILIERE L.C.S.W-R has 27 years experience in virtually every area of psychotherapy. He's been the Director of inpatient and outpatient mental health and substance abuse programs as well as Director of Therapeutic Community Settings. His specialties include Substance Abuse,Court Mandated DWI programs, eating disorders, phobias, anger management, individual, couples, and family counseling.
DENNIS PILIERE L.C.S.W-R has 27 years experience in virtually every area of psychotherapy. He's been the Director of inpatient and outpatient mental health and substance abuse programs as well as Director of Therapeutic Community Settings. His specialties include Substance Abuse,Court Mandated DWI programs, eating disorders, phobias, anger management, individual, couples, and family counseling.
(631) 320-5253 View (631) 320-5253
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Danielle Matias
Licensed Professional Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
Mineola, NY 11501
The goal of my practice is to improve the quality of life of my clients and assist them reach their full potential and personal goals. Specializing in family and couple therapy. I also specialize in depression and anxiety. The ideal client will be dedicated to their own treatment and have a strong desire to feel better. Together with my client we work as a team to achieve the therapeutic goals and make life worth living and enjoying. I have been working in mental health for over a decade and it is my greatest passion in life.
The goal of my practice is to improve the quality of life of my clients and assist them reach their full potential and personal goals. Specializing in family and couple therapy. I also specialize in depression and anxiety. The ideal client will be dedicated to their own treatment and have a strong desire to feel better. Together with my client we work as a team to achieve the therapeutic goals and make life worth living and enjoying. I have been working in mental health for over a decade and it is my greatest passion in life.
(646) 204-2295 View (646) 204-2295
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Your Therapist, PLLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R, CASAC
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
East Meadow, NY 11554  (Online Only)
Kudos to you! It takes such strength to acknowledge and respond to your needs and therapy is an incredibly effective way of gaining insight to promote self growth and achieve happiness. Our behaviors and day to day interactions with the world and the people in it, as well as how we feel about it, are based on a series of different parts; our thoughts, our experiences and our life events. My aim is to help you navigate difficult events, repair unhealthy interactions and get to the root of the issue; reframing unproductive thoughts and negative experiences so it is no longer hindering and you can become a better you.
Kudos to you! It takes such strength to acknowledge and respond to your needs and therapy is an incredibly effective way of gaining insight to promote self growth and achieve happiness. Our behaviors and day to day interactions with the world and the people in it, as well as how we feel about it, are based on a series of different parts; our thoughts, our experiences and our life events. My aim is to help you navigate difficult events, repair unhealthy interactions and get to the root of the issue; reframing unproductive thoughts and negative experiences so it is no longer hindering and you can become a better you.
(516) 473-0389 View (516) 473-0389

Online Therapists

Carol Stevens
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, CSW, BCD
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10023
Specialties: Addictions, traumas, abuse, sexuality, relationships, learning, artistic blocks, stress management, spirituality, anger, fears, depression, anxiety, bereavement, somatic complaints, dreams, Adults, adolescents, children, individuals, couples, families, groups.
I am a gestalt therapist with 39+ years of experience working with most cultures, religions, issues, and diagnoses. My clientele varies from blue-collar to artists to professionals. I also do corporate work, teach, train, supervise, lead workshops, and retreats, and am a therapist's therapist. I especially like working with traumas, old and new, addictions, creativity,somatic symptoms, and dreams. Strengths: I am creative, insightful, intuitive, empathic, motivated, and accepting; with excellent humor and timing. I have knowledge of psychotropic medications, homeopathy, spiritual practices. I continue to learn, grow, work on myself.
Specialties: Addictions, traumas, abuse, sexuality, relationships, learning, artistic blocks, stress management, spirituality, anger, fears, depression, anxiety, bereavement, somatic complaints, dreams, Adults, adolescents, children, individuals, couples, families, groups.
I am a gestalt therapist with 39+ years of experience working with most cultures, religions, issues, and diagnoses. My clientele varies from blue-collar to artists to professionals. I also do corporate work, teach, train, supervise, lead workshops, and retreats, and am a therapist's therapist. I especially like working with traumas, old and new, addictions, creativity,somatic symptoms, and dreams. Strengths: I am creative, insightful, intuitive, empathic, motivated, and accepting; with excellent humor and timing. I have knowledge of psychotropic medications, homeopathy, spiritual practices. I continue to learn, grow, work on myself.
(646) 351-1686 View (646) 351-1686
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Zoë Wais
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New York, NY 10010
My areas of focus include anxiety in all its forms (avoidance, overthinking, perfectionism, ocd), depression, low self-esteem, borderline traits, relationship issues, gender and sexuality, sexual functioning, and trauma.
I prioritize an interactive and relational approach to therapy, helping clients to understand the factors contributing to destructive patterns, uncover their strengths, and develop the skills and opportunities necessary for improvement and their version of success. I understand the impacts of an invalidating narrative and strive to help people build greater confidence and a sense of productivity in their personal and professional lives.
My areas of focus include anxiety in all its forms (avoidance, overthinking, perfectionism, ocd), depression, low self-esteem, borderline traits, relationship issues, gender and sexuality, sexual functioning, and trauma.
I prioritize an interactive and relational approach to therapy, helping clients to understand the factors contributing to destructive patterns, uncover their strengths, and develop the skills and opportunities necessary for improvement and their version of success. I understand the impacts of an invalidating narrative and strive to help people build greater confidence and a sense of productivity in their personal and professional lives.
(646) 457-4139 View (646) 457-4139
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Heather Simonson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST, CSE, ERYT, RPYT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Lindenhurst, NY 11757
As the 2014 Best of Long Island Best Sex Therapist, I provide individual, couples and family counseling for all ages and abilities.
Need a positive change but unsure how to make that happen? Do you want support in strengthening your relationship to deepen your connection and intimacy? Or perhaps your child needs another trusted adult to talk to. No matter the challenge, having the guidance you need enables YOU to make the best choices about the direction of your counseling experience and your life. The benefit of awareness and self-discovery empowers you to transform obstacles to optimum health and happiness. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Certified Sexuality Educator, Reiki Master and Registered Yoga Teacher, specializing in kids and pre/postnatal.
As the 2014 Best of Long Island Best Sex Therapist, I provide individual, couples and family counseling for all ages and abilities.
Need a positive change but unsure how to make that happen? Do you want support in strengthening your relationship to deepen your connection and intimacy? Or perhaps your child needs another trusted adult to talk to. No matter the challenge, having the guidance you need enables YOU to make the best choices about the direction of your counseling experience and your life. The benefit of awareness and self-discovery empowers you to transform obstacles to optimum health and happiness. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Certified Sexuality Educator, Reiki Master and Registered Yoga Teacher, specializing in kids and pre/postnatal.
(631) 593-0762 View (631) 593-0762
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Marian E Dunn
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, PhD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Garrison, NY 10524
I offer brief effective counseling for relationship and sexual enhancement. For forty years, I've been helping individuals and couples to meet their goals: better communication, less conflict, greater intimacy and a better sexual life.I take a fresh approch to everyone to find the most efficient yet sensitive way to help. My training in Psychotherapy, Family and Relationship Therapy and Sex Therapy allows me a full range of skills to improve your life.I have experience working with persons of various religious and cultural traditions and work with people of all ages and sexual orientations. Check out www.mariandunn.com
I offer brief effective counseling for relationship and sexual enhancement. For forty years, I've been helping individuals and couples to meet their goals: better communication, less conflict, greater intimacy and a better sexual life.I take a fresh approch to everyone to find the most efficient yet sensitive way to help. My training in Psychotherapy, Family and Relationship Therapy and Sex Therapy allows me a full range of skills to improve your life.I have experience working with persons of various religious and cultural traditions and work with people of all ages and sexual orientations. Check out www.mariandunn.com
(914) 618-3159 View (914) 618-3159
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John P. Carnesecchi
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CEAP
Verified Verified
11 Endorsed
New York, NY 10006
I specialize in couples, family, depression, anxiety, trauma, addiction, relationships, couples counseling, sex therapy, ketamine assisted psychotherapy, and career coaching.
John P. Carnesecchi, LCSW, CEAP is a seasoned clinician that treats people of all ages. A client is usually struggling but feels connected enough with me as their therapist to speak openly and freely about their experience. They can accept feedback with an understanding that we are both on the same team. When we touch on something out of their comfort zone, I hope they recognize they are safe and can stay engaged in the process. Together, we push past the barriers preventing them from feeling better, and they gain a better understanding of themselves to meet their potential.
I specialize in couples, family, depression, anxiety, trauma, addiction, relationships, couples counseling, sex therapy, ketamine assisted psychotherapy, and career coaching.
John P. Carnesecchi, LCSW, CEAP is a seasoned clinician that treats people of all ages. A client is usually struggling but feels connected enough with me as their therapist to speak openly and freely about their experience. They can accept feedback with an understanding that we are both on the same team. When we touch on something out of their comfort zone, I hope they recognize they are safe and can stay engaged in the process. Together, we push past the barriers preventing them from feeling better, and they gain a better understanding of themselves to meet their potential.
(917) 398-9526 View (917) 398-9526
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Sabrina La Rosa
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New York, NY 10010
I am committed to creating an LGBTQ+ affirming, anti-oppressive, anti-racist, sex-positive, body-positive, kink-friendly, and non-judgmental space.
Therapy can be a way to understand why you feel overwhelmed, lost, or stuck in patterns that are holding you back from living the life you want. I believe that finding the right therapist is key to fostering change and growth within the therapeutic process. My goal is for you to feel safe and supported as we help move towards your most authentic self. I have experience working with a wide range of issues, including anxiety, trauma, ADHD, low self-esteem, work-related stress, gender and sexual identity, relationship and dating concerns, as well as experience working with the LGBTQ+ community.
I am committed to creating an LGBTQ+ affirming, anti-oppressive, anti-racist, sex-positive, body-positive, kink-friendly, and non-judgmental space.
Therapy can be a way to understand why you feel overwhelmed, lost, or stuck in patterns that are holding you back from living the life you want. I believe that finding the right therapist is key to fostering change and growth within the therapeutic process. My goal is for you to feel safe and supported as we help move towards your most authentic self. I have experience working with a wide range of issues, including anxiety, trauma, ADHD, low self-esteem, work-related stress, gender and sexual identity, relationship and dating concerns, as well as experience working with the LGBTQ+ community.
(332) 248-0665 View (332) 248-0665
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Nicole Trister
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, CASAC-T
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10036  (Online Only)
I’ve worked with clients on general life challenges as well as specific issues including depression, substance abuse, and sexual orientation, while specializing in couples and sex therapy.
We all want to be seen and understood by those we love, yet relationships are challenging. We can have trouble connecting, both within ourselves and with others. It can be hard to be our authentic selves and stand in our own truth. Your personality and life experiences make you unique. I will work with you to understand your strengths and weaknesses, which I view as your super-powers, as I believe that embracing them is your path to self-knowledge and personal resolution. I’m here to help, holding a space for you to talk through challenges, cultivate life skills and ultimately define your own path to greater happiness.
I’ve worked with clients on general life challenges as well as specific issues including depression, substance abuse, and sexual orientation, while specializing in couples and sex therapy.
We all want to be seen and understood by those we love, yet relationships are challenging. We can have trouble connecting, both within ourselves and with others. It can be hard to be our authentic selves and stand in our own truth. Your personality and life experiences make you unique. I will work with you to understand your strengths and weaknesses, which I view as your super-powers, as I believe that embracing them is your path to self-knowledge and personal resolution. I’m here to help, holding a space for you to talk through challenges, cultivate life skills and ultimately define your own path to greater happiness.
(914) 743-3928 x719 View (914) 743-3928 x719
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Madison Kille
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New York, NY 10010
She has completed trainings at the Institute of Contemporary Psychotherapy focused on sex therapy, psychodynamics, and anti-oppression.
Madison aims to provide you with the space and support to grow into your most authentic self. Madison’s style is warm and expressive, leading with curiosity and humor while also holding you accountable to your goals. Her approach to therapy is highly collaborative, drawing from relational, psychodynamic, and anti-oppressive practices to help you navigate through whatever stands in the way of a more meaningful and fulfilling life.
She has completed trainings at the Institute of Contemporary Psychotherapy focused on sex therapy, psychodynamics, and anti-oppression.
Madison aims to provide you with the space and support to grow into your most authentic self. Madison’s style is warm and expressive, leading with curiosity and humor while also holding you accountable to your goals. Her approach to therapy is highly collaborative, drawing from relational, psychodynamic, and anti-oppressive practices to help you navigate through whatever stands in the way of a more meaningful and fulfilling life.
(332) 239-1573 View (332) 239-1573
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Rebekah Kanefsky
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Rye Brook, NY 10573  (Online Only)
I am in the process of completing certification as a nationally board-certified sex and couples therapist.
Are you feeling judged? Have a secret that you cannot share with others? Seeking a safe space in order to vent? With my therapeutic guidance, you can address your deepest emotional and intimate needs in a nonjudgmental, genuine and supportive environment. Dynamic and spontaneous, I am there because you are there. You do not need to struggle alone. Together, we have an opportunity to make it better.
I am in the process of completing certification as a nationally board-certified sex and couples therapist.
Are you feeling judged? Have a secret that you cannot share with others? Seeking a safe space in order to vent? With my therapeutic guidance, you can address your deepest emotional and intimate needs in a nonjudgmental, genuine and supportive environment. Dynamic and spontaneous, I am there because you are there. You do not need to struggle alone. Together, we have an opportunity to make it better.
(203) 614-9114 View (203) 614-9114
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Dr. Britt Lindon: Individual And Couples Counselor
Psychologist, PhD, Anxiety, Couples, Trauma
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10017
I am a psychoanalyst & sex therapist comfortable working with kinks, non-traditional relationships, and poly people (including couples where one person is gung-ho and the partner is oh-no).
Modern relationships are HARD. It’s a struggle to find the right person OR to wonder if your current partner is possibly the wrong person. It’s tough when you feel burned by or totally confused about your path. Maybe you’ve even made choices or overlooked things you now regret. Or, maybe it’s a relationship with a boss or coworkers who undervalue you or play favorites with others. Your work ethic and good ideas have long taken a backseat to putting out fires or just avoiding things way more than you should. You’re past thinking that life’s fair. But, you never thought that things could go THIS wrong or get under your skin THIS much.
I am a psychoanalyst & sex therapist comfortable working with kinks, non-traditional relationships, and poly people (including couples where one person is gung-ho and the partner is oh-no).
Modern relationships are HARD. It’s a struggle to find the right person OR to wonder if your current partner is possibly the wrong person. It’s tough when you feel burned by or totally confused about your path. Maybe you’ve even made choices or overlooked things you now regret. Or, maybe it’s a relationship with a boss or coworkers who undervalue you or play favorites with others. Your work ethic and good ideas have long taken a backseat to putting out fires or just avoiding things way more than you should. You’re past thinking that life’s fair. But, you never thought that things could go THIS wrong or get under your skin THIS much.
(718) 841-0625 View (718) 841-0625
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At Home Psychedelic Therapy (Instant Insurance Verification)
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MD, PhD, LCSW, PDOC
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10011
Feya Health is a woman-owned, Psychedelic Assisted Psychotherapy group practice, featured on MTV. Our Integrative approach helps clients address their self-destructive patterns by getting to the core and root of their issues. The result is a drastic reduction in the initial presenting symptoms over a short period of time. We offer a comprehensive, integrative & customizable approach to the Ketamine & Oxytocin Therapy Process and specialize in EMDR, PTSD, CPTSD, human optimization and Pharmaceutical Medication withdrawal.
Feya Health is a woman-owned, Psychedelic Assisted Psychotherapy group practice, featured on MTV. Our Integrative approach helps clients address their self-destructive patterns by getting to the core and root of their issues. The result is a drastic reduction in the initial presenting symptoms over a short period of time. We offer a comprehensive, integrative & customizable approach to the Ketamine & Oxytocin Therapy Process and specialize in EMDR, PTSD, CPTSD, human optimization and Pharmaceutical Medication withdrawal.
(917) 789-1484 View (917) 789-1484
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Kenneth M Glatt
Psychologist, PhD, ABPP
Verified Verified
Poughkeepsie, NY 12603
I am a Diplomate in Clinical Psychology certified by the American Board of Professional Psychology. I'm psychodynamically oriented, while at the same time I am direct and interactive in my approach. My focus is on correcting maladaptive behaviors and identifying the unconscious processes and irrational beliefs which underlie them. My expertise is in helping persons who are depressed, anxious, experiencing loss, having relationship problems and/or concerns about sexual matters. I accept most insurance including Medicare. Office Hours: Tuesday thru Saturday, Morning and Afternoon.
I am a Diplomate in Clinical Psychology certified by the American Board of Professional Psychology. I'm psychodynamically oriented, while at the same time I am direct and interactive in my approach. My focus is on correcting maladaptive behaviors and identifying the unconscious processes and irrational beliefs which underlie them. My expertise is in helping persons who are depressed, anxious, experiencing loss, having relationship problems and/or concerns about sexual matters. I accept most insurance including Medicare. Office Hours: Tuesday thru Saturday, Morning and Afternoon.
(845) 262-2366 View (845) 262-2366
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Fred Turpin
Licensed Psychoanalyst, NCPsyA
Verified Verified
South Salem, NY 10590
People who come to me are often in crisis. They need someone who can listen deeper than words to bring greater understanding, clarity, and perspective. Fear or depression block pathways toward effective change. I bring years of training and practice, personal sensitivity and deep intuition. My goal is to help you release your own potential, unblock energy, so that you have greater awareness and can actualize that new awareness. I've been trained in five different psychoanalytic approaches, depending in part on your situation and location. I offer psychoanalysis in NYS. Call 203-894-9489 for initial phone consultation.
People who come to me are often in crisis. They need someone who can listen deeper than words to bring greater understanding, clarity, and perspective. Fear or depression block pathways toward effective change. I bring years of training and practice, personal sensitivity and deep intuition. My goal is to help you release your own potential, unblock energy, so that you have greater awareness and can actualize that new awareness. I've been trained in five different psychoanalytic approaches, depending in part on your situation and location. I offer psychoanalysis in NYS. Call 203-894-9489 for initial phone consultation.
(203) 894-9489 View (203) 894-9489
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Footprints to Feel Better
Pre-Licensed Professional
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10027
Footprints was started by a therapist who realized that often times the services provided to low socio-economic communities is lacking quality care. We noticed these communities were confronted with long wait times, disrespectful admins, and subpar treatment. The one and only purpose was to exploit the community for profit without providing the level of care deserved. Feel Better Therapy began from the inspiration to provide quality mental health care to the poorest of communities and treating the clients of this community the same way a rich patient would be treated in a clinic treating affluent clients.
Footprints was started by a therapist who realized that often times the services provided to low socio-economic communities is lacking quality care. We noticed these communities were confronted with long wait times, disrespectful admins, and subpar treatment. The one and only purpose was to exploit the community for profit without providing the level of care deserved. Feel Better Therapy began from the inspiration to provide quality mental health care to the poorest of communities and treating the clients of this community the same way a rich patient would be treated in a clinic treating affluent clients.
(646) 204-2295 View (646) 204-2295
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Aristotle Psychological
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Astoria, NY 11103
I have been a Clinical Psychologist for the past 24 years. I am specialized in treating children, adolescents, adults and couples experiencing various relationship and individual problems. Areas of specialization include: anxiety, depression, panic attacks, and family relational problems. In addition, I specialize in treating children with ADHD/ADD and other learning disabilities. In addition to providing psychotherapy, I also administer psychological and neuropsychological evaluations.
I have been a Clinical Psychologist for the past 24 years. I am specialized in treating children, adolescents, adults and couples experiencing various relationship and individual problems. Areas of specialization include: anxiety, depression, panic attacks, and family relational problems. In addition, I specialize in treating children with ADHD/ADD and other learning disabilities. In addition to providing psychotherapy, I also administer psychological and neuropsychological evaluations.
(347) 836-5378 View (347) 836-5378
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Gerald LaMear Bray
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R, BCD-P
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10024
I am an experienced adult psychotherapist with accredited postgraduate training and clinical experience. I have special interests in work-related stress, performance anxiety, eating disorders and interpersonal relationships. I have an active affiliation with many major insurance plans. You can expect to have a consultation within one to two days. My office is conveniently located on the Upper West Side. Curiosity, humor and a toleration of paradox and irony can help. Let's see how we can bring out the best in you and make the world a better place for everyone.
I am an experienced adult psychotherapist with accredited postgraduate training and clinical experience. I have special interests in work-related stress, performance anxiety, eating disorders and interpersonal relationships. I have an active affiliation with many major insurance plans. You can expect to have a consultation within one to two days. My office is conveniently located on the Upper West Side. Curiosity, humor and a toleration of paradox and irony can help. Let's see how we can bring out the best in you and make the world a better place for everyone.
(212) 427-8043 View (212) 427-8043

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Sex Therapy

Who is sex therapy for?

Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.

Why do people need sex therapy?

Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.

What happens in sex therapy?

People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.

What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?

Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.