Sex Therapists in Nassau County, NY

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Talia Gutlove
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CCTP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Cedarhurst, NY 11516
I am passionate about helping my clients develop healthy, fulfilling relationships & feel more confident, satisfied, & empowered in their individual and romantic lives. I have received specialized training in the treatment of sexual & relationship issues. I am also a Certified Clinical Trauma Professional. I utilize a sex-positive approach to help individuals and couples work through their challenges and traumas, build greater intimacy, & improve their relationships.
I am passionate about helping my clients develop healthy, fulfilling relationships & feel more confident, satisfied, & empowered in their individual and romantic lives. I have received specialized training in the treatment of sexual & relationship issues. I am also a Certified Clinical Trauma Professional. I utilize a sex-positive approach to help individuals and couples work through their challenges and traumas, build greater intimacy, & improve their relationships.
(516) 430-2655 View (516) 430-2655
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Nassau Wellness: Couples Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Garden City, NY 11530
Our clinicians' specializations include: relationship issues, sex therapy, and transition to parenthood.
Nassau Wellness offers high-quality individual, couples, and family therapy. We provide caring and compassionate support to help our clients identify and achieve the changes important to them. Our practice focuses on empowering our clients to succeed by working collaboratively and developing long-lasting coping skills.
Our clinicians' specializations include: relationship issues, sex therapy, and transition to parenthood.
Nassau Wellness offers high-quality individual, couples, and family therapy. We provide caring and compassionate support to help our clients identify and achieve the changes important to them. Our practice focuses on empowering our clients to succeed by working collaboratively and developing long-lasting coping skills.
(516) 252-3670 View (516) 252-3670
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Psychotherapy By Stella
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW, CST
Verified Verified
Mill Neck, NY 11765  (Online Only)
Do you have issues in your relationship? Feeling stuck, unhappy,​ and unsure of what steps to take to resolve those challenges? Do you find it difficult to be intimate with your partner? Afraid to be honest about your needs and feelings or worried about the future of your relationship? Contact me and we will work together to explore your emotions, identify the problem, and develop a strategic plan for change. I am a AASECT certified sex therapist and licensed clinical social worker with a specialty and training in treating sexual health issues and on track in obtaining a PhD in Sexology.
Do you have issues in your relationship? Feeling stuck, unhappy,​ and unsure of what steps to take to resolve those challenges? Do you find it difficult to be intimate with your partner? Afraid to be honest about your needs and feelings or worried about the future of your relationship? Contact me and we will work together to explore your emotions, identify the problem, and develop a strategic plan for change. I am a AASECT certified sex therapist and licensed clinical social worker with a specialty and training in treating sexual health issues and on track in obtaining a PhD in Sexology.
(516) 614-3711 View (516) 614-3711
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Love Inspires Psychotherapy LCSW PC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
Farmingdale, NY 11735
With a specialty as a Sex and Relationship Therapist, I provide strategies to overcome emotional conflicts and sexual disorders that interfere with intimate connection and relationship success.
Do you struggle with finding your balance and maintaining peace? Are you repeating the same negative patterns, feeling stagnant, ashamed, anxious and overwhelmed? I will work with you to build solutions that fit you when you have: the desire to improve any aspect of your life• trouble adjusting to a new situation or life transition• conflicts that keep you from being closer to people you care about• anxiety• depression• lack information or embarrassment about sex• questions about relationships or sexual health..... I hold space for you to discuss and explore personal related topics confidentially without shame and judgement.
With a specialty as a Sex and Relationship Therapist, I provide strategies to overcome emotional conflicts and sexual disorders that interfere with intimate connection and relationship success.
Do you struggle with finding your balance and maintaining peace? Are you repeating the same negative patterns, feeling stagnant, ashamed, anxious and overwhelmed? I will work with you to build solutions that fit you when you have: the desire to improve any aspect of your life• trouble adjusting to a new situation or life transition• conflicts that keep you from being closer to people you care about• anxiety• depression• lack information or embarrassment about sex• questions about relationships or sexual health..... I hold space for you to discuss and explore personal related topics confidentially without shame and judgement.
(516) 586-0392 View (516) 586-0392
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Linda Duemig
MHC-LP, MSEd, CSTIP
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Life can be a challenging journey, but you don't have to go through it alone! Having an outlet or someone outside your situation to work things through can help. I work with clients who struggle with anxiety, relationships, depression, or self-esteem, to name a few! Additionally, I am a Certified Sex Therapy Informed Professional. I help individuals and couples overcome barriers to intimacy (sexual & love addiction, avoidant behavior, betrayal trauma, pornography, infidelity, low-sex relationships, body image issues, sexual dysfunction, & more), helping clients lead to fulfilling & exciting relationships, physically and emotionally.
Life can be a challenging journey, but you don't have to go through it alone! Having an outlet or someone outside your situation to work things through can help. I work with clients who struggle with anxiety, relationships, depression, or self-esteem, to name a few! Additionally, I am a Certified Sex Therapy Informed Professional. I help individuals and couples overcome barriers to intimacy (sexual & love addiction, avoidant behavior, betrayal trauma, pornography, infidelity, low-sex relationships, body image issues, sexual dysfunction, & more), helping clients lead to fulfilling & exciting relationships, physically and emotionally.
(516) 613-5240 x708 View (516) 613-5240 x708
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Samantha Stein
Licensed Master Social Worker, LMSW
Verified Verified
Syosset, NY 11791
At Long Island Institute of Sex Therapy (LIIST), Samantha works with individuals facing challenges related to sexual functioning, depression, anxiety, gender and sexual orientation, and relationship skills. She provides support for gender and sexual orientation diverse (LGBTQ+) individuals and helps couples of all types enhance their communication skills. Samantha is also poly-inclusive and kink-aware.
At Long Island Institute of Sex Therapy (LIIST), Samantha works with individuals facing challenges related to sexual functioning, depression, anxiety, gender and sexual orientation, and relationship skills. She provides support for gender and sexual orientation diverse (LGBTQ+) individuals and helps couples of all types enhance their communication skills. Samantha is also poly-inclusive and kink-aware.
(516) 654-8511 View (516) 654-8511
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Linda Rose
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Sex therapy can be both individual or within a couple.
Are you unhappy with your life or in your relationships? Would you like to make improvements in your mood, self esteem or sexual life? I am a seasoned therapist who has worked successfully with individuals, groups, and couples. In addition to helping people with depression, anxiety, relationship issues, self esteem and empowerment, I have recently been specializing in relationship and sex therapy. I use various modalities and work to develop a relationship with my clients to help them make changes they desire in their lives. I work with clients to build a trusting relationship wherin the theraputic work can develop.
Sex therapy can be both individual or within a couple.
Are you unhappy with your life or in your relationships? Would you like to make improvements in your mood, self esteem or sexual life? I am a seasoned therapist who has worked successfully with individuals, groups, and couples. In addition to helping people with depression, anxiety, relationship issues, self esteem and empowerment, I have recently been specializing in relationship and sex therapy. I use various modalities and work to develop a relationship with my clients to help them make changes they desire in their lives. I work with clients to build a trusting relationship wherin the theraputic work can develop.
(516) 240-5834 View (516) 240-5834
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Lauren Johnson, LMFT, CST
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CST
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Merrick, NY 11566  (Online Only)
I have been trained systemically in Marriage and Family Therapy and am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, as well a Certified Sex Therapist.
I work with with clients with difficulty in the following areas: Communication and relationship problems in families and couples, Infidelity, Conflict Resolution, Sexual issues, Anxiety, Depression, and Low Self Esteem. Although I am Licensed in Marriage and Family Therapy, I also work with individuals with the same issues.
I have been trained systemically in Marriage and Family Therapy and am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, as well a Certified Sex Therapist.
I work with with clients with difficulty in the following areas: Communication and relationship problems in families and couples, Infidelity, Conflict Resolution, Sexual issues, Anxiety, Depression, and Low Self Esteem. Although I am Licensed in Marriage and Family Therapy, I also work with individuals with the same issues.
(516) 279-5839 View (516) 279-5839
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Sexual Addiction Sex Misbehavior Infidelity Expert
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MSW, SOTS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Valley Stream, NY 11581
Absolute sexual addiction elite level expert, 26 years & 45,000 hours sexual misbehavior specialist psychotherapy provided, faster recovery. Evidence based research oriented treating of Infidelity/Cheating/Affairs, Prostitution Use, "Seeking Arrangements", Sugar Daddy, Sex Apps, Strip Clubs, Massage Parlors, Sex Misconduct, Certified Specialist. I created government funded sexual misbehavior programs, utilizing highly effective clinical models. I use my most up to date understanding to have you change your thinking and learn how to end self destructive actions and love yourself and the great life you have. All I do is these cases
Absolute sexual addiction elite level expert, 26 years & 45,000 hours sexual misbehavior specialist psychotherapy provided, faster recovery. Evidence based research oriented treating of Infidelity/Cheating/Affairs, Prostitution Use, "Seeking Arrangements", Sugar Daddy, Sex Apps, Strip Clubs, Massage Parlors, Sex Misconduct, Certified Specialist. I created government funded sexual misbehavior programs, utilizing highly effective clinical models. I use my most up to date understanding to have you change your thinking and learn how to end self destructive actions and love yourself and the great life you have. All I do is these cases
(516) 774-4317 View (516) 774-4317
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Rosara Torrisi
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R, MEd, CST, PhD
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Syosset, NY 11791
You can feel confident knowing you're working with a Certified Sex Therapist.
I am dedicated to helping people work through life's unique challenges. I am here to assist you in reaching new solutions and working toward your goals. I can support individuals in coping with depression, anxiety, sexual identity or orientation, life skills for young adults, and sexual dysfunction. Couples or those in relationships may be seeking therapy for communication and relationship skills, sexual enrichment, mismatched desire, premarital counseling, or erectile and orgasm difficulties. I am an LGBT-Affirmative, Kink-Aware, and Poly-Inclusive therapist. I was Voted the number 1 Sex Therapist on Long Island for 2015 and 2017.
You can feel confident knowing you're working with a Certified Sex Therapist.
I am dedicated to helping people work through life's unique challenges. I am here to assist you in reaching new solutions and working toward your goals. I can support individuals in coping with depression, anxiety, sexual identity or orientation, life skills for young adults, and sexual dysfunction. Couples or those in relationships may be seeking therapy for communication and relationship skills, sexual enrichment, mismatched desire, premarital counseling, or erectile and orgasm difficulties. I am an LGBT-Affirmative, Kink-Aware, and Poly-Inclusive therapist. I was Voted the number 1 Sex Therapist on Long Island for 2015 and 2017.
(516) 279-2446 View (516) 279-2446
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Marie Ragona
Art Therapist, LCAT, ATR-BC, CST
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Glen Cove, NY 11542  (Online Only)
You feel ready to take the next step to heal from the past and live a life that makes you proud and joyful. Whether it’s improving your sex life, managing anxiety, wanting to love yourself more, dating and all that comes with it, improving an existing relationship, or (most likely!) a combination of all of those, you need compassionate support. You want to have a deep understanding of yourself and build tools that will help you to make a significant shift in the way you experience life. It’s time to move forward, away from repeated patterns that don’t work for you, and towards empowerment, peace, and healthy relationships.
You feel ready to take the next step to heal from the past and live a life that makes you proud and joyful. Whether it’s improving your sex life, managing anxiety, wanting to love yourself more, dating and all that comes with it, improving an existing relationship, or (most likely!) a combination of all of those, you need compassionate support. You want to have a deep understanding of yourself and build tools that will help you to make a significant shift in the way you experience life. It’s time to move forward, away from repeated patterns that don’t work for you, and towards empowerment, peace, and healthy relationships.
(646) 832-4565 View (646) 832-4565
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Sherry Henig
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Plainview, NY 11803
And, as a certified sex therapist, I am able to help with problems with intimacy.
Put simply, I'd like to help you and/or your family member(s), feel less worried, less sad, and, in general, less distressed. With over 40 years of experience, I feel that I've been able to provide that to many hundreds of people with whom I've worked. Whether it's your child or teen who is suffering (I work with all manner of child and adolescent issues, including ADHD, academic underachievement, oppositional defiance, anxiety, depression and limitations in social skills) or whether it's you, your relationship or your family that is troubled, I have the experience to help resolve issues.
And, as a certified sex therapist, I am able to help with problems with intimacy.
Put simply, I'd like to help you and/or your family member(s), feel less worried, less sad, and, in general, less distressed. With over 40 years of experience, I feel that I've been able to provide that to many hundreds of people with whom I've worked. Whether it's your child or teen who is suffering (I work with all manner of child and adolescent issues, including ADHD, academic underachievement, oppositional defiance, anxiety, depression and limitations in social skills) or whether it's you, your relationship or your family that is troubled, I have the experience to help resolve issues.
(516) 586-0640 View (516) 586-0640
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Ron Murphy
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
I also specialize in sex and marital therapy, having spent over 20 years at one of the leading Human Sexuality Programs in the country.
I really enjoy working with people who want to be helped with painful feelings and experiences that have interfered with their sense of well being. All of us are limited by upsettingly negative emotions that make it harder to accomplish things that would make our lives richer, more comfortable and secure. I base my work on the principles of Mindfulnes Based Cognitive Behavior Therapy. This approach has been shown to be very successful helping anxiety, depression, post-traumatic stress, phobias and many other individual and relationship issues. Like most experienced therapists, I also integrate ideas from other approaches whenever appropriate.
I also specialize in sex and marital therapy, having spent over 20 years at one of the leading Human Sexuality Programs in the country.
I really enjoy working with people who want to be helped with painful feelings and experiences that have interfered with their sense of well being. All of us are limited by upsettingly negative emotions that make it harder to accomplish things that would make our lives richer, more comfortable and secure. I base my work on the principles of Mindfulnes Based Cognitive Behavior Therapy. This approach has been shown to be very successful helping anxiety, depression, post-traumatic stress, phobias and many other individual and relationship issues. Like most experienced therapists, I also integrate ideas from other approaches whenever appropriate.
(516) 767-2723 View (516) 767-2723
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Gwen Butler: Counseling / Sex Therapy Aasect Cert.
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST
Verified Verified
Garden City, NY 11530  (Online Only)
Now accepting new clients! I'm an AASECT Certified & Christ-Centered Sex Therapist offering Individual and Couple's Counseling, as well as Workshops, focused on sexual health and pleasure. Whether it's sexual pleasure, dysfunctions, intimacy, sexuality through illness, or trauma, I'm here to help you on your path to personal fulfillment and satisfaction.
Now accepting new clients! I'm an AASECT Certified & Christ-Centered Sex Therapist offering Individual and Couple's Counseling, as well as Workshops, focused on sexual health and pleasure. Whether it's sexual pleasure, dysfunctions, intimacy, sexuality through illness, or trauma, I'm here to help you on your path to personal fulfillment and satisfaction.
(929) 419-4670 View (929) 419-4670
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The Audacity To Heal
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Hewlett, NY 11557  (Online Only)
Sex therapy helps heal the wounds of sexualization - the negative feelings & experiences associated with sex.
Life is overwhelming. There's so much that we are navigating and have pressure to get everything right. The last thing we want to struggle with is the very thing that helps us endure the challenges of life: relationships, sex, & our bodies. Do you find yourself trying to keep everything up and watching your relationships falling by the wayside? Sex & Relationships are important. We have so many ideas about it stemming from media, friends, family, religion and our own sexual history, which can be very confusing and isolating. Sex therapy helps make sense of what you know about sex, sexuality, & relationships
Sex therapy helps heal the wounds of sexualization - the negative feelings & experiences associated with sex.
Life is overwhelming. There's so much that we are navigating and have pressure to get everything right. The last thing we want to struggle with is the very thing that helps us endure the challenges of life: relationships, sex, & our bodies. Do you find yourself trying to keep everything up and watching your relationships falling by the wayside? Sex & Relationships are important. We have so many ideas about it stemming from media, friends, family, religion and our own sexual history, which can be very confusing and isolating. Sex therapy helps make sense of what you know about sex, sexuality, & relationships
(646) 600-8133 View (646) 600-8133
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Edy Nathan
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MA, LCSW, CST
Verified Verified
EMDR, hypnosis (guided imagery) & a certification in sex therapy are tools to clarify how to sooth yourself & diminish the power of the inner critic.
Find the expert in you that leads to the pathway of healing. If coping with anxiety, grief, loss, sexual trauma or are in the LGBTQI community you are at the forefront of many emotional issues. Low self-esteem affects the power of the self. Are you anxious? Do you have intrusive memories? Are you emotionally overwhelmed? Gestalt, Jungian, Behavioral therapies help you to unravel the mysteries that create your pain. I am an aid to you becoming differentiated and empowered. My clients say that I am perceptive, creative, sensitive, and challenging. Make that call!
EMDR, hypnosis (guided imagery) & a certification in sex therapy are tools to clarify how to sooth yourself & diminish the power of the inner critic.
Find the expert in you that leads to the pathway of healing. If coping with anxiety, grief, loss, sexual trauma or are in the LGBTQI community you are at the forefront of many emotional issues. Low self-esteem affects the power of the self. Are you anxious? Do you have intrusive memories? Are you emotionally overwhelmed? Gestalt, Jungian, Behavioral therapies help you to unravel the mysteries that create your pain. I am an aid to you becoming differentiated and empowered. My clients say that I am perceptive, creative, sensitive, and challenging. Make that call!
(917) 725-5023 View (917) 725-5023
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Embrace Therapy - Michali Friedman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-C
Verified Verified
Cedarhurst, NY 11516  (Online Only)
Our specialties in relationships & sexuality enable us to guide you in not just figuring out what was going wrong before, but also helping you identify what is right & fulfilling for you.
To our Dear Future Client, If you're reading this, chances are you may have noticed that something does not feel right in your relationship. Perhaps you have known this for quite some time or maybe you have only now come to realize an important truth - that this is not how you want to feel, not where you want to be, & it's time for change. Change can be really scary and overwhelming, maybe even foreign. Of course, evolution doesn't happen overnight, so naturally you may ask how & when does it happen? Good questions!
Our specialties in relationships & sexuality enable us to guide you in not just figuring out what was going wrong before, but also helping you identify what is right & fulfilling for you.
To our Dear Future Client, If you're reading this, chances are you may have noticed that something does not feel right in your relationship. Perhaps you have known this for quite some time or maybe you have only now come to realize an important truth - that this is not how you want to feel, not where you want to be, & it's time for change. Change can be really scary and overwhelming, maybe even foreign. Of course, evolution doesn't happen overnight, so naturally you may ask how & when does it happen? Good questions!
(646) 663-5368 View (646) 663-5368
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Joel Block
Psychologist, PhD, ABPP
Verified Verified
Syosset, NY 11791  (Online Only)
I might add, for those struggling with sexual issues, I supervised the training in a Long Island hospital-based Sexuality Center for 20 years.
We long to be loved and accepted for the person we truly are. There is no better opportunity than our love relationship for us to be fully ourselves. Ironically, since our partner is so central to our life, his or her validation becomes critical and we are inclined to hide our true self. We become guarded from the most important person in our lives. The intimacy and willingness to know and be known that made the beginning of love so passionate becomes simply functional. It is replaced with feelings of apprehension. Over time we move from a passionate relationship to one that is quietly cautious. That's when trouble looms.
I might add, for those struggling with sexual issues, I supervised the training in a Long Island hospital-based Sexuality Center for 20 years.
We long to be loved and accepted for the person we truly are. There is no better opportunity than our love relationship for us to be fully ourselves. Ironically, since our partner is so central to our life, his or her validation becomes critical and we are inclined to hide our true self. We become guarded from the most important person in our lives. The intimacy and willingness to know and be known that made the beginning of love so passionate becomes simply functional. It is replaced with feelings of apprehension. Over time we move from a passionate relationship to one that is quietly cautious. That's when trouble looms.
(516) 667-1990 View (516) 667-1990
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Leann Borneman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Garden City, NY 11530  (Online Only)
I focus on Anxiety Disorders & Sex Therapy of all stages of life for individuals & couples.
Sexual Dysfunctions and/or Anxiety can be really overwhelming and debilitating. Feeling shame, guilt or embarrassment is exhausting and can make you feel alone. Anxiety can make it feel like you can hardly breath and keep your head above water at times. We all deserve to feel in control and confident within ourselves. Wouldn't it be great to feel empowered with who you are, feel confident & secure again with no restrictions? Become the version of yourself that you have been longing for.
I focus on Anxiety Disorders & Sex Therapy of all stages of life for individuals & couples.
Sexual Dysfunctions and/or Anxiety can be really overwhelming and debilitating. Feeling shame, guilt or embarrassment is exhausting and can make you feel alone. Anxiety can make it feel like you can hardly breath and keep your head above water at times. We all deserve to feel in control and confident within ourselves. Wouldn't it be great to feel empowered with who you are, feel confident & secure again with no restrictions? Become the version of yourself that you have been longing for.
(631) 894-9112 View (631) 894-9112
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Danica Mitchell
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, AASECT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Offering Telehealth Sessions. As a sex therapist, I work with people experiencing sexual issues such as low sexual desire, sexual incompatibility, frequency, rapid/delayed ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, pain, trauma, and sex addiction. I also specialize in working with individuals and couples to improve relationship issues, such as communication, intimacy, compatibility, infidelity and trust. My goal is to provide a safe place for you as you take steps to improve your life and find your own path towards fulfillment and satisfaction.
Offering Telehealth Sessions. As a sex therapist, I work with people experiencing sexual issues such as low sexual desire, sexual incompatibility, frequency, rapid/delayed ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, pain, trauma, and sex addiction. I also specialize in working with individuals and couples to improve relationship issues, such as communication, intimacy, compatibility, infidelity and trust. My goal is to provide a safe place for you as you take steps to improve your life and find your own path towards fulfillment and satisfaction.
(212) 335-0511 View (212) 335-0511

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Sex Therapy

Who is sex therapy for?

Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.

Why do people need sex therapy?

Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.

What happens in sex therapy?

People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.

What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?

Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.