Sex Therapists in Haverstraw, NY

Photo of Brenda Ramirez-Davis Psychotherapist, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Haverstraw, NY
Brenda Ramirez-Davis Psychotherapist
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Haverstraw, NY 10927
Are you feeling overwhelmed by life's challenges? Are you struggling with anxiety, depression, or relationship issues? You don't have to face these struggles alone. My name is Brenda Ramirez-Davis, and I'm here to support you on your journey towards healing and personal growth. I am a licensed therapist with over 10 years of experience helping individuals, couples, and families navigate through difficult times. My approach to therapy is warm, compassionate, and nonjudgmental. I believe in creating a safe and supportive space where you can explore your thoughts, feelings, and experiences without fear of criticism.
Are you feeling overwhelmed by life's challenges? Are you struggling with anxiety, depression, or relationship issues? You don't have to face these struggles alone. My name is Brenda Ramirez-Davis, and I'm here to support you on your journey towards healing and personal growth. I am a licensed therapist with over 10 years of experience helping individuals, couples, and families navigate through difficult times. My approach to therapy is warm, compassionate, and nonjudgmental. I believe in creating a safe and supportive space where you can explore your thoughts, feelings, and experiences without fear of criticism.
(845) 581-2721 View (845) 581-2721

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Mimi Gelb
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT, CST
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
New City, NY 10956
It is the combination of my experience in both relationship and sex therapy that lets me help couples stay together in a new and vibrant partnership.
For over 12 years, I have helped couples better their relationships. As a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Sex Therapist (AASECT), I offer customized counseling for a range of client needs in a secure, nurturing, and professional environment. Many issues can arise during marriage or long term relationships. Infidelity, poor communication, and loss of trust are among the most common issues we encounter. Helping couples to resolves these conflicts, repair damage, and reconnect is the most satisfying work I do.
It is the combination of my experience in both relationship and sex therapy that lets me help couples stay together in a new and vibrant partnership.
For over 12 years, I have helped couples better their relationships. As a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Sex Therapist (AASECT), I offer customized counseling for a range of client needs in a secure, nurturing, and professional environment. Many issues can arise during marriage or long term relationships. Infidelity, poor communication, and loss of trust are among the most common issues we encounter. Helping couples to resolves these conflicts, repair damage, and reconnect is the most satisfying work I do.
(845) 445-6750 View (845) 445-6750
Photo of Alexandria Ceravolo, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Haverstraw, NY
Alexandria Ceravolo
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Nyack, NY 10960
I offer a space where clients can speak freely and be seen, heard, and understood. I work with clients who are seeking to rediscover who they are and help them live a more authentic and intentional life. I have a focus in supporting clients who are navigating their identity, future, relationships and survivors of trauma. In sessions, we work together to challenge and change patterns, reclaim your power, and transform into the best version of yourself. I welcome clients of a diverse background and those who are members of the LGBTQIA+, sex-positive, and kink community.
I offer a space where clients can speak freely and be seen, heard, and understood. I work with clients who are seeking to rediscover who they are and help them live a more authentic and intentional life. I have a focus in supporting clients who are navigating their identity, future, relationships and survivors of trauma. In sessions, we work together to challenge and change patterns, reclaim your power, and transform into the best version of yourself. I welcome clients of a diverse background and those who are members of the LGBTQIA+, sex-positive, and kink community.
(347) 572-7741 View (347) 572-7741
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Kyla E Black
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R, CST
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Croton On Hudson, NY 10520
As an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, I specialize in Sex Therapy as well as working with the LGBTQI community, adults and youth, on an individual, couple, and family level.
Making the choice to seek and begin therapy is positive and courageous. It's often a valuable step toward resolving the issues that are blocking the pleasure and fulfillment you deserve. Are you feeling depressed or anxious? Poor body image? Do you have concerns about your sexual functioning? Issues with libido? Pain or discomfort with sexual activities? Having relationship difficulties? Struggling with sexual identity, orientation, or gender expression? Any or all of these can impact your overall well being. I aim to support your capacity to grow and change, feel grounded, and to live to your highest possibility!
As an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, I specialize in Sex Therapy as well as working with the LGBTQI community, adults and youth, on an individual, couple, and family level.
Making the choice to seek and begin therapy is positive and courageous. It's often a valuable step toward resolving the issues that are blocking the pleasure and fulfillment you deserve. Are you feeling depressed or anxious? Poor body image? Do you have concerns about your sexual functioning? Issues with libido? Pain or discomfort with sexual activities? Having relationship difficulties? Struggling with sexual identity, orientation, or gender expression? Any or all of these can impact your overall well being. I aim to support your capacity to grow and change, feel grounded, and to live to your highest possibility!
(347) 695-8708 View (347) 695-8708
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Katherine Friedman
Counselor, MA, LMHC, LPC, CST
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Croton On Hudson, NY 10520
Sexuality is a core component of our experience in the world.
I help clients to develop curiosity and compassion about their inner lives and desires, guiding them towards healing, pleasure, and joy. I approach therapy as a collaboration in which we get to know your inner world together. I help you to uncover the psychological, somatic, and sensory experiences that have shaped how you approach the world, providing opportunities for freedom, choice, and transformation. In both individual and couples therapy, I use mindfulness and embodiment to help you build awareness of your own wants, needs, emotions, and desires, creating a foundation for clear communication, intimacy, and understanding.
Sexuality is a core component of our experience in the world.
I help clients to develop curiosity and compassion about their inner lives and desires, guiding them towards healing, pleasure, and joy. I approach therapy as a collaboration in which we get to know your inner world together. I help you to uncover the psychological, somatic, and sensory experiences that have shaped how you approach the world, providing opportunities for freedom, choice, and transformation. In both individual and couples therapy, I use mindfulness and embodiment to help you build awareness of your own wants, needs, emotions, and desires, creating a foundation for clear communication, intimacy, and understanding.
(914) 810-9799 View (914) 810-9799
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Liana Bekker
MSW, BC, AADP, DC, Life Co
Verified Verified
Suffern, NY 10901
Mental health, Holistic Psychotherapy, fitness, nutrition, life coaching, somatic therapy, dbt, Cbt, couples therapy, sex therapy, personality disorders, adhd, bipolar, individual.
My goal is to create a nonjudgmental environment and a safe place to share all of life’s stressors. Specializing in all areas of discomfort and struggles. Discover you inner balance between vulnerability and making the right choices! Take a mindful and soulful approach to making your life better with future awareness of your issues at hand. Focus on mental health with an option to holistically focus on mind, body, and soul as one entity. If we treat it all we receive the maximum mental health experience because one affects the other. Individual, couples, sex, CBT, DBT, and somatic, adhd, bipolar, and personality disorders addressed.
Mental health, Holistic Psychotherapy, fitness, nutrition, life coaching, somatic therapy, dbt, Cbt, couples therapy, sex therapy, personality disorders, adhd, bipolar, individual.
My goal is to create a nonjudgmental environment and a safe place to share all of life’s stressors. Specializing in all areas of discomfort and struggles. Discover you inner balance between vulnerability and making the right choices! Take a mindful and soulful approach to making your life better with future awareness of your issues at hand. Focus on mental health with an option to holistically focus on mind, body, and soul as one entity. If we treat it all we receive the maximum mental health experience because one affects the other. Individual, couples, sex, CBT, DBT, and somatic, adhd, bipolar, and personality disorders addressed.
(845) 867-2489 View (845) 867-2489
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Kate Napolitano
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MA, LCSW
Verified Verified
Nyack, NY 10960  (Online Only)
I also have special training for coaching, related to disability, sexuality, relationships, LGBTQIA+ culture, and kink culture.
Hi, I'm Kate! I'm an LCSW based in NYC and the lower Hudson Valley. Right now, I provide several telehealth-only services: counseling, life coaching, dating/sex coaching, and general psychotherapy. I have an MA in Human Sexuality from NYU, and a masters in Social Work from Fordham University, and ten years' clinical experience. I work with young adults, and adults, helping them with a variety of issues. However, my areas of focus include: sexuality, relationships, trans/nonbinary/gender identity issues; kink/poly/alt-lifestyle concerns. Coaching for artists & writers; career coaching, and weight management, bariatric surgery issues.
I also have special training for coaching, related to disability, sexuality, relationships, LGBTQIA+ culture, and kink culture.
Hi, I'm Kate! I'm an LCSW based in NYC and the lower Hudson Valley. Right now, I provide several telehealth-only services: counseling, life coaching, dating/sex coaching, and general psychotherapy. I have an MA in Human Sexuality from NYU, and a masters in Social Work from Fordham University, and ten years' clinical experience. I work with young adults, and adults, helping them with a variety of issues. However, my areas of focus include: sexuality, relationships, trans/nonbinary/gender identity issues; kink/poly/alt-lifestyle concerns. Coaching for artists & writers; career coaching, and weight management, bariatric surgery issues.
(845) 443-7244 View (845) 443-7244
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Shmuel Skaist
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, CSAT-c
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Monsey, NY 10952
If you are struggling with sex addiction, I will help you face the darkness of leading a double life, achieve sobriety, and heal the underlying issues.
My goal as a therapist is to help you learn skills for leading a more fulfilling and functional reality and to help you on your way to living your best life. I use an empathetic and individualized approach to help people of all backgrounds navigate life issues and stressors and make positive and meaningful changes. I work with individuals, couples, and adolescents on relationships, intimacy, parenting, life transitions, self-esteem, childhood traumas, traumatic events, and anxiety. If you need help realizing your full potential, I'll help you identify your obstacles and how to navigate them.
If you are struggling with sex addiction, I will help you face the darkness of leading a double life, achieve sobriety, and heal the underlying issues.
My goal as a therapist is to help you learn skills for leading a more fulfilling and functional reality and to help you on your way to living your best life. I use an empathetic and individualized approach to help people of all backgrounds navigate life issues and stressors and make positive and meaningful changes. I work with individuals, couples, and adolescents on relationships, intimacy, parenting, life transitions, self-esteem, childhood traumas, traumatic events, and anxiety. If you need help realizing your full potential, I'll help you identify your obstacles and how to navigate them.
(845) 552-2431 View (845) 552-2431
Photo of Ira Barouch, Licensed Psychoanalyst in Haverstraw, NY
Ira Barouch
Licensed Psychoanalyst, MA, LP
Verified Verified
Ossining, NY 10562  (Online Only)
In my 30 years of practice I've successfully treated men and the unique concerns that bring them into therapy. These include career insecurity, burnout, transitions; relationship problems; and the entire gamut of addictive behaviors (sex, porn,gambling, substances, etc.). Symptoms most often associated with these life problems include depression, anxiety, avoidance, isolation, and sexual dysfunction. Because they aren't comfortable exposing their vulnerabilities men often need encouragement to seek therapy. If this description sounds like you, or someone you know, please contact me for a free 20 minute consultation. I can help!
In my 30 years of practice I've successfully treated men and the unique concerns that bring them into therapy. These include career insecurity, burnout, transitions; relationship problems; and the entire gamut of addictive behaviors (sex, porn,gambling, substances, etc.). Symptoms most often associated with these life problems include depression, anxiety, avoidance, isolation, and sexual dysfunction. Because they aren't comfortable exposing their vulnerabilities men often need encouragement to seek therapy. If this description sounds like you, or someone you know, please contact me for a free 20 minute consultation. I can help!
(914) 433-3875 View (914) 433-3875
Photo of Aisling Marriage and Family Therapy, PLLC, Marriage & Family Therapist in Haverstraw, NY
Aisling Marriage and Family Therapy, PLLC
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New Hempstead, NY 10977
As a practice, we are a multidisciplinary team of Clinicians with varying educational degrees, licensees, and areas of expertise. Supervised by Sara Stockton, LMFT, MA, this group practice is systemically and relational trained to provide specialized treatment including individual, play, family therapy, couples therapy, substance abuse treatment, intimacy and affair treatment, Mindfulness Based Therapy, psychological testing and medication management. Our clinical work is founded on a belief in the healing potential of the therapeutic relationship and the importance of providing a safe environment for all of our clients.
As a practice, we are a multidisciplinary team of Clinicians with varying educational degrees, licensees, and areas of expertise. Supervised by Sara Stockton, LMFT, MA, this group practice is systemically and relational trained to provide specialized treatment including individual, play, family therapy, couples therapy, substance abuse treatment, intimacy and affair treatment, Mindfulness Based Therapy, psychological testing and medication management. Our clinical work is founded on a belief in the healing potential of the therapeutic relationship and the importance of providing a safe environment for all of our clients.
(315) 367-3054 View (315) 367-3054
Photo of Starlee N Qualter, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Haverstraw, NY
Starlee N Qualter
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CEAP
Verified Verified
West Nyack, NY 10994
I am a therapist with over 25 years of clinical experience. My approach is collaborative as therapy is a unique relationship. We begin with identifying where you are now while focusing on where you want to be. I use many different techniques in discovering the most effective path for you. For example, cognitive-behavioral therapy is very effective with issues such as anxiety and depression, while using an attachment-based lens can improve low self-esteem and relationship issues. If you are looking for an interactive therapist and are ready and willing to do the work, I will help you along your journey!
I am a therapist with over 25 years of clinical experience. My approach is collaborative as therapy is a unique relationship. We begin with identifying where you are now while focusing on where you want to be. I use many different techniques in discovering the most effective path for you. For example, cognitive-behavioral therapy is very effective with issues such as anxiety and depression, while using an attachment-based lens can improve low self-esteem and relationship issues. If you are looking for an interactive therapist and are ready and willing to do the work, I will help you along your journey!
(845) 684-4291 View (845) 684-4291
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Rivkah Reichler
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Pomona, NY 10970  (Online Only)
Are you struggling with issues related to trauma, grief, addiction, anxiety, depression or major life changes? If so, the good news is that there are scientifically proven methods to help you heal and get relief from your symptoms. As a trained and experienced therapist, I can guide you on a journey of self-discovery that will ultimately help you unburden, transform and heal.
Are you struggling with issues related to trauma, grief, addiction, anxiety, depression or major life changes? If so, the good news is that there are scientifically proven methods to help you heal and get relief from your symptoms. As a trained and experienced therapist, I can guide you on a journey of self-discovery that will ultimately help you unburden, transform and heal.
(802) 424-8920 View (802) 424-8920
Photo of Debra D Castaldo, Marriage & Family Therapist in Haverstraw, NY
Debra D Castaldo
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LCSW, MS
Verified Verified
Nyack, NY 10960
Is your marriage CRASHING? Are you in need of a RELATIONSHIP REBOOT? (tm) Is your child testing limits? Are you struggling with depression and anxiety? Dr. Castaldo is a nationally recognized relationship expert who has been featured on CNN, FOX, NBC, in Ladies Home Journal, Woman's Day, Redbook, & More magazines, and has authored 3 books. Founder of the Center for Family and Couple Solutions, she uses a unique solution focused, brief approach to help clients build solutions quickly. She has special expertise in Divorce Prevention, Remarriage, Step Parenting, Child Management, Behavioral Issues, Family Conflict, Depression, Anxiety, Adoption, & Women's Issues.
Is your marriage CRASHING? Are you in need of a RELATIONSHIP REBOOT? (tm) Is your child testing limits? Are you struggling with depression and anxiety? Dr. Castaldo is a nationally recognized relationship expert who has been featured on CNN, FOX, NBC, in Ladies Home Journal, Woman's Day, Redbook, & More magazines, and has authored 3 books. Founder of the Center for Family and Couple Solutions, she uses a unique solution focused, brief approach to help clients build solutions quickly. She has special expertise in Divorce Prevention, Remarriage, Step Parenting, Child Management, Behavioral Issues, Family Conflict, Depression, Anxiety, Adoption, & Women's Issues.
(201) 494-2580 View (201) 494-2580
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Réka Foster
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
West Nyack, NY 10994
Welcome to Rèka Foster therapy. Whether you are trying to find solution for severe marital impasse, family conflict or dealing with anxiety, depression, psychotherapy is a great tool to address, change and discover new ways to live your life at your full potential. Rèka specializes and has excessive experience in group therapy, family, couples systemic psychotherapy and intervention as well as PTSD, trauma, complex trauma treatment, reduction of anxiety and depression.
Welcome to Rèka Foster therapy. Whether you are trying to find solution for severe marital impasse, family conflict or dealing with anxiety, depression, psychotherapy is a great tool to address, change and discover new ways to live your life at your full potential. Rèka specializes and has excessive experience in group therapy, family, couples systemic psychotherapy and intervention as well as PTSD, trauma, complex trauma treatment, reduction of anxiety and depression.
(845) 253-9172 View (845) 253-9172
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Jonathan Tuller
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Pomona, NY 10970
Are you having difficulty with your relationship? Do you feel disconnected from your partner? You may be fed up with the constant arguing, feeling alone and unloved, or feeling unsure about your future together. You might not even remember a time things didn’t feel this way. But one thing is for sure: you’re ready for some relief. You’re ready to have good communication. You’re ready to feel reconnected with your partner. Most of all, you’re ready to feel excited about your relationship like you did when you first met.
Are you having difficulty with your relationship? Do you feel disconnected from your partner? You may be fed up with the constant arguing, feeling alone and unloved, or feeling unsure about your future together. You might not even remember a time things didn’t feel this way. But one thing is for sure: you’re ready for some relief. You’re ready to have good communication. You’re ready to feel reconnected with your partner. Most of all, you’re ready to feel excited about your relationship like you did when you first met.
(718) 473-9969 View (718) 473-9969
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Lisa Bander
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
New City, NY 10956  (Online Only)
Hello and welcome! I am a compassionate, interactive therapist who uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), an evidence-based treatment, to help individuals resolve a variety of life issues. My specialties include anxiety, depression, relationship and intimacy issues, trauma, work-related issues, parenting issues, bereavement/loss, self-esteem, procrastination and more. You can expect to learn practical and efficient tools and strategies that lead to meaningful change, in order to live a happier, more productive life.
Hello and welcome! I am a compassionate, interactive therapist who uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), an evidence-based treatment, to help individuals resolve a variety of life issues. My specialties include anxiety, depression, relationship and intimacy issues, trauma, work-related issues, parenting issues, bereavement/loss, self-esteem, procrastination and more. You can expect to learn practical and efficient tools and strategies that lead to meaningful change, in order to live a happier, more productive life.
(914) 506-5919 View (914) 506-5919
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Natalia Rojas
Counselor, LMHC, NCC
Verified Verified
Nyack, NY 10960  (Online Only)
I am a bilingual Spanish-English therapist with experience providing social-emotional support ranging from pre-teens to adults and couples. I utilize a holistic and client-centered approach incorporating elements of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and Mindfulness-Based Therapy.
I am a bilingual Spanish-English therapist with experience providing social-emotional support ranging from pre-teens to adults and couples. I utilize a holistic and client-centered approach incorporating elements of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and Mindfulness-Based Therapy.
(845) 209-0548 View (845) 209-0548
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Stephane Ohayon
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW
Verified Verified
Pomona, NY 10970
An effective mental health counselor is a social anthropologist at heart with a profound knowledge of ethnicity, sociology, race, religious and/or spiritual denominations,family dynamics and how economics influence and determine emotional conflicts. Fluent in French, Spanish and English, well-travelled and well-versed in the arts and literature of other countries and with a subtancial background in psychology and psychoanalysis I approach emotional issues with flexibility and relevance to the individual patient. I delve into the client's self and biographical life to mobilize hidden forces, unused energies to assist him/her in the struggle to prevail.
An effective mental health counselor is a social anthropologist at heart with a profound knowledge of ethnicity, sociology, race, religious and/or spiritual denominations,family dynamics and how economics influence and determine emotional conflicts. Fluent in French, Spanish and English, well-travelled and well-versed in the arts and literature of other countries and with a subtancial background in psychology and psychoanalysis I approach emotional issues with flexibility and relevance to the individual patient. I delve into the client's self and biographical life to mobilize hidden forces, unused energies to assist him/her in the struggle to prevail.
(212) 300-5971 View (212) 300-5971
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Francesca Baslow -Licensed Psychotherapist-
MA, LCAT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
West Nyack, NY 10994
Welcome...you have arrived at a place I hope can bring you relief, direction and above all growth. A place where you can allow yourself a good exhale, relax your shoulders, let go and begin to feel the ease of your own space to be however you find yourself. I am here to support and guide you in whatever your experience brings to you in this moment of your life. There is healing in slowing down to listen to what your feelings and body are telling you, in an open and compassionate environment. I am honored to be a part of such important work.
Welcome...you have arrived at a place I hope can bring you relief, direction and above all growth. A place where you can allow yourself a good exhale, relax your shoulders, let go and begin to feel the ease of your own space to be however you find yourself. I am here to support and guide you in whatever your experience brings to you in this moment of your life. There is healing in slowing down to listen to what your feelings and body are telling you, in an open and compassionate environment. I am honored to be a part of such important work.
(646) 759-4316 View (646) 759-4316
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Eli Mandelbaum
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Monsey, NY 10952
Do you often feel inadequate? Do you find yourself worrying or feeling down on your luck? Does maintaining relationships feel harder than they ought to be? These feelings often result from how we have learned to see ourselves based on past experiences and relationships. Difficult relationships in our past can leave us with unhelpful and unhealthy ideas about ourselves that is hard to change. And Yes, the past is very powerful, but it does need to determine our future. Using a psychodynamic approach, I try to help my clients feel less entangled by their past and ultimately more in control of their lives.
Do you often feel inadequate? Do you find yourself worrying or feeling down on your luck? Does maintaining relationships feel harder than they ought to be? These feelings often result from how we have learned to see ourselves based on past experiences and relationships. Difficult relationships in our past can leave us with unhelpful and unhealthy ideas about ourselves that is hard to change. And Yes, the past is very powerful, but it does need to determine our future. Using a psychodynamic approach, I try to help my clients feel less entangled by their past and ultimately more in control of their lives.
(845) 250-3245 View (845) 250-3245

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Sex Therapy

Who is sex therapy for?

Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.

Why do people need sex therapy?

Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.

What happens in sex therapy?

People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.

What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?

Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.