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Jen Hayes
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, BACS, CST
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
New Orleans, LA 70119
Hello, my name is Jen and I am a Certified Sex Therapist offering gender-affirming therapeutic services (and video sessions) for members of the LGBTQ+ community, including those who are transitioning, struggling with or exploring gender identity, are friends and family of LGBTQ+, and anyone seeking gender or sexual orientation-related therapeutic services. I also offer couples (relationship) therapy and sex therapy to LGBTQ+ individuals and to those that do not identify as members of the LGBTQ+ community, as well as assessment and treatment for anxiety, depression, and other behavioral health needs. All are welcome.
Hello, my name is Jen and I am a Certified Sex Therapist offering gender-affirming therapeutic services (and video sessions) for members of the LGBTQ+ community, including those who are transitioning, struggling with or exploring gender identity, are friends and family of LGBTQ+, and anyone seeking gender or sexual orientation-related therapeutic services. I also offer couples (relationship) therapy and sex therapy to LGBTQ+ individuals and to those that do not identify as members of the LGBTQ+ community, as well as assessment and treatment for anxiety, depression, and other behavioral health needs. All are welcome.
(504) 380-9856 View (504) 380-9856
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Bill Knecht
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, BACS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New Orleans, LA 70115
Although experienced in a wide variety of clinical issues including having trained therapists for for over 25 years, I'm limiting my practice to only brief individual, relationship therapy and couples work and sex therapy and internet porn/sexual addictions.
I'm a therapist with over 45+ years of experience. A specialized practice that utilizes brief treatment (in person or via video) and focuses on work with couples and sexual issues. See: website More Information & Blog. Other specialties are Veteran's issues, chronic pain management and cancer adjustment, and transgender evaluations for HRT.. A brief (often only one to four sessions), confidential, non-judgmental and practical approach while, at the same time, addressing the issues within the context of an individual's lifetime goals. I've also supervised and trained hundreds of therapists. Very confidential, anonymous office.
Although experienced in a wide variety of clinical issues including having trained therapists for for over 25 years, I'm limiting my practice to only brief individual, relationship therapy and couples work and sex therapy and internet porn/sexual addictions.
I'm a therapist with over 45+ years of experience. A specialized practice that utilizes brief treatment (in person or via video) and focuses on work with couples and sexual issues. See: website More Information & Blog. Other specialties are Veteran's issues, chronic pain management and cancer adjustment, and transgender evaluations for HRT.. A brief (often only one to four sessions), confidential, non-judgmental and practical approach while, at the same time, addressing the issues within the context of an individual's lifetime goals. I've also supervised and trained hundreds of therapists. Very confidential, anonymous office.
(504) 315-1077 View (504) 315-1077
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Tiffany Anton
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MSW
Verified Verified
New Orleans, LA 70112  (Online Only)
Is your sex life not up to par? Is your relationship in trouble & you feel disconnected? Is sex no longer pleasurable? Do medical conditions interfere with sexual functioning? Do you worry whether you're 'normal'? If you're struggling within yourself, your partnerships and/or marriage, treatment can greatly benefit your sexual life & bring you a healthier, more intimate & caring relationship. Kink Positive & Gender Affirming. Hello, I'm Tiffany & I am here to help. I assist individuals and couples in creating more intimate & fulfilling lives through psychotherapy that's compassionate, supportive & empowering. Online Therapy Solely
Is your sex life not up to par? Is your relationship in trouble & you feel disconnected? Is sex no longer pleasurable? Do medical conditions interfere with sexual functioning? Do you worry whether you're 'normal'? If you're struggling within yourself, your partnerships and/or marriage, treatment can greatly benefit your sexual life & bring you a healthier, more intimate & caring relationship. Kink Positive & Gender Affirming. Hello, I'm Tiffany & I am here to help. I assist individuals and couples in creating more intimate & fulfilling lives through psychotherapy that's compassionate, supportive & empowering. Online Therapy Solely
(985) 718-1083 View (985) 718-1083
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Susan Woodard
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, MDiv, CMAT
Verified Verified
8 Endorsed
New Orleans, LA 70115  (Online Only)
Some of the areas you might want to explore in therapy with me are: intimacy, sex & sexuality, trauma, relationship conflicts, addiction recovery, stress, anxiety, life transitions & goals, low self esteem, communication issues, dream work and transformational growth.
Chances are you're struggling to understand some area of your life, feeling stuck, hoping for new possibilities and outcomes. Maybe now is the time to reevaluate what you really want out of life and to make some changes. Perhaps the situation that has you most frustrated is providing you with an opportunity to look deep within yourself at the person you most fully want to be. I believe therapy is a partnership in which my responsibility is to provide you a safe, nonjudgmental and supportive space where you can bring whatever issues you wish to explore.
Some of the areas you might want to explore in therapy with me are: intimacy, sex & sexuality, trauma, relationship conflicts, addiction recovery, stress, anxiety, life transitions & goals, low self esteem, communication issues, dream work and transformational growth.
Chances are you're struggling to understand some area of your life, feeling stuck, hoping for new possibilities and outcomes. Maybe now is the time to reevaluate what you really want out of life and to make some changes. Perhaps the situation that has you most frustrated is providing you with an opportunity to look deep within yourself at the person you most fully want to be. I believe therapy is a partnership in which my responsibility is to provide you a safe, nonjudgmental and supportive space where you can bring whatever issues you wish to explore.
(855) 791-4528 View (855) 791-4528
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Catherine G. McDermott
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, LPC-S, NCC
Verified Verified
New Orleans, LA 70115
I have experience with issues such as anxiety, depression, self-esteem, self-worth, identity exploration, stress management, regulating behaviors and emotions, life transitions, self-harming, disordered eating, gender and sexuality, postpartum depression, social skill development, and mood disorders.
Therapy can be a powerful tool to help you change your life and achieve your goals. I am a compassionate, empathetic, and client-centered counselor who believes in empowering the client to take control. In therapy, we will establish goals and work towards accomplishing them using therapeutic techniques. I have a generalized private practice and enjoy working with many different types of people. I believe strongly that the therapeutic relationship can be a safe place for healing to happen and I hope to help you move forward with your life. I have extensive experience working with adolescents, adults, and couples.
I have experience with issues such as anxiety, depression, self-esteem, self-worth, identity exploration, stress management, regulating behaviors and emotions, life transitions, self-harming, disordered eating, gender and sexuality, postpartum depression, social skill development, and mood disorders.
Therapy can be a powerful tool to help you change your life and achieve your goals. I am a compassionate, empathetic, and client-centered counselor who believes in empowering the client to take control. In therapy, we will establish goals and work towards accomplishing them using therapeutic techniques. I have a generalized private practice and enjoy working with many different types of people. I believe strongly that the therapeutic relationship can be a safe place for healing to happen and I hope to help you move forward with your life. I have extensive experience working with adolescents, adults, and couples.
(504) 302-0322 View (504) 302-0322
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Anjali Healing Arts, LLC
MA, MHP, RYT-500
Verified Verified
New Orleans, LA 70116
My specialties include Personal and Spiritual Growth; C-PTSD; Masculinity and Men's Issues, Disordered Eating, Weight and Body Image Issues, Substance Abuse, Sex and Sexuality, Anxiety, Depression, Life Transitions, Intimacy Difficulties, LGBT/Queer Couples and Concerns, and Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention/Stress Reduction/Pain Management.
How you see yourself might be deeply influenced by the emotional distress, negative thought patterns, or destructive and addictive behaviors you struggle with. As a Holistic Health Practitioner, I believe these conditions cover up, rather than define, who you truly are. My unique approach to holistic health and wellness encourages a balanced integration of the physical, emotional, mental and spiritual aspects of your wellbeing. I'd like to support you in creating optimal conditions for the safe, mindful, and deep exploration of your innate capacity for self-healing and radical transformation.
My specialties include Personal and Spiritual Growth; C-PTSD; Masculinity and Men's Issues, Disordered Eating, Weight and Body Image Issues, Substance Abuse, Sex and Sexuality, Anxiety, Depression, Life Transitions, Intimacy Difficulties, LGBT/Queer Couples and Concerns, and Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention/Stress Reduction/Pain Management.
How you see yourself might be deeply influenced by the emotional distress, negative thought patterns, or destructive and addictive behaviors you struggle with. As a Holistic Health Practitioner, I believe these conditions cover up, rather than define, who you truly are. My unique approach to holistic health and wellness encourages a balanced integration of the physical, emotional, mental and spiritual aspects of your wellbeing. I'd like to support you in creating optimal conditions for the safe, mindful, and deep exploration of your innate capacity for self-healing and radical transformation.
(504) 882-9581 View (504) 882-9581
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Portia Gordon
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, RPT-S, LPC-S
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New Orleans, LA 70119  (Online Only)
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor- Supervisor and a Registered Play Therapist- Supervisor. I am currently accepting LPCAs for supervision in Texas, clients with insurance in Louisiana, and those paying out of pocket in Texas, Louisiana, and Florida. I specialize in working with the Queer community, BIPOC, survivors of trauma, those in polyamorous relationships, dealing with depression and anxiety, and those participating in sex work. I have sessions available on evenings, weekends, and virtual to accommodate work schedules and allow counseling to be a priority that you can keep.
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor- Supervisor and a Registered Play Therapist- Supervisor. I am currently accepting LPCAs for supervision in Texas, clients with insurance in Louisiana, and those paying out of pocket in Texas, Louisiana, and Florida. I specialize in working with the Queer community, BIPOC, survivors of trauma, those in polyamorous relationships, dealing with depression and anxiety, and those participating in sex work. I have sessions available on evenings, weekends, and virtual to accommodate work schedules and allow counseling to be a priority that you can keep.
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Katherine Wikrent
Pre-Licensed Professional, MS, PLPC
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
New Orleans, LA 70113
Our sessions are a safe, nonjudgemental space for all, including people who are LGBTQIA+, polyamorous, kinky, sex workers, or living with chronic pain or illness.
Imagine a life where you are confident and happy, your relationships are strong, and your past is healed. Picture a self-assured you, skilled at expressing your needs and boundaries and building healthy relationships. Whether you're seeking support as an individual, couple, or family, we'll work together to equip you with the tools to become this version of yourself. You can build self-esteem, overcome recurring arguments, and cultivate intimacy and trust in your relationships. If you're ready to gain a deeper understanding of yourself and loved ones and leave old patterns behind, I'm here to offer my guidance every step of the way.
Our sessions are a safe, nonjudgemental space for all, including people who are LGBTQIA+, polyamorous, kinky, sex workers, or living with chronic pain or illness.
Imagine a life where you are confident and happy, your relationships are strong, and your past is healed. Picture a self-assured you, skilled at expressing your needs and boundaries and building healthy relationships. Whether you're seeking support as an individual, couple, or family, we'll work together to equip you with the tools to become this version of yourself. You can build self-esteem, overcome recurring arguments, and cultivate intimacy and trust in your relationships. If you're ready to gain a deeper understanding of yourself and loved ones and leave old patterns behind, I'm here to offer my guidance every step of the way.
(504) 414-4565 View (504) 414-4565
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Emily Schumacher
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, ATR
Verified Verified
New Orleans, LA 70119
All are welcome in my office no matter how you identify your gender, sexuality, or type of relationship you are in.
In a marble carving class my professor once explained “You don’t get to tell the marble what to do. If you embrace it in its natural state the marble will reveal its form to you.” Meaning, no matter how hard one tries with a chisel and hammer the natural properties of the material itself will determine how it can be formed. This is my approach to therapy. To accept each client exactly as they are and allow them the space to choose and direct their own growth.
All are welcome in my office no matter how you identify your gender, sexuality, or type of relationship you are in.
In a marble carving class my professor once explained “You don’t get to tell the marble what to do. If you embrace it in its natural state the marble will reveal its form to you.” Meaning, no matter how hard one tries with a chisel and hammer the natural properties of the material itself will determine how it can be formed. This is my approach to therapy. To accept each client exactly as they are and allow them the space to choose and direct their own growth.
(504) 569-5345 View (504) 569-5345
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Solace Château
Licensed Professional Counselor, MFT, LPC-S, NCC, CIMHP
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
New Orleans, LA 70124
Waitlist for new clients
of Sex Educators Counselors and Therapists and holds a special interest in evaluating and treating communication difficulties, sexual dysfunction, and intimacy challenges with couples, including all relationship statuses.
We work with adults and couples to assist people with choosing solutions that help them improve their relationships by changing their behavior. We help clients look at their situations and problems as opportunities to explore their choices to work toward staying on track by meeting their goals in order to enhance their lives. We aid people in finding solutions for their problems instead of focusing only on the problem. This is a clinical outpatient setting and we help clients address all disorders listed in the Diagnostic Statistical Manual, 5th Edition - Text Revision (DSM-5-TR).
of Sex Educators Counselors and Therapists and holds a special interest in evaluating and treating communication difficulties, sexual dysfunction, and intimacy challenges with couples, including all relationship statuses.
We work with adults and couples to assist people with choosing solutions that help them improve their relationships by changing their behavior. We help clients look at their situations and problems as opportunities to explore their choices to work toward staying on track by meeting their goals in order to enhance their lives. We aid people in finding solutions for their problems instead of focusing only on the problem. This is a clinical outpatient setting and we help clients address all disorders listed in the Diagnostic Statistical Manual, 5th Edition - Text Revision (DSM-5-TR).
(504) 602-9953 View (504) 602-9953
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Dr. Michelle E. Wade
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC-S, NCC, ACS, BC-TMH
Verified Verified
New Orleans, LA 70122  (Online Only)
I can address most mental health concerns from depression, anxiety, anger manage, sexuality, and others.
Ultreya means Onward in Spanish. This sentiment is perfect for a mental health counselor, because our goals are about helping clients progress onward in their lives and to not let the past dictate their present or future. My intention with my practice is to help clients navigate their lives in a way that they become more self-aware and happy with the individual that they are, rather than who they think they should be based on the world around them.
I can address most mental health concerns from depression, anxiety, anger manage, sexuality, and others.
Ultreya means Onward in Spanish. This sentiment is perfect for a mental health counselor, because our goals are about helping clients progress onward in their lives and to not let the past dictate their present or future. My intention with my practice is to help clients navigate their lives in a way that they become more self-aware and happy with the individual that they are, rather than who they think they should be based on the world around them.
(504) 732-9113 View (504) 732-9113
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Scott J Brothers
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
New Orleans, LA 70123
I have been practicing as a Clinical Psychologist for 31 years, addressing the needs of individuals, couples, families, and institutions. I have particular expertise in the treatment of sex addiction and compulsivity, as well as relationship and intimacy difficulties. Since 2004, i have served as Clinical Consultant for the sex addiction and compulsion programs at Pine Grove in Hattiesburg, MS. The program is internationally recognized and is based on the ground-breaking work of Dr. Patrick Carnes. Furthermore, for several years, I was the Chief Psychologist for the Masters and Johnson program in New Orleans.
I have been practicing as a Clinical Psychologist for 31 years, addressing the needs of individuals, couples, families, and institutions. I have particular expertise in the treatment of sex addiction and compulsivity, as well as relationship and intimacy difficulties. Since 2004, i have served as Clinical Consultant for the sex addiction and compulsion programs at Pine Grove in Hattiesburg, MS. The program is internationally recognized and is based on the ground-breaking work of Dr. Patrick Carnes. Furthermore, for several years, I was the Chief Psychologist for the Masters and Johnson program in New Orleans.
(504) 576-0260 View (504) 576-0260
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The Uptown Counseling Center
PsyD, MP
Verified Verified
New Orleans, LA 70118
At the Uptown Counseling Center, we provide expert treatment for Eating Disorders, Addictive and Substance Abuse Disorders, Anxiety Disorders, Depressive Disorders, and Couples/Relational Therapy. Our staff is here to help you enjoy your better life.
At the Uptown Counseling Center, we provide expert treatment for Eating Disorders, Addictive and Substance Abuse Disorders, Anxiety Disorders, Depressive Disorders, and Couples/Relational Therapy. Our staff is here to help you enjoy your better life.
(504) 226-6425 View (504) 226-6425
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The Uptown Counseling Center of Mandeville
Psychologist, MP, PsyD
Verified Verified
New Orleans, LA 70118
At the Uptown Counseling Center of Mandeville, we provide expert treatment for Eating Disorders, Addictive and Substance Abuse Disorders, Anxiety Disorders, Depressive Disorders, and Couples/Relational Therapy. Our staff is here to help you enjoy your better life.
At the Uptown Counseling Center of Mandeville, we provide expert treatment for Eating Disorders, Addictive and Substance Abuse Disorders, Anxiety Disorders, Depressive Disorders, and Couples/Relational Therapy. Our staff is here to help you enjoy your better life.
(504) 442-5128 View (504) 442-5128
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Gabrielle Nata
Provisional Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, PLPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New Orleans, LA 70115
I specialize in couples and families navigating life transitions, pre-marital or pre-commitment preparation, parenting challenges, high conflict, intimacy and sexual dissatisfaction, and managing relationships with ADHD, anxiety, and depression. Throughout our lives we learn behaviors and patterns that offer a sense of safety, but later become ineffective and difficult to change. This often isn't realized until it impacts our relationships and feels like our world is unraveling. Together we can calm the chaos of the present to feel safe enough to change the patterns from the past impacting your life today.
I specialize in couples and families navigating life transitions, pre-marital or pre-commitment preparation, parenting challenges, high conflict, intimacy and sexual dissatisfaction, and managing relationships with ADHD, anxiety, and depression. Throughout our lives we learn behaviors and patterns that offer a sense of safety, but later become ineffective and difficult to change. This often isn't realized until it impacts our relationships and feels like our world is unraveling. Together we can calm the chaos of the present to feel safe enough to change the patterns from the past impacting your life today.
(504) 294-5346 View (504) 294-5346
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Dr. Christopher Barrilleaux
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, DSW, MATh, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
New Orleans, LA 70119
Clients with personal and interpersonal stress, caregiver stress, job stress; mood-altering behaviors; addictive spectrum disorders (substance abuse, gambling, sexual compulsivity, addictive relationship issues), depression & anxiety.
Clients with personal and interpersonal stress, caregiver stress, job stress; mood-altering behaviors; addictive spectrum disorders (substance abuse, gambling, sexual compulsivity, addictive relationship issues), depression & anxiety.
(504) 358-0171 View (504) 358-0171
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Emmanuel Paul
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New Orleans, LA 70131  (Online Only)
The ideal therapy client is an individual who actively seeks personal growth and emotional well-being. They may be grappling with various challenges, such as anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, or low self-esteem. What sets them apart is their authentic and sincere desire for change. Ultimately, the ideal client seeks a greater sense of fulfillment and balance in life. They believe in the potential for personal growth and are motivated to achieve a more meaningful existence. They understand that therapy can be a transformative journey that empowers them to lead a life aligned with their values, passions, and purpose.
The ideal therapy client is an individual who actively seeks personal growth and emotional well-being. They may be grappling with various challenges, such as anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, or low self-esteem. What sets them apart is their authentic and sincere desire for change. Ultimately, the ideal client seeks a greater sense of fulfillment and balance in life. They believe in the potential for personal growth and are motivated to achieve a more meaningful existence. They understand that therapy can be a transformative journey that empowers them to lead a life aligned with their values, passions, and purpose.
(504) 788-1545 View (504) 788-1545
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CARE Institute Inc.
LMFT, LPC
Verified Verified
New Orleans, LA 70115
CARE Institute offers various programs including FREE and low-cost teletherapy. Our clinicians approach therapy from a holistic systems perspective to assist clients with learning skills to address life challenges. Clinicians at CARE offer a wide range of expertise to assist clients. Our licensed clinicians are marriage and family therapists (LMFT/PLMFT), professional mental health counselors (LPC/PLPC), and Registered Play Therapists. Our CARE for Y'ALL teletherapy program clinicians are marriage & family therapy graduate students from nationally accredited MFT programs.
CARE Institute offers various programs including FREE and low-cost teletherapy. Our clinicians approach therapy from a holistic systems perspective to assist clients with learning skills to address life challenges. Clinicians at CARE offer a wide range of expertise to assist clients. Our licensed clinicians are marriage and family therapists (LMFT/PLMFT), professional mental health counselors (LPC/PLPC), and Registered Play Therapists. Our CARE for Y'ALL teletherapy program clinicians are marriage & family therapy graduate students from nationally accredited MFT programs.
(504) 384-2178 View (504) 384-2178
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Garry Eldridge
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, LPC-S, CSAT
Verified Verified
New Orleans, LA 70121
Are you at the end of your rope? Is your partner at the end of his/her rope with you? Have you let go of the rope? Has your partner? Garry knows exactly where you are, & what a dark, helpless, panicked place that is. He has the tools and expertise to assist you on your journey to find balance, healing, & freedom. He has also been a life-long learner & student of his own life’s journey, with all of the bumps, bruises, mistakes, growth, & change that is part of the healing process. As a result, Garry is uniquely equipped to walk beside you, guide & coach you to finding your Authentic Self lost in the chaos of sexual addiction.
Are you at the end of your rope? Is your partner at the end of his/her rope with you? Have you let go of the rope? Has your partner? Garry knows exactly where you are, & what a dark, helpless, panicked place that is. He has the tools and expertise to assist you on your journey to find balance, healing, & freedom. He has also been a life-long learner & student of his own life’s journey, with all of the bumps, bruises, mistakes, growth, & change that is part of the healing process. As a result, Garry is uniquely equipped to walk beside you, guide & coach you to finding your Authentic Self lost in the chaos of sexual addiction.
(504) 327-2144 View (504) 327-2144
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Nia M Morris-Woods
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, BACS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New Orleans, LA 70119
Hello and welcome to your journey in becoming your best self. I am a caring, compassionate and professional therapist. I believe therapist are the change agents that guide the therapeutic process while the clients make decisions that will benefit their lives by using their own best judgement. I am here to facilitate the process and witness the growth that will transform your life forever. Thank yourself for the courage to be better.
Hello and welcome to your journey in becoming your best self. I am a caring, compassionate and professional therapist. I believe therapist are the change agents that guide the therapeutic process while the clients make decisions that will benefit their lives by using their own best judgement. I am here to facilitate the process and witness the growth that will transform your life forever. Thank yourself for the courage to be better.
(504) 800-8381 View (504) 800-8381

Sex Therapy

Who is sex therapy for?

Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.

Why do people need sex therapy?

Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.

What happens in sex therapy?

People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.

What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?

Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.