Dr. Katie Mai Findley
Marriage & Family Therapist, PsyD, BCBA, LMFT, CGT Verified
Oakland, CA 94609
Offers online therapy
Being a UC Berkeley graduate and having postgraduate training and education from Stanford University, Yale University, Harvard University, the Gottman Institute, and Modern Sex Therapy Institute, Dr.
Dr. Findley is a Certified Gottman Couples Therapist and Sex Therapist. Get started today working towards a better tomorrow. Are you hitting the same roadblocks over and over? Wanting change but can't seem to make it happen? There is hope. Bring joy, humor, affection, sex, passion, and intimacy back into the relationship with evidenced based methods. Have orgasms, increase libido, last longer in bed, maintain erection, stop pain during intercourse, and discover how to best please your partner sexually. Learn to express empathy, repair after a fight, communicate, manage conflict, and listen better.
(707) 475-3959
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Oakland, CA 94609
Offers online therapy
Being a UC Berkeley graduate and having postgraduate training and education from Stanford University, Yale University, Harvard University, the Gottman Institute, and Modern Sex Therapy Institute, Dr.
Dr. Findley is a Certified Gottman Couples Therapist and Sex Therapist. Get started today working towards a better tomorrow. Are you hitting the same roadblocks over and over? Wanting change but can't seem to make it happen? There is hope. Bring joy, humor, affection, sex, passion, and intimacy back into the relationship with evidenced based methods. Have orgasms, increase libido, last longer in bed, maintain erection, stop pain during intercourse, and discover how to best please your partner sexually. Learn to express empathy, repair after a fight, communicate, manage conflict, and listen better.
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Victoria J King
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT Verified
Oakland, CA 94609
Offers online therapy
As a life-long learner, I have taken various trainings in Sex Therapy, Somatica Method, EFT, PACT, EMDR, Hypnosis, Coaching, and more.
As a Sex & Relationship Therapist, I come from a person-centered, open-minded, sex-positive, trauma-informed, attachment-oriented, and multi-cultural perspective, to support my clients in creating a healthy, satisfying, and empowered sexuality and relationship with oneself and others. I enjoy working with individuals, couples, and partners struggling with relationship & attachment issues, communication challenges, low libido/sex drive, differing/mismatched desires, and erectile/orgasm issues. I work with diverse populations from various races, cultures, identities and lifestyle choices.
(510) 756-3510
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Oakland, CA 94609
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As a life-long learner, I have taken various trainings in Sex Therapy, Somatica Method, EFT, PACT, EMDR, Hypnosis, Coaching, and more.
As a Sex & Relationship Therapist, I come from a person-centered, open-minded, sex-positive, trauma-informed, attachment-oriented, and multi-cultural perspective, to support my clients in creating a healthy, satisfying, and empowered sexuality and relationship with oneself and others. I enjoy working with individuals, couples, and partners struggling with relationship & attachment issues, communication challenges, low libido/sex drive, differing/mismatched desires, and erectile/orgasm issues. I work with diverse populations from various races, cultures, identities and lifestyle choices.
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Adam Eigner-Herrera, PhD
Psychologist, PhD Verified
Office is near:
Oakland, CA 94612
Having trained in couples and sex therapy extensively since the 90's, I offer expert guidance to individuals and couples wanting to improve their relationships.
If you want a more satisfying relationship, a more positive sense of yourself and life's possibilities, or an improved sex life, consult with a California and New Mexico licensed psychologist with over 25 years experience working successfully with individuals and couples from many cultures, with specialized training in effective treatment of couples and sexual issues. Providing tele/video-therapy to clients anywhere in California or New Mexico. Call me for prompt attention and for a free telephone consultation.
(510) 592-4933
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Office is near:
Oakland, CA 94612
Having trained in couples and sex therapy extensively since the 90's, I offer expert guidance to individuals and couples wanting to improve their relationships.
If you want a more satisfying relationship, a more positive sense of yourself and life's possibilities, or an improved sex life, consult with a California and New Mexico licensed psychologist with over 25 years experience working successfully with individuals and couples from many cultures, with specialized training in effective treatment of couples and sexual issues. Providing tele/video-therapy to clients anywhere in California or New Mexico. Call me for prompt attention and for a free telephone consultation.
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East Bay Intimacy & Sex Therapy Center
PsyD Verified
Office is near:
Oakland, CA 94610
Offers online therapy
East Bay Intimacy & Sex Therapy Center was created with the goal of making the practice of sex & intimacy therapy more relationship-focused & accessible, without the stigma & confusion that often accompanies misperceptions about couples & sex therapy. We offer attachment-based sex therapy & couples counseling. We believe that healthy relationships are at the core of how change & healing occur. Having a healthy sexual relationship to one's self or partner(s) is vital to overall wellbeing. We strive to support & promote lifelong change that will allow you to form sustainable, loving & equitable relationships, & an overall sense of health wellbeing.
(510) 694-2664
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Office is near:
Oakland, CA 94610
Offers online therapy
East Bay Intimacy & Sex Therapy Center was created with the goal of making the practice of sex & intimacy therapy more relationship-focused & accessible, without the stigma & confusion that often accompanies misperceptions about couples & sex therapy. We offer attachment-based sex therapy & couples counseling. We believe that healthy relationships are at the core of how change & healing occur. Having a healthy sexual relationship to one's self or partner(s) is vital to overall wellbeing. We strive to support & promote lifelong change that will allow you to form sustainable, loving & equitable relationships, & an overall sense of health wellbeing.
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Sandra Lindholm
Psychologist, PsyD, MSN, NP Verified
Office is near:
Oakland, CA 94601
Offers online therapy
What is sex therapy? Sex therapy is a sub-specialty (form of) psychotherapy that focuses on issues related to an individual's or couple's sexuality. Common reasons for seeking sex therapy include low sexual desire, couples with differences in sexual desire, difficulty with sexual arousal/excitement and orgasm, sexual anxiety, erection and ejaculation problems, a history of sexual trauma and pain with sex. Individuals with medical problems, injuries or medication side effects affecting their sex life can enjoy improved sex from sex therapy. Some people seek sex therapy to enhance an already satisfactory erotic life.
(925) 705-4406
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Office is near:
Oakland, CA 94601
Offers online therapy
What is sex therapy? Sex therapy is a sub-specialty (form of) psychotherapy that focuses on issues related to an individual's or couple's sexuality. Common reasons for seeking sex therapy include low sexual desire, couples with differences in sexual desire, difficulty with sexual arousal/excitement and orgasm, sexual anxiety, erection and ejaculation problems, a history of sexual trauma and pain with sex. Individuals with medical problems, injuries or medication side effects affecting their sex life can enjoy improved sex from sex therapy. Some people seek sex therapy to enhance an already satisfactory erotic life.
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Luke (Frank Luke) Adams
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CCS, CHT, SUDS, CST Verified
Office is near:
Oakland, CA 94609
Offers online therapy
I integrate depth/meaning psychotherapy, evidence-based tools, sex therapy, coaching, counseling.
Do other therapists seem judgmental? Don't understand? Won't listen to you? If you need to talk about anything and everything, clients tell me I have a strong capacity for compassion, empathy, and care. At the same time, I’m forthright and candid. I see you and hear you—a whole person (body, mind, spirit) living in an interactive and interconnected world. I believe you're the expert in you--even if you're not yet aware of it. My role is to help you find that, and bring my own holistic vision, experience, training, expertise, and tools to the table, so you can work to be the best possible version of you.
(415) 666-2381
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Office is near:
Oakland, CA 94609
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I integrate depth/meaning psychotherapy, evidence-based tools, sex therapy, coaching, counseling.
Do other therapists seem judgmental? Don't understand? Won't listen to you? If you need to talk about anything and everything, clients tell me I have a strong capacity for compassion, empathy, and care. At the same time, I’m forthright and candid. I see you and hear you—a whole person (body, mind, spirit) living in an interactive and interconnected world. I believe you're the expert in you--even if you're not yet aware of it. My role is to help you find that, and bring my own holistic vision, experience, training, expertise, and tools to the table, so you can work to be the best possible version of you.
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Nancy Ortiz
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW Verified
Office is near:
Oakland, CA 94606
Offers online therapy
Welcome! I am a Sex Therapist & Psychotherapist and I specialize in cultural centered sex therapy and psychotherapy. I can support you in creating a fulfilling sex life and achieve emotional wellness. Are you seeking to improve your communication of sexual needs/wants, explore gender and sexuality, feel less shame about sexual interests/behaviors, recover from sexual harm or infidelity, have pleasurable sex, and strengthen intimacy with your partner(s)? If you are ready to commit to your wellness and prioritize your pleasure and health, then please contact me to inquire about next steps and schedule your free phone consultation.
(323) 347-5383
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Office is near:
Oakland, CA 94606
Offers online therapy
Welcome! I am a Sex Therapist & Psychotherapist and I specialize in cultural centered sex therapy and psychotherapy. I can support you in creating a fulfilling sex life and achieve emotional wellness. Are you seeking to improve your communication of sexual needs/wants, explore gender and sexuality, feel less shame about sexual interests/behaviors, recover from sexual harm or infidelity, have pleasurable sex, and strengthen intimacy with your partner(s)? If you are ready to commit to your wellness and prioritize your pleasure and health, then please contact me to inquire about next steps and schedule your free phone consultation.
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Daniel Nathan Weiner
Psychologist, PhD Verified
Oakland, CA 94618
Daniel N. Weiner received his Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology from the State University of New York in 1996 with fellowships at Rutgers, Brown, and Stanford Medical Schools. He served as Clinical Assistant Professor at Brown University Medical School for four years. He has been licensed as a Clinical Psychologist since 1997, and has worked in a variety of settings including an independent psychological practice, a private psychiatric hospital, and a medical practice. He is currently an Assistant Clinical Professor in the Department of Psychology at the University of California, Berkeley.
(510) 330-2857
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Oakland, CA 94618
Daniel N. Weiner received his Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology from the State University of New York in 1996 with fellowships at Rutgers, Brown, and Stanford Medical Schools. He served as Clinical Assistant Professor at Brown University Medical School for four years. He has been licensed as a Clinical Psychologist since 1997, and has worked in a variety of settings including an independent psychological practice, a private psychiatric hospital, and a medical practice. He is currently an Assistant Clinical Professor in the Department of Psychology at the University of California, Berkeley.
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Leticia Brown
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT Verified
Oakland, CA 94610
Offers online therapy
Are you struggling with sexuality-related issues? Access to sexual health is a right. This includes expression of sexuality that is safe, free of judgment and shame, and centers pleasure. As queer folx, or queer folx of color, we've been told that our sexuality is wrong in so many ways. While the experience of marginalization is traumatic, we also have so much beautiful resiliency and abundant inner resourcefulness to counter that. I believe that we all deserve the right to heal, and that we all have the tools within ourselves to do so. My job is to partner with you & support gaining access to that intuitive healer within.
(628) 300-0850
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Oakland, CA 94610
Offers online therapy
Are you struggling with sexuality-related issues? Access to sexual health is a right. This includes expression of sexuality that is safe, free of judgment and shame, and centers pleasure. As queer folx, or queer folx of color, we've been told that our sexuality is wrong in so many ways. While the experience of marginalization is traumatic, we also have so much beautiful resiliency and abundant inner resourcefulness to counter that. I believe that we all deserve the right to heal, and that we all have the tools within ourselves to do so. My job is to partner with you & support gaining access to that intuitive healer within.
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Rafinee Butler
Marriage & Family Therapist, DHS, PCC, LMFT Verified
Oakland, CA 94612
Offers online therapy
In working together, I will help you identify themes and patterns of feeling and thinking that create barriers to having healthy relationships and preventing you from living life to your fullest potential. I emphasize meeting you where you are at and expanding in ways that are attuned to your needs and your experiences in your social context. I aim for a therapeutic relationship that allows for an experience of respect and equal engagement that is crucial to the foundation of change and exploration.
(531) 202-5882
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Oakland, CA 94612
Offers online therapy
In working together, I will help you identify themes and patterns of feeling and thinking that create barriers to having healthy relationships and preventing you from living life to your fullest potential. I emphasize meeting you where you are at and expanding in ways that are attuned to your needs and your experiences in your social context. I aim for a therapeutic relationship that allows for an experience of respect and equal engagement that is crucial to the foundation of change and exploration.
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Audre Mowry
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT Verified
Oakland, CA 94610
Offers online therapy
Welcome. Firstly, I want to acknowledge you for taking this first step in finding a therapist, I am so glad you are here. Finding a therapist can be a hard and vulnerable process, and I feel honored that you are considering me. I believe that psychotherapy is a collaborative relationship which starts with the connection we build together. As the therapeutic relationship develops, so does the trust and ability to be challenged and grow. I enjoy supporting my clients to reach their fullest potential. I have particular specialties working with adults, teens and children in Grief & Loss and Sexuality & Gender.
(510) 892-2652
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Oakland, CA 94610
Offers online therapy
Welcome. Firstly, I want to acknowledge you for taking this first step in finding a therapist, I am so glad you are here. Finding a therapist can be a hard and vulnerable process, and I feel honored that you are considering me. I believe that psychotherapy is a collaborative relationship which starts with the connection we build together. As the therapeutic relationship develops, so does the trust and ability to be challenged and grow. I enjoy supporting my clients to reach their fullest potential. I have particular specialties working with adults, teens and children in Grief & Loss and Sexuality & Gender.
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Sheila Addison
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT Verified
Oakland, CA 94610
Offers online therapy
Building relationships to last a lifetime! I work with * Individuals from all walks of life * Couples of all kinds - married, co-habitating, dating, divorced * Families of all sorts * Gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender people and their partners and families * People who are part of the kink community, or who participate in BDSM in their personal lives * People in open, non-monogamous, polyamorous, or other non-traditional relationships * Cross-cultural couples and families * Genderqueer folks * Current or former workers in the sex industry * People with body image and self-acceptance issues * People with all kinds of mental and physical health problems
(510) 403-1458
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Oakland, CA 94610
Offers online therapy
Building relationships to last a lifetime! I work with * Individuals from all walks of life * Couples of all kinds - married, co-habitating, dating, divorced * Families of all sorts * Gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender people and their partners and families * People who are part of the kink community, or who participate in BDSM in their personal lives * People in open, non-monogamous, polyamorous, or other non-traditional relationships * Cross-cultural couples and families * Genderqueer folks * Current or former workers in the sex industry * People with body image and self-acceptance issues * People with all kinds of mental and physical health problems
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Noelle Clason
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT Verified
Oakland, CA 94611
Offers online therapy
I provide sex-positive therapy to individuals, relationships, and adult families. Most of my clients have non-mainstream sexual, gender, and/or relationship identities. Many identify as non-monogamous, are considering opening or creatively designing their relationship(s); I help them to create agreements, move through jealousy, heal from infidelities, build trust, and improve communication with partners and metamours. I work with queer, transgender, and nonbinary clients just beginning to question and explore their identities, and those who have been out for years and need therapy from a clinician familiar with queer issues.
(510) 907-6191
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Oakland, CA 94611
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I provide sex-positive therapy to individuals, relationships, and adult families. Most of my clients have non-mainstream sexual, gender, and/or relationship identities. Many identify as non-monogamous, are considering opening or creatively designing their relationship(s); I help them to create agreements, move through jealousy, heal from infidelities, build trust, and improve communication with partners and metamours. I work with queer, transgender, and nonbinary clients just beginning to question and explore their identities, and those who have been out for years and need therapy from a clinician familiar with queer issues.
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Astraea Bella, LCSW
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW Verified
Oakland, CA 94610
Offers online therapy
The quality of our relationships determines the quality of our lives. Most of us didn't learn how to create fulfilling romantic relationships from our families, schools, or culture. Conflict, distance, not knowing the way forward, these are all very common struggles. Fortunately, in depth scientific research has revealed the key skills that lead to happy relationships. Ground breaking research into gender, sexuality, and eroticism has also revealed the key skills that lead to pleasure fulfillment. With these advanced skills in hand, you can learn how to bring out the best in you and your partner.
(510) 342-3919
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Oakland, CA 94610
Offers online therapy
The quality of our relationships determines the quality of our lives. Most of us didn't learn how to create fulfilling romantic relationships from our families, schools, or culture. Conflict, distance, not knowing the way forward, these are all very common struggles. Fortunately, in depth scientific research has revealed the key skills that lead to happy relationships. Ground breaking research into gender, sexuality, and eroticism has also revealed the key skills that lead to pleasure fulfillment. With these advanced skills in hand, you can learn how to bring out the best in you and your partner.
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Frankie Bashan
Psychologist, PsyD Verified
Oakland, CA 94610
Offers online therapy
I believe that we all have the intrinsic ability to reach our full potential; that "self-actualization is growth-motivated rather than deficiency-motivated". It is our life experiences and toxic interactions with others that often prevent us from realizing this potential on our own. Although I was trained psychodynamically, my approach is integrative and driven by the needs of the individual client. I practice in a warm, relational, and collaborative manner. I have extensive experience working with children, adolescents, individual adults and couples. I help clients identify what is holding them back from effecting positive change. I help clients be more mindful and less fearful, thereby allowing them to attain more meaningful healthy relationships.
(415) 992-6273
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Oakland, CA 94610
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I believe that we all have the intrinsic ability to reach our full potential; that "self-actualization is growth-motivated rather than deficiency-motivated". It is our life experiences and toxic interactions with others that often prevent us from realizing this potential on our own. Although I was trained psychodynamically, my approach is integrative and driven by the needs of the individual client. I practice in a warm, relational, and collaborative manner. I have extensive experience working with children, adolescents, individual adults and couples. I help clients identify what is holding them back from effecting positive change. I help clients be more mindful and less fearful, thereby allowing them to attain more meaningful healthy relationships.
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Belinda Garcia Uriarte de Roehl
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT Verified
Oakland, CA 94610
Offers online therapy
Working in non profits and government services for 20 plus years both in San Francisco and Alameda County, has taught me the art of appreciating people for who they are, keeping an open mind and helping them see their own strength within. I am very excited to be in private practice. Working with couples , parents, and individuals. I am very curious and passionate about non traditional coupling, open relationships, polyamory, issues of infidelity and the sexual needs of couples and individuals. I believe that we can heal intuitively and I look forward to meeting people willing to share that journey with me.
(510) 216-1720
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Oakland, CA 94610
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Working in non profits and government services for 20 plus years both in San Francisco and Alameda County, has taught me the art of appreciating people for who they are, keeping an open mind and helping them see their own strength within. I am very excited to be in private practice. Working with couples , parents, and individuals. I am very curious and passionate about non traditional coupling, open relationships, polyamory, issues of infidelity and the sexual needs of couples and individuals. I believe that we can heal intuitively and I look forward to meeting people willing to share that journey with me.
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Julia Simone Fogelson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW Verified
Oakland, CA 94611
Not accepting new clients
Hello and welcome! I offer therapy to adults, teens and couples. I believe therapy is a collaborative process; you can think of me as a companion as we travel down the roads of your growth together. If you have been thinking about starting therapy, I invite you to contact me. You deserve to heal and grow towards your best life. I have helped many clients with issues such as anxiety, depression and life changes. I am committed to helping my clients become the most authentic version of themselves. I love working with issues around sex, body image, gender & with members of the LGBTQIA* community.
(510) 681-0729
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Oakland, CA 94611
Not accepting new clients
Hello and welcome! I offer therapy to adults, teens and couples. I believe therapy is a collaborative process; you can think of me as a companion as we travel down the roads of your growth together. If you have been thinking about starting therapy, I invite you to contact me. You deserve to heal and grow towards your best life. I have helped many clients with issues such as anxiety, depression and life changes. I am committed to helping my clients become the most authentic version of themselves. I love working with issues around sex, body image, gender & with members of the LGBTQIA* community.
Ayala Kalisher
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT Verified
Oakland, CA 94610
Offers online therapy
You are likely coming into therapy because you are in pain or experiencing longing for things to be different. This human experience can be messy and vast, I welcome all of it. I will meet you from a place of compassion and non-judgment and with a focus on present moment. Themes people come to explore with me include: •Challenges with connection and in relationships (friendships, romantic relationships or familial) • Self-exploration and empowerment • Issues around sex and sexuality including but not limited to shame, confusion or disconnection- wanting to have a more fulfilling relationship to your body and sexuality
(707) 708-4573
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Oakland, CA 94610
Offers online therapy
You are likely coming into therapy because you are in pain or experiencing longing for things to be different. This human experience can be messy and vast, I welcome all of it. I will meet you from a place of compassion and non-judgment and with a focus on present moment. Themes people come to explore with me include: •Challenges with connection and in relationships (friendships, romantic relationships or familial) • Self-exploration and empowerment • Issues around sex and sexuality including but not limited to shame, confusion or disconnection- wanting to have a more fulfilling relationship to your body and sexuality
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Jim Conwell MFT
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT Verified
Oakland, CA 94611
Offers online therapy
I specialize in effective couples therapy. Additionally, I work with adult individuals, and men with issues in the area of sexuality and intimacy. In working with couples I find it useful to focus on & support self-responsibility, communication (very much including listening - especially when listening is hard), expectations, self-awareness, and building skill in how to remain intimate when relating becomes difficult. Through the whole process I integrate a focus on kindness without abandoning or avoiding the truth. I also specialize in assisting and supporting men with building the skill and ability to feel and share their feelings in intimate relationships.
(925) 290-8785
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Oakland, CA 94611
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I specialize in effective couples therapy. Additionally, I work with adult individuals, and men with issues in the area of sexuality and intimacy. In working with couples I find it useful to focus on & support self-responsibility, communication (very much including listening - especially when listening is hard), expectations, self-awareness, and building skill in how to remain intimate when relating becomes difficult. Through the whole process I integrate a focus on kindness without abandoning or avoiding the truth. I also specialize in assisting and supporting men with building the skill and ability to feel and share their feelings in intimate relationships.
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Lisa Wild
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT Verified
Oakland, CA 94618
Offers online therapy
I enjoy working with people who want a different outcome than what they've been getting. If something isn't working out for you or you feel like you are not being your true self, then let's collaborate on how you might be able to do something differently. I have extensive experience working with adolescents, adults and families. Issues regarding our identities, how we relate with others and how we cope with challenges are my specialties. I want to support you to improve your relationship with yourself and with those you care about.
(510) 768-7256
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Oakland, CA 94618
Offers online therapy
I enjoy working with people who want a different outcome than what they've been getting. If something isn't working out for you or you feel like you are not being your true self, then let's collaborate on how you might be able to do something differently. I have extensive experience working with adolescents, adults and families. Issues regarding our identities, how we relate with others and how we cope with challenges are my specialties. I want to support you to improve your relationship with yourself and with those you care about.

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Sex Therapy
Sex therapists in Oakland offer help with sexual concerns by educating, using talk therapy, offering homework exercises and resources for further exploration to either individuals or couples. Sex therapy helps couples talk about sex with each other. A sex therapist feels comfortable talking about sex and is aware of how anxious you might feel talking about this intimate subject with each other and with a near-stranger. They will help set you at ease and guide you into talking about sex. While sex therapists can help with many problems, low sexual desire and frequency disagreements between partners are two of the most frequent concerns they address.