Sex Therapists in Tempe, AZ

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Sophia Low
Pre-Licensed Professional, MS, BHT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tempe, AZ 85282
and I am informed about various aspects of sex-positive, kink communities, human sexuality, trauma, anxiety, sexual abuse, sexuality across all cultures and work with all age groups.
There are various obstacles life presents to us that leave us with many emotions to process. I have a Masters from Colorado Christian University in Clinical Mental Health with emphasis on Addiction and Chemical Dependencies, and a graduate from the Sexual Health Alliance and am pre-licensed with the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT) as a Sex Therapist providing in-depth psychotherapy treating clients with sexual issues and concerns. I emphasize the importance of faith-based practice and have strengths in substance abuse, addiction, chemical dependencies, couples, pre/marital,
and I am informed about various aspects of sex-positive, kink communities, human sexuality, trauma, anxiety, sexual abuse, sexuality across all cultures and work with all age groups.
There are various obstacles life presents to us that leave us with many emotions to process. I have a Masters from Colorado Christian University in Clinical Mental Health with emphasis on Addiction and Chemical Dependencies, and a graduate from the Sexual Health Alliance and am pre-licensed with the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT) as a Sex Therapist providing in-depth psychotherapy treating clients with sexual issues and concerns. I emphasize the importance of faith-based practice and have strengths in substance abuse, addiction, chemical dependencies, couples, pre/marital,
(480) 696-5355 View (480) 696-5355
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Katie Petersen
Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Tempe, AZ 85283
I enjoy working with singles, couples, and families to improve relationships and sex as well as manage anxiety and heal trauma.
Do you struggle to communicate effectively or resolve conflict? Want to rekindle or deepen intimacy? Have a sexual problem to solve? Strong, fulfilling relationships are the cornerstone of a happy, balanced life and healthy sexuality is integral to your well-being. Regardless of your past, the relationship you’re currently in or would like to be in, I can help you get there. I'll give you the tools, practices, and mindset to get you where you want to be. Find connection and peace with yourself and others!
I enjoy working with singles, couples, and families to improve relationships and sex as well as manage anxiety and heal trauma.
Do you struggle to communicate effectively or resolve conflict? Want to rekindle or deepen intimacy? Have a sexual problem to solve? Strong, fulfilling relationships are the cornerstone of a happy, balanced life and healthy sexuality is integral to your well-being. Regardless of your past, the relationship you’re currently in or would like to be in, I can help you get there. I'll give you the tools, practices, and mindset to get you where you want to be. Find connection and peace with yourself and others!
(928) 236-9221 View (928) 236-9221
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Stefani Goerlich
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LMSW-C, LCSW, LISW, CST
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Tempe, AZ 85280  (Online Only)
As a Sex Therapist, I work to normalize your feelings and your desires, and offer compassionate guidance in order to create richer, joyful, more meaningful relationships with your body, your partner(s), and yourself.
It’s hard to tell someone else your deepest secrets. The truth about your gender, your desires, your struggling relationship. You’re left feeling alienated and unsure if you will ever find the kind of true connection that you crave. You know deep inside that relationships and intimacy are meant to be wonderful…but something is holding you back. Fear of rejection. Fear of judgement. Fear of not being enough. Fear of not knowing what to do. Fear of being alone. I'm here to help with this sense of disconnection and despair. I believe we all deserve to love and be loved- and especially, to love ourselves.
As a Sex Therapist, I work to normalize your feelings and your desires, and offer compassionate guidance in order to create richer, joyful, more meaningful relationships with your body, your partner(s), and yourself.
It’s hard to tell someone else your deepest secrets. The truth about your gender, your desires, your struggling relationship. You’re left feeling alienated and unsure if you will ever find the kind of true connection that you crave. You know deep inside that relationships and intimacy are meant to be wonderful…but something is holding you back. Fear of rejection. Fear of judgement. Fear of not being enough. Fear of not knowing what to do. Fear of being alone. I'm here to help with this sense of disconnection and despair. I believe we all deserve to love and be loved- and especially, to love ourselves.
(586) 859-0018 View (586) 859-0018
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Dr. Dylan Richard
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tempe, AZ 85281  (Online Only)
I specialize in trauma/PTSD, sexuality and sexual concerns, LGBTQIA2S+ issues, ADHD, Alt-Sex and "Alternative" relationships, psychodiagnostic assessment/testing, and personality disorders (such as borderline personality disorder).
Are you seeking a compassionate, experienced, and authentic psychologist to join you in your journey towards mental wellness and self-discovery? Are you looking for someone who doesn't fit the stereotypical mold of "psychologist"? Are you seeking a psychologist who is affirming and understanding of what it is like to be queer, polyamorous, kinky, neurodivergent, and/or alternative? When meeting with a new therapist, do you feel as though you spend way too much time educating them rather than on your actual concerns? Well look no further!
I specialize in trauma/PTSD, sexuality and sexual concerns, LGBTQIA2S+ issues, ADHD, Alt-Sex and "Alternative" relationships, psychodiagnostic assessment/testing, and personality disorders (such as borderline personality disorder).
Are you seeking a compassionate, experienced, and authentic psychologist to join you in your journey towards mental wellness and self-discovery? Are you looking for someone who doesn't fit the stereotypical mold of "psychologist"? Are you seeking a psychologist who is affirming and understanding of what it is like to be queer, polyamorous, kinky, neurodivergent, and/or alternative? When meeting with a new therapist, do you feel as though you spend way too much time educating them rather than on your actual concerns? Well look no further!
(520) 523-4949 View (520) 523-4949
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Aguilu Healing Services, LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CSAT-Ca, CCTS-A
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tempe, AZ 85281  (Online Only)
Se habla ESPAÑOL. Adlin is a board-certified Licensed Clinical Social Worker who works with clients facing challenges with their sex life, addictions, trauma, depression, anxiety, grief and loss, eating disorders, and body image issues. Adlin offers 16+ years of experience assisting clients to find healing and growth. She understands that life can be challenging, and sometimes support is needed to navigate through difficult times. Adlin provides a safe and confidential space where clients can explore their feelings and work towards positive change. Adlin assists with self-discovery, healing, and empowerment.
Se habla ESPAÑOL. Adlin is a board-certified Licensed Clinical Social Worker who works with clients facing challenges with their sex life, addictions, trauma, depression, anxiety, grief and loss, eating disorders, and body image issues. Adlin offers 16+ years of experience assisting clients to find healing and growth. She understands that life can be challenging, and sometimes support is needed to navigate through difficult times. Adlin provides a safe and confidential space where clients can explore their feelings and work towards positive change. Adlin assists with self-discovery, healing, and empowerment.
(623) 343-4401 View (623) 343-4401
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Michelle Fowler
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Tempe, AZ 85280
Concerns for the relationship may include past trauma, a betrayal, parenting, and sex.
Wellness comes from balance in all the areas of our lives: emotional, physical, social, and spiritual. Often things come up that tip the scales beyond what we can handle on our own. In counseling we work together to help you find that balance again, develop skills where needed, and move you into a healthier place. With a strong background in biology the approach to counseling is very solution focused and takes into account the natural tendencies and responses that may work against wellbeing. I work with couples and individuals looking at issues including depression, anxiety, trauma, and ADHD.
Concerns for the relationship may include past trauma, a betrayal, parenting, and sex.
Wellness comes from balance in all the areas of our lives: emotional, physical, social, and spiritual. Often things come up that tip the scales beyond what we can handle on our own. In counseling we work together to help you find that balance again, develop skills where needed, and move you into a healthier place. With a strong background in biology the approach to counseling is very solution focused and takes into account the natural tendencies and responses that may work against wellbeing. I work with couples and individuals looking at issues including depression, anxiety, trauma, and ADHD.
(480) 470-3049 View (480) 470-3049
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Love Life Therapy Center, LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tempe, AZ 85281
Our therapists have or are engaged in specialized training in trauma, sex therapy, and/or relationship concerns.
Hello! Making the decision to see a therapist and begin psychotherapy takes courage and we are honored that you chose to consider our practice as an option. It is our goal to help you uncover truths about yourself and your relationships so that you may live your best life possible. This practice has an emphasis in supporting clients with sexual health, trauma, relationship(s), and/or identity concerns. Individuals and folx in any form of romantic partnerships of any gender and/or sexual orientation are welcome. This is a BIPOC, LGBTQIA+, ENM, Kink and otherwise culturally-affirming practice.
Our therapists have or are engaged in specialized training in trauma, sex therapy, and/or relationship concerns.
Hello! Making the decision to see a therapist and begin psychotherapy takes courage and we are honored that you chose to consider our practice as an option. It is our goal to help you uncover truths about yourself and your relationships so that you may live your best life possible. This practice has an emphasis in supporting clients with sexual health, trauma, relationship(s), and/or identity concerns. Individuals and folx in any form of romantic partnerships of any gender and/or sexual orientation are welcome. This is a BIPOC, LGBTQIA+, ENM, Kink and otherwise culturally-affirming practice.
(520) 263-9548 View (520) 263-9548
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Angela Wilson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tempe, AZ 85282
Waitlist for new clients
As a meadows trained, sex therapist, and trauma specialist, I dive deeply into childhood issues helping you discover the root causes of depression, anxiety, substance abuse, sex addiction, and dysfunctional relationship patterns (such as the love addicted/love avoidant pattern), and attachment styles. Learn about how to heal from toxic relationships, narcissistic partners, trauma and codependency. Learn about the root of dysfunctional thinking patterns and how trauma shapes how you attach to others, who you date and what you attract.
As a meadows trained, sex therapist, and trauma specialist, I dive deeply into childhood issues helping you discover the root causes of depression, anxiety, substance abuse, sex addiction, and dysfunctional relationship patterns (such as the love addicted/love avoidant pattern), and attachment styles. Learn about how to heal from toxic relationships, narcissistic partners, trauma and codependency. Learn about the root of dysfunctional thinking patterns and how trauma shapes how you attach to others, who you date and what you attract.
(602) 932-0976 View (602) 932-0976
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Alexandra Coker
Licensed Associate Counselor, LAC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tempe, AZ 85282  (Online Only)
If you are a man navigating marital challenges, serving in the military, working as a first responder, or experiencing psychosexual issues, depression, or PTSD, I am dedicated to offering a supportive and understanding environment to foster your well-being. My approach integrates innovative therapies like brainspotting and EMDR, renowned for their effectiveness in deeper emotional processing and healing. I specialize in addressing the unique needs of men in demanding roles and situations, providing tailored support for those facing the intricate challenges of marital dynamics, the stresses of military and first responder duties, and
If you are a man navigating marital challenges, serving in the military, working as a first responder, or experiencing psychosexual issues, depression, or PTSD, I am dedicated to offering a supportive and understanding environment to foster your well-being. My approach integrates innovative therapies like brainspotting and EMDR, renowned for their effectiveness in deeper emotional processing and healing. I specialize in addressing the unique needs of men in demanding roles and situations, providing tailored support for those facing the intricate challenges of marital dynamics, the stresses of military and first responder duties, and
(480) 470-5606 View (480) 470-5606
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Claudette Waite New Point Of View Counseling
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, NCC, C-DBT, EMDR
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tempe, AZ 85282
"Shame cannot survive being spoken and being met with empathy" Brene Brown. My goal is to support your healing, to hold a sacred space that feels safe to you and where you no longer feel alone in your pain. I specialize in helping people with attachment / relationship wounding trauma , family disconnection/dysfunction, divorce, codependency, self-esteem, and relationship problems. If you struggle with fear of abandonment, unstable relationships and self-image I can help. If you struggle with not being good enough, chronic feelings of unworthiness, control, the need to be perfect and comparing yourself to others, then call me.
"Shame cannot survive being spoken and being met with empathy" Brene Brown. My goal is to support your healing, to hold a sacred space that feels safe to you and where you no longer feel alone in your pain. I specialize in helping people with attachment / relationship wounding trauma , family disconnection/dysfunction, divorce, codependency, self-esteem, and relationship problems. If you struggle with fear of abandonment, unstable relationships and self-image I can help. If you struggle with not being good enough, chronic feelings of unworthiness, control, the need to be perfect and comparing yourself to others, then call me.
(602) 783-8831 View (602) 783-8831
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Maria L Peralta
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MH
Verified Verified
Tempe, AZ 85283
Beginning therapy is an important decision and you deserve to find a therapist you’re comfortable with! Working with a qualified mental health practitioner can help provide clarity. We’ll provide you the support you need while making changes and setting boundaries so that you have more control in your life. Most people say that starting therapy was one of the best decisions they’ve ever made and we’re looking forward to partnering with you on your journey.
Beginning therapy is an important decision and you deserve to find a therapist you’re comfortable with! Working with a qualified mental health practitioner can help provide clarity. We’ll provide you the support you need while making changes and setting boundaries so that you have more control in your life. Most people say that starting therapy was one of the best decisions they’ve ever made and we’re looking forward to partnering with you on your journey.
(623) 201-9312 View (623) 201-9312
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Kimberly Anne Miller
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, S, E, P
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tempe, AZ 85282  (Online Only)
My ideal client is someone who is willing to try and not perfect. I feel everyone has a story to tell and I love listening to people and learning about them as well as developing a plan. I tend to pivot and figure out what each client needs not what I want to do. I am trained in most cutting edge modalities so I like to give you the chance to see and try different tools. I love doing some experiential components. I work a lot with anxiety/depression and PTSD which are often the symptoms which often unravel other things.
My ideal client is someone who is willing to try and not perfect. I feel everyone has a story to tell and I love listening to people and learning about them as well as developing a plan. I tend to pivot and figure out what each client needs not what I want to do. I am trained in most cutting edge modalities so I like to give you the chance to see and try different tools. I love doing some experiential components. I work a lot with anxiety/depression and PTSD which are often the symptoms which often unravel other things.
(520) 987-9226 View (520) 987-9226
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Stacy K Sledge
Licensed Professional Counselor, MC, LPC
Verified Verified
Tempe, AZ 85284
In this fast-paced world, many life challenges are at times more than one can handle. Whether it is processing past trauma or learning new strategies for coping with current stressors, you are taking the difficult first step. As a therapist of 20 years, I am committed to providing quality therapy to meet your needs with a personalized, solution-focused approach. I have twenty years of experience working with a variety of individuals, couples, and families of all ages. I also provide EMDR, a specialized type of trauma therapy. If you would like to know more about how we can work together, I look forward to connecting with you.
In this fast-paced world, many life challenges are at times more than one can handle. Whether it is processing past trauma or learning new strategies for coping with current stressors, you are taking the difficult first step. As a therapist of 20 years, I am committed to providing quality therapy to meet your needs with a personalized, solution-focused approach. I have twenty years of experience working with a variety of individuals, couples, and families of all ages. I also provide EMDR, a specialized type of trauma therapy. If you would like to know more about how we can work together, I look forward to connecting with you.
(480) 470-1456 View (480) 470-1456
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Lauryn Drache
Counselor
Verified Verified
Tempe, AZ 85282
My goal is assisting clients with identifying and addressing internal and interpersonal goals by breaking cycles that do not work for them. The goal is to have clients gain autonomy and empowerment to address complex issues and concerns pragmatically, effectively, and consistently. Demographics include teens, young adults, and adults (individual session). The populations I work with include Developmental Trauma and/or Trauma, SMI, Personality Disorders, BFRB, Bipolar Disorder, and Neurodiversity (Autism, ADHD, and OCD). I utilize a multi-modal approach to ensure clients receive services that best meet their individualized needs.
My goal is assisting clients with identifying and addressing internal and interpersonal goals by breaking cycles that do not work for them. The goal is to have clients gain autonomy and empowerment to address complex issues and concerns pragmatically, effectively, and consistently. Demographics include teens, young adults, and adults (individual session). The populations I work with include Developmental Trauma and/or Trauma, SMI, Personality Disorders, BFRB, Bipolar Disorder, and Neurodiversity (Autism, ADHD, and OCD). I utilize a multi-modal approach to ensure clients receive services that best meet their individualized needs.
(480) 750-7534 x2 View (480) 750-7534 x2
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Larry Dumka
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Verified Verified
Tempe, AZ 85283
I use research based brief therapy approaches to help COUPLES, FAMILIES, and INDIVIDUALS reduce distress and achieve more satisfying lives. I specialize in working with COUPLES using methods from Integrative Couple Therapy. I first carefully assess each partner's goals and concerns, identify troublesome patterns, and set a direction for change. Couples then decide if they want to work with me further to learn skills to reduce hurtful conflict and increase emotional and sexual intimacy. I also treat couples preparing for marriage, experiencing infidelity, or adjusting to separation and divorce.
I use research based brief therapy approaches to help COUPLES, FAMILIES, and INDIVIDUALS reduce distress and achieve more satisfying lives. I specialize in working with COUPLES using methods from Integrative Couple Therapy. I first carefully assess each partner's goals and concerns, identify troublesome patterns, and set a direction for change. Couples then decide if they want to work with me further to learn skills to reduce hurtful conflict and increase emotional and sexual intimacy. I also treat couples preparing for marriage, experiencing infidelity, or adjusting to separation and divorce.
(480) 241-4910 View (480) 241-4910
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Keri Sipek
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, LAMFT, PMH-C
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tempe, AZ 85284
Now offering daytime & evening appointments. Reaching out for help can be difficult & takes courage. I’m here to offer a safe space & provide support while you explore your issues. From there, you can begin to heal & create positive change in your life & relationships. My experience includes working with couples, & individual adults who have struggled with infidelity, relationship strain, sexual issues, parenting, depression, anxiety, & more. In addition, I work with women & couples struggling with infertility, postpartum anxiety, postpartum depression, traumatic birth recovery, & adjustment to parenthood.
Now offering daytime & evening appointments. Reaching out for help can be difficult & takes courage. I’m here to offer a safe space & provide support while you explore your issues. From there, you can begin to heal & create positive change in your life & relationships. My experience includes working with couples, & individual adults who have struggled with infidelity, relationship strain, sexual issues, parenting, depression, anxiety, & more. In addition, I work with women & couples struggling with infertility, postpartum anxiety, postpartum depression, traumatic birth recovery, & adjustment to parenthood.
(520) 346-3402 View (520) 346-3402
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Bailey Benham
Pre-Licensed Professional, LAC
Not Verified Not Verified
2 Endorsed
Tempe, AZ 85282
My life experiences have led me to the helping profession where I maintain a strategy with meeting people where they are in their exploration to discover or restore their quality of life. My methods and technique are to assist you with navigating and resolving conflicts where you can enhance your abilities for a fresh perspective and a renewed outlook. We all maintain the ability to create our own positive and negative emotions with how we interpret our lives, so let's design your plan together where you will become more confident with overcoming the challenges of life.
My life experiences have led me to the helping profession where I maintain a strategy with meeting people where they are in their exploration to discover or restore their quality of life. My methods and technique are to assist you with navigating and resolving conflicts where you can enhance your abilities for a fresh perspective and a renewed outlook. We all maintain the ability to create our own positive and negative emotions with how we interpret our lives, so let's design your plan together where you will become more confident with overcoming the challenges of life.
(480) 907-3609 View (480) 907-3609
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Pacific Mental Health of Arizona
Counselor, LPC2205
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tempe, AZ 85282
Pacific Mental Health is dedicated to serving the mental health needs of the Greater Seattle area. If you're looking for a new counselor or a fresh perspective in life, our team of psychotherapist can help you achieve the goals you're looking for.
Pacific Mental Health is dedicated to serving the mental health needs of the Greater Seattle area. If you're looking for a new counselor or a fresh perspective in life, our team of psychotherapist can help you achieve the goals you're looking for.
(602) 960-2489 View (602) 960-2489
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Emma Hertzel
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Tempe, AZ 85283  (Online Only)
***Not currently accepting new patients at this time*** Whether it's a recent loss, a traumatic event, or even our own negative thinking, life circumstances can get in the way of living the life we want. When this becomes overwhelming, sometimes it's hard even to make the simplest decisions. Therapy can help you work through difficult emotions and unhealthy habits that lead to that "stuck" feeling. My job is to help you navigate through the things that get in the way of you living a valued life, a life where you wake up each day feeling confident and motivated to achieve your goals.
***Not currently accepting new patients at this time*** Whether it's a recent loss, a traumatic event, or even our own negative thinking, life circumstances can get in the way of living the life we want. When this becomes overwhelming, sometimes it's hard even to make the simplest decisions. Therapy can help you work through difficult emotions and unhealthy habits that lead to that "stuck" feeling. My job is to help you navigate through the things that get in the way of you living a valued life, a life where you wake up each day feeling confident and motivated to achieve your goals.
(480) 725-5217 View (480) 725-5217
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Paul K Gibson
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Tempe, AZ 85282
Paul Gibson is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) with over 20 years of practice as a therapist in the greater Phoenix area. He has worked with a wide variety of clients of all ages and backgrounds. Paul embraces the values of authenticity, compassion, and humor as he works to connect with his clients where they are and help them find the place where they would like to be. As an LMFT, he brings experience working with families in high stress situations, couples in conflict and individuals with many different challenges. Among other techniques, Paul has utilized EMDR for many years.
Paul Gibson is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) with over 20 years of practice as a therapist in the greater Phoenix area. He has worked with a wide variety of clients of all ages and backgrounds. Paul embraces the values of authenticity, compassion, and humor as he works to connect with his clients where they are and help them find the place where they would like to be. As an LMFT, he brings experience working with families in high stress situations, couples in conflict and individuals with many different challenges. Among other techniques, Paul has utilized EMDR for many years.
(480) 405-5518 View (480) 405-5518
Sex Therapy

Who is sex therapy for?

Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.

Why do people need sex therapy?

Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.

What happens in sex therapy?

People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.

What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?

Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.