Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists in Geneva, IL

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Amy Matthews
Counselor, LCPC, NCC, CADC
Verified Verified
Geneva, IL 60134
I want to create a safe place that is neurodiversity affirming, queer affirming, affirming to different racial/cultural experiences, body diversity affirming, kink affirming.
Everyone needs help sometimes. Life comes with challenges and finding support is important in order to face them, especially when the challenges feel like more than we can handle on our own. I believe that every person has the strength they need to face these challenges with the right support in place. I am here to offer whatever is needed: a safe place to freely speak your mind without judgment, a chance to be understood, an ally to look at situations and options, a companion to offer new ideas and perspectives.
I want to create a safe place that is neurodiversity affirming, queer affirming, affirming to different racial/cultural experiences, body diversity affirming, kink affirming.
Everyone needs help sometimes. Life comes with challenges and finding support is important in order to face them, especially when the challenges feel like more than we can handle on our own. I believe that every person has the strength they need to face these challenges with the right support in place. I am here to offer whatever is needed: a safe place to freely speak your mind without judgment, a chance to be understood, an ally to look at situations and options, a companion to offer new ideas and perspectives.
(331) 702-9433 View (331) 702-9433
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Michael E Grzejka
Pre-Licensed Professional
Verified Verified
Geneva, IL 60134
I push my clients into finding their own strengths and to use them in their therapy treatment. In session, clients will be assisted in exploring their experiences in a safe and judgment-free environment and build their goals to achieve while in therapy. My ideal client is someone who is seeking help but does not know how to start, someone who thinks they don't need counseling, and people who don't know their own value. If I cannot help, I will assist in finding someone who can.
I push my clients into finding their own strengths and to use them in their therapy treatment. In session, clients will be assisted in exploring their experiences in a safe and judgment-free environment and build their goals to achieve while in therapy. My ideal client is someone who is seeking help but does not know how to start, someone who thinks they don't need counseling, and people who don't know their own value. If I cannot help, I will assist in finding someone who can.
(815) 862-4545 View (815) 862-4545
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Kat Gordon Hannigan
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA
Verified Verified
Geneva, IL 60134
Every person is inherently worthy and valuable simply through their existence, and that includes you! As true as that statement is, it can be next to impossible to recognize your own worth when living within a system that marginalizes, exploits, or just doesn't value you the way you deserve. I aim to work with LGBTQ+ community members and individuals with disabilities, replacing harmful imposed narratives with ones of strength and power. While we can't do much about systemic oppression while in the therapy office, we can do our best to resist its impacts on our self-worth and mental health!
Every person is inherently worthy and valuable simply through their existence, and that includes you! As true as that statement is, it can be next to impossible to recognize your own worth when living within a system that marginalizes, exploits, or just doesn't value you the way you deserve. I aim to work with LGBTQ+ community members and individuals with disabilities, replacing harmful imposed narratives with ones of strength and power. While we can't do much about systemic oppression while in the therapy office, we can do our best to resist its impacts on our self-worth and mental health!
(630) 626-8567 View (630) 626-8567
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Jena Nicole Stombaugh
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Geneva, IL 60134  (Online Only)
As your therapist, I will provide you with support, guidance, and a safe and trusting environment to explore your thoughts, feelings, and goals. There is a basic set of expectations for both parties to work together in harmony to create healthy coping skills that will stay with you for years to come. I welcome any client, regardless of recent struggles, who are dedicated to working towards the next steps in their lives.
As your therapist, I will provide you with support, guidance, and a safe and trusting environment to explore your thoughts, feelings, and goals. There is a basic set of expectations for both parties to work together in harmony to create healthy coping skills that will stay with you for years to come. I welcome any client, regardless of recent struggles, who are dedicated to working towards the next steps in their lives.
(630) 524-8648 View (630) 524-8648
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Kate Koester
Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, LCPC
Verified Verified
Geneva, IL 60134
I work with adults who seek healing from anxiety, depression. trauma and addiction. I offer a safe environment for individuals to feel accepted and understood in the myriad ways we can all feel beaten down by our lives. I offer to witness your life struggles and unmet dreams, while helping you to grow in self-awareness and self-acceptance. I work from a depth oriented, Jungian approach, which calls upon the wisdom of the unconscious, made known through personal dreams, complexes, archetypes, and the client/therapist relationship.
I work with adults who seek healing from anxiety, depression. trauma and addiction. I offer a safe environment for individuals to feel accepted and understood in the myriad ways we can all feel beaten down by our lives. I offer to witness your life struggles and unmet dreams, while helping you to grow in self-awareness and self-acceptance. I work from a depth oriented, Jungian approach, which calls upon the wisdom of the unconscious, made known through personal dreams, complexes, archetypes, and the client/therapist relationship.
(847) 796-6050 View (847) 796-6050
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Robert Jackman
Counselor, MS, LCPC, NCC
Verified Verified
Geneva, IL 60134
My style is to respect your strengths to help you foster insights into making your life better. I enjoy my work and utilize a variety of proven clinical skills and common sense. You may be going through a new issue and find it overwhelming, or you may be repeating an old behvioral pattern. I have a very interactive style and like to give homework to keep the progress going so you can move on in a healthy productive way. Call or e-mail today for a free consultation. Look for my best selling books on AMAZON: Healing Your Lost Inner Child and Healing Your Wounded Relationship. Or my YouTube channel: The Art of Practical Wisdom.
My style is to respect your strengths to help you foster insights into making your life better. I enjoy my work and utilize a variety of proven clinical skills and common sense. You may be going through a new issue and find it overwhelming, or you may be repeating an old behvioral pattern. I have a very interactive style and like to give homework to keep the progress going so you can move on in a healthy productive way. Call or e-mail today for a free consultation. Look for my best selling books on AMAZON: Healing Your Lost Inner Child and Healing Your Wounded Relationship. Or my YouTube channel: The Art of Practical Wisdom.
(630) 721-5765 View (630) 721-5765
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Jendaya Clark
Counselor, LCPC, CADC
Verified Verified
Geneva, IL 60134  (Online Only)
Let's talk through some of the challenges which may have been lingering in mind for a long time. Often times we can find these challenges can limit you from taking the next step in your life, and I understand having some of those experiences as well. Perhaps some of those feelings include feeling anxious or down about a variety of things, or perhaps struggling with conflict within your family that make even the smallest decisions seem impossible.
Let's talk through some of the challenges which may have been lingering in mind for a long time. Often times we can find these challenges can limit you from taking the next step in your life, and I understand having some of those experiences as well. Perhaps some of those feelings include feeling anxious or down about a variety of things, or perhaps struggling with conflict within your family that make even the smallest decisions seem impossible.
(815) 384-1573 View (815) 384-1573
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Suzanne Snyder
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Geneva, IL 60134
People seek therapy for many different reasons. Sometimes, people need a healthy outlet for pent up emotions. Sometimes, people need help understanding their own psychological functioning or need help coping with intense emotions. I'm happy to help with everything in between. I believe that regardless of the reason for seeking therapy, there is always a place for it in my office. Therapy works best with people who are motivated to achieve a change, as do I.
People seek therapy for many different reasons. Sometimes, people need a healthy outlet for pent up emotions. Sometimes, people need help understanding their own psychological functioning or need help coping with intense emotions. I'm happy to help with everything in between. I believe that regardless of the reason for seeking therapy, there is always a place for it in my office. Therapy works best with people who are motivated to achieve a change, as do I.
(331) 207-9116 View (331) 207-9116
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Zachary Devore
Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, LCPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Geneva, IL 60134
I specialize in working with couples navigating their relationships. As well as individuals who have experienced trauma. Helping to give these clients the tools and skills to improve the quality of their lives. I also enjoy working with clients who struggle with anxiety, LGBTQ+ issues, alternative lifestyles, and sexual health problems. Working to help clients find a life that makes them happy and feel content with their lives. Therapy is work and so clients should expect to be given tools and skills to practice.
I specialize in working with couples navigating their relationships. As well as individuals who have experienced trauma. Helping to give these clients the tools and skills to improve the quality of their lives. I also enjoy working with clients who struggle with anxiety, LGBTQ+ issues, alternative lifestyles, and sexual health problems. Working to help clients find a life that makes them happy and feel content with their lives. Therapy is work and so clients should expect to be given tools and skills to practice.
(630) 547-3470 View (630) 547-3470
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Jenaleigh Turner
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Geneva, IL 60134  (Online Only)
You deserve to feel seen. Many of the people I have worked with have experienced pain or the weight of high expectations from themselves and others around them. Witnessing others find their authentic selves and overcome challenges has been an absolute privilege. I believe in the power of radical empathy: I am honored to hold space for you as you work through things that feel heavy, cheer you on when it begins to feel easy again, and walk with you for all the moments in between.
You deserve to feel seen. Many of the people I have worked with have experienced pain or the weight of high expectations from themselves and others around them. Witnessing others find their authentic selves and overcome challenges has been an absolute privilege. I believe in the power of radical empathy: I am honored to hold space for you as you work through things that feel heavy, cheer you on when it begins to feel easy again, and walk with you for all the moments in between.
(331) 226-1870 View (331) 226-1870

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Emily Toops
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
Aurora, IL 60505  (Online Only)
I am an LGBTQ, kink-, and polyam- positive therapist.
Are you tired of feeling anxious, depressed, or overwhelmed? Do you want to develop personalized skills that will make the burdens you carry a little lighter? Do you want to find more joy in your daily life? Take the first step and reach out- we can get there together.
I am an LGBTQ, kink-, and polyam- positive therapist.
Are you tired of feeling anxious, depressed, or overwhelmed? Do you want to develop personalized skills that will make the burdens you carry a little lighter? Do you want to find more joy in your daily life? Take the first step and reach out- we can get there together.
(872) 250-4121 View (872) 250-4121
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Angie Young
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, EMDR, RYT200
Verified Verified
Wheaton, IL 60187
I believe healing is possible through an invitation to connect with your body, emotions, and thoughts. To build understanding about how your experiences, relationships, and culture have impacted your life. I seek to be a companion in the process of sharing your personal story as you sift through the well of your entire lived experience to discover your authentic voice. Together, we will use body based interventions, emotionally focused work, and brain-based approaches like EMDR to reclaim the chapters of your life where difficult experiences stole your sense of who you are, and nurture growth, healing, and overcome loneliness.
I believe healing is possible through an invitation to connect with your body, emotions, and thoughts. To build understanding about how your experiences, relationships, and culture have impacted your life. I seek to be a companion in the process of sharing your personal story as you sift through the well of your entire lived experience to discover your authentic voice. Together, we will use body based interventions, emotionally focused work, and brain-based approaches like EMDR to reclaim the chapters of your life where difficult experiences stole your sense of who you are, and nurture growth, healing, and overcome loneliness.
(630) 524-4362 View (630) 524-4362
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Mary Holmes
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
Naperville, IL 60563  (Online Only)
Led by compassion and curiosity, I see people, not problems. My practice style is client-led, culturally humble, trauma-informed, sex-positive, kink aware, LGBTQIA+ affirming, and social justice-oriented. I believe we live our best lives when we are seen, heard, and met with empathy, free of judgment. I work with clients to support a safe base from which to explore vulnerabilities, assess struggles, and process emotions. My clients hold the key to their own self-discovery, wellness, and balance and I am honored to walk this path with them.
Led by compassion and curiosity, I see people, not problems. My practice style is client-led, culturally humble, trauma-informed, sex-positive, kink aware, LGBTQIA+ affirming, and social justice-oriented. I believe we live our best lives when we are seen, heard, and met with empathy, free of judgment. I work with clients to support a safe base from which to explore vulnerabilities, assess struggles, and process emotions. My clients hold the key to their own self-discovery, wellness, and balance and I am honored to walk this path with them.
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Cora Mills
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Naperville, IL 60563
Briarwood Counseling seeks to help people who are struggling to figure out how to feel better in their lives. Cora works with individuals, couples and families struggling with depression, anxiety, life and relationship transitions into and out of parenthood, grief, loss, and rebuilding after abuse and trauma experiences. Sometimes people just feel "stuck" and want their lives to look different or want to move into a more positive space. Cora helps sift through the trouble and find solutions and move forward. Cora loves working with people who want to know themselves better.
Briarwood Counseling seeks to help people who are struggling to figure out how to feel better in their lives. Cora works with individuals, couples and families struggling with depression, anxiety, life and relationship transitions into and out of parenthood, grief, loss, and rebuilding after abuse and trauma experiences. Sometimes people just feel "stuck" and want their lives to look different or want to move into a more positive space. Cora helps sift through the trouble and find solutions and move forward. Cora loves working with people who want to know themselves better.
(779) 204-5159 View (779) 204-5159
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Tonya Davis
Counselor, PhD
Verified Verified
Aurora, IL 60505  (Online Only)
When I think about the human condition, I think about the context of our lived experiences and how that varies from day-to-day. I take into consideration how it can look differently for each of us for many reasons. I have been working with clients in various modalities (i.e., individual, couples, family, group. etc.) since 2006. As a career changer, I bring all of my professional experiences to maximize our ability to achieve the type of forward movement you desire. Life can be hard enough, you don't have to do it alone. I am humbled to come alongside you in your quest to thrive, not just survive.
When I think about the human condition, I think about the context of our lived experiences and how that varies from day-to-day. I take into consideration how it can look differently for each of us for many reasons. I have been working with clients in various modalities (i.e., individual, couples, family, group. etc.) since 2006. As a career changer, I bring all of my professional experiences to maximize our ability to achieve the type of forward movement you desire. Life can be hard enough, you don't have to do it alone. I am humbled to come alongside you in your quest to thrive, not just survive.
(331) 241-7669 View (331) 241-7669
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Rory F Jeanniton
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
South Elgin, IL 60177
Hi I’m Rory! I’m a Black – Hispanic, non Spanish speaking (so sorry) - Hetero – Cis Male (He/Him). I specialize in helping those who struggle with their own inner demons. My style is nonjudgmental, compassionate, and strength focused and I openly celebrate anybody who is working to level themselves up. Here you'll find nonjudgmental acceptance of whatever you bring in and a genuine desire to help you feel more at peace. I coach my clients to trust their gut more, accept themselves with compassion, and tolerate tough emotions and thoughts. My main goal is to help you learn what works for YOU.
Hi I’m Rory! I’m a Black – Hispanic, non Spanish speaking (so sorry) - Hetero – Cis Male (He/Him). I specialize in helping those who struggle with their own inner demons. My style is nonjudgmental, compassionate, and strength focused and I openly celebrate anybody who is working to level themselves up. Here you'll find nonjudgmental acceptance of whatever you bring in and a genuine desire to help you feel more at peace. I coach my clients to trust their gut more, accept themselves with compassion, and tolerate tough emotions and thoughts. My main goal is to help you learn what works for YOU.
(630) 812-1358 View (630) 812-1358
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Hannah Wykoski
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Aurora, IL 60506
Hi! I’m Hannah, a Licensed Social Worker. I received my bachelor’s degree from Saint Mary’s College (Go Irish!) in social work and master’s in social work from Loyola University Chicago. My experience is working with victims and survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and stalking. I’ve worked in hospital settings and was a supervisor at a child welfare agency. My specialties are with life transitions, mood disorders, and anything in between. Outside of work, you will most likely find me stopping my two puppies, Denver and Oliver from wreaking havoc, planning for my 2024 wedding, or renovating my home with my fiancé.
Hi! I’m Hannah, a Licensed Social Worker. I received my bachelor’s degree from Saint Mary’s College (Go Irish!) in social work and master’s in social work from Loyola University Chicago. My experience is working with victims and survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and stalking. I’ve worked in hospital settings and was a supervisor at a child welfare agency. My specialties are with life transitions, mood disorders, and anything in between. Outside of work, you will most likely find me stopping my two puppies, Denver and Oliver from wreaking havoc, planning for my 2024 wedding, or renovating my home with my fiancé.
(630) 394-1379 View (630) 394-1379
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Erin Lowry
Pre-Licensed Professional, BSW
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Saint Charles, IL 60174
Waitlist for new clients
Quite honestly, life can suck. It can feel like you are carrying the weight of the world and you’ve only had 2 hours of sleep. Therapy is not just solving those immediate problems, but working to create lifelong stability through coping skills and tools. Whether you have relational stress with a loved one, or just general life stress and anxiety, therapy can be a great way to work through all that. I work with clients to create healthy, lifelong coping skills and release unwanted burdens from their lives. I will help you cut out the toxic individuals in your life and build rock-solid boundaries to keep ‘em out.
Quite honestly, life can suck. It can feel like you are carrying the weight of the world and you’ve only had 2 hours of sleep. Therapy is not just solving those immediate problems, but working to create lifelong stability through coping skills and tools. Whether you have relational stress with a loved one, or just general life stress and anxiety, therapy can be a great way to work through all that. I work with clients to create healthy, lifelong coping skills and release unwanted burdens from their lives. I will help you cut out the toxic individuals in your life and build rock-solid boundaries to keep ‘em out.
(630) 354-0327 View (630) 354-0327
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Charity F Shaw-Moyado
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Aurora, IL 60505
As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and Certified Sex Therapist, I provide clients with a supportive, safe space for free self-expression. Through active listening, empathy, and evidence-based techniques, I establish trust and explore behavioral patterns. I facilitate reflection, challenge negative thoughts, and offer resources for personal growth. Together, we embark on a transformative journey towards healing, self-discovery, and a fulfilling life.
As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and Certified Sex Therapist, I provide clients with a supportive, safe space for free self-expression. Through active listening, empathy, and evidence-based techniques, I establish trust and explore behavioral patterns. I facilitate reflection, challenge negative thoughts, and offer resources for personal growth. Together, we embark on a transformative journey towards healing, self-discovery, and a fulfilling life.
(331) 244-0523 View (331) 244-0523
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Jenine L Chiles
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Elburn, IL 60119  (Online Only)
Hello, thanks so much for visiting my profile. My work with clients is collaborative and I will help you to explore your past and discover patterns that have occurred throughout your life and continue to have an impact on you. It is my fundamental belief that people have the ability to change and each person knows what's best for them. My job is to help you discover these issues in a safe, supportive, and nurturing environment that allows you to express your innermost thoughts and feelings without judgment.
Hello, thanks so much for visiting my profile. My work with clients is collaborative and I will help you to explore your past and discover patterns that have occurred throughout your life and continue to have an impact on you. It is my fundamental belief that people have the ability to change and each person knows what's best for them. My job is to help you discover these issues in a safe, supportive, and nurturing environment that allows you to express your innermost thoughts and feelings without judgment.
(312) 800-1621 View (312) 800-1621
Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists

Why might an individual want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?

A sex-positive or kinky individual may want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist because the client may feel safer and more supported discussing their experiences and challenges. A therapist who identifies as kink-friendly will have experience with clients having diverse sexual preferences and will likely be nonjudgmental and supportive about issues brought to the table. It is important to note that sex-positive, kink-allied individuals may find equal success with therapists who do not have such specialized knowledge and background. The most important factor in the success of therapy is for the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond.

Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in sex-positive, kink-allied treatment?

Generally, no. There are limited training programs and unofficial accreditations that therapists can pursue, but a therapist’s expertise will ultimately come from their previous experience with similar clients, their engagement with organizations that promote sex positivity or kink-allied lifestyles, and the importance they place on safety and cultural sensitivity.

How can individuals recognize a good sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?

An experienced therapist is able to help clients explore their sexual identity and expression and relieve any discomfort or stigma attached to discussing such matters and the client’s overall challenges. A therapist who is sex-positive and kink-allied is able to create an environment that honors a client’s experience and sexual preferences. To recognize a good therapist, clients can simply ask directly about topics and issues important to them and gauge their comfort level and connection with a clinician based on the responses.

Can clients benefit from having a therapist with a focus on sex positivity and alternative sexual lifestyles?

Some individuals may feel most comfortable knowing that the clinician they’re working with has a commitment to creating an atmosphere of sex positivity and has experience with relationship diversity and alternative relationship structures. Working with a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist may help clients respect their own challenges and improve identity-affirming treatment.