Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists in Denver County, CO
What's The Point? Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFTC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80204
I specialize in infidelity, rebuilding after betrayal, sex therapy, and ethical non-monogamy. I have experience working with clients who have depression, anxiety, and ADHD. These issues can be focused on in relationship therapy or individual therapy, both through a relational and attachment lens. I am kink-affirming, sex work-affirming, and LGBTQ+ affirming.
I specialize in infidelity, rebuilding after betrayal, sex therapy, and ethical non-monogamy. I have experience working with clients who have depression, anxiety, and ADHD. These issues can be focused on in relationship therapy or individual therapy, both through a relational and attachment lens. I am kink-affirming, sex work-affirming, and LGBTQ+ affirming.
Fiona Cochran
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, ACS
Verified Verified
Denver, CO 80224
Relationships are an essential part of the human experience. I can offer support to help you navigate whatever is happening in your life or in your relationship. We will work together to create positive lasting changes in a supportive and encouraging environment. As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and sex-positive therapist, I utilize several methods of therapy based on my client's needs. I am a LGBTQIA+ friendly, Poly, and Kink affirming practice.
Relationships are an essential part of the human experience. I can offer support to help you navigate whatever is happening in your life or in your relationship. We will work together to create positive lasting changes in a supportive and encouraging environment. As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and sex-positive therapist, I utilize several methods of therapy based on my client's needs. I am a LGBTQIA+ friendly, Poly, and Kink affirming practice.
Lauren Hugunin
Marriage and Family Therapist Candidate, MA, MFTC
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80212
You may keep parts of yourself or your relationship(s) hidden because you fear judgment from others. Perhaps shame and feelings of inadequacy keep you quiet while you ache to be seen, heard, and understood. Imagine a space where your authenticity and the uniqueness of your experiences are not only acknowledged, but celebrated. Whether you are seeking support around sensitive sex-related issues, aiming to break patterns in your relationship, or needing support as you navigate challenges associated with postpartum and/or parenthood, you are not alone and your experience is valid.
You may keep parts of yourself or your relationship(s) hidden because you fear judgment from others. Perhaps shame and feelings of inadequacy keep you quiet while you ache to be seen, heard, and understood. Imagine a space where your authenticity and the uniqueness of your experiences are not only acknowledged, but celebrated. Whether you are seeking support around sensitive sex-related issues, aiming to break patterns in your relationship, or needing support as you navigate challenges associated with postpartum and/or parenthood, you are not alone and your experience is valid.
Court Bilbrey
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80218
I specialize in working with couples and individuals facing relationship transitions (divorce, coparenting, platonic partnership consideration, etc.), sexual or relational desire and orientation differences (including kink, non-monogamy, and sexual orientation, gender transitions, and more), sexual and religious trauma (for ex., "exvangelicals" and queer folks with oppression trauma), intimate partner violence trauma, healing from a breach of trust, coming out and gender exploration/transition (one or both partners), and more. I frequently work with LGBTQIA/queer couples and the parents of LGBTQIA+ youth. I do work with youth 14+.
I specialize in working with couples and individuals facing relationship transitions (divorce, coparenting, platonic partnership consideration, etc.), sexual or relational desire and orientation differences (including kink, non-monogamy, and sexual orientation, gender transitions, and more), sexual and religious trauma (for ex., "exvangelicals" and queer folks with oppression trauma), intimate partner violence trauma, healing from a breach of trust, coming out and gender exploration/transition (one or both partners), and more. I frequently work with LGBTQIA/queer couples and the parents of LGBTQIA+ youth. I do work with youth 14+.
Paul Courtland Soper
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST, CCTP
Verified Verified
Denver, CO 80211 (Online Only)
I am currently taking new telehealth clients for sex therapy, couples therapy and trauma therapy. My ideal client wants to heal. With all the trauma from the past few years, self-work has never been more necessary and normalized. Coming out of a global pandemic, with relationships and sex lives suffering, we all need to be intentional about rebuilding emotional, mental and sexual health. Whether you’re trying to heal from trauma, improve communication and intimacy in your relationship(s), explore polyamory or consensual non monogamy, or explore sexual and/or gender identity, I believe I can help you to achieve your personal goals.
I am currently taking new telehealth clients for sex therapy, couples therapy and trauma therapy. My ideal client wants to heal. With all the trauma from the past few years, self-work has never been more necessary and normalized. Coming out of a global pandemic, with relationships and sex lives suffering, we all need to be intentional about rebuilding emotional, mental and sexual health. Whether you’re trying to heal from trauma, improve communication and intimacy in your relationship(s), explore polyamory or consensual non monogamy, or explore sexual and/or gender identity, I believe I can help you to achieve your personal goals.
Emily McAfee
Pre-Licensed Professional
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80218
My specialties include LGBTQIA+ support, coming out, healing after infidelity, polyamory and non-monogamy, navigating sex as a person with a disability, kink and BDSM, and religious trauma.
I am a Master’s candidate in Social Work at the University of Denver, focusing on family systems and individual counseling. I will work with my individual clients to address sexual trauma, cultivate a positive self-image around sexuality, understand needs and wants in sexual relationships, improve existing relationships, and work through any other presenting problems. Working with couples and partners, I will help to address mistrust, sexual trauma, problems with intimacy, relationship conflict, navigating sex during and after life transitions, and any other relationship or sexual concerns.
My specialties include LGBTQIA+ support, coming out, healing after infidelity, polyamory and non-monogamy, navigating sex as a person with a disability, kink and BDSM, and religious trauma.
I am a Master’s candidate in Social Work at the University of Denver, focusing on family systems and individual counseling. I will work with my individual clients to address sexual trauma, cultivate a positive self-image around sexuality, understand needs and wants in sexual relationships, improve existing relationships, and work through any other presenting problems. Working with couples and partners, I will help to address mistrust, sexual trauma, problems with intimacy, relationship conflict, navigating sex during and after life transitions, and any other relationship or sexual concerns.
Kelsey Rellas - Poly | Queer Specialist
Pre-Licensed Professional
Verified Verified
10 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80209
I am competent in the areas of kink, non-traditional relationship structures, and queer identity.
I love working with women and queer couples who are seeking to become more empowered in their sex lives, relationships and reconnecting to their pleasure. Do you desire experiences in relationships that are tender, connected, compassionate and uplifting? I work with couples who want to strengthen the foundation of their relationship(s) and mend the cracks. I also work with individuals within their intersection of identities to reclaim an embodied experience of what it means to belong in this world and feel genuine pleasure in their bodies. Another speciality of mine is working with women looking to feel more empowered after trauma.
I am competent in the areas of kink, non-traditional relationship structures, and queer identity.
I love working with women and queer couples who are seeking to become more empowered in their sex lives, relationships and reconnecting to their pleasure. Do you desire experiences in relationships that are tender, connected, compassionate and uplifting? I work with couples who want to strengthen the foundation of their relationship(s) and mend the cracks. I also work with individuals within their intersection of identities to reclaim an embodied experience of what it means to belong in this world and feel genuine pleasure in their bodies. Another speciality of mine is working with women looking to feel more empowered after trauma.
Rae Beehler
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CCTP, RYT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80202
Waitlist for new clients
My passion is in helping people befriend their nervous system, develop a deeper connection with themself and others, and build lifelong strategies to utilize in times of distress. I specialize in serving queer & trans people, non-monogamous individuals, and those in kink, BDSM, and sex-work communities. Regardless of your identities or experiences, I believe that all people deserve collaborative, culturally competent care, and I strive to create a warm and non-judgmental environment where people can come as they are.
My passion is in helping people befriend their nervous system, develop a deeper connection with themself and others, and build lifelong strategies to utilize in times of distress. I specialize in serving queer & trans people, non-monogamous individuals, and those in kink, BDSM, and sex-work communities. Regardless of your identities or experiences, I believe that all people deserve collaborative, culturally competent care, and I strive to create a warm and non-judgmental environment where people can come as they are.
Amanda N Ream
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MSW, MEd
Verified Verified
Denver, CO 80206 (Online Only)
Are you seeking to improve your relationship with yourself and others? Want to make positive shifts in your life and need further support? Struggle with feeling fulfilled and connected in our fast-paced world? Seeking a different, more holistic approach to treating mental health concerns, that takes into account your mind, body, and spirit? Looking to explore your sexuality or address sexuality-related concerns? Cope with chronic health issues or support someone who does? Want to cultivate more vulnerability and reduce feelings of shame? Just want a connective, introspective space to explore life's questions?
Are you seeking to improve your relationship with yourself and others? Want to make positive shifts in your life and need further support? Struggle with feeling fulfilled and connected in our fast-paced world? Seeking a different, more holistic approach to treating mental health concerns, that takes into account your mind, body, and spirit? Looking to explore your sexuality or address sexuality-related concerns? Cope with chronic health issues or support someone who does? Want to cultivate more vulnerability and reduce feelings of shame? Just want a connective, introspective space to explore life's questions?
River Martone
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, MFTC, LPCC
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80203
I utilize narrative, IFS (parts work), feminist, person-centered, and existential theories and work from an anti-racist, anti-colonial, sex positive, poly, queer and trans affirming perspective.
Whether seeking individual, relational, or family therapy, I believe we are all multi-storied beings and that everyone is the expert of their own story and experience. Along the way, we collect stories-stories that others tell about us, stories we tell about ourselves, the story we tell about the problem, and stories we inherit from dominant knowledge or culture. These narratives shape our perception of ourselves and others and can influence relational connection which often contributes to why one might seek out therapy.
I utilize narrative, IFS (parts work), feminist, person-centered, and existential theories and work from an anti-racist, anti-colonial, sex positive, poly, queer and trans affirming perspective.
Whether seeking individual, relational, or family therapy, I believe we are all multi-storied beings and that everyone is the expert of their own story and experience. Along the way, we collect stories-stories that others tell about us, stories we tell about ourselves, the story we tell about the problem, and stories we inherit from dominant knowledge or culture. These narratives shape our perception of ourselves and others and can influence relational connection which often contributes to why one might seek out therapy.
Neil Cannon
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, CST-S
Verified Verified
12 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80209
Common concerns that clients seek help with range from sexual desire discrepancy, and low libido to kink and BDSM, Out of Control Sexual Behavior, infidelity, and sexual fetishes.
Dr. Neil Cannon is an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist & Supervisor. Neil is Clinical Director of the Cannon Institute. Neil and the team work with individuals & couples on any matter related to sex, intimacy & relationships. Neil is well known as a leader throughout the field of sex therapy. Neil is a published author and nationally known thought leader, mentor/supervisor. Neil is an instructor at the University of Michigan's Sexual Health Certificate Program and has served as the Colorado Section Leader for the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors & Therapists (AASECT) since 2007.
Common concerns that clients seek help with range from sexual desire discrepancy, and low libido to kink and BDSM, Out of Control Sexual Behavior, infidelity, and sexual fetishes.
Dr. Neil Cannon is an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist & Supervisor. Neil is Clinical Director of the Cannon Institute. Neil and the team work with individuals & couples on any matter related to sex, intimacy & relationships. Neil is well known as a leader throughout the field of sex therapy. Neil is a published author and nationally known thought leader, mentor/supervisor. Neil is an instructor at the University of Michigan's Sexual Health Certificate Program and has served as the Colorado Section Leader for the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors & Therapists (AASECT) since 2007.
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Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CST, AASECT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80218
Are you struggling with your relationships and sexuality? Looking for a specialist that can make talking about sex easier? I'm an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and Relationship Specialist. We offer a holistic, gentle yet direct, and tailored approach that includes well-researched theories with a relational foundation. Issues can include communication, fear of sex, relationship conflicts, constant fighting, desire differences, sexual orientation, sexual dysfunction or dissatisfaction, polyamorous/open or kink relationships, "sex or porn addiction" or problematic sexual behaviors, infidelity, trauma or sexless marriages.
Are you struggling with your relationships and sexuality? Looking for a specialist that can make talking about sex easier? I'm an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and Relationship Specialist. We offer a holistic, gentle yet direct, and tailored approach that includes well-researched theories with a relational foundation. Issues can include communication, fear of sex, relationship conflicts, constant fighting, desire differences, sexual orientation, sexual dysfunction or dissatisfaction, polyamorous/open or kink relationships, "sex or porn addiction" or problematic sexual behaviors, infidelity, trauma or sexless marriages.
Adam Stanford
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, LAC
Verified Verified
Denver, CO 80205 (Online Only)
I only meet online and I accept insurance for individuals but not for couples. I work best with clients who are dedicated to developing new skills that are proven to help with couples issues, anxiety, depression, borderline, bipolar, and addiction. I'm highly competent with and welcome clients of diverse backgrounds including but not limited to LGBTQ+, non-monogamous, sex positive, kink aware, and type 1 Autism (Asperger's). My clients learn how to develop healthier thinking patterns and integrate new behaviors that effectively improve relationships and manage difficult emotions.
I only meet online and I accept insurance for individuals but not for couples. I work best with clients who are dedicated to developing new skills that are proven to help with couples issues, anxiety, depression, borderline, bipolar, and addiction. I'm highly competent with and welcome clients of diverse backgrounds including but not limited to LGBTQ+, non-monogamous, sex positive, kink aware, and type 1 Autism (Asperger's). My clients learn how to develop healthier thinking patterns and integrate new behaviors that effectively improve relationships and manage difficult emotions.
Amanda Sapale
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Denver, CO 80237
Do you feel overwhelmed and “broken,” trying to fit into the box of who you’re “supposed to be?” Have you been frustrated trying to follow the path others and society expect of you? If you’re struggling with your gender identity, sexuality, relationships (whether monogamous or non-monogamous), or other aspects of self and self-expression, you are not alone. Uncovering and embracing who you are is difficult but rewarding. And as a sex-positive, kink-informed therapist, I have the knowledge and experience to walk with you on that journey.
Do you feel overwhelmed and “broken,” trying to fit into the box of who you’re “supposed to be?” Have you been frustrated trying to follow the path others and society expect of you? If you’re struggling with your gender identity, sexuality, relationships (whether monogamous or non-monogamous), or other aspects of self and self-expression, you are not alone. Uncovering and embracing who you are is difficult but rewarding. And as a sex-positive, kink-informed therapist, I have the knowledge and experience to walk with you on that journey.
Melina Rodriguez
Counselor, LPCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80211
My specialties are working through childhood Trauma, Relationship issues, Shame/Guilt, Empowerment and Self-worth, Anxiety and Depression, Psychedelic Integration and Sex Worker/Sex Positive support- all through a trauma informed and multicultural lens.
SERVICIOS EN ESPAÑOL- You are free to be YOU. We will find comfort in the shared human experience and create space for the possibilities of growth far beyond the walls you previously built to protect yourself but which are no longer serving you. I strive to create a space of non-judgement, radical acceptance, and unconditional positive regard to meet you wherever you are at and facilitate your personal journey. Together, we can rewrite the stories you may have been living in pre-defined by shame, trauma, culture, stigma, and external expectations.
My specialties are working through childhood Trauma, Relationship issues, Shame/Guilt, Empowerment and Self-worth, Anxiety and Depression, Psychedelic Integration and Sex Worker/Sex Positive support- all through a trauma informed and multicultural lens.
SERVICIOS EN ESPAÑOL- You are free to be YOU. We will find comfort in the shared human experience and create space for the possibilities of growth far beyond the walls you previously built to protect yourself but which are no longer serving you. I strive to create a space of non-judgement, radical acceptance, and unconditional positive regard to meet you wherever you are at and facilitate your personal journey. Together, we can rewrite the stories you may have been living in pre-defined by shame, trauma, culture, stigma, and external expectations.
Betsy Usher
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Denver, CO 80222
I am Kink Allied, Sex Positive, & Poly friendly therapist.
I know sometimes it feels like no one can help you. That you are too much, too dark, and too broken to be helped. Sometimes trauma can manifest by cutting, eating disorders, depression, chaos, and a real struggle to maintain friendships. It can be hard to even picture what a stable and consistent life would look like, but it's still something you want. Chaotic feelings feel like they take over you and you struggle to make it through each day. You want to live but still feel suicidal. This is all normal for someone with trauma, someone who has been through abuse, someone who has experienced broken relationships and even toxic ones.
I am Kink Allied, Sex Positive, & Poly friendly therapist.
I know sometimes it feels like no one can help you. That you are too much, too dark, and too broken to be helped. Sometimes trauma can manifest by cutting, eating disorders, depression, chaos, and a real struggle to maintain friendships. It can be hard to even picture what a stable and consistent life would look like, but it's still something you want. Chaotic feelings feel like they take over you and you struggle to make it through each day. You want to live but still feel suicidal. This is all normal for someone with trauma, someone who has been through abuse, someone who has experienced broken relationships and even toxic ones.
Dr. Emma Durham
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Denver, CO 80222
I am a licensed psychologist offering therapy for adults and psychological assessment for people of all ages. I enjoy working with a variety of concerns and specialize in the treatment of (c)ptsd, phobias, panic, OCD, and anxiety disorders. I am passionate about working with people of diverse genders and sexualities, including those in polyamorous/non-monogamous relationships. I strive to create a space that is body, kink, and sex positive. I am able to provide assessments to receive gender affirming care, and offer testing for ADHD, ASD, learning disabilities, and complex personality/mood concerns.
I am a licensed psychologist offering therapy for adults and psychological assessment for people of all ages. I enjoy working with a variety of concerns and specialize in the treatment of (c)ptsd, phobias, panic, OCD, and anxiety disorders. I am passionate about working with people of diverse genders and sexualities, including those in polyamorous/non-monogamous relationships. I strive to create a space that is body, kink, and sex positive. I am able to provide assessments to receive gender affirming care, and offer testing for ADHD, ASD, learning disabilities, and complex personality/mood concerns.
Chadley Zobolas
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, MFTC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80210
I'm a racial justice and 2SLGBTQ+ allied therapist, sex positive, and Health at Every Size (HAES) informed.
In my work as a therapist and through my own life experiences, I’ve found that so much of our pain as humans stems from a deep sense of disconnection, both from ourselves and from each other. I know it can feel like you’re in this alone- I’ve been there, and I’m here to tell you that you don’t have to be. Therapy can provide an incredible space to heal and grow through safe & affirming connection with someone else. I’m honored to hold this space for clients and I believe you deserve support.
I'm a racial justice and 2SLGBTQ+ allied therapist, sex positive, and Health at Every Size (HAES) informed.
In my work as a therapist and through my own life experiences, I’ve found that so much of our pain as humans stems from a deep sense of disconnection, both from ourselves and from each other. I know it can feel like you’re in this alone- I’ve been there, and I’m here to tell you that you don’t have to be. Therapy can provide an incredible space to heal and grow through safe & affirming connection with someone else. I’m honored to hold this space for clients and I believe you deserve support.
Coty Nolin
LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80222
I am passionate about working with folks who are in polyamory/non monogamous, BDSM/kink, and LGBTQ+ communities.
I am a trained sex and relationships therapist working with clients in Colorado. You deserve to have space to explore different parts of who you are- without shame and stigma. Together, we can cultivate tools that are the best fit for you and your relationships. In my practice, I take a compassionate yet direct, non-judgmental approach. Overall, I hope to help you explore your relationship dynamics, patterns of behavior, and emotions to help you work through the places you feel "stuck". I use trauma-informed therapies somatic psychotherapy, internal family systems, and work from a feminist, intersectional lens.
I am passionate about working with folks who are in polyamory/non monogamous, BDSM/kink, and LGBTQ+ communities.
I am a trained sex and relationships therapist working with clients in Colorado. You deserve to have space to explore different parts of who you are- without shame and stigma. Together, we can cultivate tools that are the best fit for you and your relationships. In my practice, I take a compassionate yet direct, non-judgmental approach. Overall, I hope to help you explore your relationship dynamics, patterns of behavior, and emotions to help you work through the places you feel "stuck". I use trauma-informed therapies somatic psychotherapy, internal family systems, and work from a feminist, intersectional lens.
Amanda Earle
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LAC, LPC
Verified Verified
Denver, CO 80209 (Online Only)
I routinely seek out consultation and training to improve the awareness, knowledge, and skills needed to effectively serve the communities I am passionate about: the LGBTQ+ community; individuals who are Polyamorous or practice non-monogamy; members of the Kink and BDSM communities; and people who use substances.
What if I can't handle Polyamory or Non-Monogamy? Am I Queer enough? Where do I even begin to explore my Kinks or Power-exchange dynamics? Am I really Addicted?... I offer a safe and supportive space for my clients to address these questions, as well as explore other concerns regarding their identity, relationships, needs, and behaviors. As a Narrative therapist, I consider myself an active and collaborative clinician. My approach is creative and engaging, and will often incorporate metaphor, storytelling, experiential exercises, skill-building, and an emphasis on Harm Reduction. I also offer EMDR for healing trauma.
I routinely seek out consultation and training to improve the awareness, knowledge, and skills needed to effectively serve the communities I am passionate about: the LGBTQ+ community; individuals who are Polyamorous or practice non-monogamy; members of the Kink and BDSM communities; and people who use substances.
What if I can't handle Polyamory or Non-Monogamy? Am I Queer enough? Where do I even begin to explore my Kinks or Power-exchange dynamics? Am I really Addicted?... I offer a safe and supportive space for my clients to address these questions, as well as explore other concerns regarding their identity, relationships, needs, and behaviors. As a Narrative therapist, I consider myself an active and collaborative clinician. My approach is creative and engaging, and will often incorporate metaphor, storytelling, experiential exercises, skill-building, and an emphasis on Harm Reduction. I also offer EMDR for healing trauma.
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Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists
Why might an individual want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
A sex-positive or kinky individual may want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist because the client may feel safer and more supported discussing their experiences and challenges. A therapist who identifies as kink-friendly will have experience with clients having diverse sexual preferences and will likely be nonjudgmental and supportive about issues brought to the table. It is important to note that sex-positive, kink-allied individuals may find equal success with therapists who do not have such specialized knowledge and background. The most important factor in the success of therapy is for the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond.
Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in sex-positive, kink-allied treatment?
Generally, no. There are limited training programs and unofficial accreditations that therapists can pursue, but a therapist’s expertise will ultimately come from their previous experience with similar clients, their engagement with organizations that promote sex positivity or kink-allied lifestyles, and the importance they place on safety and cultural sensitivity.
How can individuals recognize a good sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
An experienced therapist is able to help clients explore their sexual identity and expression and relieve any discomfort or stigma attached to discussing such matters and the client’s overall challenges. A therapist who is sex-positive and kink-allied is able to create an environment that honors a client’s experience and sexual preferences. To recognize a good therapist, clients can simply ask directly about topics and issues important to them and gauge their comfort level and connection with a clinician based on the responses.
Can clients benefit from having a therapist with a focus on sex positivity and alternative sexual lifestyles?
Some individuals may feel most comfortable knowing that the clinician they’re working with has a commitment to creating an atmosphere of sex positivity and has experience with relationship diversity and alternative relationship structures. Working with a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist may help clients respect their own challenges and improve identity-affirming treatment.