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Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
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Sex Addiction, Trauma & Men's Aging

Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC (he, him)

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Photo of Dj Burr - Sex Addiction, Trauma & Men's Aging, Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
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Virginia Beach, VA 23462
I help men caught in cycles of compulsive sexual behavior and porn use break free from shame so they can rebuild trust with themselves and the people who matter most. If your secret life is bleeding into your real one, you're not broken. You're stuck in a pattern that makes sense once you understand where it started. Recovery isn't about perfect behavior. It's about understanding yourself well enough to make different choices.
I also work with men getting hit by what aging brings up: a health scare, a parent dying, a body that doesn't do what it used to, a marriage that feels distant, kids arriving late or leaving, and the question of who you are now. Most men were never taught to talk about any of this, so it comes out sideways.
I combine clinical training with lived recovery experience. I've sat where you're sitting. We address the behavior AND what's underneath it, with EMDR therapy when trauma is driving the pattern. Individual therapy and a men's accountability group are available. Virtual sessions for men in Georgia and Virginia. You don't have to keep managing this alone.
Take the first step to help. Call or Sex Addiction, Trauma & Men's Aging now - (757) 330-8728

Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Virginia Beach, VA 23462

(757) 330-8728

ABLE Life Recovery, LLC

Atlanta, GA 30326

Website
Accepting new clients.
I specialize in Codependency, Sexual Addiction and Men's Issues 
$255 Per Session  
I see individuals and groups  
Therapy for those suffering from codependency, sexual addiction, and trauma. Call or schedule online to get your life back on track.
Sex Addiction, Trauma & Men's Aging
Let's Connect (757) 330-8728
Photo of Dj Burr - Sex Addiction, Trauma & Men's Aging, Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC

Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Virginia Beach, VA 23462

(757) 330-8728

ABLE Life Recovery, LLC

Atlanta, GA 30326

Website
Accepting new clients.
I specialize in Codependency, Sexual Addiction and Men's Issues 
$255 Per Session  
I see individuals and groups  
Therapy for those suffering from codependency, sexual addiction, and trauma. Call or schedule online to get your life back on track.
Sex Addiction, Trauma & Men's Aging

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $255

Payment Methods

American Express, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard
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Therapy should be private and confidential. I provide you with a superbill that you can submit to your insurance for out-of-network benefits
Photo of Dj Burr - Sex Addiction, Trauma & Men's Aging, Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Sex Addiction, Trauma & Men's Aging
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
or call with questions - (757) 330-8728
"
Therapy should be private and confidential. I provide you with a superbill that you can submit to your insurance for out-of-network benefits
Photo of Dj Burr - Sex Addiction, Trauma & Men's Aging, Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Sex Addiction, Trauma & Men's Aging
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
or call with questions - (757) 330-8728

Qualifications

    Licensed Professional Counselor: Dj Burr

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of Georgia Dj Burr
    License state differs from primary location state.
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 17 years
  • Attended Argosy University, M.A. Community Counseling, Graduated 2009
  • Additional Credentials

  • Degree/Diploma from Kennesaw State University B.S. Human Services / 2006
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Certified Clinical Trauma Professional and EMDR-trained therapist with substantial experience guiding people to recovery.
Photo of Dj Burr - Sex Addiction, Trauma & Men's Aging, Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Sex Addiction, Trauma & Men's Aging
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
or call with questions - (757) 330-8728
"
Certified Clinical Trauma Professional and EMDR-trained therapist with substantial experience guiding people to recovery.
Photo of Dj Burr - Sex Addiction, Trauma & Men's Aging, Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Sex Addiction, Trauma & Men's Aging
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
or call with questions - (757) 330-8728

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Codependency
  • Sexual Addiction
  • Men's Issues

Expertise

  • Addiction
  • Anxiety
  • Behavioral Issues
  • Chronic Illness
  • Chronic Impulsivity
  • Chronic Relapse
  • Coping Skills
  • Depression
  • Emotional Regulation
  • Family Conflict
  • Grief
  • Infidelity
  • Internet Addiction
  • LGBTQ+
  • Life Transitions
  • Mood Disorders
  • Racial Identity
  • Self Esteem
  • Sexual Abuse
  • Stress
  • Trauma and PTSD
  • Video Game Addiction
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Men come to me for two things: compulsive sexual behavior they can't stop on their own, and the things aging stirs up that nobody warned them about. Both usually trace back to trauma and a lifetime of handling it alone. We work on the behavior and the history together, with 12-step recovery as a partner when you want it.
Photo of Dj Burr - Sex Addiction, Trauma & Men's Aging, Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Sex Addiction, Trauma & Men's Aging
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
or call with questions - (757) 330-8728
"
Men come to me for two things: compulsive sexual behavior they can't stop on their own, and the things aging stirs up that nobody warned them about. Both usually trace back to trauma and a lifetime of handling it alone. We work on the behavior and the history together, with 12-step recovery as a partner when you want it.
Photo of Dj Burr - Sex Addiction, Trauma & Men's Aging, Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Sex Addiction, Trauma & Men's Aging
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
or call with questions - (757) 330-8728

3 Endorsements

Dr. Shauna Pollard
Dr. Shauna Pollard
Psychologist, PhD, ADHDer
It can be so difficult to ask for help with sexual addiction in today's society. And then once you ask, your provider may not know how to help you heal. DJ has been doing this work for a long time & I highly recommend his books & groups. Message him today!
Hufsa Ahmad
Hufsa Ahmad
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
DJ is my colleague and a specialist in his field. He is a wonderful person and mentor. His lived experience means he gets it, and when you combine that with his knowledge and training, you get someone who has impacted many lives. I highly recommend DJ.
Natalie Milom
Natalie Milom
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
DJ is a phenomenal addictions therapist. He relates to his clients personally and has the professional expertise to guide them in processing the deep pain that underlies their behaviors. I wholeheartedly trust him with partners of my couples who need this.

Client Focus

Age

Adults , 
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals , 
Group

Communities

Bisexual Allied , 
Gay Allied , 
Lesbian Allied , 
Queer Allied

Ethnicity

Black and African American

Age

Adults , 
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals , 
Group

Communities

Bisexual Allied , 
Gay Allied , 
Lesbian Allied , 
Queer Allied

Ethnicity

Black and African American

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Clinical Supervision and Licensed Supervisors
  • Compassion Focused
  • EMDR
  • Interpersonal
  • Person-Centered
  • Psychodynamic
  • Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)
  • Strength-Based
  • Trauma Focused
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We start with what's happening now and work back to what's driving it. I use EMDR therapy alongside strengths-based, trauma-informed work to get at the beliefs underneath the pattern. You'll build practical skills for the week ahead and process the history that keeps pulling you back. Sessions are direct, practical, and paced to you.
Photo of Dj Burr - Sex Addiction, Trauma & Men's Aging, Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Sex Addiction, Trauma & Men's Aging
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
or call with questions - (757) 330-8728
"
We start with what's happening now and work back to what's driving it. I use EMDR therapy alongside strengths-based, trauma-informed work to get at the beliefs underneath the pattern. You'll build practical skills for the week ahead and process the history that keeps pulling you back. Sessions are direct, practical, and paced to you.
Photo of Dj Burr - Sex Addiction, Trauma & Men's Aging, Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Sex Addiction, Trauma & Men's Aging
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
or call with questions - (757) 330-8728

Groups


Location

Primary Location

Virginia Beach, VA 23462

(757) 330-8728

Additional Location

ABLE Life Recovery, LLC

Atlanta, GA 30326

(757) 330-8728
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Accepting new clients.
Photo of Dj Burr - Sex Addiction, Trauma & Men's Aging, Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Sex Addiction, Trauma & Men's Aging
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Take the first step to help. Call now - (757) 330-8728
"
Accepting new clients.
Photo of Dj Burr - Sex Addiction, Trauma & Men's Aging, Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Sex Addiction, Trauma & Men's Aging
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Take the first step to help. Call now - (757) 330-8728