Self Esteem Therapists in California

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Joshua Cross
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT
Verified Verified
San Francisco, CA 94102  (Online Only)
Do you know what you want? Do you want to be free? Happy? Relaxed in your body? Content? Passionate and sexy? Courageous in the face of fear? More connected to your partner or to the Divine? How do you get in the way of living the life you want? Do you constantly judge yourself? Noticing all the ways you "fail" to live up to way you "should" be. Or do you tend to direct that criticism outwards? Blaming others, feeling envy, or always waiting for external circumstances to line up just right so you can finally live how you want.
Do you know what you want? Do you want to be free? Happy? Relaxed in your body? Content? Passionate and sexy? Courageous in the face of fear? More connected to your partner or to the Divine? How do you get in the way of living the life you want? Do you constantly judge yourself? Noticing all the ways you "fail" to live up to way you "should" be. Or do you tend to direct that criticism outwards? Blaming others, feeling envy, or always waiting for external circumstances to line up just right so you can finally live how you want.
(415) 968-5393 View (415) 968-5393
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Jimna Mendoza
Pre-Licensed Professional, ACSW, MSW
Verified Verified
Baldwin Park, CA 91706  (Online Only)
Life's challenges, including struggles with self-esteem, personal identity, relationships, existential anxiety, and trauma often leave us feeling overwhelmed and uncertain. I offer support to navigate these difficulties, helping you regain hope and strength. In a nonjudgmental therapeutic environment, we explore your experiences, concerns, and goals. Together, we examine the past to illuminate present challenges, fostering problem-solving skills for interpersonal situations while maintaining self-respect and positive relationships.
Life's challenges, including struggles with self-esteem, personal identity, relationships, existential anxiety, and trauma often leave us feeling overwhelmed and uncertain. I offer support to navigate these difficulties, helping you regain hope and strength. In a nonjudgmental therapeutic environment, we explore your experiences, concerns, and goals. Together, we examine the past to illuminate present challenges, fostering problem-solving skills for interpersonal situations while maintaining self-respect and positive relationships.
(626) 631-7592 View (626) 631-7592
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Liz Tong
Marriage & Family Therapist, MPH, LMFT
Verified Verified
Oakland, CA 94612
My style of therapy is warm, attentive, & engaged. I believe we all need to be heard, understood & truly seen for who we are; for this is where a sense of self-trust can deepen & self-esteem can strengthen. One of my goals is to help you feel less burdened & less alone in your struggles and also provide coping strategies when you are feeling overwhelmed. I honor the uniqueness of each individual & work in a way that meets your current needs (whether you are moving through a crisis situation, having relationship issues, needing help managing anxiety & depression, or healing from trauma).
My style of therapy is warm, attentive, & engaged. I believe we all need to be heard, understood & truly seen for who we are; for this is where a sense of self-trust can deepen & self-esteem can strengthen. One of my goals is to help you feel less burdened & less alone in your struggles and also provide coping strategies when you are feeling overwhelmed. I honor the uniqueness of each individual & work in a way that meets your current needs (whether you are moving through a crisis situation, having relationship issues, needing help managing anxiety & depression, or healing from trauma).
(415) 969-3459 View (415) 969-3459
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Megan R Fenyoe
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
San Diego, CA 92124
Everyone has a unique story. Therapy is a safe place to come and deeply explore that story. We all get stuck from time to time in patterns of unhealthy thinking, behaving, and relating, and sometimes we need help changing those patterns. Therapy works in such a way that you gain insight into areas of your life and leave feeling empowered. I offer support, validation, empathy, and a safe and respectful place to share dreams, hopes, fears, and triumphs. I help clients accurately assess their challenges and identify ways they can change, capitalizing on the strengths they already have and encouraging them to build new ones.
Everyone has a unique story. Therapy is a safe place to come and deeply explore that story. We all get stuck from time to time in patterns of unhealthy thinking, behaving, and relating, and sometimes we need help changing those patterns. Therapy works in such a way that you gain insight into areas of your life and leave feeling empowered. I offer support, validation, empathy, and a safe and respectful place to share dreams, hopes, fears, and triumphs. I help clients accurately assess their challenges and identify ways they can change, capitalizing on the strengths they already have and encouraging them to build new ones.
(616) 545-8331 View (616) 545-8331
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Katherine Barnes
Psychologist, PsyD, MA
Verified Verified
Orange, CA 92867
I've learned that therapy works best when we can be two real people having an open, ongoing conversation in the room together. I specialize in treating adults, teens and couples struggling with anxiety, stress management, relationships/dating issues, depressive symptoms or simply seeking change. My approach is authentic, safe, supportive, non-judgmental, and I absolutely love the work I do. I will actively work with you toward quick relief of symptoms while we address the long-standing limiting beliefs that have been obstacles to your emotional wellness. Other areas of focus: LGBT, past trauma, self-esteem issues, creative/performing artists, college/grad students, executives.
I've learned that therapy works best when we can be two real people having an open, ongoing conversation in the room together. I specialize in treating adults, teens and couples struggling with anxiety, stress management, relationships/dating issues, depressive symptoms or simply seeking change. My approach is authentic, safe, supportive, non-judgmental, and I absolutely love the work I do. I will actively work with you toward quick relief of symptoms while we address the long-standing limiting beliefs that have been obstacles to your emotional wellness. Other areas of focus: LGBT, past trauma, self-esteem issues, creative/performing artists, college/grad students, executives.
(310) 736-2846 View (310) 736-2846
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Cathryn Wilson
Associate Professional Clinical Counselor, APCC, R-DMT, C-IAYT
Verified Verified
Laguna Niguel, CA 92677
Clients come to me to tap into their creativity, improve self esteem, and release fear/ feelings of shame in order to manage depression and anxiety.
In life, we often feel overwhelmed, out of control, or caught in patterns we can’t seem to escape. We may be affected by trauma, feel stuck in relationships, get caught in self defeating thought spirals or find that we are sabotaging ourselves. Many of us move around the world carrying secret struggles with negative thoughts, emotions, or urges, which disturb our day-to-day life and make waves in our relationships. Changing life circumstances-both positive (like the birth of a child) or negative (loss of a job)-can cause anxiety and strife.
Clients come to me to tap into their creativity, improve self esteem, and release fear/ feelings of shame in order to manage depression and anxiety.
In life, we often feel overwhelmed, out of control, or caught in patterns we can’t seem to escape. We may be affected by trauma, feel stuck in relationships, get caught in self defeating thought spirals or find that we are sabotaging ourselves. Many of us move around the world carrying secret struggles with negative thoughts, emotions, or urges, which disturb our day-to-day life and make waves in our relationships. Changing life circumstances-both positive (like the birth of a child) or negative (loss of a job)-can cause anxiety and strife.
(442) 239-4264 View (442) 239-4264
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Syreeta Green
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Victorville, CA 92392
Currently accepting new clients. Telehealth or In-person sessions available. "Even the darkest night will end and the sun will rise again"- Victor Hugo. Life is not easy and sometimes we may face unpredictable challenges, but I am here to help guide you through those difficult times and provide hope and encouragement to get you through those challenges. I have an immense passion to work with individuals, couples, and families to help find solutions to their problems and to enhance their quality of life.
Currently accepting new clients. Telehealth or In-person sessions available. "Even the darkest night will end and the sun will rise again"- Victor Hugo. Life is not easy and sometimes we may face unpredictable challenges, but I am here to help guide you through those difficult times and provide hope and encouragement to get you through those challenges. I have an immense passion to work with individuals, couples, and families to help find solutions to their problems and to enhance their quality of life.
(442) 200-2601 View (442) 200-2601
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Anyk Cajucom-Browning
Pre-Licensed Professional
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Sacramento, CA 95825
I'm deeply committed to helping individuals overcome the persistent burden of self-comparisons, low self-esteem, and social anxiety. I am committed to helping motivated clients focus on self-improvement, driven by their own desire to become the best version of themselves. I also have a strong interest in assisting couples in improving their communication and reigniting their passion for each other. I love helping couples who are committed to enhancing their well-being as a unit and breaking negative cycles.
I'm deeply committed to helping individuals overcome the persistent burden of self-comparisons, low self-esteem, and social anxiety. I am committed to helping motivated clients focus on self-improvement, driven by their own desire to become the best version of themselves. I also have a strong interest in assisting couples in improving their communication and reigniting their passion for each other. I love helping couples who are committed to enhancing their well-being as a unit and breaking negative cycles.
(916) 794-8094 View (916) 794-8094
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Dr. Iamee Kling
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Newport Beach, CA 92660  (Online Only)
I practice from a humanistic approach to help individuals with their story of healing and transformation. We often feel overpowered by the pain and suffering that life throws our way. In order to learn from it, we first need to be able to listen. I aim to create a safe space to explore painful emotions and to help you take back the reins of your journey. We are all works in progress and the beautiful thing is that we are allowed to be. You will discover that you are not alone in your hardship and I will be there with you as you build a sense of empowerment. My therapeutic style one of genuine connection, acceptance, and compassion.
I practice from a humanistic approach to help individuals with their story of healing and transformation. We often feel overpowered by the pain and suffering that life throws our way. In order to learn from it, we first need to be able to listen. I aim to create a safe space to explore painful emotions and to help you take back the reins of your journey. We are all works in progress and the beautiful thing is that we are allowed to be. You will discover that you are not alone in your hardship and I will be there with you as you build a sense of empowerment. My therapeutic style one of genuine connection, acceptance, and compassion.
(949) 267-5672 View (949) 267-5672
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Laure Saint Georges Chaumet
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Los Gatos, CA 95032
I specialize in working with individuals who find themselves overwhelmed, stressed, or at a standstill in their relationships, personal development, or life goals. If you're ready to gain insight, make positive changes, and enhance your life satisfaction, I'm here to help. My passion lies in guiding clients to understand the patterns that contribute to feeling stuck and stressed. Together, we explore new ways to manage life, fostering increased confidence and self-esteem, a calmer thought process, and a clearer path forward.
I specialize in working with individuals who find themselves overwhelmed, stressed, or at a standstill in their relationships, personal development, or life goals. If you're ready to gain insight, make positive changes, and enhance your life satisfaction, I'm here to help. My passion lies in guiding clients to understand the patterns that contribute to feeling stuck and stressed. Together, we explore new ways to manage life, fostering increased confidence and self-esteem, a calmer thought process, and a clearer path forward.
(408) 351-8547 View (408) 351-8547
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Sarah Kindred, MFTT
Pre-Licensed Professional
Verified Verified
Victorville, CA 92392  (Online Only)
We all carry our own unique stories, yet we share a universal need for support during life's most challenging moments. My focus is to create a peaceful, nurturing space and ultimately provide support for others as they navigate life's twists and turns. With over half a decade of experience, I've worked closely with teens and young adults with issues like identity development, self-esteem, anxiety, and depression. I am an ally to the LGBTQIA+ community and have experience working with individuals from all walks of life.
We all carry our own unique stories, yet we share a universal need for support during life's most challenging moments. My focus is to create a peaceful, nurturing space and ultimately provide support for others as they navigate life's twists and turns. With over half a decade of experience, I've worked closely with teens and young adults with issues like identity development, self-esteem, anxiety, and depression. I am an ally to the LGBTQIA+ community and have experience working with individuals from all walks of life.
(442) 239-6069 View (442) 239-6069
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Dr. Monica Baines
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Berkeley, CA 94705  (Online Only)
Struggling with feeling inadequate, overthinking, or living too much in your head? If doubts and harsh self-criticism weigh you down and perfectionism steals your joy, you’re in the right place. Imagine a life where anxiety isn't a burden, allowing you to thrive at work, cherish time with loved ones, and relax without guilt—even with a mile-long to-do list. If you're ready to embrace joy, relaxation, meaningful connections, and self-worth, I'd be honored to help you get there.
Struggling with feeling inadequate, overthinking, or living too much in your head? If doubts and harsh self-criticism weigh you down and perfectionism steals your joy, you’re in the right place. Imagine a life where anxiety isn't a burden, allowing you to thrive at work, cherish time with loved ones, and relax without guilt—even with a mile-long to-do list. If you're ready to embrace joy, relaxation, meaningful connections, and self-worth, I'd be honored to help you get there.
(341) 895-5832 View (341) 895-5832
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Sean Carpenter
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Los Angeles, CA 90019  (Online Only)
I have a deep passion for helping people find liberation from concerns that bring them to therapy. Understanding why we do things the way we do them is critical to growth, change and healing. I ground my work in warmth, compassion, authenticity and an understanding of how thoughts and emotions relate to neuro/physiological processes, as well as how past experiences inform current beliefs, thoughts, feelings and behaviors. My aim is to help you gain clarity into underlying causes of problems, provide strategies for coping and support you in taking risks and trying new ways of being, to live a more fulfilling and meaningful life.
I have a deep passion for helping people find liberation from concerns that bring them to therapy. Understanding why we do things the way we do them is critical to growth, change and healing. I ground my work in warmth, compassion, authenticity and an understanding of how thoughts and emotions relate to neuro/physiological processes, as well as how past experiences inform current beliefs, thoughts, feelings and behaviors. My aim is to help you gain clarity into underlying causes of problems, provide strategies for coping and support you in taking risks and trying new ways of being, to live a more fulfilling and meaningful life.
(323) 310-9754 View (323) 310-9754
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Dyana Michelle Clark
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPCC, LPC
Verified Verified
La Mesa, CA 91942
I am a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor licensed in California and Texas, with over 9 years of experience. I have worked with clients with a wide range of concerns including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, parenting problems, confidence and self esteem issues, OCD and ADHD. I am also certified in Trauma Counseling and have helped many people who have experienced physical trauma or emotional abuse, and various traumatic life experiences.
I am a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor licensed in California and Texas, with over 9 years of experience. I have worked with clients with a wide range of concerns including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, parenting problems, confidence and self esteem issues, OCD and ADHD. I am also certified in Trauma Counseling and have helped many people who have experienced physical trauma or emotional abuse, and various traumatic life experiences.
(619) 489-1030 View (619) 489-1030
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Mollie Lyddane
Psychologist, PsyD, MA
Verified Verified
Encino, CA 91436  (Online Only)
I practice a variety of different therapeutic styles designed to best address your own particular needs. Genuineness, empathy, and warmth serve as foundational elements of my way of relating. I place emphasis on facilitating an environment where you can feel safe to investigate life experiences in greater depth, identify and question deeply held beliefs that have been influencing your life, connect to and express emotions and bodily sensations as they arise in the context of our discovery process, and ultimately move towards developing a greater sense of strength, wholeness, and openness within yourself as you move forward.
I practice a variety of different therapeutic styles designed to best address your own particular needs. Genuineness, empathy, and warmth serve as foundational elements of my way of relating. I place emphasis on facilitating an environment where you can feel safe to investigate life experiences in greater depth, identify and question deeply held beliefs that have been influencing your life, connect to and express emotions and bodily sensations as they arise in the context of our discovery process, and ultimately move towards developing a greater sense of strength, wholeness, and openness within yourself as you move forward.
(213) 340-0847 View (213) 340-0847
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Antoinette De Leon
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Encino, CA 91426  (Online Only)
I work with highly sensitive adults and couples struggling with anxiety, self esteem, stress and marriage and relationship issues to find healing.
Life is overwhelming you right now. You have difficulty setting boundaries, become overstimulated easily, or have difficulty with change. You feel deeply as a highly sensitive person but you’re often misunderstood. I know what it’s like to feel emotionally exhausted and I know how to lead my clients to balanced, more fulfilling lives. My clients become masters at valuing themselves.
I work with highly sensitive adults and couples struggling with anxiety, self esteem, stress and marriage and relationship issues to find healing.
Life is overwhelming you right now. You have difficulty setting boundaries, become overstimulated easily, or have difficulty with change. You feel deeply as a highly sensitive person but you’re often misunderstood. I know what it’s like to feel emotionally exhausted and I know how to lead my clients to balanced, more fulfilling lives. My clients become masters at valuing themselves.
(818) 306-3243 View (818) 306-3243
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Erica Simanonok │ Anxiety Therapist
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MA, LCSW, PPSC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Francisco, CA 94117  (Online Only)
MARCH 2024 Accepting New Clients! Do you experience low self-esteem and negative self-talk? Are you feeling anxious or defeated a majority of the time? Are you overwhelmed or feel burnt out in your job or in life? I can support you in resolving your life stressors in order to relieve anxiety, rise up from feeling overwhelmed, and improve your self-esteem!
MARCH 2024 Accepting New Clients! Do you experience low self-esteem and negative self-talk? Are you feeling anxious or defeated a majority of the time? Are you overwhelmed or feel burnt out in your job or in life? I can support you in resolving your life stressors in order to relieve anxiety, rise up from feeling overwhelmed, and improve your self-esteem!
(707) 940-9191 View (707) 940-9191
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Revolutionary Women's Wellness
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, Coach, Mentor, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Los Angeles, CA 90089  (Online Only)
Women are often told exactly who we are supposed to be, what our bodies should like, how to behave, how to live and think. We are constantly made to feel too much and never enough. We are taught by family, culture, and society where our place is in the world. We stay silent as we are expected to offer ourselves up for exhaustion and extraction. We make sure we are not making anyone uncomfortable, not taking up too much space. We learn to shrink, hide the parts of ourselves that are “unacceptable”, and move through the world wearing a mask. But all these rules, expectations, and beliefs feel shackles. And you're ready to be free.
Women are often told exactly who we are supposed to be, what our bodies should like, how to behave, how to live and think. We are constantly made to feel too much and never enough. We are taught by family, culture, and society where our place is in the world. We stay silent as we are expected to offer ourselves up for exhaustion and extraction. We make sure we are not making anyone uncomfortable, not taking up too much space. We learn to shrink, hide the parts of ourselves that are “unacceptable”, and move through the world wearing a mask. But all these rules, expectations, and beliefs feel shackles. And you're ready to be free.
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Maria Barelli
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Pasadena, CA 91107  (Online Only)
Are you struggling at work? Maybe you're having difficulties in your relationships. Or do you want to feel more confident about yourself? During difficult times, I will help you find new ways of managing your life by teaching you coping skills. Do you beat yourself up? Therapy will teach you how to be kind to yourself. I like to do "what works". I pull from different approaches because every client is unique. My style of relating is warm and empathetic. I currently work with individuals, couples, teens, and families with issues including: Bipolar Disorder, Depression, Anxiety, and Substance abuse.
Are you struggling at work? Maybe you're having difficulties in your relationships. Or do you want to feel more confident about yourself? During difficult times, I will help you find new ways of managing your life by teaching you coping skills. Do you beat yourself up? Therapy will teach you how to be kind to yourself. I like to do "what works". I pull from different approaches because every client is unique. My style of relating is warm and empathetic. I currently work with individuals, couples, teens, and families with issues including: Bipolar Disorder, Depression, Anxiety, and Substance abuse.
(626) 236-4971 View (626) 236-4971
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Sharon Gardner
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Mendocino, CA 95460  (Online Only)
New paths can lead to improved relationships, greater self esteem, reduced anxiety, and healing from trauma.
- - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - I offer teletherapy throughout California - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Change happens when there is hope and direction; healing takes place within safety, connection and support. I am a calm and grounded person, and my clients feel supported and safe. My work is supported by training in the Hakomi method, as well as my life experience and 40+ years of Buddhist practice. I will support you in developing greater self-awareness as well as balance of body-mind-spirit. You may find yourself stuck in old patterns, following familiar paths that no longer lead where you want to go.
New paths can lead to improved relationships, greater self esteem, reduced anxiety, and healing from trauma.
- - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - I offer teletherapy throughout California - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Change happens when there is hope and direction; healing takes place within safety, connection and support. I am a calm and grounded person, and my clients feel supported and safe. My work is supported by training in the Hakomi method, as well as my life experience and 40+ years of Buddhist practice. I will support you in developing greater self-awareness as well as balance of body-mind-spirit. You may find yourself stuck in old patterns, following familiar paths that no longer lead where you want to go.
(415) 800-4839 View (415) 800-4839
Self Esteem Therapists

When should a person seek therapy for low self-esteem?

When self-esteem problems begin to disrupt the healthy daily functioning of an individual, it may be a good time to look into therapy. If a person finds that they are not engaging with friends for fear of being judged, not completing work assignments because they don’t think they’re capable, or not finding romantic love because they don’t feel they’re worthy of it, a therapist may be able to help.

What are the signs of low self-esteem?

Low self-esteem is a common issue that can affect a person's mental and emotional well-being. Some common signs of low self-esteem include negative self-talk, perfectionism, social anxiety, difficulty making decisions, an inability to set boundaries, people-pleasing, and others. A lack of belief in oneself or one’s abilities and a feeling of not being worthy or deserving underlie most of these characteristics.

What causes low self-esteem?

Feelings of low self-worth can begin in childhood or adulthood. Being raised by a highly critical parent or growing up feeling constant disapproval can stay with a person well into adulthood. Specific issues in adulthood may also be a cause of low self-esteem. An unhappy relationship, a dysfunctional work or school experience can impact a person’s feelings of self-worth.

How can therapy improve self-esteem?

Therapists can help identify negative thought patterns that keep the client stuck in a loop of destructive self-talk and develop coping skills to change the voice in their head. A therapist can help with goal-setting, so that clients are better able to stay on task and build confidence from successfully completing work they’re proud of. Coaching a client on how to better communicate can improve relationships. These skills can result in someone with low self-esteem feeling empowered and living with less fear.