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Alexis Warrington
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
San Francisco, CA 94117  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
Everyone wants to feel that they are good enough. The reality though, is that most of us struggle to feel that we are acceptable and lovable just as we are. If you resonate with this, you're not alone. These beliefs tend to operate in the background of your mind, subconsciously influencing your self-esteem, limiting the way you show up in relationships, work and leisure, and creating painful cycles of depression and anxiety. Therapy with me is a safe space to challenge patterns, expand limiting beliefs, heal your inner child, and develop a wise, confident, and secure authentic self to guide you through the ups and downs of life.
Everyone wants to feel that they are good enough. The reality though, is that most of us struggle to feel that we are acceptable and lovable just as we are. If you resonate with this, you're not alone. These beliefs tend to operate in the background of your mind, subconsciously influencing your self-esteem, limiting the way you show up in relationships, work and leisure, and creating painful cycles of depression and anxiety. Therapy with me is a safe space to challenge patterns, expand limiting beliefs, heal your inner child, and develop a wise, confident, and secure authentic self to guide you through the ups and downs of life.
(760) 965-7152 View (760) 965-7152
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Dan Scharlack
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
San Francisco, CA 94110
What is it you most deeply want? I can help you find your natural strengths and let go of old beliefs and painful emotions that stand in the way of you loving the life you live. Through a mindful and compassionate inquiry into places where you feel stuck, I help you to extinguish negative patterns and to recognize and express your true gifts in the world. Many of my clients are artists and creative professionals. My specialties include helping you to have more fulfilling relationships, expand your creativity, overcome addictive patterns, develop your self-esteem, and experience greater personal growth.
What is it you most deeply want? I can help you find your natural strengths and let go of old beliefs and painful emotions that stand in the way of you loving the life you live. Through a mindful and compassionate inquiry into places where you feel stuck, I help you to extinguish negative patterns and to recognize and express your true gifts in the world. Many of my clients are artists and creative professionals. My specialties include helping you to have more fulfilling relationships, expand your creativity, overcome addictive patterns, develop your self-esteem, and experience greater personal growth.
(415) 704-8638 View (415) 704-8638
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Marco Fekrat
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Francisco, CA 94117  (Online Only)
I am a Licensed Clinical Psychologist with over 15 years of experience working with individuals and couples. My specialties include relationship issues, depression, anxiety, trauma, self-esteem issues, sexuality and working with the LGBTQ population. My goal is to help you better balance yourself in the present, day to day, and dive deep with you to understand the root cause. Truly effective therapy, in my view, happens when we are ready to look deeply and critically at our current situation, ready to make sustainable, and practical changes.
I am a Licensed Clinical Psychologist with over 15 years of experience working with individuals and couples. My specialties include relationship issues, depression, anxiety, trauma, self-esteem issues, sexuality and working with the LGBTQ population. My goal is to help you better balance yourself in the present, day to day, and dive deep with you to understand the root cause. Truly effective therapy, in my view, happens when we are ready to look deeply and critically at our current situation, ready to make sustainable, and practical changes.
(310) 421-0140 View (310) 421-0140
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Jordan Davis
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Francisco, CA 94110  (Online Only)
Hello! I am currently only offering sessions via Telehealth (online video) across the state of California. For clients who live in northern CA, I only accept/take Kaiser Nor-Cal. I welcome motivated individuals who are ready to go on a journey of healing, self-discovery, & personal growth. I have a strong passion working with college students, adults, & the older adult/elderly community. Whether you're dealing with anxiety, depression, stress or working on your self-esteem, anger management, or communication skills, I am here to create a safe, comfortable, & non-judgmental environment for you to open up & be vulnerable.
Hello! I am currently only offering sessions via Telehealth (online video) across the state of California. For clients who live in northern CA, I only accept/take Kaiser Nor-Cal. I welcome motivated individuals who are ready to go on a journey of healing, self-discovery, & personal growth. I have a strong passion working with college students, adults, & the older adult/elderly community. Whether you're dealing with anxiety, depression, stress or working on your self-esteem, anger management, or communication skills, I am here to create a safe, comfortable, & non-judgmental environment for you to open up & be vulnerable.
(805) 232-7626 View (805) 232-7626
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Erica Simanonok │ Anxiety Therapist
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MA, LCSW, PPSC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Francisco, CA 94117  (Online Only)
MARCH 2024 Accepting New Clients! Do you experience low self-esteem and negative self-talk? Are you feeling anxious or defeated a majority of the time? Are you overwhelmed or feel burnt out in your job or in life? I can support you in resolving your life stressors in order to relieve anxiety, rise up from feeling overwhelmed, and improve your self-esteem!
MARCH 2024 Accepting New Clients! Do you experience low self-esteem and negative self-talk? Are you feeling anxious or defeated a majority of the time? Are you overwhelmed or feel burnt out in your job or in life? I can support you in resolving your life stressors in order to relieve anxiety, rise up from feeling overwhelmed, and improve your self-esteem!
(707) 940-9191 View (707) 940-9191
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Katie Romley
Counselor, MEd, LPCC, PPSC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Francisco, CA 94123
Tell me your story. If you've ever felt like you had a "picture perfect" life, but yet feel unable to enjoy yourself, or unable to express yourself, I may be able to relate and understand. Safety and support are hugely important to me. I offer psychotherapy in a supportive, non-judgmental style. Words that have been used to describe my style and my setting: warm, personal, insightful, thought-provoking, relaxed. If you feel like you need a therapist who is easy to talk with, but can also help you strategically think through issues, I might be the right fit.
Tell me your story. If you've ever felt like you had a "picture perfect" life, but yet feel unable to enjoy yourself, or unable to express yourself, I may be able to relate and understand. Safety and support are hugely important to me. I offer psychotherapy in a supportive, non-judgmental style. Words that have been used to describe my style and my setting: warm, personal, insightful, thought-provoking, relaxed. If you feel like you need a therapist who is easy to talk with, but can also help you strategically think through issues, I might be the right fit.
(661) 215-8656 View (661) 215-8656
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Euriah (Dong E.) Lee
Marriage & Family Therapist, MSMFT, LMFT
Verified Verified
San Francisco, CA 94105  (Online Only)
We all know life can be stressful and filled with different challenges that overwhelm us. It is only natural that sometimes you may feel lost and helpless when you try to deal with these matters by yourself, including life transitions, work stress, relationship difficulties, cultural/racial problems and so on. I would like to assist you in navigating your path to better understand these issues, find best ways to manage them, and process your emotions in a safe place, so that you can better yourself and achieve your goals through that experience. In our work together, I will help you to live a more meaningful and joyful life.
We all know life can be stressful and filled with different challenges that overwhelm us. It is only natural that sometimes you may feel lost and helpless when you try to deal with these matters by yourself, including life transitions, work stress, relationship difficulties, cultural/racial problems and so on. I would like to assist you in navigating your path to better understand these issues, find best ways to manage them, and process your emotions in a safe place, so that you can better yourself and achieve your goals through that experience. In our work together, I will help you to live a more meaningful and joyful life.
(310) 879-1350 View (310) 879-1350
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Erika Prigo
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
San Francisco, CA 94118
My name is Erika Prigo; I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (139621). I believe that all people deserve nothing but the best quality of life that is possible. They should be allowed to complete their tasks every day with full ease and satisfaction. It is quite easy to take all of these tasks for granted, not taking into consideration existential problems that present themselves regardless of age. I use a combination of treatment modalities, such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy, Existential Therapy, and Narrative Therapy, to find the best fit for you.
My name is Erika Prigo; I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (139621). I believe that all people deserve nothing but the best quality of life that is possible. They should be allowed to complete their tasks every day with full ease and satisfaction. It is quite easy to take all of these tasks for granted, not taking into consideration existential problems that present themselves regardless of age. I use a combination of treatment modalities, such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy, Existential Therapy, and Narrative Therapy, to find the best fit for you.
(408) 668-0236 View (408) 668-0236
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Edward Carl Vanderclute
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
San Francisco, CA 94110
Through Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, I can help you focus on your strengths, many of which you may not have even been aware of, build your self esteem and begin to love yourself again.
Are you down on yourself, beating yourself up with thoughts like "I'm not good enough, I'm a failure, I should work harder than I do or I'll never get what I want out of life?" Do you focus on your flaws rather than your strengths and maybe have even forgotten what your strengths are? I can help you identify, challenge and change those distorted, negative, self defeating ideas to give you a more realistic, compassionate and affirming sense of yourself.
Through Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, I can help you focus on your strengths, many of which you may not have even been aware of, build your self esteem and begin to love yourself again.
Are you down on yourself, beating yourself up with thoughts like "I'm not good enough, I'm a failure, I should work harder than I do or I'll never get what I want out of life?" Do you focus on your flaws rather than your strengths and maybe have even forgotten what your strengths are? I can help you identify, challenge and change those distorted, negative, self defeating ideas to give you a more realistic, compassionate and affirming sense of yourself.
(415) 881-1233 View (415) 881-1233
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Susan Abbott
MA, MCT
Verified Verified
San Francisco, CA 94118
My style is collaborative, compassionate and non formulaic. Together, we decide what the issues are and how to tackle them. A special focus of my practice is with creative's and culturally diverse people. Besides teaching clients new skills to overcome their feelings of depression, anxiety, trauma or low self-esteem, I am also trained as a master career coach and can help you find greater meaning in your career choices or achieve success in your job search or in improving your work relationships.
My style is collaborative, compassionate and non formulaic. Together, we decide what the issues are and how to tackle them. A special focus of my practice is with creative's and culturally diverse people. Besides teaching clients new skills to overcome their feelings of depression, anxiety, trauma or low self-esteem, I am also trained as a master career coach and can help you find greater meaning in your career choices or achieve success in your job search or in improving your work relationships.
(707) 368-4136 View (707) 368-4136
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Auria Zahed
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
San Francisco, CA 94103  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
Hi there! My name is Auria Zahed, and I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. I work with adults who are struggling with stress, anxiety, or depression due to the impacts of a negative self-talk, low self-esteem, people-pleasing, or feeling "stuck". In each therapy session, I focus on mental well-being and emotional awareness, and my approach is a combination of a few therapeutic modalities. My sessions incorporate healing past traumas alongside accomplishing present goals. I currently specialize in working with women, victims of narcissistic abuse, and clients who identify as LGBTQ+ and/or BIPOC.
Hi there! My name is Auria Zahed, and I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. I work with adults who are struggling with stress, anxiety, or depression due to the impacts of a negative self-talk, low self-esteem, people-pleasing, or feeling "stuck". In each therapy session, I focus on mental well-being and emotional awareness, and my approach is a combination of a few therapeutic modalities. My sessions incorporate healing past traumas alongside accomplishing present goals. I currently specialize in working with women, victims of narcissistic abuse, and clients who identify as LGBTQ+ and/or BIPOC.
(714) 786-1711 View (714) 786-1711
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Carmen Mercado
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, MFTI
Verified Verified
San Francisco, CA 94101
ALL types of addiction, FAMILY scapegoating, self esteem issues and relational difficulties.
Everyone needs support.Have you been dealing with life with no support from friends or family? Are you dealing with childhood trauma, estrangement and or abandonment from your family of origin?Are you having difficulty attracting and keeping a healthy intimate relationship? Maybe you have been coping all these years without really exploring and understanding your pain.We help clients understand themselves with compassion rather than shame and self judgment.We are sensitive to your values ,needs and are culturally sensitive. I work well with actors struggling through their challenges. Hablo ESPANOL
ALL types of addiction, FAMILY scapegoating, self esteem issues and relational difficulties.
Everyone needs support.Have you been dealing with life with no support from friends or family? Are you dealing with childhood trauma, estrangement and or abandonment from your family of origin?Are you having difficulty attracting and keeping a healthy intimate relationship? Maybe you have been coping all these years without really exploring and understanding your pain.We help clients understand themselves with compassion rather than shame and self judgment.We are sensitive to your values ,needs and are culturally sensitive. I work well with actors struggling through their challenges. Hablo ESPANOL
(424) 269-2080 View (424) 269-2080
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Stephanie Ha
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
San Francisco, CA 94121  (Online Only)
Are you highly critical of yourself and deeply unsatisfied? Do you feel as if you're not good enough no matter how hard you try? Are you struggling with imposter syndrome and low self-esteem? Do you feel frustrated and overwhelmed and tend to compare yourself to those around you? Are you looking for more joy, satisfaction, greater peace, and healing in your life?
Are you highly critical of yourself and deeply unsatisfied? Do you feel as if you're not good enough no matter how hard you try? Are you struggling with imposter syndrome and low self-esteem? Do you feel frustrated and overwhelmed and tend to compare yourself to those around you? Are you looking for more joy, satisfaction, greater peace, and healing in your life?
(916) 975-6170 View (916) 975-6170
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Tiffani Calcote
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
San Francisco, CA 94110  (Online Only)
Day-to-day stressors, relationships, money problems, and even social media can provoke anxiety, negatively impact self-esteem and diminish a sense of well-being. In this day and age, most of us would benefit from having at least one non-judgmental person around who can provide solid guidance in helping us work through troublesome thoughts and feelings. "Be yourself," I always say. I'm here to provide a supportive environment that will foster growth and positive change. I provide culturally sensitive, individual therapy using evidence-based practices, including the application of a psychodynamic and cognitive-behavioral approach.
Day-to-day stressors, relationships, money problems, and even social media can provoke anxiety, negatively impact self-esteem and diminish a sense of well-being. In this day and age, most of us would benefit from having at least one non-judgmental person around who can provide solid guidance in helping us work through troublesome thoughts and feelings. "Be yourself," I always say. I'm here to provide a supportive environment that will foster growth and positive change. I provide culturally sensitive, individual therapy using evidence-based practices, including the application of a psychodynamic and cognitive-behavioral approach.
(310) 861-2029 View (310) 861-2029
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Precious E Nwaoha
Associate Clinical Social Worker, MSW, ASW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
San Francisco, CA 94101  (Online Only)
Hi there! My name is Precious (Associate Clinical Social Worker License 111674) and I have a passion for serving diverse populations who may be affected by anxiety, depression, self-esteem issues, women's health issues, and need support establishing coping skills. I am very versed and comfortable with diagnosis, even though I firmly believe it does not define who you are, it just provides a map for creating coping skills for you together. I am supervised by Cassandra Holt Kimbell, MSED, LPCC-S at Freestyle Therapy LLC and serve populations across California. Seeing clients virtually allows me to expand my reach of who I can help.
Hi there! My name is Precious (Associate Clinical Social Worker License 111674) and I have a passion for serving diverse populations who may be affected by anxiety, depression, self-esteem issues, women's health issues, and need support establishing coping skills. I am very versed and comfortable with diagnosis, even though I firmly believe it does not define who you are, it just provides a map for creating coping skills for you together. I am supervised by Cassandra Holt Kimbell, MSED, LPCC-S at Freestyle Therapy LLC and serve populations across California. Seeing clients virtually allows me to expand my reach of who I can help.
(323) 475-6221 View (323) 475-6221
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Kirsten Cheong
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Francisco, CA 94118  (Online Only)
I help women with their anxiety, self esteem, and women's issues related to people-pleasing overcome the negative thinking and negative feelings associated with putting others before themselves.
Anxiety really sucks. People-pleasing because saying 'no' scares you. Holding it together on the outside but falling apart within. Willing to sacrifice your needs for the needs of others. You're anxious all the time but you don't know how to handle it. Your thoughts are racing, heart pounding, palms sweating…and you don’t know how to stop. Overthinking is your go-to but it never helps. And you practice what you're going to say because you're afraid to upset others. I help anxious women struggling with people-pleasing and setting healthy boundaries with less guilt, shame, and fear.
I help women with their anxiety, self esteem, and women's issues related to people-pleasing overcome the negative thinking and negative feelings associated with putting others before themselves.
Anxiety really sucks. People-pleasing because saying 'no' scares you. Holding it together on the outside but falling apart within. Willing to sacrifice your needs for the needs of others. You're anxious all the time but you don't know how to handle it. Your thoughts are racing, heart pounding, palms sweating…and you don’t know how to stop. Overthinking is your go-to but it never helps. And you practice what you're going to say because you're afraid to upset others. I help anxious women struggling with people-pleasing and setting healthy boundaries with less guilt, shame, and fear.
(951) 338-8682 View (951) 338-8682
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Jesselyn S Fernandez
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MS, AMFT, APCC
Verified Verified
San Francisco, CA 94108  (Online Only)
Hello! My name is Jesselyn, I am a Filipina-American LGBTQIA+ affirming Associate Marriage and Family Therapist and Associate Professional Clinical Counselor with Modern Life Solutions. I strive to create a safe and inclusive space for individuals of all sexual orientations and gender identities to explore their mental health and well-being. My approach is strength-based, rooted in empathy, cultural awareness, and client-centered care. Whether you are struggling with anxiety, depression, self-esteem, relationship issues, or identity exploration, I am committed to working collaboratively to help you navigate your true authentic self.
Hello! My name is Jesselyn, I am a Filipina-American LGBTQIA+ affirming Associate Marriage and Family Therapist and Associate Professional Clinical Counselor with Modern Life Solutions. I strive to create a safe and inclusive space for individuals of all sexual orientations and gender identities to explore their mental health and well-being. My approach is strength-based, rooted in empathy, cultural awareness, and client-centered care. Whether you are struggling with anxiety, depression, self-esteem, relationship issues, or identity exploration, I am committed to working collaboratively to help you navigate your true authentic self.
(657) 571-1245 View (657) 571-1245
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Elaine Dove
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
San Francisco, CA 94101  (Online Only)
Are you having a difficult time? I will help you. I will listen to your concerns and come to understand your core issues and what will be useful in helping you resolve your distress. The goal is to help you improve your self-esteem, reduce your anxiety, build confidence, resolve conflicts, reduce your symptoms and improve your relationships. I provide a compassionate, integrated and collaborative approach that makes working together a positive experience.
Are you having a difficult time? I will help you. I will listen to your concerns and come to understand your core issues and what will be useful in helping you resolve your distress. The goal is to help you improve your self-esteem, reduce your anxiety, build confidence, resolve conflicts, reduce your symptoms and improve your relationships. I provide a compassionate, integrated and collaborative approach that makes working together a positive experience.
(858) 283-3965 View (858) 283-3965
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Reconnect Relationship - Dr. Gilbert Chalepas
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
San Francisco, CA 94124  (Online Only)
Do you often find yourself agreeing to things you don’t like or don't want to do? Have you had enough of being overly accommodating in order to please others at the cost of your own wellbeing, without much of a return? Isn't it time to break this endless cycle and stop pleasing everyone but yourself? I’m here to help. As your psychologist, I’ll provide you with a safe judgment-free space to be vulnerable, where we can discuss your situation and examine your habits that are making it hard for you to stop pleasing others. During our sessions, you can feel heard and empowered to start living your life for yourself, and not others.
Do you often find yourself agreeing to things you don’t like or don't want to do? Have you had enough of being overly accommodating in order to please others at the cost of your own wellbeing, without much of a return? Isn't it time to break this endless cycle and stop pleasing everyone but yourself? I’m here to help. As your psychologist, I’ll provide you with a safe judgment-free space to be vulnerable, where we can discuss your situation and examine your habits that are making it hard for you to stop pleasing others. During our sessions, you can feel heard and empowered to start living your life for yourself, and not others.
(310) 627-2088 View (310) 627-2088
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Rachel Braun
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
San Francisco, CA 94110  (Online Only)
Are you feeling that you’re not able to truly be yourself around your family, friends or your partner? Does it feel like there is not enough space for your wants and needs when you’re with others? Or maybe you’re wondering, who am I outside of work or my relationships? If so, you’ve already taken a major step in looking for a therapist to support you. I specialize in working with feelings of low self-confidence and low self-esteem, dysfunctional family dynamics, codependency, and creating and maintaining boundaries.
Are you feeling that you’re not able to truly be yourself around your family, friends or your partner? Does it feel like there is not enough space for your wants and needs when you’re with others? Or maybe you’re wondering, who am I outside of work or my relationships? If so, you’ve already taken a major step in looking for a therapist to support you. I specialize in working with feelings of low self-confidence and low self-esteem, dysfunctional family dynamics, codependency, and creating and maintaining boundaries.
(707) 940-3732 View (707) 940-3732

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Self Esteem Therapists

When should a person seek therapy for low self-esteem?

When self-esteem problems begin to disrupt the healthy daily functioning of an individual, it may be a good time to look into therapy. If a person finds that they are not engaging with friends for fear of being judged, not completing work assignments because they don’t think they’re capable, or not finding romantic love because they don’t feel they’re worthy of it, a therapist may be able to help.

What are the signs of low self-esteem?

Low self-esteem is a common issue that can affect a person's mental and emotional well-being. Some common signs of low self-esteem include negative self-talk, perfectionism, social anxiety, difficulty making decisions, an inability to set boundaries, people-pleasing, and others. A lack of belief in oneself or one’s abilities and a feeling of not being worthy or deserving underlie most of these characteristics.

What causes low self-esteem?

Feelings of low self-worth can begin in childhood or adulthood. Being raised by a highly critical parent or growing up feeling constant disapproval can stay with a person well into adulthood. Specific issues in adulthood may also be a cause of low self-esteem. An unhappy relationship, a dysfunctional work or school experience can impact a person’s feelings of self-worth.

How can therapy improve self-esteem?

Therapists can help identify negative thought patterns that keep the client stuck in a loop of destructive self-talk and develop coping skills to change the voice in their head. A therapist can help with goal-setting, so that clients are better able to stay on task and build confidence from successfully completing work they’re proud of. Coaching a client on how to better communicate can improve relationships. These skills can result in someone with low self-esteem feeling empowered and living with less fear.