Scott Balderson
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
5 Endorsed
Let's Connect (415) 347-5961

I specialize in working with gay men and LGBTQ+ clients who want more than traditional “talk therapy.” Many of my clients are high-functioning professionals who appear successful on the outside but struggle with anxiety, stress, or disconnection on the inside. You may be asking: How can therapy really make a difference?
My approach is grounded in mindfulness, the practice of observing the present moment without judgment. Research shows mindfulness is highly effective for anxiety, depression, and addiction. In our work, you’ll learn practical tools to shift from stress and suffering into greater clarity, resilience, and aliveness.
As a couples therapist trained in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), I help partners—gay and straight—rebuild trust, communication, and intimacy. Together, we’ll untangle negative patterns and create healthier ways of connecting.
For over 25 years, I’ve served the gay community in San Francisco’s Castro District, supporting individuals and couples in navigating identity, relationships, and personal growth. My work is also informed by yoga, meditation, neuroscience, and indigenous healing practices, offering a holistic path to well-being.
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Finances
Fees
- Individual Sessions $225
- Couple Sessions $225
Payment Methods
American Express, Cash, Check, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, VisaInsurance
- Out of Network
Scott Balderson
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Check fees and, if listed, ask to verify your insurance coverage. Email or (415) 347-5961
Qualifications
- Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of California / MFC 34280 Scott Balderson
- Attended California Institute of Integral Studies, Graduated 1994
Education and Years In Practice
Scott Balderson
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Feel free to ask about qualifications and training experience. Email or (415) 347-5961
Specialties and Expertise
Top Specialties
- Depression
- Anxiety
- Relationship Issues
Expertise
- Addiction
- Alcohol Use
- Bisexual
- Grief
- Internet Addiction
- Lesbian
- LGBTQ+
- Life Coaching
- Men's Issues
- Peer Relationships
- Self Esteem
- Spirituality
- Substance Use
- Thinking Disorders
Scott Balderson
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Do these issues align with your needs? Email or (415) 347-5961
5 Endorsements
Client Focus
Age
Adults
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples
Communities
Bisexual Allied ,
Gay Allied ,
HIV / AIDS Allied ,
Lesbian Allied
Age
Adults
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples
Communities
Bisexual Allied ,
Gay Allied ,
HIV / AIDS Allied ,
Lesbian Allied
Treatment Approach
Types of Therapy
- Attachment-based
- Coaching
- EFT / Emotionally Focused Therapy (for couples)
- Humanistic
- Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
- Somatic / Hakomi
- Transpersonal
Scott Balderson
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. Email or (415) 347-5961