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Sara Alexander
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT

Sara Alexander

Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT

Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
San Francisco, CA 94118
Let's Connect (415) 969-7119
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Every Relationship (married, sibings, parent/child, friend, co worker, etc.) is a Long Conversation and I can help you have much better conversations with the people you love and/or have to deal with in your daily life. In couples/family therapy with me you can learn new communication skills and practice "love-saving" ideas that are not easy to apply, but are empowering. We are who we are, and we feel what we feel (no such thing as a wrong or bad feeling), but it is possible to grow an enormous tenderness towards ourselves and others, and even inner peace, and a sense of humour.
Our primary relationship is our relationship to ourselves. With ourselves- and with others - I encourage a 'no-fault' perspective. It is not easy to be forgiving towards yourself, and/or someone who has hurt you. But once freed from blaming and defending, we can feel great love, and authentic connection.
Studying, teaching and practicing yoga and meditation have brought a Buddhist edge to my Jewish sensibilities. Being an artist, a writer, a sibling of two disabled sisters, and 77 years old, also shape my perspectives on life. As have my 45 years experience as a therapist, and the 6 years that I lived in Italy and France.
Call or Sara Alexander now for a free 15 minute consultation - (415) 969-7119

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

San Francisco, CA 94118

(415) 969-7119
I offer online sessions for individuals/couples/families. Weds-Fri, 11 - 5. Occasional in-person sessions available on Fridays.
I specialize in Marital and Premarital, Infidelity and Relationship Issues 
$250 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals, couples and families  
Let's Connect (415) 969-7119
Photo of Sara Alexander, Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

San Francisco, CA 94118

(415) 969-7119
I offer online sessions for individuals/couples/families. Weds-Fri, 11 - 5. Occasional in-person sessions available on Fridays.
I specialize in Marital and Premarital, Infidelity and Relationship Issues 
$250 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals, couples and families  

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $250
  • Couple Sessions $250

Payment Methods

Cash, Check, Paypal, Zelle

Insurance

  • I'm not on any insurance panels
  • Some clients do get reimbursed from insurance
  • Out of Network
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Sara Alexander
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT
Check fees and, if listed, ask to verify your insurance coverage. or (415) 969-7119
Photo of Sara Alexander, Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT
Sara Alexander
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT
Check fees and, if listed, ask to verify your insurance coverage. or (415) 969-7119

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of California / MFC22719 Sara Alexander
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 45 years
  • Attended Antioch West University, M.A. in Holistic Psychology, Graduated 1983
  • Additional Credentials

  • Licensed by State of California / MFC22719
Photo of Sara Alexander, Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT
Sara Alexander
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT
Feel free to ask about qualifications and training experience. or (415) 969-7119
Photo of Sara Alexander, Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT
Sara Alexander
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT
Feel free to ask about qualifications and training experience. or (415) 969-7119

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Marital and Premarital
  • Infidelity
  • Relationship Issues

Expertise

  • Addiction
  • Anxiety
  • Codependency
  • couples, communication, meditation
  • Depression
  • Divorce
  • Eating Disorders
  • Grief
  • Men's Issues
  • Mood Disorders
  • Narcissistic Personality (NPD)
  • Obesity
  • Peer Relationships
  • Personality Disorders
  • Self Esteem
  • Spirituality
  • Weight Loss
  • Women's Issues
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I believe that certain communication, and self awareness skills (listen before you respond, talk about yourself not the other person, "I" statements, not questions, etc.) and ideas ("no fault conversation", stay in the here and now, benefit of the doubt ) make for a better conversation. Relationships are a 'long conversation'. I help you have the best possible conversations/relationship
Photo of Sara Alexander, Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT
Sara Alexander
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 969-7119
"
I believe that certain communication, and self awareness skills (listen before you respond, talk about yourself not the other person, "I" statements, not questions, etc.) and ideas ("no fault conversation", stay in the here and now, benefit of the doubt ) make for a better conversation. Relationships are a 'long conversation'. I help you have the best possible conversations/relationship
Photo of Sara Alexander, Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT
Sara Alexander
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 969-7119

Client Focus

Age

Teen
Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

I also speak

French

Age

Teen
Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

I also speak

French

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Attachment-based
  • Coaching
  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Eclectic
  • Emotionally Focused
  • Existential
  • Family / Marital
  • Family Systems
  • I like to include a social perspective
  • I think about Gender differences
  • I think we are all at 'different movies'
  • Integrative
  • Interpersonal
  • Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
  • Motivational Interviewing
  • Narrative
  • Psychodynamic
  • Relational
  • Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)
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My goal is to have therapy be 'a useful conversation'. I listen carefully and offer my response to what you are saying and how you see yourself and the world...aka I offer feedback. In couples therapy I slow down and focus the conversation, and input some ideas: "no-fault/shared fault", "benefit of the doubt", "present moment" focus, as needed...and help you empathize with yourself/each other.
Photo of Sara Alexander, Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT
Sara Alexander
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 969-7119
"
My goal is to have therapy be 'a useful conversation'. I listen carefully and offer my response to what you are saying and how you see yourself and the world...aka I offer feedback. In couples therapy I slow down and focus the conversation, and input some ideas: "no-fault/shared fault", "benefit of the doubt", "present moment" focus, as needed...and help you empathize with yourself/each other.
Photo of Sara Alexander, Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT
Sara Alexander
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 969-7119

Location

Primary Location

San Francisco, CA 94118

(415) 969-7119
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I offer online sessions for individuals/couples/families. Weds-Fri, 11 - 5. Occasional in-person sessions available on Fridays.
Photo of Sara Alexander, Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT
Sara Alexander
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT
Call for a free consultation now - (415) 969-7119
"
I offer online sessions for individuals/couples/families. Weds-Fri, 11 - 5. Occasional in-person sessions available on Fridays.
Photo of Sara Alexander, Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT
Sara Alexander
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT
Call for a free consultation now - (415) 969-7119