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Ashley Lacy
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98134
As a relationship therapist, I can help you identify habits that aren’t working for you and help you create new ways of moving in your world.
Whatever the reason you are here, welcome. I’m glad that you are taking steps toward prioritizing you and your health. We all deserve health, happiness, and aliveness and therapy can be a part of that journey. You might be dissatisfied with your life or relationships and want change. Your experience of dissatisfaction can look like anxiety, depression, disconnection from your desire or pleasure, identity confusion, or feelings of self-hatred or worthlessness. I work with clients from a variety of backgrounds, religions, cultures, and communities, including the queer community, and with people in all types of relationship styles.
As a relationship therapist, I can help you identify habits that aren’t working for you and help you create new ways of moving in your world.
Whatever the reason you are here, welcome. I’m glad that you are taking steps toward prioritizing you and your health. We all deserve health, happiness, and aliveness and therapy can be a part of that journey. You might be dissatisfied with your life or relationships and want change. Your experience of dissatisfaction can look like anxiety, depression, disconnection from your desire or pleasure, identity confusion, or feelings of self-hatred or worthlessness. I work with clients from a variety of backgrounds, religions, cultures, and communities, including the queer community, and with people in all types of relationship styles.
(206) 590-7399 View (206) 590-7399
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Christy Forrester
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98109  (Online Only)
I specialize in couples and individuals with concerns such as anxiety, depression, trauma recovery, PTSD, grief, loss, miscarriage, food/body issues, anger, self-harm, mood disorders, life transitions, relationship issues, sex life, teen issues, parenting, domestic violence, sexual abuse and assault.
Are you wishing for better relationships? Feeling anxious, down, lost, or wondering about the meaning of life? Would you like to feel more confident? Hoping to heal after trauma? Going through loss or life transition? We need lots of self-compassion so we can heal and find a better approach to our lives and relationships. I offer a non-judgmental space to be open about your struggles and explore what it means to live in your values. It is through our common humanity that I relate to my clients. I believe the struggles we face also occur in the systems of race, class, gender, sexuality, age, ability, religion, and national identity.
I specialize in couples and individuals with concerns such as anxiety, depression, trauma recovery, PTSD, grief, loss, miscarriage, food/body issues, anger, self-harm, mood disorders, life transitions, relationship issues, sex life, teen issues, parenting, domestic violence, sexual abuse and assault.
Are you wishing for better relationships? Feeling anxious, down, lost, or wondering about the meaning of life? Would you like to feel more confident? Hoping to heal after trauma? Going through loss or life transition? We need lots of self-compassion so we can heal and find a better approach to our lives and relationships. I offer a non-judgmental space to be open about your struggles and explore what it means to live in your values. It is through our common humanity that I relate to my clients. I believe the struggles we face also occur in the systems of race, class, gender, sexuality, age, ability, religion, and national identity.
(206) 207-6684 View (206) 207-6684
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Danielle LeVee
Counselor, LMHC, MA
Verified Verified
Seattle, WA 98103  (Online Only)
I specialize in anxiety, depression, relationship issues, and spiritual growth.
I'm once again welcoming new clients. If you are experiencing anxiety, depression, fatigue, or overwhelming emotions, I encourage you to reach out to me. I'm dedicated to helping you minimize and manage stress, understand and navigate your emotions, and develop more effective strategies for these challenging times. I'll pay close nonjudgmental attention to both what is voiced and what lies beneath the surface, responding with empathy, sincerity, and insightful guidance.
I specialize in anxiety, depression, relationship issues, and spiritual growth.
I'm once again welcoming new clients. If you are experiencing anxiety, depression, fatigue, or overwhelming emotions, I encourage you to reach out to me. I'm dedicated to helping you minimize and manage stress, understand and navigate your emotions, and develop more effective strategies for these challenging times. I'll pay close nonjudgmental attention to both what is voiced and what lies beneath the surface, responding with empathy, sincerity, and insightful guidance.
(206) 309-4679 View (206) 309-4679
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Tamara L. Severn
Marriage & Family Therapist, Tamara, Severn, LMFT
Verified Verified
Seattle, WA 98103  (Online Only)
I'm skilled at helping client’s overcome obstacles that lead to painful relationship issues and self defeating behaviors.
Welcome and thank you for visiting my therapy profile. I offer a highly personalized, supportive approach tailored to your specific needs. As your therapist, I will provide you with a safe environment to explore and process your feelings. We will work together to develop a treatment plan that fits your therapy goals.
I'm skilled at helping client’s overcome obstacles that lead to painful relationship issues and self defeating behaviors.
Welcome and thank you for visiting my therapy profile. I offer a highly personalized, supportive approach tailored to your specific needs. As your therapist, I will provide you with a safe environment to explore and process your feelings. We will work together to develop a treatment plan that fits your therapy goals.
(206) 495-0507 View (206) 495-0507
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Lauren Robinson
Counselor, MA, LMHCA
Verified Verified
14 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98102  (Online Only)
I specialize in supporting individuals dealing with complex trauma, anxiety, spiritual abuse, and relationship issues.
As a Licensed Mental Health Counselor Associate, and as someone who has also been in the client seat, I consider it an honor to walk alongside you on your journey towards wholeness and healing. Our lives are woven with intricate relationships—with others and with ourselves—bringing both joy and pain. In our sessions together, we'll tenderly explore these past hurts, emotions, and perspectives, offering a space for transformation and growth.
I specialize in supporting individuals dealing with complex trauma, anxiety, spiritual abuse, and relationship issues.
As a Licensed Mental Health Counselor Associate, and as someone who has also been in the client seat, I consider it an honor to walk alongside you on your journey towards wholeness and healing. Our lives are woven with intricate relationships—with others and with ourselves—bringing both joy and pain. In our sessions together, we'll tenderly explore these past hurts, emotions, and perspectives, offering a space for transformation and growth.
(425) 272-6106 View (425) 272-6106
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John Paul Gaylor
Counselor, MA, LMHCA
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98101
As an individual, couples, and sex therapist, my passion lies in helping people to confront and tackle the challenges which deeply impact their personal and relational lives and leave them feeling stuck. Whether you are struggling to cope with anxiety, grief, or depression, navigating conflict or resentment in your relationship, or facing concerns about your sexual health or identity, I strive to create a non-judgmental and supportive space where clients can explore their thoughts, emotions, and experiences without fear of rejection.
As an individual, couples, and sex therapist, my passion lies in helping people to confront and tackle the challenges which deeply impact their personal and relational lives and leave them feeling stuck. Whether you are struggling to cope with anxiety, grief, or depression, navigating conflict or resentment in your relationship, or facing concerns about your sexual health or identity, I strive to create a non-judgmental and supportive space where clients can explore their thoughts, emotions, and experiences without fear of rejection.
(206) 472-1678 View (206) 472-1678
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Niki (Nikole) Koumoutsos
Counselor, LMHC, MA
Verified Verified
Seattle, WA 98118  (Online Only)
I have spots open! Are you finding yourself engaged in patterns that used to serve you but are now getting in your way? You’re dealing with a lot–from everything going on in the world around you and your own suffering too. You may be wondering if things can be better - to become your more authentic self. When people are well supported relationally, it creates an expansiveness for living. In our therapeutic relationship, we’ll examine patterns & systems that are keeping you from your full self. Together, we’ll work to make sense of your experiences, identify difficulties & integrate resources to find meaning to live a fuller life.
I have spots open! Are you finding yourself engaged in patterns that used to serve you but are now getting in your way? You’re dealing with a lot–from everything going on in the world around you and your own suffering too. You may be wondering if things can be better - to become your more authentic self. When people are well supported relationally, it creates an expansiveness for living. In our therapeutic relationship, we’ll examine patterns & systems that are keeping you from your full self. Together, we’ll work to make sense of your experiences, identify difficulties & integrate resources to find meaning to live a fuller life.
(773) 219-6711 View (773) 219-6711
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Cheryl Poynor
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW
Verified Verified
Seattle, WA 98107  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
I specialize in working with clients who are suffering from anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, overwhelm/burnout, chronic illness and pain, grief and loss, ADHD, and life stage transition/adjustment.
Welcome to Alpenglow Therapy. You are most likely here because you’re hurting in some way and want to feel better. You are not alone. I am so glad you’re taking this step to take care of yourself. Healing and growth are possible for you! My goal as a therapist is to create a safe and trusting space where you feel comfortable to be yourself. It is a space for you to process, to grow, to learn, to heal, and to succeed. As your therapist, I can accompany you on this journey without judgement or pressure, support you in your time of need, teach you new skills, and gently challenge you to help you reach your goals.
I specialize in working with clients who are suffering from anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, overwhelm/burnout, chronic illness and pain, grief and loss, ADHD, and life stage transition/adjustment.
Welcome to Alpenglow Therapy. You are most likely here because you’re hurting in some way and want to feel better. You are not alone. I am so glad you’re taking this step to take care of yourself. Healing and growth are possible for you! My goal as a therapist is to create a safe and trusting space where you feel comfortable to be yourself. It is a space for you to process, to grow, to learn, to heal, and to succeed. As your therapist, I can accompany you on this journey without judgement or pressure, support you in your time of need, teach you new skills, and gently challenge you to help you reach your goals.
(206) 800-7648 View (206) 800-7648
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Jana L McCall
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
Seattle, WA 98117  (Online Only)
Your needs and story are unique and your therapy should be too. Let's find the right kind of therapy for you so you can thrive rather than just get by. Whether you’re suffering deeply, experiencing relationship conflict, confused about who you are and how to be true to yourself, unable to connect with others, or bored and uninspired, I’d like to know your story and help you write the next chapters so that you can have your best life. I work with with anxiety, depression, trauma, auto-immune disorders, OCD, relationship issues, ADHD/ADD, neurodivergence, and more, and can help you make the changes for a better life.
Your needs and story are unique and your therapy should be too. Let's find the right kind of therapy for you so you can thrive rather than just get by. Whether you’re suffering deeply, experiencing relationship conflict, confused about who you are and how to be true to yourself, unable to connect with others, or bored and uninspired, I’d like to know your story and help you write the next chapters so that you can have your best life. I work with with anxiety, depression, trauma, auto-immune disorders, OCD, relationship issues, ADHD/ADD, neurodivergence, and more, and can help you make the changes for a better life.
(206) 567-7336 View (206) 567-7336
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Arynn Prescott
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, LMFTA
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98107  (Online Only)
You may notice self-doubt, overwhelm, or disconnection showing up in your life. Anxieties like these often overflow into our relationships too, which can feel like a lot to untangle. Thankfully, relationships can be a powerful place for growth. Our close relationships can even be the mirrors that help us see deeper pain and patterns we couldn't see before. I offer support to reconnect with yourself or your partner, lower relationship anxiety, understand your anger, rebuild trust and intimacy, heal after loss, or untangle old patterns that keep you from fully living. You don't have to carry the weight of this stress alone.
You may notice self-doubt, overwhelm, or disconnection showing up in your life. Anxieties like these often overflow into our relationships too, which can feel like a lot to untangle. Thankfully, relationships can be a powerful place for growth. Our close relationships can even be the mirrors that help us see deeper pain and patterns we couldn't see before. I offer support to reconnect with yourself or your partner, lower relationship anxiety, understand your anger, rebuild trust and intimacy, heal after loss, or untangle old patterns that keep you from fully living. You don't have to carry the weight of this stress alone.
(253) 243-3240 View (253) 243-3240
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Maya Perez
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98102
Accepting new clients with weekly availability! I offer therapy that seeks to unearth the ways systems of oppression impact your self worth, embodiment of values, and wellbeing. As a queer therapist, with a a history of supporting LGBTQ+ survivors of violence, I am practiced in examining power dynamics and supporting folks through traumatic experiences, major transitions, anxiety, and relationship challenges. I work to co-create a safe container for you to explore and learn from various parts of yourself, your relationships, emotions, and bodily experiences. I offer services for individuals, relationships, youth and young adults!
Accepting new clients with weekly availability! I offer therapy that seeks to unearth the ways systems of oppression impact your self worth, embodiment of values, and wellbeing. As a queer therapist, with a a history of supporting LGBTQ+ survivors of violence, I am practiced in examining power dynamics and supporting folks through traumatic experiences, major transitions, anxiety, and relationship challenges. I work to co-create a safe container for you to explore and learn from various parts of yourself, your relationships, emotions, and bodily experiences. I offer services for individuals, relationships, youth and young adults!
(425) 541-8929 View (425) 541-8929
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Christy Sweaney Herrick
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
Seattle, WA 98103
People often come to therapy struggling with a particular feeling, relationship, or question that they can't seem to escape no matter what they do. Why? Research shows us that our struggles are typically about far more than they appear on the surface. Often the problems of our present are deeply rooted in our pasts and the lessons we learned from our families, cultures, and formative experiences. Yet, many are unaware of the learned assumptions that govern their lives, even when they get in their way.
People often come to therapy struggling with a particular feeling, relationship, or question that they can't seem to escape no matter what they do. Why? Research shows us that our struggles are typically about far more than they appear on the surface. Often the problems of our present are deeply rooted in our pasts and the lessons we learned from our families, cultures, and formative experiences. Yet, many are unaware of the learned assumptions that govern their lives, even when they get in their way.
(206) 203-6113 View (206) 203-6113
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Amanda Rutledge
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98103
I provide in-person and virtual talk therapy for individual adults and teens. My clients struggle with self-esteem, anxiety, romantic relationship issues, family issues, social issues, trauma, and many other life challenges. We all face challenges in life but sometimes we get stuck. We can usually identify patterns that negatively impact our relationships, work, and overall health. I support clients in exploring their unique patterns, creating purposeful solutions, and developing the confidence they need to design a more fulfilling and meaningful life.
I provide in-person and virtual talk therapy for individual adults and teens. My clients struggle with self-esteem, anxiety, romantic relationship issues, family issues, social issues, trauma, and many other life challenges. We all face challenges in life but sometimes we get stuck. We can usually identify patterns that negatively impact our relationships, work, and overall health. I support clients in exploring their unique patterns, creating purposeful solutions, and developing the confidence they need to design a more fulfilling and meaningful life.
(253) 881-8755 View (253) 881-8755
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Hannah S Dornbusch
Counselor, MA, LMHC, NCC
Verified Verified
Seattle, WA 98126  (Online Only)
For couples, I use the Gottman method to help them build better emotional connections, communication, and trust in their relationship.
Accepting new clients and supervisee's (8/2023). My therapeutic approach draws from varied perspectives offered by relational and attachment-focused theories. By thoughtfully integrating these approaches, I strive to provide a comprehensive understanding of my clients' concerns, and help them explore the ways in which their past experiences and relationships have shaped their present challenges. At the heart of my approach is a deep commitment to fostering personal growth and clarity in my clients' lives. I strive to guide clients' to a deeper understanding to help them make meaningful and thoughtful progress towards their goals.
For couples, I use the Gottman method to help them build better emotional connections, communication, and trust in their relationship.
Accepting new clients and supervisee's (8/2023). My therapeutic approach draws from varied perspectives offered by relational and attachment-focused theories. By thoughtfully integrating these approaches, I strive to provide a comprehensive understanding of my clients' concerns, and help them explore the ways in which their past experiences and relationships have shaped their present challenges. At the heart of my approach is a deep commitment to fostering personal growth and clarity in my clients' lives. I strive to guide clients' to a deeper understanding to help them make meaningful and thoughtful progress towards their goals.
(206) 278-9266 View (206) 278-9266
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Haylee Daggett
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98101
Waitlist for new clients
It would be an honor to help you get relief from the pain in your relationship and shape it into the source of joy and support you need.
My clients come to therapy struggling to understand themselves and their partner, leaving them feeling hallow, lost, and alone. They desperately want to feel secure in themselves and connected to their partner, but are confused and wary about how to begin changing. As a therapist, I meet this dilemma with warmth and compassion, as well as knowledge and confidence; this combination is the base of successful therapy. My similar life experiences make me genuine and relatable, and my training background from the top marriage and therapy program and ongoing advanced training support and guide our work.
It would be an honor to help you get relief from the pain in your relationship and shape it into the source of joy and support you need.
My clients come to therapy struggling to understand themselves and their partner, leaving them feeling hallow, lost, and alone. They desperately want to feel secure in themselves and connected to their partner, but are confused and wary about how to begin changing. As a therapist, I meet this dilemma with warmth and compassion, as well as knowledge and confidence; this combination is the base of successful therapy. My similar life experiences make me genuine and relatable, and my training background from the top marriage and therapy program and ongoing advanced training support and guide our work.
(206) 312-1292 View (206) 312-1292
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Sherri Hainje
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
Seattle, WA 98103
I use a relational approach to therapy, meaning that the therapeutic relationship can be used to help heal past and present relationships.
Therapy works best when it is tailored to your needs. My job is to provide a safe and welcoming place for you to show up just as you are, to feel heard and supported, and to work through the issues that are causing distress. Sometimes we know why we are feeling what we are feeling and sometimes we don’t—both are great places to start therapy. Together we can explore what is happening in your life and find solutions that best suit you. I enjoy working with teens and adults on a wide range of issues and most recently spent time working with adolescents as a school-based therapist in middle school and high school.
I use a relational approach to therapy, meaning that the therapeutic relationship can be used to help heal past and present relationships.
Therapy works best when it is tailored to your needs. My job is to provide a safe and welcoming place for you to show up just as you are, to feel heard and supported, and to work through the issues that are causing distress. Sometimes we know why we are feeling what we are feeling and sometimes we don’t—both are great places to start therapy. Together we can explore what is happening in your life and find solutions that best suit you. I enjoy working with teens and adults on a wide range of issues and most recently spent time working with adolescents as a school-based therapist in middle school and high school.
(206) 502-1907 View (206) 502-1907
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Ruth Bryan
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, LMFTA
Verified Verified
Seattle, WA 98101
Accepting New Clients. As a sex and relationship therapist, I bring a somatic perspective to sessions: highlighting the nervous system, locating feelings in the body, and developing skills for increased pleasure and embodiment. My primary focus is relationships, including relationship to others, community, self, the body, and the natural world. I believe that connecting with ourselves leads to a deeper connection with others, and I practice both individual and relational therapy. In session, I invite deeper conversations around sexuality and gender, which are foundational aspects of who we are and how we express ourselves.
Accepting New Clients. As a sex and relationship therapist, I bring a somatic perspective to sessions: highlighting the nervous system, locating feelings in the body, and developing skills for increased pleasure and embodiment. My primary focus is relationships, including relationship to others, community, self, the body, and the natural world. I believe that connecting with ourselves leads to a deeper connection with others, and I practice both individual and relational therapy. In session, I invite deeper conversations around sexuality and gender, which are foundational aspects of who we are and how we express ourselves.
(425) 842-1288 View (425) 842-1288
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Carissa Singh
MA, LMHCA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98102
I see my role as helping you to reflect on and develop a relationship with emotional and behavioral patterns carried over from past experiences that may no longer serve you.
I hold a deep regard and compassion for each individual and the ways they have learned to survive. I view therapy as a collaborative journey towards integration of self and expansion of the potentials already inherent in you. In line with this, I aim for our work together to be as liberatory as possible. I see you as the expert of your own story and as holding the potential for your own healing. In our time together we can work to uncover what gets in the way of your inherent ability to flourish, be it internal, relational or rooted in the social environment in which we exist.
I see my role as helping you to reflect on and develop a relationship with emotional and behavioral patterns carried over from past experiences that may no longer serve you.
I hold a deep regard and compassion for each individual and the ways they have learned to survive. I view therapy as a collaborative journey towards integration of self and expansion of the potentials already inherent in you. In line with this, I aim for our work together to be as liberatory as possible. I see you as the expert of your own story and as holding the potential for your own healing. In our time together we can work to uncover what gets in the way of your inherent ability to flourish, be it internal, relational or rooted in the social environment in which we exist.
(425) 414-3186 View (425) 414-3186
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Janaki Tremaglio
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MA, MSW, LICSW
Verified Verified
Seattle, WA 98103
Waitlist for new clients
I approach counseling from a psychodynamic and psychoanalytic lens, which means I see the dynamic of the therapeutic relationship and understanding the dynamics throughout one's life as central to healing.
Are you looking for attuned support to explore your struggles? Do you wish to become mindful of how your life history impacts your present experience? Are you interested in intuitive and spiritual practices, and holistic supports (including food, herbs)? If these questions resonate with you, reach out to me! I offer relationship-focused therapy, drawing from wisdom traditions and holistic approaches.
I approach counseling from a psychodynamic and psychoanalytic lens, which means I see the dynamic of the therapeutic relationship and understanding the dynamics throughout one's life as central to healing.
Are you looking for attuned support to explore your struggles? Do you wish to become mindful of how your life history impacts your present experience? Are you interested in intuitive and spiritual practices, and holistic supports (including food, herbs)? If these questions resonate with you, reach out to me! I offer relationship-focused therapy, drawing from wisdom traditions and holistic approaches.
(206) 589-2437 View (206) 589-2437
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Jeanne Foss Swaine
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFA, LMFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98133
With this in mind, I strive to cultivate this opportunity for healing in relationship by offering a warm, honest, and collaborative space for emotional, spiritual and creative unfolding.
Seeking therapy is a courageous, empowering step. Although you are strong, you shouldn't have to walk through life's hardships alone. I provide individual and couples counseling with a mindful and compassionate approach around subjects such as grief and loss, depression and anxiety, reclaiming one's self esteem, relational trauma, conflict resolution, fertility struggles, and new motherhood, to name a few. I am continually amazed by our natural ability to heal and thrive given the right kind of attention and caring presence.
With this in mind, I strive to cultivate this opportunity for healing in relationship by offering a warm, honest, and collaborative space for emotional, spiritual and creative unfolding.
Seeking therapy is a courageous, empowering step. Although you are strong, you shouldn't have to walk through life's hardships alone. I provide individual and couples counseling with a mindful and compassionate approach around subjects such as grief and loss, depression and anxiety, reclaiming one's self esteem, relational trauma, conflict resolution, fertility struggles, and new motherhood, to name a few. I am continually amazed by our natural ability to heal and thrive given the right kind of attention and caring presence.
(360) 813-6826 View (360) 813-6826

Relationship Issues Therapists
While need for human connection appears to be innate, the ability to form healthy, loving relationships is learned. Some evidence suggests that the ability to form a stable relationship starts to form in infancy, in a child's earliest experiences with a caregiver who reliably meets the infant's needs for food, care, warmth, protection, stimulation, and social contact. Such relationships are not destiny, but they are theorized to establish deeply ingrained patterns of relating to others. The end of a relationship, however, is often a source of great psychological anguish.