Relationship Issues Therapists in Lucas, TX

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Brian Weir
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Lucas, TX 75002
All the while, developing a relationship of trust, acceptance, empathy and validation.
*Offering online sessions only. Are you looking for a therapist who is engaging, warm, understanding, experienced and very knowledgeable? If so, I'm your therapist. I have helped others like you improve their relationships, overcome anxiety, depression and anger. Even if you have lost hope, together we can build self-confidence, strengthen resilience, and find motivation to overcome the obstacles. Whether you come for individual, or for couples therapy, my clients are often surprised what can be overcome and how much better things can be.
All the while, developing a relationship of trust, acceptance, empathy and validation.
*Offering online sessions only. Are you looking for a therapist who is engaging, warm, understanding, experienced and very knowledgeable? If so, I'm your therapist. I have helped others like you improve their relationships, overcome anxiety, depression and anger. Even if you have lost hope, together we can build self-confidence, strengthen resilience, and find motivation to overcome the obstacles. Whether you come for individual, or for couples therapy, my clients are often surprised what can be overcome and how much better things can be.
(940) 461-7865 View (940) 461-7865
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Dr. Felicia Lewis
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, LPC-S
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Lucas, TX 75002
Waitlist for new clients
My goal is to help the hurting and struggling find peace and strength to come out stronger on the other side. Many things come along that can build us up or tear us down. I want to help you grow even through the worst of experiences. I want to join you in your struggles, help you through your pain, and provide support for you to make your way through the difficulties of life, relationships and this world. My greatest joy comes from watching my clients feel free as they become aware and empowered to make positive decisions of self-improvement.
My goal is to help the hurting and struggling find peace and strength to come out stronger on the other side. Many things come along that can build us up or tear us down. I want to help you grow even through the worst of experiences. I want to join you in your struggles, help you through your pain, and provide support for you to make your way through the difficulties of life, relationships and this world. My greatest joy comes from watching my clients feel free as they become aware and empowered to make positive decisions of self-improvement.
(972) 449-7682 View (972) 449-7682
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Stefan Waltke
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC
Verified Verified
Lucas, TX 75002
Seeking mental health is an important step towards general well-being. Just as you would not be expected to simply “tough out” a broken leg, for instance, neither should you do the same for depression, anxiety, or even more importantly, finding yourself at a crossroads and uncertain what to do next. I am here to lend a non-judgmental ear, and to help you move through difficult aspects of your life. I have experience working with anxiety, depression, uncertainty about paths forward in life, and addiction for adults, and with a particular interest in the LGBTQ population.
Seeking mental health is an important step towards general well-being. Just as you would not be expected to simply “tough out” a broken leg, for instance, neither should you do the same for depression, anxiety, or even more importantly, finding yourself at a crossroads and uncertain what to do next. I am here to lend a non-judgmental ear, and to help you move through difficult aspects of your life. I have experience working with anxiety, depression, uncertainty about paths forward in life, and addiction for adults, and with a particular interest in the LGBTQ population.
(972) 798-4079 View (972) 798-4079
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Amber Learn
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Lucas, TX 75002  (Online Only)
Not accepting new clients
**My clinical practice is currently full. I am unable to accept new patients at this time. I apologize for the inconvenience. I will update this page when slots become available.** I have been described as a compassionate and active Psychologist who is dedicated to helping patients make positive change. I know that everyone enters therapy with specific strengths and I do my best to help pull from those strengths. I realize that entering therapy is a large emotional, financial, and time commitment, and do everything I can to make the most of your investment.
**My clinical practice is currently full. I am unable to accept new patients at this time. I apologize for the inconvenience. I will update this page when slots become available.** I have been described as a compassionate and active Psychologist who is dedicated to helping patients make positive change. I know that everyone enters therapy with specific strengths and I do my best to help pull from those strengths. I realize that entering therapy is a large emotional, financial, and time commitment, and do everything I can to make the most of your investment.
(858) 610-4625 View (858) 610-4625

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Counseling By Kate
Licensed Professional Counselor, JD, MS, LPC, LMHC
Verified Verified
Allen, TX 75013
LIMITED AVAILABILITY & ONLY ACCEPTING NEW CASH PAY CLIENTS: Individual & Group Counseling, Coparenting, Parent Coach, Parenting Coordination & Collaborative Law. I am dedicating to providing clients with effective counseling methods to meet their personal needs and unleash their potential. Results and positive intervention are my goal in the therapeutic process. Although, my goal is to provide brief therapy, some clients may need more time to achieve the goals they set out for themselves. I will work with clients to achieve the trust, respect, honesty, and warmth that a counseling relationship demands.
LIMITED AVAILABILITY & ONLY ACCEPTING NEW CASH PAY CLIENTS: Individual & Group Counseling, Coparenting, Parent Coach, Parenting Coordination & Collaborative Law. I am dedicating to providing clients with effective counseling methods to meet their personal needs and unleash their potential. Results and positive intervention are my goal in the therapeutic process. Although, my goal is to provide brief therapy, some clients may need more time to achieve the goals they set out for themselves. I will work with clients to achieve the trust, respect, honesty, and warmth that a counseling relationship demands.
(360) 329-2940 View (360) 329-2940
Photo of Dagmara Svetcov Relationships - Intimacy - Sex, Marriage & Family Therapist in Lucas, TX
Dagmara Svetcov Relationships - Intimacy - Sex
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CST, CIRT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Allen, TX 75013
Are you struggling in your relationship? Or in the bedroom? Do you wish to improve your communication? Or do you need help with overcoming a sexual problem and making your sex life more exciting? Would you like to learn a better way to manage conflict in your relationship and rebuild emotional connection with your partner? Is sex, or lack of it, a source of worry or tension in your life? Do you feel lonely, disconnected or having the same fight frequently? Have you tried varied solutions unsuccessfully? Do you now worry about the future of your relationship? Whether you have a sexual concern or a relationship problem, I can help.
Are you struggling in your relationship? Or in the bedroom? Do you wish to improve your communication? Or do you need help with overcoming a sexual problem and making your sex life more exciting? Would you like to learn a better way to manage conflict in your relationship and rebuild emotional connection with your partner? Is sex, or lack of it, a source of worry or tension in your life? Do you feel lonely, disconnected or having the same fight frequently? Have you tried varied solutions unsuccessfully? Do you now worry about the future of your relationship? Whether you have a sexual concern or a relationship problem, I can help.
(214) 466-1454 View (214) 466-1454
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Erica Carpenter
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT-S
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Allen, TX 75013
I see my role as helping to facilitate an experience of safety and acceptance within session with a focus on enhancing the couple's bond, practicing effective communication skills, and learning how to set healthy boundaries both around and within the relationship.
I enjoy working with couples and adult individuals from a collaborative, strengths-based approach. My focus is on helping clients to build positive relationships and find personal growth in the process. I believe that everyone has the potential to make positive change in their lives, and I see my role as walking alongside them in their journey towards this change. I also believe that many of us have trouble expressing our true, authentic selves, but that once we feel safe to do so, we thrive both individually and within our relationships. I work to create a safe space for clients to explore this authentic self.
I see my role as helping to facilitate an experience of safety and acceptance within session with a focus on enhancing the couple's bond, practicing effective communication skills, and learning how to set healthy boundaries both around and within the relationship.
I enjoy working with couples and adult individuals from a collaborative, strengths-based approach. My focus is on helping clients to build positive relationships and find personal growth in the process. I believe that everyone has the potential to make positive change in their lives, and I see my role as walking alongside them in their journey towards this change. I also believe that many of us have trouble expressing our true, authentic selves, but that once we feel safe to do so, we thrive both individually and within our relationships. I work to create a safe space for clients to explore this authentic self.
(832) 730-4288 View (832) 730-4288
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Sharp Wellness
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Allen, TX 75013
Sharp Wellness helps clients overcome life’s obstacles to achieve a healthier and happier relationship with themselves and the world around them.
We have multiple therapists accepting New Clients! Sharp Wellness works with high-functioning adults and adolescents ready to live their best lives. We see a wide variety of clients, but we specialize in Anxiety/ Stress Management, Depression/Sadness, Couples, Grief and Loss, Life Transitions, Millennials, Women's Issues, Parenting Stressors, and Self-Esteem.
Sharp Wellness helps clients overcome life’s obstacles to achieve a healthier and happier relationship with themselves and the world around them.
We have multiple therapists accepting New Clients! Sharp Wellness works with high-functioning adults and adolescents ready to live their best lives. We see a wide variety of clients, but we specialize in Anxiety/ Stress Management, Depression/Sadness, Couples, Grief and Loss, Life Transitions, Millennials, Women's Issues, Parenting Stressors, and Self-Esteem.
(469) 599-2514 View (469) 599-2514
Photo of Eva Cedillo, Licensed Professional Counselor in Lucas, TX
Eva Cedillo
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
Allen, TX 75013
My areas of interest and experience consist of treating clients with anxiety/panic, depression, grief, trauma, ADHD, relationship issues, attachment disorders, self-esteem, masculine and feminine energy development.
Beginning a journey in healing can be intimidating and challenging. My objective is to guide you through this journey — wherever that may lead — and to support you in attaining your goals. My philosophy in creating a therapeutic relationship is rooted in a client-centered approach that promotes diversity and individuality in a non-judgmental, compassionate and unimposing manner.
My areas of interest and experience consist of treating clients with anxiety/panic, depression, grief, trauma, ADHD, relationship issues, attachment disorders, self-esteem, masculine and feminine energy development.
Beginning a journey in healing can be intimidating and challenging. My objective is to guide you through this journey — wherever that may lead — and to support you in attaining your goals. My philosophy in creating a therapeutic relationship is rooted in a client-centered approach that promotes diversity and individuality in a non-judgmental, compassionate and unimposing manner.
(469) 812-5393 View (469) 812-5393
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Lauren Tademy
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MS, LMFT-A
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Allen, TX 75002  (Online Only)
I take a culturally sensitive and trauma-informed approach with teens, adults, and couples managing trauma, anxiety, depression, identity issues, and relationship difficulties.
In our relationships, we hope to feel connected, cared for, and understood. However, after a conversation with a loved one, you may find yourself feeling frustrated, misunderstood, or exhausted. Conversations can feel like they're going in circles and you may be blowing up or shutting down before reaching a resolution. You may even find yourself communicating in ways that hinder connection and understanding because you aren't sure how else to express how you feel. If this sounds familiar, please understand that you're not alone. Together we can all work to process those responses and have healthier conversations.
I take a culturally sensitive and trauma-informed approach with teens, adults, and couples managing trauma, anxiety, depression, identity issues, and relationship difficulties.
In our relationships, we hope to feel connected, cared for, and understood. However, after a conversation with a loved one, you may find yourself feeling frustrated, misunderstood, or exhausted. Conversations can feel like they're going in circles and you may be blowing up or shutting down before reaching a resolution. You may even find yourself communicating in ways that hinder connection and understanding because you aren't sure how else to express how you feel. If this sounds familiar, please understand that you're not alone. Together we can all work to process those responses and have healthier conversations.
(832) 838-4609 View (832) 838-4609
Photo of Olivia D Jablinski, Licensed Professional Counselor in Lucas, TX
Olivia D Jablinski
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, NCC, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Allen, TX 75002
Life can be overwhelming; we can feel lost, aimless, and alone as we try to determine where we fit in. Maybe school, friends, family, or the expectations placed on you feel like too much. You feel like you should have it all figured out and be put together, but you just keep coming up short. Throw in the noise of the world around you and it's no wonder so many are anxious or confused. You want a better way of managing stress and navigating relationship struggles. You want to be seen and understood, and to have a sense of peace. You want to find a place you can really be yourself, and maybe even figure out what that means.
Life can be overwhelming; we can feel lost, aimless, and alone as we try to determine where we fit in. Maybe school, friends, family, or the expectations placed on you feel like too much. You feel like you should have it all figured out and be put together, but you just keep coming up short. Throw in the noise of the world around you and it's no wonder so many are anxious or confused. You want a better way of managing stress and navigating relationship struggles. You want to be seen and understood, and to have a sense of peace. You want to find a place you can really be yourself, and maybe even figure out what that means.
(214) 393-5490 View (214) 393-5490
Photo of Asmaa A Mohamed, Licensed Professional Counselor in Lucas, TX
Asmaa A Mohamed
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Allen, TX 75002  (Online Only)
If you've ever found yourself grappling with depression, anxiety, grief, or facing challenges in your relationship. Whether you're navigating tough times or dealing with complex issues, I'm equipped with the training and tools to honor your dignity and autonomy and practice cultural humility to provide guidance and be with you through your healing journey. Respecting your individual journey and cultural context is fundamental in my approach. I'm here to assist if you're seeking help in managing mental health concerns or relationship issues. Reach out, and let's explore how I can support you on your path to healing and growth.
If you've ever found yourself grappling with depression, anxiety, grief, or facing challenges in your relationship. Whether you're navigating tough times or dealing with complex issues, I'm equipped with the training and tools to honor your dignity and autonomy and practice cultural humility to provide guidance and be with you through your healing journey. Respecting your individual journey and cultural context is fundamental in my approach. I'm here to assist if you're seeking help in managing mental health concerns or relationship issues. Reach out, and let's explore how I can support you on your path to healing and growth.
(972) 838-1063 View (972) 838-1063
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Tereza Sampululu
Psychological Associate, MC, LPA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Allen, TX 75002
Now Accepting NEW Clients! I think of myself as solution-oriented and I feel privileged to be able to support and witness clients grow and overcome challenges they face in their day-to-day lives. I work with individuals and families, and have a special interest in working with couples as they work through and navigate relationship challenges, transitional periods and working towards creating stronger bonds. My educational and professional background has afforded me the experience of supporting clients with various concerns such as anxiety, depression, anger, self-esteem, grief & loss, and relationship issues–to name a few.
Now Accepting NEW Clients! I think of myself as solution-oriented and I feel privileged to be able to support and witness clients grow and overcome challenges they face in their day-to-day lives. I work with individuals and families, and have a special interest in working with couples as they work through and navigate relationship challenges, transitional periods and working towards creating stronger bonds. My educational and professional background has afforded me the experience of supporting clients with various concerns such as anxiety, depression, anger, self-esteem, grief & loss, and relationship issues–to name a few.
(972) 299-3748 View (972) 299-3748
Photo of Jeana C Pullen, Licensed Professional Counselor in Lucas, TX
Jeana C Pullen
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, NCC, LPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Allen, TX 75013
Saturday appointments available! You are taking a huge step by looking for help...congratulations! Therapy consists of learning new ways of communicating, thinking and feeling in order to bring about peace and happiness. It is my job give you the best chance at a new way of living through our counseling sessions. No head games! I am kind, caring and accepting. Safety in the relationship is imperative! I want you to be comfortable while dealing with potentially uncomfortable feelings. I am there to walk with you in this journey.
Saturday appointments available! You are taking a huge step by looking for help...congratulations! Therapy consists of learning new ways of communicating, thinking and feeling in order to bring about peace and happiness. It is my job give you the best chance at a new way of living through our counseling sessions. No head games! I am kind, caring and accepting. Safety in the relationship is imperative! I want you to be comfortable while dealing with potentially uncomfortable feelings. I am there to walk with you in this journey.
(972) 316-9603 View (972) 316-9603
Photo of John Nweke, Licensed Professional Counselor in Lucas, TX
John Nweke
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, LCDC
Verified Verified
Allen, TX 75002  (Online Only)
I am a professional counselor licensed in the state of Texas with over 10 years of experience working as a therapist and life coach. I have worked with clients with co-occurring psychiatric and substance use disorders, anxiety, depression, disordered eating, personality disorders, and adjustment disorders, relationship issues, parenting problems, financial challenges, mental health issues, and addictions as well as many people who have experienced physical trauma and emotional abuse.
I am a professional counselor licensed in the state of Texas with over 10 years of experience working as a therapist and life coach. I have worked with clients with co-occurring psychiatric and substance use disorders, anxiety, depression, disordered eating, personality disorders, and adjustment disorders, relationship issues, parenting problems, financial challenges, mental health issues, and addictions as well as many people who have experienced physical trauma and emotional abuse.
(972) 702-7987 View (972) 702-7987
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David J Bryan
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, CSAT, CMAT
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Allen, TX 75002  (Online Only)
I've experienced how addiction can damage a relationship.
While some marital issues can come as a surprise, such as with the discovery of infidelity or sexual addiction, relationships often don’t fail overnight. Instead it’s a slow fade. Divorce rates tell the story of marriages in slow decline with too little help coming too late. Do you and your partner struggle to communicate effectively? Perhaps your conflicts have become destructive. Maybe you both live more as roommates than partners or even lovers. Are resentments growing as battlelines are drawn? Has one of you threatened divorce in the heat of an argument? Or have you been devastated by infidelity or sexual addiction?
I've experienced how addiction can damage a relationship.
While some marital issues can come as a surprise, such as with the discovery of infidelity or sexual addiction, relationships often don’t fail overnight. Instead it’s a slow fade. Divorce rates tell the story of marriages in slow decline with too little help coming too late. Do you and your partner struggle to communicate effectively? Perhaps your conflicts have become destructive. Maybe you both live more as roommates than partners or even lovers. Are resentments growing as battlelines are drawn? Has one of you threatened divorce in the heat of an argument? Or have you been devastated by infidelity or sexual addiction?
(972) 882-9331 View (972) 882-9331
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Jessica Santana
MS, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Allen, TX 75002
Hello there and welcome to the journey before the journey of finding the right therapist for you. I work with pre-teens, teenagers and emerging adulthood populations (18-25). I specialize in Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT) and Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) techniques and approaches. I am clinically trained in a variety of different treatment settings including, inpatient, outpatient, residential and traditional therapy. I have experience working with self harm, suicidal ideations, grief/loss, self esteem, relationship issues, stress management and identity development.
Hello there and welcome to the journey before the journey of finding the right therapist for you. I work with pre-teens, teenagers and emerging adulthood populations (18-25). I specialize in Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT) and Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) techniques and approaches. I am clinically trained in a variety of different treatment settings including, inpatient, outpatient, residential and traditional therapy. I have experience working with self harm, suicidal ideations, grief/loss, self esteem, relationship issues, stress management and identity development.
(469) 746-3354 View (469) 746-3354
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Lee Therapy and Counseling, PLLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Allen, TX 75013  (Online Only)
I work with clients from diverse backgrounds with various concerns such as depression, anxiety, women's issues, relationship stress and trauma.
Are you tired of waking up daily feeling depressed, stressed or anxious? What about feeling as if your life has no purpose or fulfillment? Are you simply surviving and not thriving? You have come to the right place. There is hope! Sometimes you just need someone to walk through these difficult seasons with you. I am always very honored to be able to walk through this journey with you as we work together to lead you towards a more fulfilling life that is filled with purpose, joy and peace. It is my desire to be able to empower you to tap into your personal power, find inner peace within and regain a sense of control over your life.
I work with clients from diverse backgrounds with various concerns such as depression, anxiety, women's issues, relationship stress and trauma.
Are you tired of waking up daily feeling depressed, stressed or anxious? What about feeling as if your life has no purpose or fulfillment? Are you simply surviving and not thriving? You have come to the right place. There is hope! Sometimes you just need someone to walk through these difficult seasons with you. I am always very honored to be able to walk through this journey with you as we work together to lead you towards a more fulfilling life that is filled with purpose, joy and peace. It is my desire to be able to empower you to tap into your personal power, find inner peace within and regain a sense of control over your life.
(214) 466-7919 View (214) 466-7919
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Dr. Sean Stokes
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LPC-S, LMFT-S
Verified Verified
15 Endorsed
Allen, TX 75013
My primary concerns are: "Where do you want to go? What do you want your relationship to look like? How do you want your life to be? What skills do you want to build?" I work collaboratively with you to design specific goals and outcomes.
Greetings! I am Dr. Stokes, and over the past 25+ years I have worked with clients seeking help with their relationships, men who struggle with pornography issues, anger issues and just feeling "lost," and clients dealing with anxiety. I have recently added Financial Therapy, which deals with our beliefs & behaviors related to money. I believe in providing "how to" skills so you feel more confident to handle whatever life throws at you. Clients often describe me as "straight to the point" and "action-oriented."
My primary concerns are: "Where do you want to go? What do you want your relationship to look like? How do you want your life to be? What skills do you want to build?" I work collaboratively with you to design specific goals and outcomes.
Greetings! I am Dr. Stokes, and over the past 25+ years I have worked with clients seeking help with their relationships, men who struggle with pornography issues, anger issues and just feeling "lost," and clients dealing with anxiety. I have recently added Financial Therapy, which deals with our beliefs & behaviors related to money. I believe in providing "how to" skills so you feel more confident to handle whatever life throws at you. Clients often describe me as "straight to the point" and "action-oriented."
(940) 202-7722 View (940) 202-7722
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Shanae Graf
Licensed Professional Counselor Associate, MA, LPC-A
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Allen, TX 75013
I bring my down-to-earth sensibility and sense of humor into our therapeutic relationship with the desire that you’ll feel safe, supported, and encouraged so we can work together through life’s questions and challenges.
You know something in your life needs to change, but you feel powerless or overwhelmed on where to start. You beat yourself up wondering why it’s so difficult for you to take action when everyone else seems to have their act together. Consequently, you end up doing nothing, and the cycle of shame continues. Believe me, I can empathize, and more than that, I can help. What I want you to know, more than anything, is that there's nothing wrong with you, and you're not broken. You just need to take that first small step towards the healing you truly want, and I encourage you to start today by reaching out to me by phone call or email.
I bring my down-to-earth sensibility and sense of humor into our therapeutic relationship with the desire that you’ll feel safe, supported, and encouraged so we can work together through life’s questions and challenges.
You know something in your life needs to change, but you feel powerless or overwhelmed on where to start. You beat yourself up wondering why it’s so difficult for you to take action when everyone else seems to have their act together. Consequently, you end up doing nothing, and the cycle of shame continues. Believe me, I can empathize, and more than that, I can help. What I want you to know, more than anything, is that there's nothing wrong with you, and you're not broken. You just need to take that first small step towards the healing you truly want, and I encourage you to start today by reaching out to me by phone call or email.
(972) 945-8009 View (972) 945-8009
Relationship Issues Therapists
While need for human connection appears to be innate, the ability to form healthy, loving relationships is learned. Some evidence suggests that the ability to form a stable relationship starts to form in infancy, in a child's earliest experiences with a caregiver who reliably meets the infant's needs for food, care, warmth, protection, stimulation, and social contact. Such relationships are not destiny, but they are theorized to establish deeply ingrained patterns of relating to others. The end of a relationship, however, is often a source of great psychological anguish.