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Dr. Tom Murray. Your Sex And Relationship Therapist.
Dr. Tom Murray. Your Sex And Relationship Therapist.
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT

Dr. Tom Murray. Your Sex And Relationship Therapist.

Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT (he, him)

Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
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Salem, OR 97301
Let's Connect (971) 273-5215
Should I stay or should I go? A huge question that's weighed on you. It keeps you up at night, stressing you out. Life would be so much easier if your relationship wasn't so hard. You wish you could communicate better; feel understood. But, damn, your shit and their shit get in the way. Not to mention the pressures of career, aging parents, or demanding children. It all gets thrown in the mix, leaving you exhausted, distracted, and disenchanted by the status quo. You want things to change (better sex, intimacy, connection); you're finally ready to take charge of your life in a new and meaningful way. You've come to the right place!
If you want fluff, I have referrals. Otherwise, I offer a CAREfrontational approach to help you get where you want to go as quickly as possible. With my brief-oriented approach, backed by the science of what works in sex therapy and couples counseling, you'll gain clarity, break old patterns, tackle mind-chatter, and experience satisfying sex and intimacy.
It's easy to get started. Submit an email or visit our website to schedule an initial appointment. It's that easy. I'll guide you through the rest. If you're unsure of what direction to take, our website provides options. I'm telehealth only. I'm licensed in OR but live on the east coast. Please note: health insurance isn't accepted for my service. I
Take the first step to help. Call Dr. Tom Murray. Your Sex And Relationship Therapist. now - (971) 273-5215

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Salem, OR 97301

(971) 273-5215

Portland, OR 97209

Breath. We made it easy. No commute. No reception area waiting. All sessions are provided using a secure, HIPAA-compliant video platform.
I specialize in Sex Therapy, Relationship Issues and Anxiety 
$210 Per Session  
I see individuals and couples  
You've waited long enough. Maybe you've tried other therapists. Eager for something new, you want a straight-shooter relationship advocate.
Dr. Tom Murray. Your Sex And Relationship Therapist.
Let's Connect (971) 273-5215

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Salem, OR 97301

(971) 273-5215

Portland, OR 97209

Breath. We made it easy. No commute. No reception area waiting. All sessions are provided using a secure, HIPAA-compliant video platform.
I specialize in Sex Therapy, Relationship Issues and Anxiety 
$210 Per Session  
I see individuals and couples  
You've waited long enough. Maybe you've tried other therapists. Eager for something new, you want a straight-shooter relationship advocate.
Dr. Tom Murray. Your Sex And Relationship Therapist.

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $210
  • Couple Sessions $210
  • Pay by American Express, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Visa
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Relationship therapy is not focused on an individual; it's focused on improving the relationship. Thus, insurance is not accepted.
Take the first step to help. Call now - (971) 273-5215
Dr. Tom Murray. Your Sex And Relationship Therapist.
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
"
Relationship therapy is not focused on an individual; it's focused on improving the relationship. Thus, insurance is not accepted.
Take the first step to help. Call now - (971) 273-5215
Dr. Tom Murray. Your Sex And Relationship Therapist.
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of Oregon / T1811 Dr. Tom Murray. Your Sex And Relationship Therapist.
  • In Practice for 23 Years
  • Certificate from American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists 2015
  • Certificate from International Association of Trauma Professionals 2019
  • Attended University of Florida, PhD, Graduated 2005
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Finding a relationship therapist that is also a certified sex therapist is like finding a unicorn. Well, you just struck gold!
Take the first step to help. Call now - (971) 273-5215
Dr. Tom Murray. Your Sex And Relationship Therapist.
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
"
Finding a relationship therapist that is also a certified sex therapist is like finding a unicorn. Well, you just struck gold!
Take the first step to help. Call now - (971) 273-5215
Dr. Tom Murray. Your Sex And Relationship Therapist.
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Sex Therapy
  • Relationship Issues
  • Anxiety

Expertise

  • Asperger's Syndrome
  • Bisexual
  • Divorce
  • Family Conflict
  • Infidelity
  • Lesbian
  • LGBTQ+
  • Men's Issues
  • Parenting
  • Sexual Addiction
  • Spirituality
  • Transgender
  • Women's Issues
Do these issues align with your needs? - (971) 273-5215
Dr. Tom Murray. Your Sex And Relationship Therapist.
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Do these issues align with your needs? - (971) 273-5215
Dr. Tom Murray. Your Sex And Relationship Therapist.
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT

Client Focus

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
Lesbian Allied
Open Relationships Non-Monogamy
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Sex-Positive, Kink Allied
Transgender Allied

Religion

Other Spiritual or Religious Affiliations

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
Lesbian Allied
Open Relationships Non-Monogamy
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Sex-Positive, Kink Allied
Transgender Allied

Religion

Other Spiritual or Religious Affiliations

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Acceptance and Commitment (ACT)
  • Family / Marital
  • Family Systems
  • Gottman Method
  • Humanistic
  • Integrative
  • Person-Centered
  • Rational Emotive Behavior (REBT)
  • Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)
  • Strength-Based
Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. - (971) 273-5215
Dr. Tom Murray. Your Sex And Relationship Therapist.
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. - (971) 273-5215
Dr. Tom Murray. Your Sex And Relationship Therapist.
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT

Location

Primary Location

Salem, OR 97301

(971) 273-5215

Additional Location

Portland, OR 97209

(971) 273-5215
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Breath. We made it easy. No commute. No reception area waiting. All sessions are provided using a secure, HIPAA-compliant video platform.
Take the first step to help. Call now - (971) 273-5215
Dr. Tom Murray. Your Sex And Relationship Therapist.
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
"
Breath. We made it easy. No commute. No reception area waiting. All sessions are provided using a secure, HIPAA-compliant video platform.
Take the first step to help. Call now - (971) 273-5215
Dr. Tom Murray. Your Sex And Relationship Therapist.
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Last Modified: 1 Nov 2023