Relationship Issues Therapists in 97222

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Jennifer Blake
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
Milwaukie, OR 97222
To quote Anne Lamott, "relationships are hard, hard, hard". I have over ten years of experience working with partnerships of all sorts; couples, siblings, adult children and parents, coworkers, etc. With a solution focused approach we'll work together to improve communication, increase emotional awareness and resilience in the hopes of creating healthy patterns in your day to day interactions. This work can be done within the relationship, or individually, and I am happy to support either of these options.
To quote Anne Lamott, "relationships are hard, hard, hard". I have over ten years of experience working with partnerships of all sorts; couples, siblings, adult children and parents, coworkers, etc. With a solution focused approach we'll work together to improve communication, increase emotional awareness and resilience in the hopes of creating healthy patterns in your day to day interactions. This work can be done within the relationship, or individually, and I am happy to support either of these options.
(503) 461-5821 View (503) 461-5821
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Sheila Somers, LPC
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Milwaukie, OR 97222
I am a psychotherapist working with individuals and couples. I provide counseling psychotherapy and integrate mindfulness psychotherapy, attachment theory, emotionally focused therapy, existential-humanistic and insight to encourage acceptance, balance and peace for the mind, body and spirit. I advocate and support couples from a variety of races, cultures and sexual orientations using Emotionally Focused Therapy to understand patterns and cycles and to build a better connection and a stronger relationship.
I am a psychotherapist working with individuals and couples. I provide counseling psychotherapy and integrate mindfulness psychotherapy, attachment theory, emotionally focused therapy, existential-humanistic and insight to encourage acceptance, balance and peace for the mind, body and spirit. I advocate and support couples from a variety of races, cultures and sexual orientations using Emotionally Focused Therapy to understand patterns and cycles and to build a better connection and a stronger relationship.
(503) 342-7207 View (503) 342-7207
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Mary Cosentino-Cathey
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Portland, OR 97222
Whether clients are experiencing challenging life transitions, relationship distress, or uncomfortable emotions, I see the process of therapy as a way to gain insight, support, and ultimate healing on this journey.
***Teletherapy - I see clients located anywhere in Oregon*** Life can be challenging. My hope is to bring a safe space for others to dive into the brave journey of self discovery. I am a psychotherapist with over fifteen years experience helping people from all different walks of life who are struggling with anxiety, depression, addiction, trauma, and life transitions. My belief is that we all already carry within us the answers to our questions, sometimes we just need someone to help us uncover what those are. You deserve love, connection, and understanding, and my goal is to help you become the most authentic version of yourself.
Whether clients are experiencing challenging life transitions, relationship distress, or uncomfortable emotions, I see the process of therapy as a way to gain insight, support, and ultimate healing on this journey.
***Teletherapy - I see clients located anywhere in Oregon*** Life can be challenging. My hope is to bring a safe space for others to dive into the brave journey of self discovery. I am a psychotherapist with over fifteen years experience helping people from all different walks of life who are struggling with anxiety, depression, addiction, trauma, and life transitions. My belief is that we all already carry within us the answers to our questions, sometimes we just need someone to help us uncover what those are. You deserve love, connection, and understanding, and my goal is to help you become the most authentic version of yourself.
(971) 803-6457 View (971) 803-6457
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Sylvia Adkins Randall
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Portland, OR 97222  (Online Only)
In my individual work, I specialize in relationship issues, sexuality, depression, and anxiety.
My specialties are individual, couples therapy and trauma work. With couples, I work to improve communication, to deepen empathy and mutual understanding, and to resolve conflict. My perspective is that all long term relationships are challenging at times and that the rewards of listening to and of understanding one another are very much worth the, at times, considerable effort involved.
In my individual work, I specialize in relationship issues, sexuality, depression, and anxiety.
My specialties are individual, couples therapy and trauma work. With couples, I work to improve communication, to deepen empathy and mutual understanding, and to resolve conflict. My perspective is that all long term relationships are challenging at times and that the rewards of listening to and of understanding one another are very much worth the, at times, considerable effort involved.
(971) 236-4263 View (971) 236-4263
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The Healing Haven
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, ACH
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Milwaukie, OR 97222
I have been working in the therapeutic field for 33 years and am licensed Mental Health Therapist and Clinical Hypnotherapist. My strengths are in relationship issues,eating disorders,weight loss,addictions, anxiety, depression, trauma and chronic pain. I work with adults, teens using psychotherapy and/or hypnotherapy. I am totally committed to my work and have numerous references. I can accommodate your work schedule and work schedule. I am the founder of The Healing Haven. Visit our website www.healinghaven.net to see all of our therapists. We are able to provide secure online therapy particularly during this difficult time
I have been working in the therapeutic field for 33 years and am licensed Mental Health Therapist and Clinical Hypnotherapist. My strengths are in relationship issues,eating disorders,weight loss,addictions, anxiety, depression, trauma and chronic pain. I work with adults, teens using psychotherapy and/or hypnotherapy. I am totally committed to my work and have numerous references. I can accommodate your work schedule and work schedule. I am the founder of The Healing Haven. Visit our website www.healinghaven.net to see all of our therapists. We are able to provide secure online therapy particularly during this difficult time
(971) 236-5193 View (971) 236-5193
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Couples-Inc
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Milwaukie, OR 97222  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
We offer Couples Fundamentals Workshops and resources for couples. We are two experienced therapists in Portland, Oregon who are passionate about helping couples learn how to create their best relationship. We offer intimate and informative workshops with direct and active support to help couples create better communication and forge a better connection. Also we each offer couples therapy within our private practices.
We offer Couples Fundamentals Workshops and resources for couples. We are two experienced therapists in Portland, Oregon who are passionate about helping couples learn how to create their best relationship. We offer intimate and informative workshops with direct and active support to help couples create better communication and forge a better connection. Also we each offer couples therapy within our private practices.
(971) 252-7303 View (971) 252-7303
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Renee Gardner
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
Portland, OR 97222  (Online Only)
I have specialized training in emotionally focused couple's therapy which seeks to increase awareness of each person's experiences in the relationship and facilitate conversations about how to regain, maintain, and enhance connection between partners.
It is exciting and inspiring to work with people who want to make positive changes in their lives. I have partnered with individuals, couples and families to clarify problems, identify goals, and develop an increased sense of well-being in personal endeavors and in relationship experiences. I am interested in the unique stories of each individual and provide a safe and supportive counseling environment in which people can increase self-awareness, identify barriers in their lives, and discover flexible, compassionate approaches to meeting their needs.
I have specialized training in emotionally focused couple's therapy which seeks to increase awareness of each person's experiences in the relationship and facilitate conversations about how to regain, maintain, and enhance connection between partners.
It is exciting and inspiring to work with people who want to make positive changes in their lives. I have partnered with individuals, couples and families to clarify problems, identify goals, and develop an increased sense of well-being in personal endeavors and in relationship experiences. I am interested in the unique stories of each individual and provide a safe and supportive counseling environment in which people can increase self-awareness, identify barriers in their lives, and discover flexible, compassionate approaches to meeting their needs.
(503) 850-2103 View (503) 850-2103
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Patrick Welly
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, Jungian, Analyst
Verified Verified
Milwaukie, OR 97222
I have training in mood and anxiety problems, childhood trauma and abuse, group therapy, couples therapy and relationship issues.
Are you looking for a Jungian Analyst to help you navigate the tension of opposites and live life more deeply, passionately, and intentionally? My practice is rooted primarily in the relationship between my client and myself. It draws upon metaphor; experiental learning; traditional methods of analytical psychology (life narrative, dream exploration, authentic movement, exploring the intersubjective field between us) meditation; visualization; and spiritual inquiry.
I have training in mood and anxiety problems, childhood trauma and abuse, group therapy, couples therapy and relationship issues.
Are you looking for a Jungian Analyst to help you navigate the tension of opposites and live life more deeply, passionately, and intentionally? My practice is rooted primarily in the relationship between my client and myself. It draws upon metaphor; experiental learning; traditional methods of analytical psychology (life narrative, dream exploration, authentic movement, exploring the intersubjective field between us) meditation; visualization; and spiritual inquiry.
(971) 248-0987 View (971) 248-0987
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Don Becker
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
Milwaukie, OR 97222  (Online Only)
My specialties include depression, anxiety, relationship issues whether single or currently in relationship, self-esteem, Substance abuse and recovery skills building.
No matter how difficult the problem you are facing, there is a solution. My therapeutic approach is designed to help you gain awareness and understanding into whatever is troubling you and to assist you in developing the practical skills to handle these issues more effectively. I believe that within our problems lie the keys to further growth and development when they are unfolded with awareness. Together, we will create a treatment plan that is tailored to meet your desired goals in therapy.
My specialties include depression, anxiety, relationship issues whether single or currently in relationship, self-esteem, Substance abuse and recovery skills building.
No matter how difficult the problem you are facing, there is a solution. My therapeutic approach is designed to help you gain awareness and understanding into whatever is troubling you and to assist you in developing the practical skills to handle these issues more effectively. I believe that within our problems lie the keys to further growth and development when they are unfolded with awareness. Together, we will create a treatment plan that is tailored to meet your desired goals in therapy.
(503) 567-5428 View (503) 567-5428
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Kori DeSimone
Professional Counselor Associate, MS, NBCC
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Milwaukie, OR 97222
Hi! We might be a good fit if you live in Oregon & a few of these questions resonate for you: What is working within my current relationship(s)? What would healthy & holistic boundaries look like for us? What patterns are my partner(s) & I stuck in? What realities do we dream for our relationship(s)? How does my community & our shared history support me as I create a meaningful life? How do I process how others' histories, traumas or pain contributed to their harmful impact on me? How do I navigate grief & loss?
Hi! We might be a good fit if you live in Oregon & a few of these questions resonate for you: What is working within my current relationship(s)? What would healthy & holistic boundaries look like for us? What patterns are my partner(s) & I stuck in? What realities do we dream for our relationship(s)? How does my community & our shared history support me as I create a meaningful life? How do I process how others' histories, traumas or pain contributed to their harmful impact on me? How do I navigate grief & loss?
(503) 395-3917 View (503) 395-3917
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Desmond Cohen
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Milwaukie, OR 97222  (Online Only)
Trying to be a happy, healthy, creative human in today’s world requires new skills to face new challenges. Overwhelming anxiety, depression, and relationship instability are often products of our ancient nervous system struggling to adapt to an environment with new rules, new pressures, and old wounds. As a species we are subjected to increasing pressure to perform, produce, and project a life that is at once effortless and perfect. The reality is far from this however, and humans need support, love, and patience in the face of failure in order to thrive.
Trying to be a happy, healthy, creative human in today’s world requires new skills to face new challenges. Overwhelming anxiety, depression, and relationship instability are often products of our ancient nervous system struggling to adapt to an environment with new rules, new pressures, and old wounds. As a species we are subjected to increasing pressure to perform, produce, and project a life that is at once effortless and perfect. The reality is far from this however, and humans need support, love, and patience in the face of failure in order to thrive.
(971) 715-2675 View (971) 715-2675
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Kellyjoy Kanaley
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
Milwaukie, OR 97222  (Online Only)
Areas Of Work I Provide + Strengthening Your Relationship With Your Own Creativity + Healthy Boundary Setting + Strengthening Your Relationship With Your Own Intuition + Creating Healthier Habits You Enjoy + Creating A Sustainable Spiritual Practice + Strengthening A Healthy Relationship With Your Body, Your Mind, And With Others.
I offer EMDR, Mindful CBT, Body-Centered, Transpersonal Psychotherapy for individuals and couples. The style of therapy I offer aims to help you recognize and develop your full potential, and to connect with a sense of meaning and purpose in your life. This approach to therapy can be particularly helpful if you are seeking a deeper understanding of yourself and your place in the world, and if you are seeking to integrate spiritual experiences into your life or if you are in pursuit of a creative project and you are experiencing blocks.
Areas Of Work I Provide + Strengthening Your Relationship With Your Own Creativity + Healthy Boundary Setting + Strengthening Your Relationship With Your Own Intuition + Creating Healthier Habits You Enjoy + Creating A Sustainable Spiritual Practice + Strengthening A Healthy Relationship With Your Body, Your Mind, And With Others.
I offer EMDR, Mindful CBT, Body-Centered, Transpersonal Psychotherapy for individuals and couples. The style of therapy I offer aims to help you recognize and develop your full potential, and to connect with a sense of meaning and purpose in your life. This approach to therapy can be particularly helpful if you are seeking a deeper understanding of yourself and your place in the world, and if you are seeking to integrate spiritual experiences into your life or if you are in pursuit of a creative project and you are experiencing blocks.
(503) 536-1097 View (503) 536-1097
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Dmitri Dosamantes
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Milwaukie, OR 97222  (Online Only)
I've been in practice for 20+ years and I'm passionate about helping people move forward in their lives. My approach to therapy is collaborative, supportive, and goal oriented. Together we can discover how to break your maladaptive patterns, build on your strengths, and begin your journey to heal. In my practice, you will find openness without judgement and an environment where you can heal the wounds that may be causing low self-esteem, relationship issues, problems at work; or depression and anxiety. Together we can create the changes you want in your life.
I've been in practice for 20+ years and I'm passionate about helping people move forward in their lives. My approach to therapy is collaborative, supportive, and goal oriented. Together we can discover how to break your maladaptive patterns, build on your strengths, and begin your journey to heal. In my practice, you will find openness without judgement and an environment where you can heal the wounds that may be causing low self-esteem, relationship issues, problems at work; or depression and anxiety. Together we can create the changes you want in your life.
(971) 340-4192 View (971) 340-4192
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Kelsey Papadatos
Pre-Licensed Professional, CSWA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Milwaukie, OR 97222
Through training and past work positions, I have experience working with family systems, survivors of traumatic experiences, child abuse and neglect, anxiety, depression, relationship conflict, experiences that you may experience in your life.
Are you struggling? Experienced Trauma? Wondering why this is still happening? Maybe I can help! With the belief that every person enters therapy with strengths, we will work together to build upon that foundation and learn about strengths that you might not be aware of just yet. I understand how difficult it is to feel comfortable with a new therapist while discussing past traumatic experiences, so I place a lot of importance in building up a rapport and therapeutic alliance.
Through training and past work positions, I have experience working with family systems, survivors of traumatic experiences, child abuse and neglect, anxiety, depression, relationship conflict, experiences that you may experience in your life.
Are you struggling? Experienced Trauma? Wondering why this is still happening? Maybe I can help! With the belief that every person enters therapy with strengths, we will work together to build upon that foundation and learn about strengths that you might not be aware of just yet. I understand how difficult it is to feel comfortable with a new therapist while discussing past traumatic experiences, so I place a lot of importance in building up a rapport and therapeutic alliance.
(503) 486-4399 View (503) 486-4399
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Marina Valdez
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Milwaukie, OR 97222
*Ofrezco terapia bilingue, en espanol y en ingles.* I offer bilingual therapy, in Spanish and/or English. I believe a sense of trust and safety within the therapeutic relationship is necessary in order to facilitate the change we want to see in our lives. To work towards this goal in my therapeutic relationships, I work from a feminist multicultural framework. I believe the client is the expert on their own experiences. I use collaborative, relational, and strength-based therapy to facilitate a genuine and honest therapeutic relationship that can promote insight and adaptive change.
*Ofrezco terapia bilingue, en espanol y en ingles.* I offer bilingual therapy, in Spanish and/or English. I believe a sense of trust and safety within the therapeutic relationship is necessary in order to facilitate the change we want to see in our lives. To work towards this goal in my therapeutic relationships, I work from a feminist multicultural framework. I believe the client is the expert on their own experiences. I use collaborative, relational, and strength-based therapy to facilitate a genuine and honest therapeutic relationship that can promote insight and adaptive change.
(971) 701-2403 View (971) 701-2403
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Steven Ruiz Bettencourt
Licensed Professional Counselor, PsyD, LPC, CHT, EMDR
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Milwaukie, OR 97222
Waitlist for new clients
If you are looking for an experienced therapist who will put you instantly at ease, and with whom you can build a secure and trusting counseling relationship, please contact me for an appointment.
I am a compassionate and intuitive licensed psychotherapist & hypnotist. I have been practicing for 40 years. I specialize in anger management, anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties/couples counseling, motivation, personality disorders, EMDR and hypnosis for a variety of issues. I am a member of the Oregon Counseling Association, American Counseling Association, National Anger Management Association, Oregon Mediation Association, and I am a board member of the Oregon Hypnotherapy Association, and President of World Musado Federation. I am familiar with Spanish, as my father is from Spain although I am not fluent.
If you are looking for an experienced therapist who will put you instantly at ease, and with whom you can build a secure and trusting counseling relationship, please contact me for an appointment.
I am a compassionate and intuitive licensed psychotherapist & hypnotist. I have been practicing for 40 years. I specialize in anger management, anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties/couples counseling, motivation, personality disorders, EMDR and hypnosis for a variety of issues. I am a member of the Oregon Counseling Association, American Counseling Association, National Anger Management Association, Oregon Mediation Association, and I am a board member of the Oregon Hypnotherapy Association, and President of World Musado Federation. I am familiar with Spanish, as my father is from Spain although I am not fluent.
(503) 496-7421 View (503) 496-7421
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Joy Wilson
Counselor, LMHCA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Portland, OR 97222
Our life stories do not always have the fairy tale endings that we hoped for, but we are not mere puppets. We are active agents in pursuit of meaningful moments and positive outcomes. I will help you identify your strengths and collaborate with you to find solutions to challenges in your story. I strive to provide a counseling relationship in which you can feel safe, heard, and supported as you explore or process whatever you choose.
Our life stories do not always have the fairy tale endings that we hoped for, but we are not mere puppets. We are active agents in pursuit of meaningful moments and positive outcomes. I will help you identify your strengths and collaborate with you to find solutions to challenges in your story. I strive to provide a counseling relationship in which you can feel safe, heard, and supported as you explore or process whatever you choose.
(503) 850-8088 View (503) 850-8088
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Jenna Washburn
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Milwaukie, OR 97222  (Online Only)
I also offer a unique program called Focused Therapy that seeks to address the following issues: 1) Relationship Struggles and / or Codependency, 2) Caretaker Burnout, 3) Chronic Perfectionism, 4) Building Healthy Boundaries, 5) Surviving Narcissistic Abuse, and / or 6) Counseling Services for Empaths.
It goes without saying these past few years have been an uphill battle. With the stress of a pandemic, the economic hardships facing many, and political divides deepening: it's no wonder anxiety is high. Or depression feels magnified. Or you find yourself falling back into bad habits.  But you don't have to struggle through this time alone. Empathic Counseling can help you cope during this difficult time and empower you to thrive. I work closely with clients across Oregon to help them find freedom from Anxiety, Depression, Addiction, Trauma, or that harsh voice inside you that tells you you're not enough.
I also offer a unique program called Focused Therapy that seeks to address the following issues: 1) Relationship Struggles and / or Codependency, 2) Caretaker Burnout, 3) Chronic Perfectionism, 4) Building Healthy Boundaries, 5) Surviving Narcissistic Abuse, and / or 6) Counseling Services for Empaths.
It goes without saying these past few years have been an uphill battle. With the stress of a pandemic, the economic hardships facing many, and political divides deepening: it's no wonder anxiety is high. Or depression feels magnified. Or you find yourself falling back into bad habits.  But you don't have to struggle through this time alone. Empathic Counseling can help you cope during this difficult time and empower you to thrive. I work closely with clients across Oregon to help them find freedom from Anxiety, Depression, Addiction, Trauma, or that harsh voice inside you that tells you you're not enough.
(971) 206-4742 View (971) 206-4742
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Lisa M Cutler-Stamm
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Milwaukie, OR 97222
My specialty areas are: Attachment Relationship Issues, Anxiety/PTSD, Depression, School and Developmental issues, Adult/Childhood/Family Adjustment and Transitional Issues such as divorce, trauma, major life changes, Family Therapy and Parenting.
I am a licensed clinical social worker with 13 years of experience working with children, adolescents, adults and families. When I work with a client, I strive to collaborate to solve problems and open up opportunities for each individual to experience themselves, their relationships and life in a more positive, and healthy way.
My specialty areas are: Attachment Relationship Issues, Anxiety/PTSD, Depression, School and Developmental issues, Adult/Childhood/Family Adjustment and Transitional Issues such as divorce, trauma, major life changes, Family Therapy and Parenting.
I am a licensed clinical social worker with 13 years of experience working with children, adolescents, adults and families. When I work with a client, I strive to collaborate to solve problems and open up opportunities for each individual to experience themselves, their relationships and life in a more positive, and healthy way.
(503) 567-4654 View (503) 567-4654
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Jennifer DeVan
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Milwaukie, OR 97222
Waitlist for new clients
I can address issues such as anxiety, self-esteem, depression, ADHD, PTSD, family dynamics, relationship issues, abuse, and life transitions.
Hello! Thank you for viewing my profile. I believe it takes strength and courage to decide to begin therapy. I believe there comes a time in most people's lives when it can be helpful to have a non-biased, supportive person to guide them through life changes or difficulties they may be experiencing. Therapy is a collaborative relationship between the client and the therapist. In order for therapy to be successful, a person has to be ready and want to make changes. It is also essential to feel understood and accepted by your therapist. If you feel that you might benefit from a caring, experienced therapist, please call.
I can address issues such as anxiety, self-esteem, depression, ADHD, PTSD, family dynamics, relationship issues, abuse, and life transitions.
Hello! Thank you for viewing my profile. I believe it takes strength and courage to decide to begin therapy. I believe there comes a time in most people's lives when it can be helpful to have a non-biased, supportive person to guide them through life changes or difficulties they may be experiencing. Therapy is a collaborative relationship between the client and the therapist. In order for therapy to be successful, a person has to be ready and want to make changes. It is also essential to feel understood and accepted by your therapist. If you feel that you might benefit from a caring, experienced therapist, please call.
(503) 828-3957 View (503) 828-3957

Relationship Issues Therapists
While need for human connection appears to be innate, the ability to form healthy, loving relationships is learned. Some evidence suggests that the ability to form a stable relationship starts to form in infancy, in a child's earliest experiences with a caregiver who reliably meets the infant's needs for food, care, warmth, protection, stimulation, and social contact. Such relationships are not destiny, but they are theorized to establish deeply ingrained patterns of relating to others. The end of a relationship, however, is often a source of great psychological anguish.