Rachel Paster
Psychologist, PsyD (she, her)
Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
6 Endorsed
Fanwood, NJ 07023
Let's Connect (908) 639-3190

You've been trying so hard to cope on your own. Maybe you stay busy and in control but with a constant hum of worry or insecurity in the background. Maybe your relationships feel harder than they should. You're tired of overreacting, shutting down, or feeling disconnected in moments that matter. Even if calm feels like a distant memory, a part of you knows you’re ready for relief—for more steadiness, clarity, and ease in how you respond to yourself and others. I help people slow things down, understand what’s driving these patterns, and build the capacity to respond with more choice and care.
Clients come to me looking for an individual and couples therapist who is experienced, grounded, and genuinely human (and sometimes funny). I offer an affirming, inclusive space for LGBTQ+ individuals and relationships. Sessions are collaborative, practical, and paced to you (no emotional deep-dives before you’re ready).
As an experienced trauma- and relationship-focused therapist, I believe healing happens when we understand our patterns rather than judge them. You don’t have to keep living on edge or stuck in cycles that no longer serve you — and you don’t have to do it alone. Call me today to schedule a free 15-minute consultation. I look forward to connecting.
Call or Email Rachel Paster now for a free 15 minute consultation - (908) 639-3190
Let's Connect (908) 639-3190

Finances
Fees
- Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible
Payment Methods
American Express, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, VisaInsurance
- Out of Network
Rachel Paster
Psychologist, PsyD
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Qualifications
- Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of Massachusetts / PSY10045 Rachel PasterLicense state differs from primary location state.
- Attended William James College (formerly MSPP), Psy.D., Graduated 2012
Education and Years In Practice
Rachel Paster
Psychologist, PsyD
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (908) 639-3190
Specialties and Expertise
Expertise
- Anxiety
- Caregivers
- Coping Skills
- Depression
- Family Conflict
- Grief
- LGBTQ+
- Relationship Issues
- Self Esteem
- Stress
- Transgender
- Trauma and PTSD
- Women's Issues
Rachel Paster
Psychologist, PsyD
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (908) 639-3190
6 Endorsements
Client Focus
Age
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples
Age
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples
Treatment Approach
Types of Therapy
- Acceptance and Commitment (ACT)
- Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
- Culturally Sensitive
- Dialectical Behavior (DBT)
- EMDR
- Gottman Method
- Strength-Based
- Trauma Focused
Rachel Paster
Psychologist, PsyD
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (908) 639-3190