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Psychotherapy with Heart & Humor
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT

Psychotherapy with Heart & Humor

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT (she, her)

Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
5 Endorsed
Oakland, CA 94609
Let's Connect (415) 630-4265
Photo of Donna Long - Psychotherapy with Heart & Humor, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Hi, I'm Donna. I'm informal, caring, real, and nonjudgmental. I offer a psychotherapy widely considered to be THE most effective psychotherapy that is also gentle: Internal Family Systems, or IFS. With IFS, we'll heal your childhood trauma - both "big T" and "little T" kind. We'll heal any or all of the painful emotions, beliefs and behaviors born of misattunment, neglect, emotional or physical abuse, and/or any other childhood trauma. We'll get to know the young parts that still hold your pain - with deep compassion and respect. We'll let them know we see them; that they're no longer alone. And then we'll heal them.
Because IFS heals whatever we're carrying inside that needs help, it's effective with every kind of emotional and behavioral problem. Examples include, shame, perfectionism, addictions, suicidality, phobias, low self-esteem, anxiety, depression, OCD, self-harm, PTSD, fear of intimacy, dissociation, and agoraphobia.
Call or text me at 415-860-3753 for a free 20- to 30-minute phone or video consultation. Let's talk about what you're wanting help with, and you can get a feel for me. I'd love to have the opportunity to help you.
Call or Psychotherapy with Heart & Humor now for a free 15 minute consultation - (415) 630-4265

Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

North Oakland

Oakland, CA 94609

(415) 630-4265
I'm now accepting new clients and have evening and weekend availability. I offer sessions in person in my cozy Oakland home and by video.
I specialize in Internal Family Systems (IFS)/Parts Work, Marital and Premarital and Adult ADHD 
$190 Per Session  
I see individuals and couples  
I'd love to hear from you to schedule a free 30-minute chat to see if we might be a good match!
Psychotherapy with Heart & Humor
Let's Connect (415) 630-4265
Photo of Donna Long - Psychotherapy with Heart & Humor, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT

Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

North Oakland

Oakland, CA 94609

(415) 630-4265
I'm now accepting new clients and have evening and weekend availability. I offer sessions in person in my cozy Oakland home and by video.
I specialize in Internal Family Systems (IFS)/Parts Work, Marital and Premarital and Adult ADHD 
$190 Per Session  
I see individuals and couples  
I'd love to hear from you to schedule a free 30-minute chat to see if we might be a good match!
Psychotherapy with Heart & Humor

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $190
  • Couple Sessions $265
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

Cash, Check, Paypal, Venmo, Zelle

Insurance

  • Out of Network
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If you have out of network coverage, I'm happy to provide a Superbill for you to submit to your insurance for reimbursement.
Photo of Donna Long - Psychotherapy with Heart & Humor, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Psychotherapy with Heart & Humor
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 630-4265
"
If you have out of network coverage, I'm happy to provide a Superbill for you to submit to your insurance for reimbursement.
Photo of Donna Long - Psychotherapy with Heart & Humor, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Psychotherapy with Heart & Humor
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 630-4265

Qualifications

    Marriage & Family Therapist: Donna Long

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of California / MFC50398 Donna Long
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 20 years
  • Attended John F. Kennedy University, M.A., Counseling Psychology, Graduated 2003
  • Additional Credentials

  • Membership with East Bay Chapter of CAMFT (California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists 2025
  • Membership with California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists 2025
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I'm privileged to have trained with Dr. Richard Schwartz, the developer of the Internal Family Systems (IFS) model. I'm also a graduate of the 16-week comprehensieve IFS course given by the IFSCA (IFS Counseling Association). I'm also trained in EMDR and the Flashtechnique, an offshoot of EMDR.
Photo of Donna Long - Psychotherapy with Heart & Humor, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Psychotherapy with Heart & Humor
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 630-4265
"
I'm privileged to have trained with Dr. Richard Schwartz, the developer of the Internal Family Systems (IFS) model. I'm also a graduate of the 16-week comprehensieve IFS course given by the IFSCA (IFS Counseling Association). I'm also trained in EMDR and the Flashtechnique, an offshoot of EMDR.
Photo of Donna Long - Psychotherapy with Heart & Humor, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Psychotherapy with Heart & Humor
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 630-4265

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Internal Family Systems (IFS)/Parts Work
  • Marital and Premarital
  • Adult ADHD

Expertise

  • ADHD
  • Adoption
  • Anxiety
  • Codependency
  • Coping Skills
  • Depression
  • Divorce
  • Grief
  • Impulse Control Disorders
  • Life Transitions
  • Mood Disorders
  • Peer Relationships
  • Relationship Issues
  • Self Esteem
  • Sleep or Insomnia
  • Spirituality
  • Stress
  • Substance Use
  • Trauma and PTSD
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Together we can find, befriend and love up the parts of you that hold such feelings as shame, alienation, depression, and anxiety and that behave in self-destructive ways. Using the Internal Family Systems (IFS) model, you'll experience seemingly intractable emotions and behaviors soften and heal, often incredibly quickly!
Photo of Donna Long - Psychotherapy with Heart & Humor, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Psychotherapy with Heart & Humor
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 630-4265
"
Together we can find, befriend and love up the parts of you that hold such feelings as shame, alienation, depression, and anxiety and that behave in self-destructive ways. Using the Internal Family Systems (IFS) model, you'll experience seemingly intractable emotions and behaviors soften and heal, often incredibly quickly!
Photo of Donna Long - Psychotherapy with Heart & Humor, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Psychotherapy with Heart & Humor
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 630-4265

5 Endorsements

Elizabeth Dausch
Elizabeth Dausch
Marriage & Family Therapist AssociateAMFT
Donna's presence quickly made me feel at ease. She brought a real warmth, attunement, and curiosity to our connection. And you can sense the passion she has for the work she does and helping people heal.
Mia Gajdosik
Mia Gajdosik
Clinical Social Work/TherapistLCSWMPHMSYTT-200
Donna is an amazing therapist! She is down-to-earth, compassionate, and deeply caring. In a session with Donna, you will feel seen, heard, supported and validated in your experiences. I highly recommend working with Donna.
Martha Bulger
Martha Bulger
Clinical Social Work/TherapistLCSW
Donna is emotionally warm and compassionate. She provides a safe, caring and non-judgmental space. Her IFS work with me was powerfully healing. She works with gentleness and a deep insightful understanding.
Kerianne Stephan
Kerianne Stephan
Marriage & Family TherapistLMFTMScMA
Donna radiates such warmth and compassion as a therapist. She is dedicated in providing support to her clients and colleagues alike. She brings in the wealth of her experience and knowledge into the room to foster deep curiosity in understanding others.

Client Focus

Age

Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
Lesbian Allied

Age

Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
Lesbian Allied

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Adult ADHD
  • Attachment-based
  • Couple Therapy
  • EMDR
  • Internal Family Systems (IFS)
  • Trauma Focused
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IFS (Internal Family Systems) and EMDR are widely considered THE most powerful and effective types of therapy. In combination, they can be life changing. After talking with you about what you're dealing with in life and hoping for in therapy, I'll suggest how we can work together using these therapies, while centering your comfort level and incorporating an attachment lens.
Photo of Donna Long - Psychotherapy with Heart & Humor, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Psychotherapy with Heart & Humor
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 630-4265
"
IFS (Internal Family Systems) and EMDR are widely considered THE most powerful and effective types of therapy. In combination, they can be life changing. After talking with you about what you're dealing with in life and hoping for in therapy, I'll suggest how we can work together using these therapies, while centering your comfort level and incorporating an attachment lens.
Photo of Donna Long - Psychotherapy with Heart & Humor, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Psychotherapy with Heart & Humor
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 630-4265

Location

Primary Location

North Oakland

Oakland, CA 94609

(415) 630-4265
"
I'm now accepting new clients and have evening and weekend availability. I offer sessions in person in my cozy Oakland home and by video.
Photo of Donna Long - Psychotherapy with Heart & Humor, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Psychotherapy with Heart & Humor
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (415) 630-4265
"
I'm now accepting new clients and have evening and weekend availability. I offer sessions in person in my cozy Oakland home and by video.
Photo of Donna Long - Psychotherapy with Heart & Humor, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Psychotherapy with Heart & Humor
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (415) 630-4265