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LPHA, MA, AMFT

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Palo Alto, CA 94301
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Excessive pornography use can eat away at the foundation of trust in relationships, leaving your partner feeling deeply hurt and inadequate. How can something so common and seemingly benign be so hard to control? It starts with casual screen use for work that morphs effortlessly into social media, then adult content, cam sites, or OnlyFans. This is especially challenging for ambitious men used to figuring things out alone. I’m not just a professional; I’ve been in your shoes and know the cost to your integrity when this goes unaddressed. If you're tired of this cycle, there is a clear path out.
I use a 12-16 session process to stabilize relationships and control sexual urges. Working with 2,300+ men since 2020, I target the root cause for permanent change, not just “talk therapy.” The ARISE approach (Accountability, Relationship, Insight, Skills, Education) comprehensively helps you gain insight and control over sexual urges.
I invite you to a private and confidential 25-minute evaluation as the first step toward regaining control. Our talk will shed light on the next action steps for your situation, so your behavior once again matches the standard you expect for your life and your relationships.
Call or Porn Recovery & Relationships | Jeffrey Ly now for a free 15 minute consultation - (415) 942-5839

Practice at a Glance

Available online only

San Jose

Palo Alto, CA 94301

(415) 942-5839

San Francisco

Menlo Park, CA 94027

Website
I work specifically with men and couples to regain control over their life from pornography.
I specialize in Porn Addiction, Men's Issues and Internet Addiction 
$199 Per Session  
I see individuals and couples  
Learn more about my approach, helping men quit porn to regain control in their life and relationships again (website below).
Porn Recovery & Relationships | Jeffrey Ly
Let's Connect (415) 942-5839
Photo of Jeffrey Ly - Porn Recovery & Relationships | Jeffrey Ly, LPHA, MA, AMFT

Practice at a Glance

Available online only

San Jose

Palo Alto, CA 94301

(415) 942-5839

San Francisco

Menlo Park, CA 94027

Website
I work specifically with men and couples to regain control over their life from pornography.
I specialize in Porn Addiction, Men's Issues and Internet Addiction 
$199 Per Session  
I see individuals and couples  
Learn more about my approach, helping men quit porn to regain control in their life and relationships again (website below).
Porn Recovery & Relationships | Jeffrey Ly

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $199
  • Couple Sessions $199
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

Discover, Mastercard, Paypal, Venmo, Visa
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Only Credit/Debit payment is accepted since our specialty is not covered by insurance.
Photo of Jeffrey Ly - Porn Recovery & Relationships | Jeffrey Ly, LPHA, MA, AMFT
Porn Recovery & Relationships | Jeffrey Ly
LPHA, MA, AMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 942-5839
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Only Credit/Debit payment is accepted since our specialty is not covered by insurance.
Photo of Jeffrey Ly - Porn Recovery & Relationships | Jeffrey Ly, LPHA, MA, AMFT
Porn Recovery & Relationships | Jeffrey Ly
LPHA, MA, AMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 942-5839

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Degree/Diploma from Azusa Pacific University Jeffrey Ly
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 6 years
  • Attended Azusa Pacific University, Master's in Clinical Psychology: Marriage & Family Therapy, Graduated 2020
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I have over 5 years of specialized experience helping men and couples quit porn to regain control of their life and relationships. If you'd like to arrange a complimentary consultation, you can self-book on my website.
Photo of Jeffrey Ly - Porn Recovery & Relationships | Jeffrey Ly, LPHA, MA, AMFT
Porn Recovery & Relationships | Jeffrey Ly
LPHA, MA, AMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 942-5839
"
I have over 5 years of specialized experience helping men and couples quit porn to regain control of their life and relationships. If you'd like to arrange a complimentary consultation, you can self-book on my website.
Photo of Jeffrey Ly - Porn Recovery & Relationships | Jeffrey Ly, LPHA, MA, AMFT
Porn Recovery & Relationships | Jeffrey Ly
LPHA, MA, AMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 942-5839

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Porn Addiction
  • Men's Issues
  • Internet Addiction

Expertise

  • Addiction
  • Anxiety
  • Chronic Impulsivity
  • Chronic Relapse
  • Coping Skills
  • Depression
  • Life Coaching
  • Life Transitions
  • Self Esteem
  • Sexual Addiction
  • Stress
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My primary focus is helping men and couples quit pornography to regain control in their lives. Other common areas related to my focus revolve around men's issues in life, relationships, and work. If you'd like to learn more or arrange a complimentary consultation, you can self-book an appointment on my website.
Photo of Jeffrey Ly - Porn Recovery & Relationships | Jeffrey Ly, LPHA, MA, AMFT
Porn Recovery & Relationships | Jeffrey Ly
LPHA, MA, AMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 942-5839
"
My primary focus is helping men and couples quit pornography to regain control in their lives. Other common areas related to my focus revolve around men's issues in life, relationships, and work. If you'd like to learn more or arrange a complimentary consultation, you can self-book an appointment on my website.
Photo of Jeffrey Ly - Porn Recovery & Relationships | Jeffrey Ly, LPHA, MA, AMFT
Porn Recovery & Relationships | Jeffrey Ly
LPHA, MA, AMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 942-5839

Client Focus

Age

Teen
Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Ethnicity

Asian
Pacific Islander

I also speak

Vietnamese

Religion

Buddhist

Age

Teen
Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Ethnicity

Asian
Pacific Islander

I also speak

Vietnamese

Religion

Buddhist

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Acceptance and Commitment (ACT)
  • Adlerian
  • Attachment-based
  • Coaching
  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Integrative
  • Men's Issues
  • Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
  • Person-Centered
  • Porn Dependency/Addiction
  • Positive Psychology
  • Psychoanalytic
  • Psychodynamic
  • Somatic
  • Strength-Based
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I take a holistic approach tailored to each individual's unique situation and needs, aiming to create lasting change. My method is results-oriented, focusing on practical goals, actionable steps, and daily adjustments in your life and relationships that foster deeper insights for an enduring transformation. If you'd like to arrange a complimentary consultation, you can self-book on my website.
Photo of Jeffrey Ly - Porn Recovery & Relationships | Jeffrey Ly, LPHA, MA, AMFT
Porn Recovery & Relationships | Jeffrey Ly
LPHA, MA, AMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 942-5839
"
I take a holistic approach tailored to each individual's unique situation and needs, aiming to create lasting change. My method is results-oriented, focusing on practical goals, actionable steps, and daily adjustments in your life and relationships that foster deeper insights for an enduring transformation. If you'd like to arrange a complimentary consultation, you can self-book on my website.
Photo of Jeffrey Ly - Porn Recovery & Relationships | Jeffrey Ly, LPHA, MA, AMFT
Porn Recovery & Relationships | Jeffrey Ly
LPHA, MA, AMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 942-5839

Location

Primary Location

San Jose

Palo Alto, CA 94301

(415) 942-5839

Additional Location

San Francisco

Menlo Park, CA 94027

(415) 942-5839
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I work specifically with men and couples to regain control over their life from pornography.
Photo of Jeffrey Ly - Porn Recovery & Relationships | Jeffrey Ly, LPHA, MA, AMFT
Porn Recovery & Relationships | Jeffrey Ly
LPHA, MA, AMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (415) 942-5839
"
I work specifically with men and couples to regain control over their life from pornography.
Photo of Jeffrey Ly - Porn Recovery & Relationships | Jeffrey Ly, LPHA, MA, AMFT
Porn Recovery & Relationships | Jeffrey Ly
LPHA, MA, AMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (415) 942-5839