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MA, LPHA, AMFT

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Livingston, NJ 07039
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Porn addiction can slowly wear down trust in a relationship, leaving one partner feeling deeply hurt and inadequate while the other feels stuck in a loop of guilt, secrecy, and broken promises despite all their willpower. With time, this often turns into growing distance or even a sense of betrayal. If this is your reality, you are not alone. What may start as normal screen time or social media can slide into porn sites, cam sites, or OnlyFans and become a pattern that is hard to control, even for men disciplined in every other area of life.
I bring both clinical training and personal experience in recovery to my work. Since 2020, I have supported over 2,400 men and their partners in moving from secrecy and repeated porn use into real change, stronger self control, and renewed trust. My approach is structured, direct, and goal oriented, focused on addressing compulsive sexual behavior at its roo
Through a 12 to 16 session process based on the ARISE framework, we work on the underlying drivers of behavior while strengthening accountability, practical skills, and stability in the relationship. I offer a private and confidential 25 minute strategy consultation to clarify what is happening and what specific steps will move things forward.
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Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Livingston, NJ 07039

(862) 407-4885

Millburn, NJ 07041

Website
I work specifically with men and couples to regain control over their life from pornography.
I specialize in Men's Issues, Porn Addiction and Life Coaching 
$230 Per Session  
I see individuals and couples  
Learn more about my approach, helping men quit porn to regain control in their life and relationships again (website below).
Porn Recovery & Relationships | Jeffrey Ly
Let's Connect (862) 407-4885
Photo of Jeffrey Ly - Porn Recovery & Relationships | Jeffrey Ly, MA, LPHA, AMFT

Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Livingston, NJ 07039

(862) 407-4885

Millburn, NJ 07041

Website
I work specifically with men and couples to regain control over their life from pornography.
I specialize in Men's Issues, Porn Addiction and Life Coaching 
$230 Per Session  
I see individuals and couples  
Learn more about my approach, helping men quit porn to regain control in their life and relationships again (website below).
Porn Recovery & Relationships | Jeffrey Ly

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $230
  • Couple Sessions $230
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

American Express, Discover, Mastercard, Paypal, Visa
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Only Credit/Debit payment is accepted since our specialty is not covered by insurance.
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Porn Recovery & Relationships | Jeffrey Ly
MA, LPHA, AMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (862) 407-4885
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Only Credit/Debit payment is accepted since our specialty is not covered by insurance.
Photo of Jeffrey Ly - Porn Recovery & Relationships | Jeffrey Ly, MA, LPHA, AMFT
Porn Recovery & Relationships | Jeffrey Ly
MA, LPHA, AMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (862) 407-4885

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Degree/Diploma from Azusa Pacific University Jeffrey Ly
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 6 years
  • Attended Azusa Pacific University: M.A. Clinical Psychology, M.A. Clinical Psych Marriage & Family Therapy, Graduated 2020
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I have over 5 years of specialized experience helping men and couples quit porn to regain control of their life and relationships. If you'd like to arrange a complimentary consultation, you can self-book on my website.
Photo of Jeffrey Ly - Porn Recovery & Relationships | Jeffrey Ly, MA, LPHA, AMFT
Porn Recovery & Relationships | Jeffrey Ly
MA, LPHA, AMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (862) 407-4885
"
I have over 5 years of specialized experience helping men and couples quit porn to regain control of their life and relationships. If you'd like to arrange a complimentary consultation, you can self-book on my website.
Photo of Jeffrey Ly - Porn Recovery & Relationships | Jeffrey Ly, MA, LPHA, AMFT
Porn Recovery & Relationships | Jeffrey Ly
MA, LPHA, AMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (862) 407-4885

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Men's Issues
  • Porn Addiction
  • Life Coaching

Expertise

  • Addiction
  • Anxiety
  • Chronic Impulsivity
  • Chronic Relapse
  • Coping Skills
  • Depression
  • Internet Addiction
  • Life Transitions
  • Self Esteem
  • Sexual Addiction
  • Stress
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My primary focus is helping men and couples quit pornography to regain control in their lives. Other common areas related to my focus revolve around men's issues in life, relationships, and work. If you'd like to learn more or arrange a complimentary consultation, you can self-book an appointment on my website.
Photo of Jeffrey Ly - Porn Recovery & Relationships | Jeffrey Ly, MA, LPHA, AMFT
Porn Recovery & Relationships | Jeffrey Ly
MA, LPHA, AMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (862) 407-4885
"
My primary focus is helping men and couples quit pornography to regain control in their lives. Other common areas related to my focus revolve around men's issues in life, relationships, and work. If you'd like to learn more or arrange a complimentary consultation, you can self-book an appointment on my website.
Photo of Jeffrey Ly - Porn Recovery & Relationships | Jeffrey Ly, MA, LPHA, AMFT
Porn Recovery & Relationships | Jeffrey Ly
MA, LPHA, AMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (862) 407-4885

Client Focus

Age

Teen
Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Ethnicity

Asian
Pacific Islander

I also speak

Vietnamese

Religion

Christian

Age

Teen
Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Ethnicity

Asian
Pacific Islander

I also speak

Vietnamese

Religion

Christian

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Acceptance and Commitment (ACT)
  • Adlerian
  • Attachment-based
  • Coaching
  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Integrative
  • Men's Issues
  • Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
  • Person-Centered
  • Porn Dependency/Addiction
  • Positive Psychology
  • Psychoanalytic
  • Psychodynamic
  • Somatic
  • Strength-Based
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I take a holistic approach tailored to each individual's unique situation and needs, aiming to create lasting change. My method is results-oriented, focusing on practical goals, actionable steps, and daily adjustments in your life and relationships that foster deeper insights for an enduring transformation. If you'd like to arrange a complimentary consultation, you can self-book on my website.
Photo of Jeffrey Ly - Porn Recovery & Relationships | Jeffrey Ly, MA, LPHA, AMFT
Porn Recovery & Relationships | Jeffrey Ly
MA, LPHA, AMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (862) 407-4885
"
I take a holistic approach tailored to each individual's unique situation and needs, aiming to create lasting change. My method is results-oriented, focusing on practical goals, actionable steps, and daily adjustments in your life and relationships that foster deeper insights for an enduring transformation. If you'd like to arrange a complimentary consultation, you can self-book on my website.
Photo of Jeffrey Ly - Porn Recovery & Relationships | Jeffrey Ly, MA, LPHA, AMFT
Porn Recovery & Relationships | Jeffrey Ly
MA, LPHA, AMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (862) 407-4885

Location

Primary Location

Livingston, NJ 07039

(862) 407-4885

Additional Location

Millburn, NJ 07041

(862) 407-4885
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I work specifically with men and couples to regain control over their life from pornography.
Photo of Jeffrey Ly - Porn Recovery & Relationships | Jeffrey Ly, MA, LPHA, AMFT
Porn Recovery & Relationships | Jeffrey Ly
MA, LPHA, AMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (862) 407-4885
"
I work specifically with men and couples to regain control over their life from pornography.
Photo of Jeffrey Ly - Porn Recovery & Relationships | Jeffrey Ly, MA, LPHA, AMFT
Porn Recovery & Relationships | Jeffrey Ly
MA, LPHA, AMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (862) 407-4885