Paula
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, P-CST, CST (she, her)
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Something isn't working: in your relationship, in your body, or in your sense of who you are sexually. Maybe you've tried to talk about it and haven't found the right words. Maybe you've never said it out loud at all. That's exactly where this work begins.
I'm a Certified Sex Therapist seeing individuals and couples in Connecticut, New York, and Michigan. I specialize in the things that are hardest to say: pain during sex, low desire, mismatched libidos, intimacy that has quietly disappeared, and the changes that come with menopause, trauma, or major life transition.
Virtual only. Schedule a free consultation from my website.
Many come referred by their OB/GYN or pelvic floor physical therapist. Others have tried therapy before and found it too surface-level for what they're actually carrying. I'm a Certified Sex Therapist and Brainspotting practitioner — a brain-body modality that reaches what talk therapy alone often can't — and Gottman Level II trained for couples work.
Nothing you bring to a first session will shock me or change how I show up for you.
Your sexuality and joy are not problems to be managed. The goal is to understand yourself more fully and live with more freedom and connection.
Schedule a free consultation from my website when you're ready
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Finances
Fees
- Individual Sessions $225
- Couple Sessions $250
Payment Methods
American Express, Check, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, VisaInsurance
- Out of Network
Paula Kirsch
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, P-CST, CST
Email me with questions.
Qualifications
- Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of Michigan / 6801096808 Paula Kirsch
- In Practice for 12 years
- Attended Wayne State University School of Social Work, Masters Social Work, Graduated 2014
- License: LCSW through State of Connecticut and LCSW through state of New York CT -11811, NY -099402 / 2023
- Certificate from International Board of Sexuality Professionals (IBOSP) Certified Sex Therapist / 2026
Education and Years In Practice
Additional Credentials
Paula Kirsch
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, P-CST, CST
Email me with questions.
Specialties and Expertise
Top Specialties
- Sex Therapy
- Relationship Issues
- Women's Issues
Expertise
- Anxiety
- Bisexual
- Body Image
- Chronic Pain
- Codependency
- Coping Skills
- Depression
- Grief
- Infertility
- Infidelity
- Lesbian
- LGBTQ+
- Life Transitions
- Marital and Premarital
- Mood Disorders
- Polyamory & ENM
- Self Esteem
- Sex-Positive & Kink Friendly
- Sexual Abuse
- Sexual Desire Discrepancy
- Trauma and PTSD
- Women's Sexual Health Issues
Paula Kirsch
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, P-CST, CST
Email me with questions.
6 Endorsements
Client Focus
Age
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples
Communities
Bisexual Allied ,
Gay Allied ,
HIV / AIDS Allied ,
Immuno-disorders ,
Intersex Allied ,
Lesbian Allied ,
Non-Binary Allied ,
Queer Allied ,
Racial Justice Allied ,
Sex Worker Allied ,
Single Parent ,
Transgender Allied
Age
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples
Communities
Bisexual Allied ,
Gay Allied ,
HIV / AIDS Allied ,
Immuno-disorders ,
Intersex Allied ,
Lesbian Allied ,
Non-Binary Allied ,
Queer Allied ,
Racial Justice Allied ,
Sex Worker Allied ,
Single Parent ,
Transgender Allied
Treatment Approach
Types of Therapy
- Acceptance and Commitment (ACT)
- Attachment-based
- Brainspotting
- Coaching
- Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
- Culturally Sensitive
- Family / Marital
- Feminist
- Gottman Method
- Internal Family Systems (IFS)
- Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
- Person-Centered
- Psychodynamic
- Strength-Based
- Trauma Focused
Paula Kirsch
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, P-CST, CST
Email me with questions.
Location
Nearby Areas
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Paula Kirsch
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, P-CST, CST