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9820 Northcross Center Court Huntersville, NC 28078
I've been a counselor for over 40 years now. I try to strike a balance between listening, educating, and application. My practice is called Right Choices Counseling because most people coming for counseling are looking to make better choices with their life, moving forward.
My approach is eclectic, having had training in several different approaches (CBT, RT, etc.). I work primarily with relationship issues, men's issues and adjustment problems - doing both individual and couple's work. Over the years, I've written several books on dating, marriage, conflict resolution and moving past personal crises.
Rather than being weak, it takes courage and wisdom to get help when you need it - even better if you have the foresight to use counseling as prevention. Feel free to contact me with your questions, or to set up an initial appointment to see if this might be a good fit.
Call or Paul R Shaffer now for a free 15 minute consultation - (704) 578-2725

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Right Choices Counseling

9820 Northcross Center Court

Huntersville, NC 28078 map

(704) 578-2725
My website
I specialize in Marital and Premarital, Relationship Issues and Peer Relationships 
$120 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals and couples  
Let's Connect (704) 578-2725
Photo of Paul R Shaffer, Counselor, MA, LCMHC

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Right Choices Counseling

9820 Northcross Center Court

Huntersville, NC 28078 map

(704) 578-2725
My website
I specialize in Marital and Premarital, Relationship Issues and Peer Relationships 
$120 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals and couples  

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $120
  • Couple Sessions $140

Payment Methods

American Express, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Visa

Insurance

  • BlueCross and BlueShield
  • Out of Network
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I am in-network with Blue Cross/Blue Shield and do my own billing with them. Other insurance providers I can provide a monthly biling statement that you can submit for whatever your out-of-network options might be. Non-insurance fees are expected to be paid at the time of service.
Photo of Paul R Shaffer, Counselor, MA, LCMHC
Paul R Shaffer
Counselor, MA, LCMHC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (704) 578-2725
"
I am in-network with Blue Cross/Blue Shield and do my own billing with them. Other insurance providers I can provide a monthly biling statement that you can submit for whatever your out-of-network options might be. Non-insurance fees are expected to be paid at the time of service.
Photo of Paul R Shaffer, Counselor, MA, LCMHC
Paul R Shaffer
Counselor, MA, LCMHC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (704) 578-2725

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of North Carolina / 610 Paul R Shaffer
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • Attended Western Kentucky University, Graduated 1988
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Paul R Shaffer
Counselor, MA, LCMHC
Feel free to ask about qualifications and training experience. or (704) 578-2725
Photo of Paul R Shaffer, Counselor, MA, LCMHC
Paul R Shaffer
Counselor, MA, LCMHC
Feel free to ask about qualifications and training experience. or (704) 578-2725

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Marital and Premarital
  • Relationship Issues
  • Peer Relationships

Expertise

  • Anxiety
  • Depression
  • Divorce
  • Men's Issues
  • Mood Disorders
  • Self Esteem
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When it comes to couple's work, aside from initially gathering background information as to what brought the couple to counseling, my focus is tools-based. Rather than letting a couple just argue and get nowhere, it's more efficient to give them better tools to increase their odds of success. Past educating the couple, it's taking the time to then teach them how to better apply those tools.
Photo of Paul R Shaffer, Counselor, MA, LCMHC
Paul R Shaffer
Counselor, MA, LCMHC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (704) 578-2725
"
When it comes to couple's work, aside from initially gathering background information as to what brought the couple to counseling, my focus is tools-based. Rather than letting a couple just argue and get nowhere, it's more efficient to give them better tools to increase their odds of success. Past educating the couple, it's taking the time to then teach them how to better apply those tools.
Photo of Paul R Shaffer, Counselor, MA, LCMHC
Paul R Shaffer
Counselor, MA, LCMHC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (704) 578-2725

Client Focus

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Eclectic
  • Family / Marital
  • Positive Psychology
  • Reality Therapy
  • Relational
  • Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)
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Paul R Shaffer
Counselor, MA, LCMHC
Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. or (704) 578-2725
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Paul R Shaffer
Counselor, MA, LCMHC
Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. or (704) 578-2725

Location

Primary Location

Right Choices Counseling

9820 Northcross Center Court

Huntersville, NC 28078

(704) 578-2725
Photo of Paul R Shaffer, Counselor, MA, LCMHC
Paul R Shaffer
Counselor, MA, LCMHC
Call for a free consultation now - (704) 578-2725
Photo of Paul R Shaffer, Counselor, MA, LCMHC
Paul R Shaffer
Counselor, MA, LCMHC
Call for a free consultation now - (704) 578-2725