Paul Kalkin
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
Let's Connect (925) 515-3800

I am a California LMFT practicing since 2012 and an analyst of the Lacan School of Psychoanalysis. I work with anxiety, relationship problems, conflicts of identity, ADHD, and all life transitions. The work I offer is not coaching; it's a weekly commitment to challenging, but riveting conversations.
My approach is psychoanalytic and psychodynamic, informed by interpersonal and cognitive methods when useful. I focus on recurring patterns, defenses, and contradictions. This is not advice-driven therapy or quick symptom relief (though that can happen). It is intense, often challenging work aimed at structural change, but still supportive.
I work with adults who want to be more thoughtful about their choices, willing to examine their role in repetitive struggles in their relationships or professional life. Clients who see me typically seek depth, clarity, and long-term shifts in how they relate to others and their work. They tend to discover patience, passion, endurance, and courage.
Call or Email Paul Kalkin now for a free 15 minute consultation - (925) 515-3800
Let's Connect (925) 515-3800

Finances
Fees
- Individual Sessions $220
- Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible
Payment Methods
Paypal, Venmo, ZelleInsurance
- Aetna
- Aetna Medicare
- Anthem Blue Cross California
- AWP EAP
- Brighton
- Carelon Behavioral Health
- Cigna EAP
- Curative
- Decent
- EAP: Amazon Benefits
- Evry Health
- GTEB
- Health Plan of San Joaquin
- Horizon Blue Cross and Blue Shield
- Humana
- Independence Blue Cross Penn
- Inland Empire Health Plan
- Managed Health Network (MHN)
- MHN
- MHNet Behavioral Health
- New Directions | Lucet
- Optum
- Oxford
- Sharp Health Plan
- Sidecar Health
- Sutter
- TRICARE
- Tricare West
- UnitedHealthcare / Optum Medicare
- UnitedHealthcare UHC | UBH
- USC
Paul Kalkin
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (925) 515-3800
Qualifications
- Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of California / MFC 93270 Paul Kalkin
- In Practice for 14 years
- Attended California Institute of Integral Studies, Master's Degree, Graduated 2012
- Membership with Lacanian School of Psychoanalysis
Education and Years In Practice
Additional Credentials
Paul Kalkin
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (925) 515-3800
Specialties and Expertise
Top Specialties
- Codependency
- Life Transitions
- Self Esteem
Expertise
- Addiction
- ADHD
- Anxiety
- Depression
- Divorce
- Family Conflict
- Grief
- Infidelity
- Men's Issues
- Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD)
- Peer Relationships
- Racial Identity
- Relationship Issues
- Sleep or Insomnia
- Stress
- Suicidal Ideation
- Transgender
- Trauma and PTSD
- Women's Issues
Paul Kalkin
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (925) 515-3800
Client Focus
Age
Adults
Participants
Individuals ,
Group
Age
Adults
Participants
Individuals ,
Group
Treatment Approach
Types of Therapy
- Clinical Supervision and Licensed Supervisors
- Compassion Focused
- Culturally Sensitive
- Eclectic
- Interpersonal
- Lacanian
- Plant Medicine Support
- Psychoanalytic
- Psychodynamic
- Strength-Based
- Transpersonal
- Trauma Focused
Paul Kalkin
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (925) 515-3800