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Paul Kalkin

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

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Pleasanton, CA 94588
I am a California LMFT practicing since 2012 and an analyst of the Lacan School of Psychoanalysis. I work with anxiety, relationship problems, conflicts of identity, ADHD, and all life transitions. The work I offer is not coaching; it's a weekly commitment to challenging, but riveting conversations.
My approach is psychoanalytic and psychodynamic, informed by interpersonal and cognitive methods when useful. I focus on recurring patterns, defenses, and contradictions. This is not advice-driven therapy or quick symptom relief (though that can happen). It is intense, often challenging work aimed at structural change, but still supportive.
I work with adults who want to be more thoughtful about their choices, willing to examine their role in repetitive struggles in their relationships or professional life. Clients who see me typically seek depth, clarity, and long-term shifts in how they relate to others and their work. They tend to discover patience, passion, endurance, and courage.
Call or Paul Kalkin now for a free 15 minute consultation - (925) 515-3800

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Pleasanton, CA 94588

(925) 515-3800
My website
Zoom/phone therapy for those feeling stuck or restless. Daily sessions incl. weekends. Find me on Grow Therapy, Rula, and Headway platforms.
I specialize in Codependency, Life Transitions and Self Esteem 
$220 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals and groups  
Let's Connect (925) 515-3800
Photo of Paul Kalkin, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Pleasanton, CA 94588

(925) 515-3800
My website
Zoom/phone therapy for those feeling stuck or restless. Daily sessions incl. weekends. Find me on Grow Therapy, Rula, and Headway platforms.
I specialize in Codependency, Life Transitions and Self Esteem 
$220 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals and groups  

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $220
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

Paypal, Venmo, Zelle

Insurance

  • Aetna
  • Aetna Medicare
  • Anthem Blue Cross California
  • AWP EAP
  • Brighton
  • Carelon Behavioral Health
  • Cigna EAP
  • Curative
  • Decent
  • EAP: Amazon Benefits
  • Evry Health
  • GTEB
  • Health Plan of San Joaquin
  • Horizon Blue Cross and Blue Shield
  • Humana
  • Independence Blue Cross Penn
  • Inland Empire Health Plan
  • Managed Health Network (MHN)
  • MHN
  • MHNet Behavioral Health
  • New Directions | Lucet
  • Optum
  • Oxford
  • Sharp Health Plan
  • Sidecar Health
  • Sutter
  • TRICARE
  • Tricare West
  • UnitedHealthcare / Optum Medicare
  • UnitedHealthcare UHC | UBH
  • USC
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See insurance networks. For private pay, there's sliding scale $160-$220, reserving a limited number of reduced-fee openings for those with financial constraints who are also interested in psychoanalytic work. Superbills are available for clients with out-of-network reimbursement.
Photo of Paul Kalkin, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Paul Kalkin
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (925) 515-3800
"
See insurance networks. For private pay, there's sliding scale $160-$220, reserving a limited number of reduced-fee openings for those with financial constraints who are also interested in psychoanalytic work. Superbills are available for clients with out-of-network reimbursement.
Photo of Paul Kalkin, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Paul Kalkin
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (925) 515-3800

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of California / MFC 93270 Paul Kalkin
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 14 years
  • Attended California Institute of Integral Studies, Master's Degree, Graduated 2012
  • Additional Credentials

  • Membership with Lacanian School of Psychoanalysis
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I've practiced psychotherapy for 14 years in settings from community mental health and methadone clinics to eating disorder programs and Kaiser. I've worked with people from all walks of life, learning how to meet each person where they are and help them find what truly works.
Photo of Paul Kalkin, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Paul Kalkin
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (925) 515-3800
"
I've practiced psychotherapy for 14 years in settings from community mental health and methadone clinics to eating disorder programs and Kaiser. I've worked with people from all walks of life, learning how to meet each person where they are and help them find what truly works.
Photo of Paul Kalkin, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Paul Kalkin
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (925) 515-3800

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Codependency
  • Life Transitions
  • Self Esteem

Expertise

  • Addiction
  • ADHD
  • Anxiety
  • Depression
  • Divorce
  • Family Conflict
  • Grief
  • Infidelity
  • Men's Issues
  • Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD)
  • Peer Relationships
  • Racial Identity
  • Relationship Issues
  • Sleep or Insomnia
  • Stress
  • Suicidal Ideation
  • Transgender
  • Trauma and PTSD
  • Women's Issues
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Many people come to therapy feeling stuck between who they are and who they want to be. I help clients untangle the habits and beliefs that keep them looping through frustration, avoidance, or discouragement, and build the clarity and courage needed for meaningful change.
Photo of Paul Kalkin, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Paul Kalkin
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (925) 515-3800
"
Many people come to therapy feeling stuck between who they are and who they want to be. I help clients untangle the habits and beliefs that keep them looping through frustration, avoidance, or discouragement, and build the clarity and courage needed for meaningful change.
Photo of Paul Kalkin, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Paul Kalkin
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (925) 515-3800

Client Focus

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals
Group

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals
Group

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Clinical Supervision and Licensed Supervisors
  • Compassion Focused
  • Culturally Sensitive
  • Eclectic
  • Interpersonal
  • Lacanian
  • Plant Medicine Support
  • Psychoanalytic
  • Psychodynamic
  • Strength-Based
  • Transpersonal
  • Trauma Focused
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I integrate depth psychotherapy with evidence-based techniques to help you build awareness and create real change.
Photo of Paul Kalkin, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Paul Kalkin
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (925) 515-3800
"
I integrate depth psychotherapy with evidence-based techniques to help you build awareness and create real change.
Photo of Paul Kalkin, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Paul Kalkin
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (925) 515-3800

Location

Primary Location

Pleasanton, CA 94588

(925) 515-3800
"
Zoom/phone therapy for those feeling stuck or restless. Daily sessions incl. weekends. Find me on Grow Therapy, Rula, and Headway platforms.
Photo of Paul Kalkin, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Paul Kalkin
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (925) 515-3800
"
Zoom/phone therapy for those feeling stuck or restless. Daily sessions incl. weekends. Find me on Grow Therapy, Rula, and Headway platforms.
Photo of Paul Kalkin, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Paul Kalkin
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (925) 515-3800