Paul Gillane
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
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Remember when being together felt easy? You understood each other – talked for hours, laughed over
little things, and felt like a team. But somewhere along the way, work, kids, and daily responsibilities
crowded out connection. Now, even small disagreements escalate into big ones, leaving you both
drained and disconnected. Conversations either spiral into disputes or don’t happen at all. That silence is
even worse than the arguing. You keep going through the motions, but it’s lonely. You long to
feel seen – to feel good in this relationship again. You still care deeply, but you don’t know how to reach
each other anymore.
I use the world-renowned Gottman Method (based on 30+ years of research) to help couples restore
communication and connection. You’ll get proven tools to identify unhelpful patterns, strengthen
emotional awareness, and rebuild trust and intimacy. These tools change the dynamics of your
relationship, transforming your arguments into productive conversations.
Your relationship can become a source of strength again – a place of safety, support, and shared joy.
Let’s rebuild your connection so you can ditch all this stress. You’ve felt distant and alone long enough.
It’s time to change all that. Don’t wait for things to get worse. Call now and we’ll get started with a free,
no-hassle consultation.
Call or Email Paul Gillane now for a free 15 minute consultation - (949) 536-9140
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Finances
Fees
- Individual Sessions $165
- Couple Sessions $195
Payment Methods
Cash, Check, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Visa, ZelleInsurance
- Out of Network
Paul Gillane
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
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Qualifications
- Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of California / MFC 41756 Paul Gillane
- In Practice for 26 years
- Attended Chapman University, Masters in Psychology, Graduated 1999
- Certificate from Gottman Method Couples Therapy Level 3 Trained
Education and Years In Practice
Additional Credentials
Paul Gillane
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Feel free to ask about qualifications and training experience. Email or (949) 536-9140
Specialties and Expertise
Top Specialties
- Relationship Issues
- Anxiety
Expertise
- Addiction
- Codependency
- Depression
- Families and Substance Abuse
- Family Conflict
- Gottman Method
- Life Transitions
- Marital and Premarital
- Peer Relationships
- Self Esteem
- Stress
- Substance Use
Paul Gillane
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Do these issues align with your needs? Email or (949) 536-9140
Client Focus
Age
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples ,
Family
Religion
Christian
Age
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples ,
Family
Religion
Christian
Treatment Approach
Types of Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
- Family / Marital
- Family Systems
- Gottman Method
Paul Gillane
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. Email or (949) 536-9140
Location
Primary Location
Paul Gillane LMFT
27285 Las Ramblas
Suite 232
Mission Viejo, CA 92691
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