Paul Courtland Soper
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST (he, him)
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Let's Connect (720) 740-8587
Are you ready for change but need a guide? You may feel disconnected from your partner(s) or yourself, struggling to heal from past trauma. Perhaps you're navigating challenges with sexual function or desire and want to find confidence and pleasure again. You might be exploring your identity—sexual or gender—or considering consensual or ethical non-monogamy. Ultimately, you want to improve intimacy and communication, feel empowered, and build an authentic life you love.
As an AASECT-Certified Sex Therapist, I offer an affirming space for your journey. I utilize EMDR to help you process and heal from trauma, and draw from attachment theory to untangle old relationship patterns. I specialize in serving the LGBTQ+ and CNM/ENM communities, providing expert, non-judgmental guidance and support.
A strong, trusting connection with your therapist is the foundation for healing. I prioritize showing up with authenticity, compassion, and a belief in sex-positive communication. Taking this first step is a courageous act of self-care. When you feel ready to begin your journey toward living your SoPerfect Life, I am here to support you.
Call or Email Paul Courtland Soper now for a free 15 minute consultation - (720) 740-8587
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Finances
Fees
- Individual Sessions $200
- Couple Sessions $225
- Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible
Payment Methods
ACH Bank transfer, American Express, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, VisaInsurance
- Out of Network
Paul Courtland Soper
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST
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Qualifications
- Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of Colorado / CSW.09926912 Paul Courtland Soper
- In Practice for 16 years
- Attended Northern Kentucky University, MSW, Graduated 2014
- Certificate from AASECT Certified Sex Therapist 2023
Education and Years In Practice
Additional Credentials
Paul Courtland Soper
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST
Feel free to ask about qualifications and training experience. Email or (720) 740-8587
Specialties and Expertise
Top Specialties
- Sex Therapy
- Trauma and PTSD
- Relationship Issues
Expertise
- Anxiety
- Bisexual
- Body Image
- Borderline Personality (BPD)
- Depression
- Dissociative Disorders (DID)
- Divorce
- Family Conflict
- Impulse Control Disorders
- Infidelity
- Lesbian
- LGBTQ+
- Life Coaching
- Marital and Premarital
- Men's Issues
- Personality Disorders
- Polyamory & ENM
- Racial Identity
- Self Esteem
- Sex-Positive & Kink Friendly
- Sexual Addiction
- Substance Use
- Transgender
- Veterans
Paul Courtland Soper
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST
Do these issues align with your needs? Email or (720) 740-8587
Client Focus
Age
Teen ,
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples ,
Group
Communities
Bisexual Allied ,
Gay Allied ,
HIV / AIDS Allied ,
Intersex Allied ,
Lesbian Allied ,
Non-Binary Allied ,
Queer Allied ,
Racial Justice Allied ,
Sex Worker Allied ,
Transgender Allied
Ethnicity
Black and African American ,
Hispanic and Latino
Age
Teen ,
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples ,
Group
Communities
Bisexual Allied ,
Gay Allied ,
HIV / AIDS Allied ,
Intersex Allied ,
Lesbian Allied ,
Non-Binary Allied ,
Queer Allied ,
Racial Justice Allied ,
Sex Worker Allied ,
Transgender Allied
Ethnicity
Black and African American ,
Hispanic and Latino
Treatment Approach
Types of Therapy
- Clinical Supervision and Licensed Supervisors
- Coaching
- Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
- Culturally Sensitive
- Dialectical Behavior (DBT)
- EMDR
- Family / Marital
- Family Systems
- Gottman Method
- Integrative
- Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
- Multicultural
- Relational
- Somatic
- Trauma Focused
Paul Courtland Soper
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST
Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. Email or (720) 740-8587
Location
Additional Location
SoPerfect Therapy
Colorado Springs, CO 80926
(720) 740-8587Nearby Areas
Neighborhoods
Paul Courtland Soper
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST
Call for a free consultation now - (720) 740-8587