Marriage Counseling Therapists in Pittsburgh, PA

Natasha Novikova
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified
Pittsburgh, PA 15237
Are you struggling with anxiety, depression or
marital
/family issues? I have a Masters in clinical social work from University of Pittsburgh and can guide you thru the rough transition to find more comfortable balance in your life. In my career I have worked in a variety of settings, such as crisis counseling, community mental health and adoption counseling. I have treated depression, anxiety, OCD, PTSD etc in a many populations including LGBT and people from multi-cultural backgrounds. At this time I have a new private practice and am ACCEPTING NEW CLIENTS. Call today to set up an appointment.
Are you struggling with anxiety, depression or
marital
/family issues? I have a Masters in clinical social work from University of Pittsburgh and can guide you thru the rough transition to find more comfortable balance in your life. In my career I have worked in a variety of settings, such as crisis counseling, community mental health and adoption counseling. I have treated depression, anxiety, OCD, PTSD etc in a many populations including LGBT and people from multi-cultural backgrounds. At this time I have a new private practice and am ACCEPTING NEW CLIENTS. Call today to set up an appointment.

Jennie Geisler
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified
1 Endorsed
Pittsburgh, PA 15219
Jennie's specialties include the following:Licensed
Marriage
and Family Therapist, Certified in EMDR, Certified Drug and Alcohol Counselor, Certified Rational Living Therapist.
Wondering where to turn? Need a listening ear that will validate your pain and support you as you move forward? As an experienced therapist, Jennie has worked with those struggling with anxiety, depression, addictions,
marriage
, relationships, job difficulties, loss, disabilities, ADHD, & those living with personality disorders, addictions or difficult children. She also works in trauma as a certified EMDR(Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing)therapist. It's an evidenced based therapy that allows the individual to let go of the anxiety/pain that stays in the body after a trauma. An option is providing spiritually based therapy.
Jennie's specialties include the following:Licensed
Marriage
and Family Therapist, Certified in EMDR, Certified Drug and Alcohol Counselor, Certified Rational Living Therapist.
Wondering where to turn? Need a listening ear that will validate your pain and support you as you move forward? As an experienced therapist, Jennie has worked with those struggling with anxiety, depression, addictions,
marriage
, relationships, job difficulties, loss, disabilities, ADHD, & those living with personality disorders, addictions or difficult children. She also works in trauma as a certified EMDR(Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing)therapist. It's an evidenced based therapy that allows the individual to let go of the anxiety/pain that stays in the body after a trauma. An option is providing spiritually based therapy.

Thomas Brady
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, NCC, CMHP, LPC
Verified
Pittsburgh, PA 15221
My specialization is in
marriage
and family therapy.
I fully believe that we must understand where we came from to better understand how we deal with situations today. Our past has made us who we are today, and we respond to our needs by what we have learned from our past. I've spent the last 24 years trying to better understand how to support people as they learn who they want to be and work towards their goals. I try to make a safe and comfortable setting where we can talk about what you want in life and how to achieve it. You will find me to be pretty laid back and easy to talk to.
My specialization is in
marriage
and family therapy.
I fully believe that we must understand where we came from to better understand how we deal with situations today. Our past has made us who we are today, and we respond to our needs by what we have learned from our past. I've spent the last 24 years trying to better understand how to support people as they learn who they want to be and work towards their goals. I try to make a safe and comfortable setting where we can talk about what you want in life and how to achieve it. You will find me to be pretty laid back and easy to talk to.

Amy Schafer
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified
3 Endorsed
Pittsburgh, PA 15236
I am happy to work with clients seeking help for
marriage
/relationship issues, parenting concerns, adjustment and transition difficulties, depression, anxiety and trauma.
I strongly believe that all people have the ability to live their best life when given the opportunity and the right tools for them. Each journey is just as unique as the individual who embarks on it. The work I do with clients is person centered, motivationally driven, and tailored to meet the needs of each person no matter where they are on their therapeutic journey. Whether this is your first time seeking therapy, or have decided to try again, I would be honored to meet you where you are and guide you toward reaching your personal goals.
I am happy to work with clients seeking help for
marriage
/relationship issues, parenting concerns, adjustment and transition difficulties, depression, anxiety and trauma.
I strongly believe that all people have the ability to live their best life when given the opportunity and the right tools for them. Each journey is just as unique as the individual who embarks on it. The work I do with clients is person centered, motivationally driven, and tailored to meet the needs of each person no matter where they are on their therapeutic journey. Whether this is your first time seeking therapy, or have decided to try again, I would be honored to meet you where you are and guide you toward reaching your personal goals.

Dr. Fawn T. Robinson
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, NCC, ACS, LPC
Verified
Pittsburgh, PA 15213 (Online Only)
Accepting New Clients up to December 8th - Providing individual, couples/
marriage
, career, and sports counseling for adults (18+) and offering mental wellness outreach in the African American community. Counseling empowers your soul, builds your esteem, and jumpstarts your spirit. Our clients are committed and motivated to make positive changes in their lives and see the future as the next step in living their best self. Our goal is to assist clients find the strength within themselves as we provide them with a safe and non-judgmental environment.
Accepting New Clients up to December 8th - Providing individual, couples/
marriage
, career, and sports counseling for adults (18+) and offering mental wellness outreach in the African American community. Counseling empowers your soul, builds your esteem, and jumpstarts your spirit. Our clients are committed and motivated to make positive changes in their lives and see the future as the next step in living their best self. Our goal is to assist clients find the strength within themselves as we provide them with a safe and non-judgmental environment.

Christian Counseling Associates of Western PA
Licensed Professional Counselor
Verified
Pittsburgh, PA 15239
Christian Counseling Associates (CCA) provides individual,
marriage
, and family counseling. We serve Christians who want their faith integrated into the counseling process and those holding any beliefs or attitudes toward spirituality. Our counselors will help you identify the core issues that have caused your emotional and personal problems, and immediately develop strategies to resolve these issues. CCA is able to provide a full range of clinical services. Please visit our website at www.ccawpa.com for a complete description of our faith based counseling services, locations, and counseling staff.
Christian Counseling Associates (CCA) provides individual,
marriage
, and family counseling. We serve Christians who want their faith integrated into the counseling process and those holding any beliefs or attitudes toward spirituality. Our counselors will help you identify the core issues that have caused your emotional and personal problems, and immediately develop strategies to resolve these issues. CCA is able to provide a full range of clinical services. Please visit our website at www.ccawpa.com for a complete description of our faith based counseling services, locations, and counseling staff.

Rev. Dr. Augustine Lansana
DMin, PhD, MA, Msc, LBSC
Verified
Pittsburgh, PA 15235
He supports those that are struggling with Depression,
Marital
issues, Family Conflict, Gender Identity and Grief and Loss.
Dr. Augustine Lansana, Ph.D., Is a licensed behavior specialist and a clinical psychologist focused on positive behavior support and cognitive therapy. He works with all ages from 6-65 ages based on their individualized situations. His passion is for adolescents and adults in mid and later adulthood who are in dire need of Psychological and psycho-social services. He is available to bring healing in to your life. He understands your situation and he wants to make a difference in your life. "The future starts today". You can decide today, he will assist you to become self-actualized, improve your self-esteem and dignity.
He supports those that are struggling with Depression,
Marital
issues, Family Conflict, Gender Identity and Grief and Loss.
Dr. Augustine Lansana, Ph.D., Is a licensed behavior specialist and a clinical psychologist focused on positive behavior support and cognitive therapy. He works with all ages from 6-65 ages based on their individualized situations. His passion is for adolescents and adults in mid and later adulthood who are in dire need of Psychological and psycho-social services. He is available to bring healing in to your life. He understands your situation and he wants to make a difference in your life. "The future starts today". You can decide today, he will assist you to become self-actualized, improve your self-esteem and dignity.

Cristina Panaccione and Associates, LLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, NCC
Verified
Pittsburgh, PA 15205
Our specialties include Hoarding Support and Treatment, Caregiver Support, Life Coaching, Stress Management, Managing Chronic Pain/Health Concerns, Addiction/Recovery, Family Issues, Children & Teens, Women's Issues,
Marital
& Premarital Counseling, Depression, Anxiety, Mood Disorders, Grief/Loss, Trauma, and General Health and Wellness.
Our practice is a small, down to earth setting. We strive to make our clients feel at home and connected with supportive, caring staff. We come from many walks of life and a wide range of experience. We will tailor our treatment methods to best suit your needs so that you can get out of our office and back into the life you were meant to lead! Our office is open 7 days a week with morning, afternoon and evening hours to best suit your needs.
Our specialties include Hoarding Support and Treatment, Caregiver Support, Life Coaching, Stress Management, Managing Chronic Pain/Health Concerns, Addiction/Recovery, Family Issues, Children & Teens, Women's Issues,
Marital
& Premarital Counseling, Depression, Anxiety, Mood Disorders, Grief/Loss, Trauma, and General Health and Wellness.
Our practice is a small, down to earth setting. We strive to make our clients feel at home and connected with supportive, caring staff. We come from many walks of life and a wide range of experience. We will tailor our treatment methods to best suit your needs so that you can get out of our office and back into the life you were meant to lead! Our office is open 7 days a week with morning, afternoon and evening hours to best suit your needs.

Bethany Smith
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified
2 Endorsed
Pittsburgh, PA 15206 (Online Only)
I am a Gestalt Certified Therapist and a member of the American Association for
Marriage
and Family Therapy.
Relationships can be as challenging as they are rewarding. Professional support in working through those challenges can help you build more satisfying personal and professional relationships. I focus on assisting you with increasing your self awareness, emotional regulation and your ability to communicate effectively with others. I believe that a nonjudgemental, caring environment facilitates personal growth. My goal is to engage in a collaborative process that feels safe, enables healing and empowers you to reach your goals.
I am a Gestalt Certified Therapist and a member of the American Association for
Marriage
and Family Therapy.
Relationships can be as challenging as they are rewarding. Professional support in working through those challenges can help you build more satisfying personal and professional relationships. I focus on assisting you with increasing your self awareness, emotional regulation and your ability to communicate effectively with others. I believe that a nonjudgemental, caring environment facilitates personal growth. My goal is to engage in a collaborative process that feels safe, enables healing and empowers you to reach your goals.

Julie Marie Provident-Schindhelm
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified
Pittsburgh, PA 15234
Are you struggling with a family issue? Do you need help making a decision about your relationship? Are you having difficulty supporting your child through their own issues? I have strong background in
marriage
and family therapy as well as a background in Trauma Informed Care. I'll work with you to help you manage changes that may be taking place in your life. I can help you gain more clarity about your personal situation and work on stress reduction while we problem solve.
Are you struggling with a family issue? Do you need help making a decision about your relationship? Are you having difficulty supporting your child through their own issues? I have strong background in
marriage
and family therapy as well as a background in Trauma Informed Care. I'll work with you to help you manage changes that may be taking place in your life. I can help you gain more clarity about your personal situation and work on stress reduction while we problem solve.

Christian Counseling Associates of Western PA
Counselor
Verified
Pittsburgh, PA 15236
Christian Counseling Associates (CCA) provides individual,
marriage
, and family counseling. We serve Christians who want their faith integrated into the counseling process and those holding any beliefs or attitudes toward spirituality. Our counselors will help you identify the core issues that have caused your emotional and personal problems, and immediately develop strategies to resolve these issues. CCA is able to provide a full range of clinical services. Please visit our website at www.ccawpa.com for a complete description of our faith based counseling services, locations, and counseling staff.
Christian Counseling Associates (CCA) provides individual,
marriage
, and family counseling. We serve Christians who want their faith integrated into the counseling process and those holding any beliefs or attitudes toward spirituality. Our counselors will help you identify the core issues that have caused your emotional and personal problems, and immediately develop strategies to resolve these issues. CCA is able to provide a full range of clinical services. Please visit our website at www.ccawpa.com for a complete description of our faith based counseling services, locations, and counseling staff.
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Margaret Ann Deverin
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, LLC
Verified
1 Endorsed
Pittsburgh, PA 15241 (Online Only)
I have experience treating trauma, grief and loss, chronic illness or pain, relationship and/or
marital
conflict, depression and anxiety.
Witnessing positive change in my clients has provided not only professional joy, but unflagging belief in the benefit of psychotherapy as a catalyst for personal growth. Investment in self can bring great personal and professional rewards. I am ready to work with clients who are seeking to identify key areas, issues or goals in their lives that will support recovery, relief and new insights into life's many confounding challenges. Optimizing my clients' potential is my primary focus.
I have experience treating trauma, grief and loss, chronic illness or pain, relationship and/or
marital
conflict, depression and anxiety.
Witnessing positive change in my clients has provided not only professional joy, but unflagging belief in the benefit of psychotherapy as a catalyst for personal growth. Investment in self can bring great personal and professional rewards. I am ready to work with clients who are seeking to identify key areas, issues or goals in their lives that will support recovery, relief and new insights into life's many confounding challenges. Optimizing my clients' potential is my primary focus.

Christopher P Smith
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, ACSW
Verified
Pittsburgh, PA 15217
I have extensive experience and work effectively with difficult to manage children and adolescents (12-18), young adult interpersonal relationship and development issues,
marital
issues, depression, and substance misuse, abuse and addiction and recovery.
Each of us each and every day is confronted with significant life difficulties. We can become overwhelmed and unable to cope with what appears to be insurmountable problems. My approach to counseling and consultation is that of a life coach assisting and supporting each person in learning new ways to deal with life difficulties and reach ones full potential. Most of us can benefit from a coach from time to time to help us deal with issues such as: relationships, parenting, adolescent struggles, substance misuse, abuse or addiction, anxiety and depression. Tomorrow can be different than today!
I have extensive experience and work effectively with difficult to manage children and adolescents (12-18), young adult interpersonal relationship and development issues,
marital
issues, depression, and substance misuse, abuse and addiction and recovery.
Each of us each and every day is confronted with significant life difficulties. We can become overwhelmed and unable to cope with what appears to be insurmountable problems. My approach to counseling and consultation is that of a life coach assisting and supporting each person in learning new ways to deal with life difficulties and reach ones full potential. Most of us can benefit from a coach from time to time to help us deal with issues such as: relationships, parenting, adolescent struggles, substance misuse, abuse or addiction, anxiety and depression. Tomorrow can be different than today!

Holly Zill
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified
Pittsburgh, PA 15222
Holly Zill is Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) who works with her clients by meeting them at their pace and need level to achieve their personal goals, decrease negative symptoms, improve interpersonal relationships, and increase quality of life. Holly has 7 years of experience in the mental health field. Holly completed her Master of Arts (MA) in Couples,
Marriage
and Family Therapy at Kutztown University.
Holly Zill is Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) who works with her clients by meeting them at their pace and need level to achieve their personal goals, decrease negative symptoms, improve interpersonal relationships, and increase quality of life. Holly has 7 years of experience in the mental health field. Holly completed her Master of Arts (MA) in Couples,
Marriage
and Family Therapy at Kutztown University.

Neena Nellori
Psychologist, PhD
Verified
Pittsburgh, PA 15233
I provide a supportive and confidential environment to deal with issues ranging from depression and mood instabilities to self-esteem and
marital
problems.
Welcome to my practice! My approach is to get to the heart of your situation and engage you in developing insight into your choices and patterns. I work collaboratively with you to examine your life choices, problem management and support you through the process of implementing effective change in your life I am an active-directive psychologist who not only listens to you but also provides valuable information on strategies on what is working for you and what isn't.
I also help you get unstuck by focussing on a solution and action oriented model of change.
I provide a supportive and confidential environment to deal with issues ranging from depression and mood instabilities to self-esteem and
marital
problems.
Welcome to my practice! My approach is to get to the heart of your situation and engage you in developing insight into your choices and patterns. I work collaboratively with you to examine your life choices, problem management and support you through the process of implementing effective change in your life I am an active-directive psychologist who not only listens to you but also provides valuable information on strategies on what is working for you and what isn't.
I also help you get unstuck by focussing on a solution and action oriented model of change.

Spiegel Freedman Psychological Associates
Psychologist
Verified
1 Endorsed
Pittsburgh, PA 15237
In our collective expertise and collaborative efforts, we provide psychological care for those who are struggling with: Depression, Anxiety, OCD, ADHD, PTSD,
Marital
Issues, Family Conflict, Sleep Disturbance, Grief and Loss, Abuse Issues, Chronic Illness, Dementia, Gender Identity Issues, Women's Issues, Men's Issues.
The clinicians of Spiegel Freedman Psychological Associates provide outpatient psychotherapeutic care to the people of the greater Pittsburgh area. We are committed to excellence and strive to provide our community with the highest quality of psychological services. We combine professional expertise with personal compassion in our therapeutic care. Our diverse staff and associates offer psychological evaluation and care for children, adolescents, adults, elders, couples and families.
In our collective expertise and collaborative efforts, we provide psychological care for those who are struggling with: Depression, Anxiety, OCD, ADHD, PTSD,
Marital
Issues, Family Conflict, Sleep Disturbance, Grief and Loss, Abuse Issues, Chronic Illness, Dementia, Gender Identity Issues, Women's Issues, Men's Issues.
The clinicians of Spiegel Freedman Psychological Associates provide outpatient psychotherapeutic care to the people of the greater Pittsburgh area. We are committed to excellence and strive to provide our community with the highest quality of psychological services. We combine professional expertise with personal compassion in our therapeutic care. Our diverse staff and associates offer psychological evaluation and care for children, adolescents, adults, elders, couples and families.

Angelyn Waldor
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA
Verified
1 Endorsed
Pittsburgh, PA 15238 (Online Only)
I have experience working with individuals with ADHD, depression, anxiety, grief and loss, trauma (even sexual), low self-esteem, attachment issues, peer and family related issues,
marital
distress, PTSD, among many other various issues.
Therapy is a key component to success as an individual. Many people do not realize the lifelong benefits that one receives from successfully identifying an issue or concern and being open minded enough to explore and grow from your own limitations. Whether it be your mind, emotions, past traumas, or current life situations- they all have a monumental impact in our daily lives. The purpose of therapy is to explore those concerns, and use them to add value to your life and find a way to heal and move forward in a positive manner.
I have experience working with individuals with ADHD, depression, anxiety, grief and loss, trauma (even sexual), low self-esteem, attachment issues, peer and family related issues,
marital
distress, PTSD, among many other various issues.
Therapy is a key component to success as an individual. Many people do not realize the lifelong benefits that one receives from successfully identifying an issue or concern and being open minded enough to explore and grow from your own limitations. Whether it be your mind, emotions, past traumas, or current life situations- they all have a monumental impact in our daily lives. The purpose of therapy is to explore those concerns, and use them to add value to your life and find a way to heal and move forward in a positive manner.

Robert M Schwartz
Psychologist, PhD
Verified
2 Endorsed
Pittsburgh, PA 15213 (Online Only)
Are anxious or depressed feelings interfering with work and relationships? Are
marital
or sexual problems getting you down? If you are ready to transform your life, I can help. For 40+ years, I've successfully used cognitive-dynamic therapy to guide people to practical strategies for solving problems and to explore their deeper conflicts. Life is a dramatic journey and often a caring guide along the way is needed to find your optimal zone. I specialize in anxiety and mood disorders, as well as sexual dysfunctions and sex addictions. I've recently written a book on a spiritual approach to weight loss.
Are anxious or depressed feelings interfering with work and relationships? Are
marital
or sexual problems getting you down? If you are ready to transform your life, I can help. For 40+ years, I've successfully used cognitive-dynamic therapy to guide people to practical strategies for solving problems and to explore their deeper conflicts. Life is a dramatic journey and often a caring guide along the way is needed to find your optimal zone. I specialize in anxiety and mood disorders, as well as sexual dysfunctions and sex addictions. I've recently written a book on a spiritual approach to weight loss.

The Counseling and Wellness Center of Pittsburgh
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, NBCC
Verified
Pittsburgh, PA 15233
Our Counselors in Pittsburgh, Wexford, Monroeville, Greensburg, South Hills and Online specialize in providing compassionate counseling solutions for you, your
marriage
, and family. Anxiety, anger, depression, intimacy concerns, trauma, relationship conflict, conflict communication, substance abuse, each are confusing troubles which easily prevent us from enjoying the life which we had always envisioned for ourselves'. Our counseling team is here to offer you evidence-based therapy solutions. With comprehensive long and short term treatment plans tailored to your specific needs, we are here to accelerate your journey to wellness.
Our Counselors in Pittsburgh, Wexford, Monroeville, Greensburg, South Hills and Online specialize in providing compassionate counseling solutions for you, your
marriage
, and family. Anxiety, anger, depression, intimacy concerns, trauma, relationship conflict, conflict communication, substance abuse, each are confusing troubles which easily prevent us from enjoying the life which we had always envisioned for ourselves'. Our counseling team is here to offer you evidence-based therapy solutions. With comprehensive long and short term treatment plans tailored to your specific needs, we are here to accelerate your journey to wellness.

Anchorpoint Counseling Ministry
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LSW
Verified
Pittsburgh, PA 15237
We are a local nonprofit organization that supports children, teens, adults, parents, couples, and families on their journeys toward hope, healing, and learning. We are a reliable place to turn in your community for professional support addressing various issues like anxiety, depression, grief, low self-esteem, abuse, anger, peer pressure,
marriage
/family problems, parenting difficulties, and academic struggles.
We are a local nonprofit organization that supports children, teens, adults, parents, couples, and families on their journeys toward hope, healing, and learning. We are a reliable place to turn in your community for professional support addressing various issues like anxiety, depression, grief, low self-esteem, abuse, anger, peer pressure,
marriage
/family problems, parenting difficulties, and academic struggles.
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Marriage Counseling Therapists
How does marriage counseling work?
Marriage counseling works by teaching couples concrete skills to communicate with one another and solve disagreements in healthy ways. A trained mental health professional works with both members of a couple to explore difficulties the couple may be having and helps them develop skills to address these matters. Couples who don’t have any difficulties but want to prepare for marriage may develop skills for the future.
How long does marriage counseling typically last?
Marriage counseling is a short-term form of therapy; the process may last between four and eight sessions. Other forms of relationship guidance from mental health professionals, such as couples therapy, are longer lasting, may focus on the past rather than just the present, and are tailored to the individual couple and their emotions, history, and patterns in the relationship. Couples therapy often lasts for 12 weeks or longer.
Is marriage counseling effective?
Marriage counseling helps many couples develop relationship skills that may not have been acquired or tested in a relationship; partners may be better able to communicate and address conflict following counseling. However, there are many different forms of marriage counseling, and this form of counseling does not have as strong an evidence base as other modalities such as couples therapy.
Is marriage counseling effective if only one partner wants to go?
Yes, marriage counseling can still be effective if one partner convinces the other to engage in the process. Of course, whether counseling is effective depends on the couple’s commitment to work on their relationship; however, the short-term, skills-based nature of marriage counseling makes it a relatively easy “ask” of a partner, and the hesitant individual may see its value once counseling begins.