Sex Therapists in Philadelphia, PA

Dr. Jacob Glickman
Psychologist, PsyD, MA, LPC
Verified
1 Endorsed
Philadelphia, PA 19104 (Online Only)
Jacob specializes in providing mental healthcare for people who identify as transgender/non-binary/gender expansive, as well as the larger LGBTQIA+ communities and their families; additionally, he maintains an anti-racist,
sex
positive, kink positive, and poly-aware practice. In collaboration with individuals, families, and people in relationships, Jacob's identities inform his past decade of work as a feminist therapist with a focus in Acceptance and Commitment Therapy.
Jacob specializes in providing mental healthcare for people who identify as transgender/non-binary/gender expansive, as well as the larger LGBTQIA+ communities and their families; additionally, he maintains an anti-racist,
sex
positive, kink positive, and poly-aware practice. In collaboration with individuals, families, and people in relationships, Jacob's identities inform his past decade of work as a feminist therapist with a focus in Acceptance and Commitment Therapy.

Kimberly L. Jackson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST
Verified
4 Endorsed
Philadelphia, PA 19102
Are you struggling with
sex
? Do you feel disconnected in your relationship, or from your own
sexuality
? Maybe you're fed up with a lack of intimacy, tense conversations with your partner, or chronic self-doubt and worry. You might not even remember a time when you didn't feel this way. But one thing is for sure: you’re ready for some relief. You’re ready to feel more connected. You’re ready to feel more confident. Most of all, you’re ready to understand yourself better and to learn new ways of relating.
Are you struggling with
sex
? Do you feel disconnected in your relationship, or from your own
sexuality
? Maybe you're fed up with a lack of intimacy, tense conversations with your partner, or chronic self-doubt and worry. You might not even remember a time when you didn't feel this way. But one thing is for sure: you’re ready for some relief. You’re ready to feel more connected. You’re ready to feel more confident. Most of all, you’re ready to understand yourself better and to learn new ways of relating.

Caitlin Cantor
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, CST, CGT
Verified
Philadelphia, PA 19103
I'm an AASECT Certified
Sex
Therapist and a Certified Gestalt Therapist.
I believe that everyone is capable of healing and creating a life they love. I provide a safe space for people to talk about difficult experiences without fear of judgment. I specialize in relationships. I help couples heal. I teach them how to communicate in a healthy, effective way. They learn how to have hard conversations that end in deeper connection instead of deeper wounds. I also help single people navigate the dating world successfully & create healthy, loving partnerships. I teach people the relational skills they've always needed but were never taught so that they can move past issues that are keeping them from thriving.
I'm an AASECT Certified
Sex
Therapist and a Certified Gestalt Therapist.
I believe that everyone is capable of healing and creating a life they love. I provide a safe space for people to talk about difficult experiences without fear of judgment. I specialize in relationships. I help couples heal. I teach them how to communicate in a healthy, effective way. They learn how to have hard conversations that end in deeper connection instead of deeper wounds. I also help single people navigate the dating world successfully & create healthy, loving partnerships. I teach people the relational skills they've always needed but were never taught so that they can move past issues that are keeping them from thriving.

The Ctr for Growth/ Sex Therapy in Philadelphia
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, CAS, MSW, ACSW, LCSW
Verified
Philadelphia, PA 19106
Robboy earned her Master's degree in Social Work,,a Certificate in Home and School Social Work, a Certificate of Advanced Studies in Human
Sexuality
Education and a Post-Masters Certificate in Marriage Counseling &
Sex Therapy
.
Alex Caroline Robboy, CAS, MSW, ACSW, LCSW is the founder of the Center for Growth Inc, a 30 + therapist group practice in 4 states. She has 20+ years of experience working with children and adults who are struggling to overcome sexual disorders, postpartum depression, grief, panic, chronic pain, depression, anger, anxiety, shame. trauma, tourettes and addiction. She focuses on individuals, couples and family therapy. Therapists at Alex's practice are able to see clients for as low as 50$. You cam self schedule online at her website.
Robboy earned her Master's degree in Social Work,,a Certificate in Home and School Social Work, a Certificate of Advanced Studies in Human
Sexuality
Education and a Post-Masters Certificate in Marriage Counseling &
Sex Therapy
.
Alex Caroline Robboy, CAS, MSW, ACSW, LCSW is the founder of the Center for Growth Inc, a 30 + therapist group practice in 4 states. She has 20+ years of experience working with children and adults who are struggling to overcome sexual disorders, postpartum depression, grief, panic, chronic pain, depression, anger, anxiety, shame. trauma, tourettes and addiction. She focuses on individuals, couples and family therapy. Therapists at Alex's practice are able to see clients for as low as 50$. You cam self schedule online at her website.

Kaitlin DiGiacinto
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CST
Verified
2 Endorsed
Philadelphia, PA 19103 (Online Only)
I am an Individual, Relational, and
Sex
Therapist.
Welcome! Congratulations on taking the first step on this adventure. I know finding the right therapist can be hard and a grueling process. For many clients this is the first time they have asked for help. I am passionate about creating a space for clients that is safe, freeing & nonjudgmental. I hope to do this through my multicultural background, interest in the client's perspective and the therapeutic relationship built. I operate from a systems & contextual framework where I believe clients are stuck, not sick. I work with clients to create goals and plans that are collaborative and empowering.
I am an Individual, Relational, and
Sex
Therapist.
Welcome! Congratulations on taking the first step on this adventure. I know finding the right therapist can be hard and a grueling process. For many clients this is the first time they have asked for help. I am passionate about creating a space for clients that is safe, freeing & nonjudgmental. I hope to do this through my multicultural background, interest in the client's perspective and the therapeutic relationship built. I operate from a systems & contextual framework where I believe clients are stuck, not sick. I work with clients to create goals and plans that are collaborative and empowering.

Dr. Alishia Kalos
Psychologist, PsyD, CST
Verified
3 Endorsed
Philadelphia, PA 19109 (Online Only)
I am a doctoral licensed psychologist and certified
sex
therapist with specialized experience in addressing sexual and relational concerns such as intimacy, communication, desire, arousal, pain, kink, atypical sexual interests, and sexual behavior challenges as well as postpartum stress, cancer, major health-related changes, or chronic illness.
Therapy is an invaluable opportunity for individuals and couples to learn about themselves and the relationships that they want to cultivate. Whether you are thinking about working through a particular issue, hoping to gain clarity and focus in future decisions, or considering a short-term "check-up", I will work with you in a safe, non-judgmental space that cultivates compassion, healing, and growth. I believe in the power of building on each person/couple's strengths and discovering, through a collaborative approach, new ways to adapt and grow.
I am a doctoral licensed psychologist and certified
sex
therapist with specialized experience in addressing sexual and relational concerns such as intimacy, communication, desire, arousal, pain, kink, atypical sexual interests, and sexual behavior challenges as well as postpartum stress, cancer, major health-related changes, or chronic illness.
Therapy is an invaluable opportunity for individuals and couples to learn about themselves and the relationships that they want to cultivate. Whether you are thinking about working through a particular issue, hoping to gain clarity and focus in future decisions, or considering a short-term "check-up", I will work with you in a safe, non-judgmental space that cultivates compassion, healing, and growth. I believe in the power of building on each person/couple's strengths and discovering, through a collaborative approach, new ways to adapt and grow.

Alex Kapnek
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, EMDR, NCC
Verified
2 Endorsed
Philadelphia, PA 19103 (Online Only)
I have specialized training in EMDR,
sex
and love addiction, and cognitive behavior therapy.
I have a passion for working with those exploring gender and sexual identity, trauma, substance use, recovery, and those in the LGBTQ+ community. The therapy I provide is tailored to your individual needs and can help you facilitate personal growth and development. Therapy is most effective when you feel safe and respected. I would be honored to provide that space for you. I view my work with you as a collaborative process. I want to learn more about you and understand the problems you are facing from your perspective. I can provide letters for gender confirmation surgery.
I have specialized training in EMDR,
sex
and love addiction, and cognitive behavior therapy.
I have a passion for working with those exploring gender and sexual identity, trauma, substance use, recovery, and those in the LGBTQ+ community. The therapy I provide is tailored to your individual needs and can help you facilitate personal growth and development. Therapy is most effective when you feel safe and respected. I would be honored to provide that space for you. I view my work with you as a collaborative process. I want to learn more about you and understand the problems you are facing from your perspective. I can provide letters for gender confirmation surgery.

Chris Fariello
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, MA, LMFT, CST, CSTS
Verified
11 Endorsed
Philadelphia, PA 19103
I am the Founder and Director of the Philadelphia Institute for Individual, Relational &
Sex Therapy
(PhIIRST).
I am an active therapist. I design treatment plans and utilize strategies that are appropriate for both the issues and the personalities of my clients. I work with individuals in the context of their life and couples seeking to repair, improve or strengthen their relationship. My areas of specialty include intimacy, conflict, anger issues and the breadth of
sexuality
concerns.
I am the Founder and Director of the Philadelphia Institute for Individual, Relational &
Sex Therapy
(PhIIRST).
I am an active therapist. I design treatment plans and utilize strategies that are appropriate for both the issues and the personalities of my clients. I work with individuals in the context of their life and couples seeking to repair, improve or strengthen their relationship. My areas of specialty include intimacy, conflict, anger issues and the breadth of
sexuality
concerns.

PHL Therapy Collective
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified
3 Endorsed
Philadelphia, PA 19102
Rather than thinking about changing who you are, we view therapy as a place to discover what is possible and provide the structure and outside perspective to bring this into your everyday. This can range from mood disorders and self image issues to
sexuality
and relationship challenges. It means helping our clients see where they have responsibility and an ability to make changes in their life and directing effort toward that. PHL Therapy Collective includes Brian Swope, LMFT, 3 graduate school interns, and 2 pre-licensure interns.
Rather than thinking about changing who you are, we view therapy as a place to discover what is possible and provide the structure and outside perspective to bring this into your everyday. This can range from mood disorders and self image issues to
sexuality
and relationship challenges. It means helping our clients see where they have responsibility and an ability to make changes in their life and directing effort toward that. PHL Therapy Collective includes Brian Swope, LMFT, 3 graduate school interns, and 2 pre-licensure interns.

Meredith Hritz
Pre-Licensed Professional, MFT
Verified
Philadelphia, PA 19103
I see individuals, couples, and families, and I specialize in
sex therapy
.
I started my own therapeutic journey when I realized the way I had always done things was not working for me anymore, and I needed some assistance in finding a different path. So often the coping mechanisms that kept us safe in our childhoods keep us from experiencing self-acceptance and the deep and meaningful connections we long to have as adults. Whether you are exhausted by your own people pleasing, mired in self-criticism, or struggling in your relationships, you deserve a place to gain insight into how your patterns have formed and what changes can be made to live a more fulfilling life.
I see individuals, couples, and families, and I specialize in
sex therapy
.
I started my own therapeutic journey when I realized the way I had always done things was not working for me anymore, and I needed some assistance in finding a different path. So often the coping mechanisms that kept us safe in our childhoods keep us from experiencing self-acceptance and the deep and meaningful connections we long to have as adults. Whether you are exhausted by your own people pleasing, mired in self-criticism, or struggling in your relationships, you deserve a place to gain insight into how your patterns have formed and what changes can be made to live a more fulfilling life.

Katherine Wendler
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MEd
Verified
8 Endorsed
Philadelphia, PA 19125 (Online Only)
I welcome anyone who is seeking therapy, and I have experience working with substance use, disordered eating, body image, depression, anxiety, and
sexuality
, including gender identity, sexual orientation, trauma, and pain with sexual activities.
As a clinician, my hopes are to create a safe, honest, collaborative space for folks to feel empowered to face the complex obstacles that may have them feeling stuck or overwhelmed. I regularly encourage activities outside of session as means to continue growth, practice learned knowledge, and to further establish empowerment within oneself and the systems you live in. I welcome anyone who is seeking therapy.
I welcome anyone who is seeking therapy, and I have experience working with substance use, disordered eating, body image, depression, anxiety, and
sexuality
, including gender identity, sexual orientation, trauma, and pain with sexual activities.
As a clinician, my hopes are to create a safe, honest, collaborative space for folks to feel empowered to face the complex obstacles that may have them feeling stuck or overwhelmed. I regularly encourage activities outside of session as means to continue growth, practice learned knowledge, and to further establish empowerment within oneself and the systems you live in. I welcome anyone who is seeking therapy.
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Alex Hyde
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, MEd, LSW
Verified
1 Endorsed
Philadelphia, PA 19103
As a fat, white, non-binary, queer person, I specialize in working with other queer folks, with couples, and in
sex therapy
.
If you struggle with communication or shame, if you’d like to be more in touch with your inner voice or build better relationships, I encourage you to get in touch. As a therapist, especially as a couples and
sex
therapist, I believe that everyone can benefit from having a space to be honest and to feel safe in expressing their truth. As a warm and attentive listener, I am adept at crafting a calming and nonjudgmental space for us to engage in a collaborative process of recognizing and understanding life events as well as unhelpful patterns and beliefs.
As a fat, white, non-binary, queer person, I specialize in working with other queer folks, with couples, and in
sex therapy
.
If you struggle with communication or shame, if you’d like to be more in touch with your inner voice or build better relationships, I encourage you to get in touch. As a therapist, especially as a couples and
sex
therapist, I believe that everyone can benefit from having a space to be honest and to feel safe in expressing their truth. As a warm and attentive listener, I am adept at crafting a calming and nonjudgmental space for us to engage in a collaborative process of recognizing and understanding life events as well as unhelpful patterns and beliefs.

Addie Mooney
Pre-Licensed Professional, MEd, APC
Verified
5 Endorsed
Philadelphia, PA 19147 (Online Only)
I also provide trauma-informed
sex therapy
that can assist with a variety of issues including vaginismus, pain during
sex
, and general anxiety or discomfort around
sex
and one’s sexual and gender identities.
Welcome! As a therapist my goal is to create a non-judgmental and supportive space where it feels safe to explore and grow. I have extensive experience supporting survivors of sexual assault and relational trauma (domestic violence, childhood abuse) as well as a strong understanding of narcissistic abuse and codependency. I also work with individuals that may be experiencing anxiety, depression, and OCD as well as life stress from difficult loss or transitions. My therapeutic approach integrates a psychodynamic and interpersonal framework along with some elements of Trauma Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CF-CBT).
I also provide trauma-informed
sex therapy
that can assist with a variety of issues including vaginismus, pain during
sex
, and general anxiety or discomfort around
sex
and one’s sexual and gender identities.
Welcome! As a therapist my goal is to create a non-judgmental and supportive space where it feels safe to explore and grow. I have extensive experience supporting survivors of sexual assault and relational trauma (domestic violence, childhood abuse) as well as a strong understanding of narcissistic abuse and codependency. I also work with individuals that may be experiencing anxiety, depression, and OCD as well as life stress from difficult loss or transitions. My therapeutic approach integrates a psychodynamic and interpersonal framework along with some elements of Trauma Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CF-CBT).

Evan Kardon
Pre-Licensed Professional, MFT
Verified
4 Endorsed
Philadelphia, PA 19103
Whatever brings you to therapy at this time, I look forward to helping you find empowerment and healing in your relationship with yourself, others, and your
sexuality
.
Hi, I'm Evan! I am a compassionate, non-judgmental, and affirming therapist who strives to create a safe space to explore your relationships; both with others and with yourself. I will help you find balance in times of transition or stress, with a collaborative and person-centered approach. In sessions, we will investigate some of the root causes of the patterns in your life and strive for self-discovery and self-growth. I will help you to identify and ultimately challenge negative self-talk that has likely impacted your view of self and led to negative coping behaviors.
Whatever brings you to therapy at this time, I look forward to helping you find empowerment and healing in your relationship with yourself, others, and your
sexuality
.
Hi, I'm Evan! I am a compassionate, non-judgmental, and affirming therapist who strives to create a safe space to explore your relationships; both with others and with yourself. I will help you find balance in times of transition or stress, with a collaborative and person-centered approach. In sessions, we will investigate some of the root causes of the patterns in your life and strive for self-discovery and self-growth. I will help you to identify and ultimately challenge negative self-talk that has likely impacted your view of self and led to negative coping behaviors.

Jenn DiBartolomeo
Psychologist, PsyD, MEd
Verified
Philadelphia, PA 19102 (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
As a trauma-informed and radically affirming therapist, I aim to help clients with challenges such as depression, anxiety, trauma, substance use, self-image, relationships, eating disorders, and more. The majority of my clinical experience has been in working with LGBTQ+ clients as well as individuals with substance use challenges. I work from a
sex
positive, culturally-sensitive, and polyamory-aware lens and welcome discussion of these topics in therapy. Furthermore, as a therapist with foundations in Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, I incorporate mindfulness in therapy to help clients live a more psychologically flexible life.
As a trauma-informed and radically affirming therapist, I aim to help clients with challenges such as depression, anxiety, trauma, substance use, self-image, relationships, eating disorders, and more. The majority of my clinical experience has been in working with LGBTQ+ clients as well as individuals with substance use challenges. I work from a
sex
positive, culturally-sensitive, and polyamory-aware lens and welcome discussion of these topics in therapy. Furthermore, as a therapist with foundations in Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, I incorporate mindfulness in therapy to help clients live a more psychologically flexible life.

Akilah J. Pierre
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MEd
Verified
3 Endorsed
Philadelphia, PA 19102 (Online Only)
My experience as a systemically trained marriage and family therapist with a concentration in
sex therapy
enhances my work with couples who are ready to regain their intimacy.
You love your partner dearly, but your relationship is not how you want it to be. You smile and suppress your feelings, or you're constantly vocalizing your dissatisfaction, but it doesn't change the current state of your relationship. You know deep down this is not sustainable for you. The lack of intimacy in your relationship stresses you out. You're constantly thinking of ways to improve your relationship, but your efforts seem to go unnoticed. You worry your partner's lack of effort and appreciation will confirm the fear you've been avoiding, "I don't feel seen by my partner, and I'm scared they don't care about me."
My experience as a systemically trained marriage and family therapist with a concentration in
sex therapy
enhances my work with couples who are ready to regain their intimacy.
You love your partner dearly, but your relationship is not how you want it to be. You smile and suppress your feelings, or you're constantly vocalizing your dissatisfaction, but it doesn't change the current state of your relationship. You know deep down this is not sustainable for you. The lack of intimacy in your relationship stresses you out. You're constantly thinking of ways to improve your relationship, but your efforts seem to go unnoticed. You worry your partner's lack of effort and appreciation will confirm the fear you've been avoiding, "I don't feel seen by my partner, and I'm scared they don't care about me."

Lenore M. Jefford
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, CST
Verified
Philadelphia, PA 19119
I address all mental health issues, life stress, relationship concerns,
sexuality
issues, and I specialize in serving the LGBTQIA community.
I believe entering therapy is a brave step. I tailor my counseling style to fit the needs of my clients. I am client focused and use an integrative process of cognitive behavioral, supportive, mindfulness, and holistic techniques to help you address your concerns. Together we will find new solutions to the issues that trouble you. I look forward to you joining my practice.
I address all mental health issues, life stress, relationship concerns,
sexuality
issues, and I specialize in serving the LGBTQIA community.
I believe entering therapy is a brave step. I tailor my counseling style to fit the needs of my clients. I am client focused and use an integrative process of cognitive behavioral, supportive, mindfulness, and holistic techniques to help you address your concerns. Together we will find new solutions to the issues that trouble you. I look forward to you joining my practice.

Ashley King
Licensed Professional Counselor, MSEd, EdM, LPC
Verified
3 Endorsed
Philadelphia, PA 19107
Areas of interest & specialty include: Generalized anxiety & depression, spiritual & existential concerns, somatic & body-centered work, women’s issues, couples, creatives, helping professionals, HSPs, life transitions, grief & loss, relationships &
sexuality
, LGBTQ+ issues.
Three beliefs I hold that influence how I practice are 1) human beings are not problems to be solved 2) therapy is ultimately about relationship 3) the process itself is the solution. We humans are infinitely complex; we're full of opposition and paradox. Our culture pushes quick fixes and immediate answers, but lasting change rarely comes about when we work in this way. I'm interested in helping you come into fuller, richer, more conscious relationship with all of your moving and sometimes disparate parts. Together we will work from the inside out through a deep, relational process.
Areas of interest & specialty include: Generalized anxiety & depression, spiritual & existential concerns, somatic & body-centered work, women’s issues, couples, creatives, helping professionals, HSPs, life transitions, grief & loss, relationships &
sexuality
, LGBTQ+ issues.
Three beliefs I hold that influence how I practice are 1) human beings are not problems to be solved 2) therapy is ultimately about relationship 3) the process itself is the solution. We humans are infinitely complex; we're full of opposition and paradox. Our culture pushes quick fixes and immediate answers, but lasting change rarely comes about when we work in this way. I'm interested in helping you come into fuller, richer, more conscious relationship with all of your moving and sometimes disparate parts. Together we will work from the inside out through a deep, relational process.

Lori O'Mara
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST
Verified
1 Endorsed
Philadelphia, PA 19103 (Online Only)
Not accepting new clients
I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and AASECT Certified
Sex
Therapist.
You are capable of creating change in your life. My role is one of encouragement and support for making that change. Together we will find ways to cope better in the situations that matter to you and facilitate personal growth by exploring new ways to interact with your world, yourself and those around you. I believe you are the best resource on what works for you. In session we will spend time exploring the issues most important to you and find a way to work through those together.
I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and AASECT Certified
Sex
Therapist.
You are capable of creating change in your life. My role is one of encouragement and support for making that change. Together we will find ways to cope better in the situations that matter to you and facilitate personal growth by exploring new ways to interact with your world, yourself and those around you. I believe you are the best resource on what works for you. In session we will spend time exploring the issues most important to you and find a way to work through those together.

Allie Monaco
Pre-Licensed Professional, MFT
Verified
1 Endorsed
Philadelphia, PA 19103
Areas of interest for individuals and couples: Relationship transitions (cohabiting, engagement, pre-marital counseling, etc.); Communication & conflict management; Processing and healing from break-ups/separation/divorce; Infidelity; Challenges with sexual desire/desire discrepancies; Sexual dysfunctions/disorders Increasing intimacy; Boundaries with family, friends, and partners; Understanding family dynamics; Exploring consensual non-monogamy; Religious trauma; Identity and
sexuality
after childbirth. I seek to provide an affirming practice that welcomes LGBTQIA+ and polyamorous/non-monogamous individuals, couples, and systems!
Areas of interest for individuals and couples: Relationship transitions (cohabiting, engagement, pre-marital counseling, etc.); Communication & conflict management; Processing and healing from break-ups/separation/divorce; Infidelity; Challenges with sexual desire/desire discrepancies; Sexual dysfunctions/disorders Increasing intimacy; Boundaries with family, friends, and partners; Understanding family dynamics; Exploring consensual non-monogamy; Religious trauma; Identity and
sexuality
after childbirth. I seek to provide an affirming practice that welcomes LGBTQIA+ and polyamorous/non-monogamous individuals, couples, and systems!
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Sex Therapy
Who is sex therapy for?
Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.
Why do people need sex therapy?
Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.
What happens in sex therapy?
People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.
What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?
Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.