Open Relationships Non-Monogamy Therapists in Philadelphia, PA
Of late, I've been especially passionate about working with people pursuing nontraditional relationships in friendship, romance, sex, kink, and family. Whether you're a polyamorous couple navigating communication or jealousy issues, a queer family navigating difficult decisions in a hostile world, or a neurodivergent person navigating relationship scripts that weren't made with you in mind, you're likely wanting clarity and support in finding a new normal outside of traditional cultural norms. I have extensive experience in building new, nontraditional ways of navigating the world. I'm here to help you find your unique path forward.
Of late, I've been especially passionate about working with people pursuing nontraditional relationships in friendship, romance, sex, kink, and family. Whether you're a polyamorous couple navigating communication or jealousy issues, a queer family navigating difficult decisions in a hostile world, or a neurodivergent person navigating relationship scripts that weren't made with you in mind, you're likely wanting clarity and support in finding a new normal outside of traditional cultural norms. I have extensive experience in building new, nontraditional ways of navigating the world. I'm here to help you find your unique path forward.
I am LGBTQ+ and relationship-minority (CNM/Poly/Relationship Anarchy) affirming, body and sex-positive, anti-capitalism, and I have a special interest in amicable co-parenting and midlife transitions. I understand that identity and relationship shifts can make you feel unsteady, lost, and lonely. Maybe none of the traditional relationship blueprints make sense to you anymore, and you need a new road map for your life. Whether you're still figuring out your identity, navigating a new relationship dynamic, need support with amicable co-parenting, or just want a listening ear to help you make sense of life's plot twists, I'm here.
I am LGBTQ+ and relationship-minority (CNM/Poly/Relationship Anarchy) affirming, body and sex-positive, anti-capitalism, and I have a special interest in amicable co-parenting and midlife transitions. I understand that identity and relationship shifts can make you feel unsteady, lost, and lonely. Maybe none of the traditional relationship blueprints make sense to you anymore, and you need a new road map for your life. Whether you're still figuring out your identity, navigating a new relationship dynamic, need support with amicable co-parenting, or just want a listening ear to help you make sense of life's plot twists, I'm here.
First of all: you have the potential to thrive and feel supported. Your experiences and perspectives are huge assets going into therapy. I help my clients overcome fear and navigate conflict, uncertainty, change, and loss. My approach is creative, deeply compassionate, and rooted in relationship. With humor and warmth, I'll help you show up authentically for yourself, your loved ones, and your communities. Together, we’ll work through the complexities of your relationships, break unhelpful patterns, and heal the wounds that could be holding you back from finding personal growth and pleasure in your daily life.
First of all: you have the potential to thrive and feel supported. Your experiences and perspectives are huge assets going into therapy. I help my clients overcome fear and navigate conflict, uncertainty, change, and loss. My approach is creative, deeply compassionate, and rooted in relationship. With humor and warmth, I'll help you show up authentically for yourself, your loved ones, and your communities. Together, we’ll work through the complexities of your relationships, break unhelpful patterns, and heal the wounds that could be holding you back from finding personal growth and pleasure in your daily life.
I have been practicing for 11 years. I am passionate about providing a safe space for trauma survivors, queer, trans, and polyamorous individuals, and alternative lifestyles. I am not a fan of putting people in boxes or following social norms.
I want to help children, families, and individuals with complex trauma, attachment, family of origin, and identity . Let me help you break generational patterns, build healthy communication and emotional connection, and live in alignment with your values without fear. I want to help you get unstuck from trauma and empower you to move forward from surviving to thriving.
I have been practicing for 11 years. I am passionate about providing a safe space for trauma survivors, queer, trans, and polyamorous individuals, and alternative lifestyles. I am not a fan of putting people in boxes or following social norms.
I want to help children, families, and individuals with complex trauma, attachment, family of origin, and identity . Let me help you break generational patterns, build healthy communication and emotional connection, and live in alignment with your values without fear. I want to help you get unstuck from trauma and empower you to move forward from surviving to thriving.
While I consider myself a therapist for all, I recognize that sometimes gay men want a gay therapist - I see that and am here for you. Additionally, I aim to make that process simple and stress-free, so that you can feel comfortable talking about what's really been weighing on you. I'm not that stoic, serious therapist you've traditionally seen portrayed in movies. I smile, I laugh, I frown, I may even gasp (gasp!). Therapy doesn't have to feel super "clinical" in order to have benefits.
While I consider myself a therapist for all, I recognize that sometimes gay men want a gay therapist - I see that and am here for you. Additionally, I aim to make that process simple and stress-free, so that you can feel comfortable talking about what's really been weighing on you. I'm not that stoic, serious therapist you've traditionally seen portrayed in movies. I smile, I laugh, I frown, I may even gasp (gasp!). Therapy doesn't have to feel super "clinical" in order to have benefits.
Some areas of interest include: polyamory, sexuality, substance use, identity formation, anxiety, depression
Over the last 15 years, I’ve had the joy and privilege of working with folks as they make meaning of their lives. I work with people who want to experience more inner peace and less anxiety. While not a requirement, I see long term therapeutic work as a space for building a consistent, stable relationship. My clients have the experience of being known, understood and seen. Through our relationship, we can practice new ways of being and bring in new patterns of thought, behavior and feeling. Once trust and knowledge has been built, we'll collaborate on how to move through pain points in your life. Therapy should be useful!
Some areas of interest include: polyamory, sexuality, substance use, identity formation, anxiety, depression
Over the last 15 years, I’ve had the joy and privilege of working with folks as they make meaning of their lives. I work with people who want to experience more inner peace and less anxiety. While not a requirement, I see long term therapeutic work as a space for building a consistent, stable relationship. My clients have the experience of being known, understood and seen. Through our relationship, we can practice new ways of being and bring in new patterns of thought, behavior and feeling. Once trust and knowledge has been built, we'll collaborate on how to move through pain points in your life. Therapy should be useful!
I am a Peruvian American non-binary trans therapist who believes that therapy should be accessible to everyone. I strive for therapy to be a healing space by ensuring that the therapeutic relationship is collaborative between the client and the clinician. I do this by providing a safer space for clients where they can unmask and feel free to ask for any accommodations they might need.
I like to work with QTBIPOC, neurodivergent, sex positive folks who are interested in ancestral healing, mutual aid and disability justice.
I am a Peruvian American non-binary trans therapist who believes that therapy should be accessible to everyone. I strive for therapy to be a healing space by ensuring that the therapeutic relationship is collaborative between the client and the clinician. I do this by providing a safer space for clients where they can unmask and feel free to ask for any accommodations they might need.
I like to work with QTBIPOC, neurodivergent, sex positive folks who are interested in ancestral healing, mutual aid and disability justice.
I have experience navigating polyamory, ethical non-monogamy, and diverse sexual identities.
I work with individuals and couples who may feel like their relationships or experiences don't align with societal norms. Whether you’re exploring your identity, navigating complex dynamics, or rethinking what love and connection mean to you, I’m here to help create a space where you can feel safe and supported. Together, we’ll explore your unique experiences and find ways to nurture relationships that align with your true self, bringing more fulfillment and authenticity into your life.
I have experience navigating polyamory, ethical non-monogamy, and diverse sexual identities.
I work with individuals and couples who may feel like their relationships or experiences don't align with societal norms. Whether you’re exploring your identity, navigating complex dynamics, or rethinking what love and connection mean to you, I’m here to help create a space where you can feel safe and supported. Together, we’ll explore your unique experiences and find ways to nurture relationships that align with your true self, bringing more fulfillment and authenticity into your life.
I support clients who are in or exploring relationships rooted in polyamory, kink, queerness, and more.
Clients often come to therapy to explore identity, navigate boundaries and communication, or make sense of shifts in desire, connection, or relationship structure. Our first shared goal is to create trust and safety. As we work together, we’ll pause to check in not only on your goals, but also on how your body and mind are responding in the present moment.
I support clients who are in or exploring relationships rooted in polyamory, kink, queerness, and more.
Clients often come to therapy to explore identity, navigate boundaries and communication, or make sense of shifts in desire, connection, or relationship structure. Our first shared goal is to create trust and safety. As we work together, we’ll pause to check in not only on your goals, but also on how your body and mind are responding in the present moment.
Our issues are often not inherently “ours” but a result of being a human simply trying to survive, seeking safety and comfort as we've learned. Working with individuals and relational systems, I look forward to exploring all aspects of identity/experience together and providing a non-judgmental space that moves through fear & shame toward radical (self) acceptance and healing. Being afforded the opportunity to know people deeply is a privilege; I seek to create and continually foster a space that feels safe enough to thoroughly explore, while being an anchor in difficult moments– a reminder that you are held and you are not alone.
Our issues are often not inherently “ours” but a result of being a human simply trying to survive, seeking safety and comfort as we've learned. Working with individuals and relational systems, I look forward to exploring all aspects of identity/experience together and providing a non-judgmental space that moves through fear & shame toward radical (self) acceptance and healing. Being afforded the opportunity to know people deeply is a privilege; I seek to create and continually foster a space that feels safe enough to thoroughly explore, while being an anchor in difficult moments– a reminder that you are held and you are not alone.
Many get to a point in life where adulthood isn't what they imagined it would be. They find a career and someone they love, but feel stuck in old patterns and narratives. My ideal clients are people seeking new solutions, those who desire to honor their strengths in order to safely explore and transform old negative cycles. Therapy can be a great place to re-establish healthy communication, connection, and trust in relationships, and I hope to provide the open, honest, and affirming environment for you to do just that.
Many get to a point in life where adulthood isn't what they imagined it would be. They find a career and someone they love, but feel stuck in old patterns and narratives. My ideal clients are people seeking new solutions, those who desire to honor their strengths in order to safely explore and transform old negative cycles. Therapy can be a great place to re-establish healthy communication, connection, and trust in relationships, and I hope to provide the open, honest, and affirming environment for you to do just that.
I focus on: Gender and sexuality exploration, queerness, fetish & kink, sexual intimacy, pleasure/arousal/desire, polyamory & ethical non-monogamy, SA survivor support, depression & anxiety, religious trauma, and neurodivergence (e.g., ADHD).
Hey friends — I’m Pepper. I’m a queer intern sex therapist with an approach that is down-to-earth, non-judgmental, and rooted in authenticity. I work to create a space where humor, vulnerability, and honesty are welcome. To build trust and authenticity, I feel it is helpful to share a little about who I am. I am queer, non-monogamous, non-binary, able-bodied, white human sexuality professional. I enjoy crafting, film photography, and my 2 hilariously stubborn cats. I specialize in working with clients regarding the intersectionality of sexuality, relationships, and queerness. I believe healing happens when you show up as yourself.
I focus on: Gender and sexuality exploration, queerness, fetish & kink, sexual intimacy, pleasure/arousal/desire, polyamory & ethical non-monogamy, SA survivor support, depression & anxiety, religious trauma, and neurodivergence (e.g., ADHD).
Hey friends — I’m Pepper. I’m a queer intern sex therapist with an approach that is down-to-earth, non-judgmental, and rooted in authenticity. I work to create a space where humor, vulnerability, and honesty are welcome. To build trust and authenticity, I feel it is helpful to share a little about who I am. I am queer, non-monogamous, non-binary, able-bodied, white human sexuality professional. I enjoy crafting, film photography, and my 2 hilariously stubborn cats. I specialize in working with clients regarding the intersectionality of sexuality, relationships, and queerness. I believe healing happens when you show up as yourself.
As a collective, we are tired; overwhelmed by our lives, our relationships, and the fate of our world. We are disconnected from the hope that once came easy to us, and we need each other right now. As your therapist, my goal is that each session helps you release feeling defeated and shameful, and embrace feeling inspired and resourced. I aim to honor your uniqueness by adjusting my pace and approach to work best for you. I have experience working with LGBTQ+ and BIPOC individuals, as well as those in ENM or polyamorous relationships.
As a collective, we are tired; overwhelmed by our lives, our relationships, and the fate of our world. We are disconnected from the hope that once came easy to us, and we need each other right now. As your therapist, my goal is that each session helps you release feeling defeated and shameful, and embrace feeling inspired and resourced. I aim to honor your uniqueness by adjusting my pace and approach to work best for you. I have experience working with LGBTQ+ and BIPOC individuals, as well as those in ENM or polyamorous relationships.
Do you need help figuring out how to communicate better or break unhealthy patterns in your relationships? Would you like to stop fighting all the time, work better as a team or improve your connection? Do you need to (re)build trust or (re)negotiate boundaries, limits or relationship agreements? I can help. I'm an experienced, warm, engaged, challenging and compassionate couples therapist who will work with you and your partner(s) to explore your problems and develop an individualized plan to help you define and accomplish your relationship goals.
Do you need help figuring out how to communicate better or break unhealthy patterns in your relationships? Would you like to stop fighting all the time, work better as a team or improve your connection? Do you need to (re)build trust or (re)negotiate boundaries, limits or relationship agreements? I can help. I'm an experienced, warm, engaged, challenging and compassionate couples therapist who will work with you and your partner(s) to explore your problems and develop an individualized plan to help you define and accomplish your relationship goals.
I am a humanistic and trauma-sensitive therapist who believes that individuals have the innate power to heal and grow on a path of their own determination. I know we do not exist in a vacuum and that people are products of their context. I provide a non-judgmental space to explore what has happened in your life, not to determine what is “wrong” with you. My clinical point of view is feminist, sex-positive, trauma-sensitive, anti-oppressive, and harm-reductionist.
I love working with artists and creative people in overcoming mental health struggles related to vocation or existential questioning.
I am a humanistic and trauma-sensitive therapist who believes that individuals have the innate power to heal and grow on a path of their own determination. I know we do not exist in a vacuum and that people are products of their context. I provide a non-judgmental space to explore what has happened in your life, not to determine what is “wrong” with you. My clinical point of view is feminist, sex-positive, trauma-sensitive, anti-oppressive, and harm-reductionist.
I love working with artists and creative people in overcoming mental health struggles related to vocation or existential questioning.
Struggle is a part of life, but our struggles can often make life feel overwhelming, stifling, or meaningless. It’s all too easy to get stuck in patterns of living and relating that feel like endless repetitions of old models that seem to generate more problems than they solve. Whether your goal is healing from traumas, improving relationships, addressing complex mental health concerns, or striving for a deeper and more meaningful understanding of life and yourself, I believe that therapy can be an invaluable tool for exploration, healing, and growth.
Struggle is a part of life, but our struggles can often make life feel overwhelming, stifling, or meaningless. It’s all too easy to get stuck in patterns of living and relating that feel like endless repetitions of old models that seem to generate more problems than they solve. Whether your goal is healing from traumas, improving relationships, addressing complex mental health concerns, or striving for a deeper and more meaningful understanding of life and yourself, I believe that therapy can be an invaluable tool for exploration, healing, and growth.
My therapy style is informed by my desire to explore, understand, and empower my clients. I am Kink/BDSM, non-monogamy, body neutral and queer aligned. I believe therapy is political and a space where clients can be intentional about their identities. Topics that I particularly enjoy working with include gender affirming care, chronic pain, working through infidelity, aging, navigating multiple racial and cultural identities, and processing sexual trauma.
My therapy style is informed by my desire to explore, understand, and empower my clients. I am Kink/BDSM, non-monogamy, body neutral and queer aligned. I believe therapy is political and a space where clients can be intentional about their identities. Topics that I particularly enjoy working with include gender affirming care, chronic pain, working through infidelity, aging, navigating multiple racial and cultural identities, and processing sexual trauma.
I am sex-positive and queer, trans, polyamory, kink and SWer affirming.
Hi, I am Yema, a sex therapist based in Philly. I am a queer, trans, fat, disabled, Latinx child of immigrants and I will bring a unique, anti-oppressive perspective to your struggles and goals. I always consider the impact of racism, capitalism, fatphobia, queerphobia, and ableism on your lived experience. As an anti-capitalist, I deeply value community and I will regularly remind you that you are not alone and that there are caring communities eager to hold you. As an intersectional feminist, my work is deeply trauma-informed; your autonomy, safety, pace, worldview, and informed consent are paramount and will always be respected.
I am sex-positive and queer, trans, polyamory, kink and SWer affirming.
Hi, I am Yema, a sex therapist based in Philly. I am a queer, trans, fat, disabled, Latinx child of immigrants and I will bring a unique, anti-oppressive perspective to your struggles and goals. I always consider the impact of racism, capitalism, fatphobia, queerphobia, and ableism on your lived experience. As an anti-capitalist, I deeply value community and I will regularly remind you that you are not alone and that there are caring communities eager to hold you. As an intersectional feminist, my work is deeply trauma-informed; your autonomy, safety, pace, worldview, and informed consent are paramount and will always be respected.
Hi, I'm Joanne! Are you tired? Feeling stuck? Looking for a space to process the frustrations of life? I work with people that are navigating change, exploring their identity or purpose, and trying to build sincere relationships. Folks that are interested in breaking familial patterns and doing something different and meaningful with their lives. The world can be soul-crushing sometimes, making us feel shame over certain identities, desires, or behaviors. Understanding who you are and who you want to be releases shame, builds self-confidence, and allows for sustained change.
Hi, I'm Joanne! Are you tired? Feeling stuck? Looking for a space to process the frustrations of life? I work with people that are navigating change, exploring their identity or purpose, and trying to build sincere relationships. Folks that are interested in breaking familial patterns and doing something different and meaningful with their lives. The world can be soul-crushing sometimes, making us feel shame over certain identities, desires, or behaviors. Understanding who you are and who you want to be releases shame, builds self-confidence, and allows for sustained change.
Your body is tired but your mind is racing. You use up your spoons to show up for others and hope that you'll feel supported in return but instead, you're still feeling drained, anxious, and lonely. That thought of "What if I need too much? and "What's wrong with me?" that popped up into your head in middle school and never fully went away gnaws at you. You want to cry or hide when thinking about bringing up hard conversations with loved ones about what you need to feel understood and supported, so for now, those hard talks just get avoided. You want to feel more in control, less dread, and less pain.
Your body is tired but your mind is racing. You use up your spoons to show up for others and hope that you'll feel supported in return but instead, you're still feeling drained, anxious, and lonely. That thought of "What if I need too much? and "What's wrong with me?" that popped up into your head in middle school and never fully went away gnaws at you. You want to cry or hide when thinking about bringing up hard conversations with loved ones about what you need to feel understood and supported, so for now, those hard talks just get avoided. You want to feel more in control, less dread, and less pain.
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Open Relationships Non-Monogamy Therapists
Why might an individual want to see a therapist specializing in open relationships and consensual non-monogamy?
A client seeking help with an open or consensually non-monogamous relationship will prefer to talk with a professional whom they can count on to be nonjudgmental. Talking with a supportive therapist may on its own help relieve some of the stigma and challenges partners face. That said, the most important factor in the success of any type of therapy is the ability of the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond. For this reason, an individual or couple could find success with a therapist who does not specialize in non-monogamous relationships but with whom they can build trust.
When should open or consensually non-monogamous partners seek counseling?
Like other couples, polyamorous partners typically seek counseling when they face relationship challenges they can’t solve themselves. In non-monogamous relationships, this could include breaches of trust, including infidelity; unclear rules or violations of boundaries; jealousy of outside partners; the stress of juggling the needs of multiple partners; or the effect of high partner turnover on children. Like those of other couples, polyamorous bonds can be threatened by increasingly frequent arguments, poor or dysfunctional communication, diminished emotional or physical intimacy, or the feeling that something is wrong, even if they don’t know what it is.
Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in open relationships and consensual non-monogamy?
No, but individuals seeking help with non-monogamous relationships would most likely consult a licensed professional with specific training in couples counseling or couples therapy. Couples counseling and couples therapy both involve teaching concrete strategies to navigate conflict in relationships. A good therapist can engage both partners as they explain these approaches but can also work with a single partner.
How long does therapy for consensually non-monogamous couples typically last?
Couples therapy for any type of couple, tends to be relatively time-limited, lasting around 12 weeks on average. A good therapist will tailor sessions to the individual partners’ emotions and sometimes their past, along with patterns found to be repeating in the relationship. In many cases, clients should expect their therapist to assign “homework” between weekly sessions.