Life is stressful, and sometimes it seems overwhelming. That's where I can help. Many of my clients are highly motivated, achievement-oriented professionals who feel held back or "stuck." Some are dealing with stress and anxiety, some are having trouble finding focus or motivation, and many are trying to clarify their purpose and direction. I help them find a way through these issues--particularly as they show up in the workplace. Like it or not, we spend a huge amount of time and energy at work, so it's important that we spend it well.

Are you not feeling like your usual self nowadays? Are stress, politics, work, relationship pressure, relocation and/or COVID-19 overwhelming? Is there just way too much going on? Are you looking to feel more calm, more relaxed, less upset, and more happy? Sometimes our brain won't turn off and stop worrying, sometimes it is difficult to get out of bed or get a good night's rest, other times it is tough to buckle down and focus. Therapy can help... even if you're not sure how. I see mental health as part of one's overall wellness. My approach focuses on having fewer negative emotions and also on experiencing more positive emotions.

I Work with individuals and couples mainly. My background is in substance misuse counseling. I also see a large proportion of clients struggling with body image concerns and disordered eating. I work in a relational way, that invites the client into the therapeutic process, setting goals, assigning homework if appropriate, coming up with ways to better resource in times of stress/ emotional overwhelm. I enjoy working with people who view themselves as sensitive beings, intuitives /empaths. I am somatically trained, which means I invite the body into the therapy, offering interventions such as grounding exercises/ aromatherapy.

I welcome those who find themselves in the unknown spaces of their lives, when transitions or change are calling them to shed what no longer serves them, and become more of who they truly are. I sit with you as a collaborative ally in the discovery of your own unique inner voice. While we may seek to understand old limiting beliefs, our deeper journey is toward uncovering the part of you that naturally moves towards its greatest wholeness and aliveness. Together we find the resources you already have to support your unfolding process.

Are you a woman/femme-identified person that represses your own feelings because you are overly dependent on others for approval?

My approach is a flexible, organic experience of healing for many emotional concerns, particularly anxiety, grief, fear, shame, loneliness, guilt, sexual and creative blockages. We work to bring the hidden into the light. I embrace all gender expressions and sexual orientations. I have experience supporting a variety of relationship configurations and lifestyles, and can assist in navigating issues that can surface in these choices, such as boredom, jealousy, intimacy blockages, differing needs and desires, sexual and emotional satisfaction.

CK Olivieri Blackmore is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who approaches life with warmth, compassion and creativity. CK specializes in relationship dynamics, post-traumatic stress disorders, and developmental life transitions. She is particularly adept at issues pertaining to the queer community and their loved ones. CK utilizes eclectic modalities such as CBT, DBT, EMDR, and narrative-based therapies to navigate the nuanced needs of her diverse clientele and the associated sexual and gendered concerns that arise. Blending insight-oriented and behavioral change practices, CK works from a quirky and truly innovative lens.

I am not able to accept in-network clients at this time. I am holistic, seasoned (30 years), wise, gently confrontive, intuitive, compassionate, facilitative and invested in your ease and comfort. I specialize in EMDR therapy (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) because it enables a full resolution of issues rather than management of them. I offer a safe and accepting space for self-awareness and caring self-correction. I strive to help you achieve measurable improvement in each session. Let's get you the relief you need, and possibly put you on a positive momentum toward reaching your full potential.

Could you use some support? Feeling stuck? Confused? I love this work and it is an honor to work in this way. I specialize in working with women who are experiencing transitions in their lives, grief, anxiety, codependency, and alcoholic family systems. I have degrees from CIIS and UCLA. Together, clients and I work to find relief, understanding, and emotional wellbeing.

I work with people who want to feel happy, safe, and be able to connect with others. If you are feeling down, lonely or lost; I can help. As a therapist, my goal is to create a safe place where you can express yourself without judgment, explore whatever is troubling you, and develop strategies to facilitate the change you desire. Together we will figure out what is holding you back and how to overcome it.

For 25 years, I have assisted people with a variety of addictions, from the exogenous abuse of drugs and alcohol, to the ones that stem from the chemicals already inside the brain, such as sex and love addiction, abandonment patterns, sexual compulsions, gambling, internet, and workaholism. Unlike most psychotherapists, I’m a Board Certified Addiction Specialist, well versed in both abstinence and harm reduction strategies. Unlike most addiction professionals, I am also psychotherapist who also treats the anxiety, depression, and other psychological issues that often manifest after being uncovered through recovery.

As a therapist I am solutions-focused, inquisitive and relate-able, and will utilize a diverse range of theoretical approaches tailored to your individual needs, including: Cognitive Behavioral Therapies (CBT/DBT), Motivational Interviewing (MI), Mindfulness-based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT), Creative & Expressive, and Trauma Informed Therapy including EMDR (Certified Through EMDRIA). By integrating various evidenced based treatment protocols, we will collaborate to get where you want to go. My process is always to ask you, the client, what it is you want, what would that look like, and what is in your way of achieving your goals.

Are you feeling a burning desire for change in your life? Are old behavior patterns and habits preventing you from evolving into your higher self? Do you feel disconnected from yourself, others, and the universe? Perhaps you want to change, but don't know how? Maybe you've tried turning things around in your life, but that door keeps on revolving, and you feel even more powerless than the last time?

Welcome! I believe the richest work is accomplished when there is authenticity and a sense of genuine connection. I have served clients working through a variety of issues, including: depression, anxiety, trauma, cultural identity, family dynamics, and family and intimate partner violence. I am here to help facilitate your therapeutic process, enabling you to gain insight and empowerment as you take strides to create the life you want.

I am a patient, attentive human, fueled by deep curiosity and compassion ready to walk with you through whatever stage of life you are in. Through my own self work, education, and life experiences, I have learned that we are all on our very own unique journey towards tending to parts of us that have been mistreated or left behind by hurtful past experiences. As a human and a provider, I have a strong passion for healing. I believe in the power of restorative relationships, that everyone has the ability to rewrite unhelpful life narratives and the strength to transform their life.

I have a warm, collaborative, relational and empowering style. At times we look at what holds you back, and at times we look at the evolving being who is struggling to emerge. Both polarities have something to offer when properly accessed and integrated. Since wounding frequently happens in relationship, healing may best be facilitated in relationship with someone who is accepting all of who you are. Trauma requires a safe and inviting space to move into, and needs delicate handling. I help couples find a way to communicate that makes it safer for both to come forward vulnerably.

Are you stuck in an area of your life and don't know how to fix it? Need to improve the quality of your relationships, your career, and your mental health? It's amazing what life throws at you and how you adjust to cope. You get comfortable with these changes...even if they're unhealthy! I'm here to help you create the life and relationships you want and deserve. My treatment is short-term; Many issues are solved in as little as 4 sessions, instead of taking months or years. You'll feel better after your first session!

Do you feel lost or tempted to despair? Do you feel as if you're not truly or deeply living? As if real and substantial change may not be possible for you? I believe your despair can give way to an unfolding realization of hope. You can be more than you are, better than you are, even transform your life as you know it. Your life can increasingly be marked by an enduring sense of inward peace that no one can take from you. If you're struggling with such core life issues, I believe I can help you.

Are you disappointed with your close relationships? Your sex life? I can help you improve your relationships. I can also help you to resolve sexual concerns, to reduce depresssion and anxiety and to improve communication. I work with individuals and couples. My specialties are: (1) love and close relationships; (2) sex therapy; (3) recovering from childhood abuse and other trauma. In your first visit, I will ask about the issues that you are dealing with, and offer some suggestions. Then we will develop a plan that fits your needs. I emphasize self-acceptance and learning to trust more and feel more confident.

I am a licensed Marriage and Family therapist with 15 years of experience working with adults, adolescent, children and their families. I have worked both in the outpatient hospital environment and in the Del Mar School district. In addition to my private practice work I am active with KidsTurn San Diego, a nonprofit organization helping families navigate the process of divorce.