Gottman Method Therapists in Salem, OR

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Pacific Northwest Counseling
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, EMDR-C
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Salem, OR 97301
Welcome to my profile! I am guessing you are wanting to learn more about my profile because you are struggling in your romantic and/or family-of-origin relationships. Stuck with the same arguments with no resolution? Then you've come to the right place! I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with a Master's of Arts in Clinical Psychology. I am passionate about utilizing the Gottman Method Couple's Therapy approach and pull from various theories on attachment. In addition to my work with couples, I enjoy working with individual adults also struggling in relationships but would like a one-on-one focus.
Welcome to my profile! I am guessing you are wanting to learn more about my profile because you are struggling in your romantic and/or family-of-origin relationships. Stuck with the same arguments with no resolution? Then you've come to the right place! I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with a Master's of Arts in Clinical Psychology. I am passionate about utilizing the Gottman Method Couple's Therapy approach and pull from various theories on attachment. In addition to my work with couples, I enjoy working with individual adults also struggling in relationships but would like a one-on-one focus.
(208) 759-5963 View (208) 759-5963
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Co-occurring Therapy, LLC with Troy Michell LCSW
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Salem, OR 97301  (Online Only)
Therapies I provide are: Strength-Based, 12-Step, ACT, Mindfulness, Yoga, CBT, CPT, Compassion Focused Culturally Sensitive, DBT, Existential Experimental Therapy, Gottman Method, Humanistic, Interpersonal, Jungian, MBCT, Motivational Interviewing, Person-Centered, Positive Psychology, Solution Focused Evidenced based treatments.
In my mental health practice, I specialize in providing tailored support for today's challenges. Drawing from extensive experience in treating trauma, addiction, depression, and anxiety, I offer support navigating life's complexities. Integrating stress management, meditation, and mood regulation, I help you address issues and cultivate healthier choices. With a focus on trauma-informed care and mind-body skills, I provide tools for emotional management and effective transitions. Our confidential meetings offer therapeutic support and practical interventions for healing and growth.
Therapies I provide are: Strength-Based, 12-Step, ACT, Mindfulness, Yoga, CBT, CPT, Compassion Focused Culturally Sensitive, DBT, Existential Experimental Therapy, Gottman Method, Humanistic, Interpersonal, Jungian, MBCT, Motivational Interviewing, Person-Centered, Positive Psychology, Solution Focused Evidenced based treatments.
In my mental health practice, I specialize in providing tailored support for today's challenges. Drawing from extensive experience in treating trauma, addiction, depression, and anxiety, I offer support navigating life's complexities. Integrating stress management, meditation, and mood regulation, I help you address issues and cultivate healthier choices. With a focus on trauma-informed care and mind-body skills, I provide tools for emotional management and effective transitions. Our confidential meetings offer therapeutic support and practical interventions for healing and growth.
(971) 290-1677 View (971) 290-1677
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Lou Roberts
Licensed Professional Counselor, CADC I, QMHP, CTP, MEd, LPC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Salem, OR 97302
I may also call upon Dialectical Behavior Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, Internal Family Systems, and Gottman Method.
It is breathtaking how resilient we are. I have witnessed many a phoenix rising from the ashes in my work with people who experience mental health & addiction issues, (co-occurring disorders.) I specialize in assisting you toward your goals with an integrated focus on mind, body, & spirit. My approach is a conscientious balance of kindness and honesty. For years I have been honored to support people through tough times. I am an intuitive, empathic listener who can support your most courageous hard work. Have you had the experience of being seen, heard, understood, & empowered to work toward achieving your objectives?
I may also call upon Dialectical Behavior Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, Internal Family Systems, and Gottman Method.
It is breathtaking how resilient we are. I have witnessed many a phoenix rising from the ashes in my work with people who experience mental health & addiction issues, (co-occurring disorders.) I specialize in assisting you toward your goals with an integrated focus on mind, body, & spirit. My approach is a conscientious balance of kindness and honesty. For years I have been honored to support people through tough times. I am an intuitive, empathic listener who can support your most courageous hard work. Have you had the experience of being seen, heard, understood, & empowered to work toward achieving your objectives?
(458) 217-6121 View (458) 217-6121
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Steve Henderson
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
Salem, OR 97302  (Online Only)
I primarily work with young adults on an individual basis and have experience with a wide range of issues including depression, anxiety, severe and persistent mental illness, self-esteem, interpersonal issues, trauma, identity issues, spiritual and existential concerns, life transition, and other emotional wellness concerns. I am currently only providing services via telehealth / secure online video chat. For Oregon clients, at this time I am only accepting Moda insurance or private pay.
I primarily work with young adults on an individual basis and have experience with a wide range of issues including depression, anxiety, severe and persistent mental illness, self-esteem, interpersonal issues, trauma, identity issues, spiritual and existential concerns, life transition, and other emotional wellness concerns. I am currently only providing services via telehealth / secure online video chat. For Oregon clients, at this time I am only accepting Moda insurance or private pay.
(503) 461-7997 View (503) 461-7997
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Hope Springs Counseling
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Salem, OR 97301
You already possess the ability to reach your full potential. My job as your therapist is to listen, walk alongside you, and help you move toward this potential. People seek therapy because they desire happiness. Let's begin by discovering what happiness looks like for you. Do you feel unheard, dismissed and over-ridden by a parent or partner even though you are an adult? Do you feel as though attempting to set new boundaries for yourself is next to impossible because important others will simply disregard them? Therapy can help you learn to fully validate within yourself what it is you feel and believe, and what it is you consider to be important. Peace, authenticity, and balance are springboards to happiness. My goal is to offer you individualized help in overcoming the obstacles that are blocking that happiness. Taking a step, reaching out for some help, will lead you to the change and growth you are hoping for. And whether you are seeking thriving relationships or simply greater contentment, I will help you tap into your own innate strengths to bring about a fuller, happier life.
You already possess the ability to reach your full potential. My job as your therapist is to listen, walk alongside you, and help you move toward this potential. People seek therapy because they desire happiness. Let's begin by discovering what happiness looks like for you. Do you feel unheard, dismissed and over-ridden by a parent or partner even though you are an adult? Do you feel as though attempting to set new boundaries for yourself is next to impossible because important others will simply disregard them? Therapy can help you learn to fully validate within yourself what it is you feel and believe, and what it is you consider to be important. Peace, authenticity, and balance are springboards to happiness. My goal is to offer you individualized help in overcoming the obstacles that are blocking that happiness. Taking a step, reaching out for some help, will lead you to the change and growth you are hoping for. And whether you are seeking thriving relationships or simply greater contentment, I will help you tap into your own innate strengths to bring about a fuller, happier life.
(503) 208-7319 View (503) 208-7319
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Dr. Corey Gilbert -Christian, Sex & Trauma Expert
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, LPC
Verified Verified
Salem, OR 97306
Welcome! My name is Dr Corey Gilbert. I have been working with marriages and families for over 23 years. My primary focus is on trauma, gender and sexual identity, infidelity, marriage restoration, & marital sexual stuck points - all from a biblical traditionally Christian worldivew. So if you are looking for that kind of leadership and direction, I am that person. I have been a University professor at the Undergrad, Gradaute, and Doctoral level for 19+ years. My track record is seeing great changes quickly for most. You and I will create a plan that works best for you, your desired outcomes, your budget, and family.
Welcome! My name is Dr Corey Gilbert. I have been working with marriages and families for over 23 years. My primary focus is on trauma, gender and sexual identity, infidelity, marriage restoration, & marital sexual stuck points - all from a biblical traditionally Christian worldivew. So if you are looking for that kind of leadership and direction, I am that person. I have been a University professor at the Undergrad, Gradaute, and Doctoral level for 19+ years. My track record is seeing great changes quickly for most. You and I will create a plan that works best for you, your desired outcomes, your budget, and family.
(503) 563-2668 View (503) 563-2668
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Kristin L Rieck
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
Salem, OR 97301
Hi. I am here to offer you a chance to be seen and heard for who you really are, as well as who you want to be. Change is possible, and I look forward to working closely with you as you create the life you want. My practice is solution focused, with an emphasis on Attachment Patterns Couples Therapy. I use Contextual Therapy, which means helping relationships become more fair. I offer you a chance to talk about difficult topics in confidential sessions.
Hi. I am here to offer you a chance to be seen and heard for who you really are, as well as who you want to be. Change is possible, and I look forward to working closely with you as you create the life you want. My practice is solution focused, with an emphasis on Attachment Patterns Couples Therapy. I use Contextual Therapy, which means helping relationships become more fair. I offer you a chance to talk about difficult topics in confidential sessions.
(503) 505-9161 View (503) 505-9161
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Don Erickson
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
Salem, OR 97301  (Online Only)
I am accepting new clients though currently only in teletherapy. At this point in my counseling career, I’m increasingly focusing trauma and toxic stress and the ways it often shows up as depression, anxiety, sadness or sometimes a loss of a clear sense of who we are. Some people describe recalling feeling joy, excitement, or self-confidence that they rarely if ever feel now. The folks I’ve been working with have been finding my approach to somatic therapy coupled with simple mindfulness and physical awareness skills very helpful or even transformative in terms of regaining their sense of self and feelings of satisfaction.
I am accepting new clients though currently only in teletherapy. At this point in my counseling career, I’m increasingly focusing trauma and toxic stress and the ways it often shows up as depression, anxiety, sadness or sometimes a loss of a clear sense of who we are. Some people describe recalling feeling joy, excitement, or self-confidence that they rarely if ever feel now. The folks I’ve been working with have been finding my approach to somatic therapy coupled with simple mindfulness and physical awareness skills very helpful or even transformative in terms of regaining their sense of self and feelings of satisfaction.
(541) 359-3373 View (541) 359-3373
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Heather Sly-Haley
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Salem, OR 97302
When working with clients, I see people as unique individuals who are trying to find their own meaning for their lives and a purpose in life. Through therapy we can learn so much about ourselves and our goals which we might not even be aware of up to this point. Part of my belief in therapy is centered in the idea that each person is capable of reaching their desired self or achieving self actualization. I believe individuals and relationships are trying to find their best possible versions of self. In my practice I emphasize promoting communication and emotional awareness.
When working with clients, I see people as unique individuals who are trying to find their own meaning for their lives and a purpose in life. Through therapy we can learn so much about ourselves and our goals which we might not even be aware of up to this point. Part of my belief in therapy is centered in the idea that each person is capable of reaching their desired self or achieving self actualization. I believe individuals and relationships are trying to find their best possible versions of self. In my practice I emphasize promoting communication and emotional awareness.
(971) 232-5735 View (971) 232-5735
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Michael Zavala
Professional Counselor Associate, MA
Verified Verified
Salem, OR 97306  (Online Only)
It is hard enough to ask for help when you know what is not working for you in life. It becomes increasingly more difficult when there is only pain and the source is unknown. I focus on helping you reach your therapeutic goals by listening and building our therapeutic relationship; and strive to create a safe environment for you to explore the source of your struggle and pain without judgment. I do this through a lens called Restoration Therapy by understanding the current pain cycle and helping you to establish a peace cycle.
It is hard enough to ask for help when you know what is not working for you in life. It becomes increasingly more difficult when there is only pain and the source is unknown. I focus on helping you reach your therapeutic goals by listening and building our therapeutic relationship; and strive to create a safe environment for you to explore the source of your struggle and pain without judgment. I do this through a lens called Restoration Therapy by understanding the current pain cycle and helping you to establish a peace cycle.
(503) 461-1005 View (503) 461-1005
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Trevor Mcmurray
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, MAC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Salem, OR 97304
I have served in the mental health field for nearly two decades, assisting countless people overcome challenges and lead more fulfilling lives. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and Master Addiction Counselor assisting. My practice is grounded in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and other evidence - based interventions. I also use EMDR to assist clients experiencing the emotional and physical impact of traumatic events.
I have served in the mental health field for nearly two decades, assisting countless people overcome challenges and lead more fulfilling lives. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and Master Addiction Counselor assisting. My practice is grounded in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and other evidence - based interventions. I also use EMDR to assist clients experiencing the emotional and physical impact of traumatic events.
(503) 376-6734 View (503) 376-6734
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Hope Whisperer Christian Counseling, LLC
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA
Verified Verified
Salem, OR 97301
I am Marcie Walker, the Hope Whisperer, who is accepting new clients! In a safe, warm, and supportive environment, I will honor the words you share with me, and travel your journey with you. I have personal experience in therapeutic work with adults and families, as well as working with students at these grade levels: Middle, high, and college ages. I have 23 years experience working with the special needs population. Preventing bullying is my passion, so it is no wonder that, for the past twenty years as staff and student, I have advocated for many who were bullied and treated unfairly.
I am Marcie Walker, the Hope Whisperer, who is accepting new clients! In a safe, warm, and supportive environment, I will honor the words you share with me, and travel your journey with you. I have personal experience in therapeutic work with adults and families, as well as working with students at these grade levels: Middle, high, and college ages. I have 23 years experience working with the special needs population. Preventing bullying is my passion, so it is no wonder that, for the past twenty years as staff and student, I have advocated for many who were bullied and treated unfairly.
(503) 438-4354 View (503) 438-4354
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Cori Bakazan
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, CADC, CEAP
Verified Verified
Salem, OR 97301  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
I am a licensed professional counselor (LPC) of 12 years at The Core Practice. I enjoy working with clients to address relationship issues, anxiety, depression, trauma, addiction, and grief. I hold additional certifications as a Certified Alcohol and Drug Counselor, Certified Clinical Trauma Professional, and Certified Employee Assistance Professional. I tend to work best with clients who are active participants in their mental health journey. Weekend and evening appointments are available.
I am a licensed professional counselor (LPC) of 12 years at The Core Practice. I enjoy working with clients to address relationship issues, anxiety, depression, trauma, addiction, and grief. I hold additional certifications as a Certified Alcohol and Drug Counselor, Certified Clinical Trauma Professional, and Certified Employee Assistance Professional. I tend to work best with clients who are active participants in their mental health journey. Weekend and evening appointments are available.
(503) 755-5460 View (503) 755-5460
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Joleena Abrams
CMEMI, CCTSA, CLC, MA
Verified Verified
Salem, OR 97301  (Online Only)
Joleena is Certified in the Treament of Sexual Addiction, is a Certified Betrayal Trauma Coach, a Certified Clinical Trauma and Addiction Specialist, with a Masters of Psychology in Grief Counseling, and a Bachelors of Science in Psychology. Joleena specializes in helping couples working through betrayal and addiction of all kinds. She also works with clients that are struggling with anxiety, addictive behaviors, depression, PTSD, emotional abuse, mental abuse and trauma of various kinds. Her passion is to provide a safe space for her clients and to walk hand-in-hand with them, guiding them through the healing process.
Joleena is Certified in the Treament of Sexual Addiction, is a Certified Betrayal Trauma Coach, a Certified Clinical Trauma and Addiction Specialist, with a Masters of Psychology in Grief Counseling, and a Bachelors of Science in Psychology. Joleena specializes in helping couples working through betrayal and addiction of all kinds. She also works with clients that are struggling with anxiety, addictive behaviors, depression, PTSD, emotional abuse, mental abuse and trauma of various kinds. Her passion is to provide a safe space for her clients and to walk hand-in-hand with them, guiding them through the healing process.
(507) 216-9367 View (507) 216-9367
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Bonnie Asher
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Salem, OR 97301
I operate from a strengths-based perspective and use multiple approaches to help children, adolescents, and families feel supported. My role is to be a non-judgmental observer. I believe that humans are innately good and capable of reaching potential when given a therapeutic environment based on empathy and positive regard.
I operate from a strengths-based perspective and use multiple approaches to help children, adolescents, and families feel supported. My role is to be a non-judgmental observer. I believe that humans are innately good and capable of reaching potential when given a therapeutic environment based on empathy and positive regard.
(503) 300-2905 View (503) 300-2905
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Lunar Tides Therapy LLC
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, QMHP, LPCA
Verified Verified
Salem, OR 97301  (Online Only)
I offer therapy services for individuals, couples, and families, and see clients between the ages of 14 and 40 years old. I approach counseling through the understanding that individuals are a product of their environmental contexts and may equally influence those contexts. I also believe that we do not exist in a stagnant and unchanging world, and are continuously evolving as individuals, which shapes my scope of practice. I focus on working with clients towards empowerment and identifying behavioral, cognitive, and emotional patterns that may no longer serve their best interests.
I offer therapy services for individuals, couples, and families, and see clients between the ages of 14 and 40 years old. I approach counseling through the understanding that individuals are a product of their environmental contexts and may equally influence those contexts. I also believe that we do not exist in a stagnant and unchanging world, and are continuously evolving as individuals, which shapes my scope of practice. I focus on working with clients towards empowerment and identifying behavioral, cognitive, and emotional patterns that may no longer serve their best interests.
(425) 640-7009 x9448 View (425) 640-7009 x9448
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Alice Kintner
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, LMFT-A
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Salem, OR 97301
Our love stories are often stories of evolution. We often enter into partnership with the expectation of someone walking beside us into our future - but we often discover that future looks differently than imagined. Major life changes such as parenthood, health challenges, grief, financial stress, learning to balance the division of labor and unmatched expectations in the relationship can leave us feeling unloved, unseen, and alone. For many, the only information we have about how to move through these challenges comes from couples we have observed in our lives, and is hindered by insecure attachment and wounding.
Our love stories are often stories of evolution. We often enter into partnership with the expectation of someone walking beside us into our future - but we often discover that future looks differently than imagined. Major life changes such as parenthood, health challenges, grief, financial stress, learning to balance the division of labor and unmatched expectations in the relationship can leave us feeling unloved, unseen, and alone. For many, the only information we have about how to move through these challenges comes from couples we have observed in our lives, and is hindered by insecure attachment and wounding.
(971) 251-2654 View (971) 251-2654
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Stepping Stones Individual/Relationship Counseling
Marriage & Family Therapist, DMin, ThM, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Salem, OR 97301
I am convinced there is HOPE in your circumstances. You can reach an optimum state of mental health. I employ an eclectic approach with a strong reliance on both cognitive-behavioral and emotion focused modalities. Within you there lies a myriad history of life circumstance, cultural influence, spiritual richness, and challenge that has formed who you are. Walking along with each individual, couple or family, it is my privilege to explore life together, to hear your story, and to design a plan that allows for the optimum life experience. There is HOPE!
I am convinced there is HOPE in your circumstances. You can reach an optimum state of mental health. I employ an eclectic approach with a strong reliance on both cognitive-behavioral and emotion focused modalities. Within you there lies a myriad history of life circumstance, cultural influence, spiritual richness, and challenge that has formed who you are. Walking along with each individual, couple or family, it is my privilege to explore life together, to hear your story, and to design a plan that allows for the optimum life experience. There is HOPE!
(503) 743-6209 View (503) 743-6209
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Brooke Ansotegui
Pre-Licensed Professional, LPCA
Verified Verified
Salem, OR 97301  (Online Only)
While being particularly fond of working with individuals who are adolescents/children, mothers in the postpartum period, or mothers of young children, it will be an honor to work with people from all diverse backgrounds, of any age.
While being particularly fond of working with individuals who are adolescents/children, mothers in the postpartum period, or mothers of young children, it will be an honor to work with people from all diverse backgrounds, of any age.
(971) 257-5802 View (971) 257-5802
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Danielle Ryer
MSW
Verified Verified
Salem, OR 97317  (Online Only)
I am autistic, and a neurodiversity-affirming professional. This means I do not seek to change others, but focus on strength and adaptation, not assimilation. We can dig into life's fundamental questions: Who am I, what do I want, why am I here, and who should journey with me? I am not a therapist, but instead, I specialize in consulting and coaching those who want to develop healthier relationships with themselves and others. Our work together might focus on recovering from past mistakes, understanding how we came to those mistakes, and learning to make different choices and decisions in the future. It might be learning to say no.
I am autistic, and a neurodiversity-affirming professional. This means I do not seek to change others, but focus on strength and adaptation, not assimilation. We can dig into life's fundamental questions: Who am I, what do I want, why am I here, and who should journey with me? I am not a therapist, but instead, I specialize in consulting and coaching those who want to develop healthier relationships with themselves and others. Our work together might focus on recovering from past mistakes, understanding how we came to those mistakes, and learning to make different choices and decisions in the future. It might be learning to say no.
(503) 994-9491 View (503) 994-9491
Gottman Method Therapists

How does the Gottman method work?

One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.

Is the Gottman method evidence-based?

Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analyzed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.

How long does the Gottman method take?

The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.

Is the Gottman method effective?

Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomized controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.