Personality Disorders Therapists in Portland, OR

Navigating the complexities of personality disorders, gender issues, and mood disorders can be challenging, leaving you feeling misunderstood, stuck, or uncertain about your path forward.
I integrate Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Mindfulness, and Motivational Interviewing to tailor our work to your unique needs and goals. My approach emphasizes empowerment, self-discovery, and personal growth, helping you uncover the answers within yourself.
Navigating the complexities of personality disorders, gender issues, and mood disorders can be challenging, leaving you feeling misunderstood, stuck, or uncertain about your path forward.
I integrate Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Mindfulness, and Motivational Interviewing to tailor our work to your unique needs and goals. My approach emphasizes empowerment, self-discovery, and personal growth, helping you uncover the answers within yourself.

My goal has always been to help those with trauma, personality disorders, and depression/anxiety by diving into the unconscious, cultivating self-awareness, and creating practical solutions.
My therapeutic approach is eclectic and well-rounded. I believe a main factor in mental health issues is the natural human reaction to a society which makes us sick. My focus includes the psychology of capitalism, complex trauma, eco-anxiety, non-dogmatic spirituality, and psychedelic therapy.
My goal has always been to help those with trauma, personality disorders, and depression/anxiety by diving into the unconscious, cultivating self-awareness, and creating practical solutions.
My therapeutic approach is eclectic and well-rounded. I believe a main factor in mental health issues is the natural human reaction to a society which makes us sick. My focus includes the psychology of capitalism, complex trauma, eco-anxiety, non-dogmatic spirituality, and psychedelic therapy.

I hold certifications in trauma therapy and personality disorders.
With 2 decades of experience as a licensed therapist, I incorporate evidence-based practices along with mindfulness and holistic approaches integrating mind, body, and spirit into wellness practices that invite you to connect and engage in co-regulation.
I hold certifications in trauma therapy and personality disorders.
With 2 decades of experience as a licensed therapist, I incorporate evidence-based practices along with mindfulness and holistic approaches integrating mind, body, and spirit into wellness practices that invite you to connect and engage in co-regulation.

Melanie O'Neill-Galan
Registered Mental Health Counselor Intern, MS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Personality disorders themselves stem from trauma, and often require attachment based theories and DBT to address.
Maybe you've been to therapy before, learned the coping skills, and gained insight into your issues, but something still feels stuck. You're having a hard time moving forward, managing your emotions, or even just sitting with them. You’re looking for something deeper from therapy, perhaps to learn how to reach the next level. Maybe you've managed life without therapy up until now, but your negative experiences are adding up, making it harder to cope. Maybe you’re seeking the type of support you haven't been able to find elsewhere.
Personality disorders themselves stem from trauma, and often require attachment based theories and DBT to address.
Maybe you've been to therapy before, learned the coping skills, and gained insight into your issues, but something still feels stuck. You're having a hard time moving forward, managing your emotions, or even just sitting with them. You’re looking for something deeper from therapy, perhaps to learn how to reach the next level. Maybe you've managed life without therapy up until now, but your negative experiences are adding up, making it harder to cope. Maybe you’re seeking the type of support you haven't been able to find elsewhere.

In my practice I treat adults with PTSD, personality disorders, survivors of domestic violence, sexual abuse, religious trauma, people with suicidal thoughts or self harm, depression, grief, loss, and many other issues.
I offer in person sessions informed by DBT, IFS, and CBT aimed at helping you to do and feel better as you define it. I work from a relational, client centered approach.
In my practice I treat adults with PTSD, personality disorders, survivors of domestic violence, sexual abuse, religious trauma, people with suicidal thoughts or self harm, depression, grief, loss, and many other issues.
I offer in person sessions informed by DBT, IFS, and CBT aimed at helping you to do and feel better as you define it. I work from a relational, client centered approach.

Carewell Portland LLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, MFA, LPC
Verified Verified
Portland, OR 97214
Navigating a divorce, relationship stress, parenting struggles, enduring narcissistic abuse, all are particularly vulnerable.
We help people work on a variety of problems; relationship conflicts, depression, anxiety and trauma. Through periods of darkness we can make big shifts in life.
Navigating a divorce, relationship stress, parenting struggles, enduring narcissistic abuse, all are particularly vulnerable.
We help people work on a variety of problems; relationship conflicts, depression, anxiety and trauma. Through periods of darkness we can make big shifts in life.

Pam Snyder
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, ACT, BC-TMH
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Online Only
I specialize in narcissistic abuse and trauma.
This includes creating a healthy psychological separation, changing negative internal messages, overcoming self-doubt, creating boundaries, learning how to respond and becoming your authentic self. I primarily work with individuals. However, I work with couples whose focus is navigating difficult family systems together and some parent/child relationships.
I specialize in narcissistic abuse and trauma.
This includes creating a healthy psychological separation, changing negative internal messages, overcoming self-doubt, creating boundaries, learning how to respond and becoming your authentic self. I primarily work with individuals. However, I work with couples whose focus is navigating difficult family systems together and some parent/child relationships.

Services - I am currently only seeing new patients to evaluate for suitability for Transference Focused Psychotherapy, a form of psychotherapy that has been found effective for the treatment of borderline and narcissistic personality disorders.
I am a psychiatrist and psychotherapist with an established private practice since 2002. I specialize in psychoanalytic psychotherapy, a form of psychotherapy that focuses on helping people develop self-understanding about internal and relational dynamics which are repeated for reasons outside of consciousness. I assist clients with a variety of issues including, but not limited to anxiety, depression, grief, childhood trauma, relationship difficulties, anger, parenting, and recurring self defeating behaviors.
Services - I am currently only seeing new patients to evaluate for suitability for Transference Focused Psychotherapy, a form of psychotherapy that has been found effective for the treatment of borderline and narcissistic personality disorders.
I am a psychiatrist and psychotherapist with an established private practice since 2002. I specialize in psychoanalytic psychotherapy, a form of psychotherapy that focuses on helping people develop self-understanding about internal and relational dynamics which are repeated for reasons outside of consciousness. I assist clients with a variety of issues including, but not limited to anxiety, depression, grief, childhood trauma, relationship difficulties, anger, parenting, and recurring self defeating behaviors.

I also offer a unique program called Focused Therapy that seeks to address the following issues: 1) Relationship Struggles and / or Codependency, 2) Caretaker Burnout, 3) Chronic Perfectionism, 4) Building Healthy Boundaries, 5) Surviving Narcissistic Abuse, and / or 6) Counseling Services for Empaths.
It goes without saying these past few years have been an uphill battle. With the stress of a pandemic, the economic hardships facing many, and political divides deepening: it's no wonder anxiety is high. Or depression feels magnified. Or you find yourself falling back into bad habits. But you don't have to struggle through this time alone. Empathic Counseling can help you cope during this difficult time and empower you to thrive. I work closely with clients across Oregon to help them find freedom from Anxiety, Depression, Addiction, Trauma, or that harsh voice inside you that tells you you're not enough.
I also offer a unique program called Focused Therapy that seeks to address the following issues: 1) Relationship Struggles and / or Codependency, 2) Caretaker Burnout, 3) Chronic Perfectionism, 4) Building Healthy Boundaries, 5) Surviving Narcissistic Abuse, and / or 6) Counseling Services for Empaths.
It goes without saying these past few years have been an uphill battle. With the stress of a pandemic, the economic hardships facing many, and political divides deepening: it's no wonder anxiety is high. Or depression feels magnified. Or you find yourself falling back into bad habits. But you don't have to struggle through this time alone. Empathic Counseling can help you cope during this difficult time and empower you to thrive. I work closely with clients across Oregon to help them find freedom from Anxiety, Depression, Addiction, Trauma, or that harsh voice inside you that tells you you're not enough.

I also work with friends and family of individuals struggling with personality disorders or addiction.
My ideal client is someone ready to explore their challenges and invest in their growth. They may struggle with trauma, addiction, attachment, or navigating relationships as an LGBTQIA+ or ENM individual. They seek self-acceptance, practical skills, and alignment with their values. Their goals might include managing emotions, improving relationships, and creating a fulfilling, authentic life. They're motivated to process shame, break old patterns, and move forward with clarity and resilience.
I also work with friends and family of individuals struggling with personality disorders or addiction.
My ideal client is someone ready to explore their challenges and invest in their growth. They may struggle with trauma, addiction, attachment, or navigating relationships as an LGBTQIA+ or ENM individual. They seek self-acceptance, practical skills, and alignment with their values. Their goals might include managing emotions, improving relationships, and creating a fulfilling, authentic life. They're motivated to process shame, break old patterns, and move forward with clarity and resilience.

I have dual-diagnosis experience (co-occurring substance use disorders and mental health disorders), treating a wide variety of mental health diagnoses, including mood disorders, personality disorders, trauma and stress related disorders, anxiety disorders, and psychotic disorders.
My experience as a therapist has also led me to working specifically with folks in the LGBTQ+ community, folks who are experiencing faith transitions/faith crises, court ordered clients/others affected by the legal system, and folks with neurodivergent disorders.
I have dual-diagnosis experience (co-occurring substance use disorders and mental health disorders), treating a wide variety of mental health diagnoses, including mood disorders, personality disorders, trauma and stress related disorders, anxiety disorders, and psychotic disorders.
My experience as a therapist has also led me to working specifically with folks in the LGBTQ+ community, folks who are experiencing faith transitions/faith crises, court ordered clients/others affected by the legal system, and folks with neurodivergent disorders.
Meet Our Personality Disorders Therapists

Elizabeth Sheen
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Online Only
If you have been hurt by a narcissistic relationship, I can help!.
I specialize in supporting women in dating after toxic relationships and/or in midlife. Dating can often provide new layers of healing and growth. I can help you heal from your past, learn to set boundaries, break unhealthy patterns, learn to enjoy life again, and learn to trust yourself and others in order to have the relationship you desire!
If you have been hurt by a narcissistic relationship, I can help!.
I specialize in supporting women in dating after toxic relationships and/or in midlife. Dating can often provide new layers of healing and growth. I can help you heal from your past, learn to set boundaries, break unhealthy patterns, learn to enjoy life again, and learn to trust yourself and others in order to have the relationship you desire!

I specialize in supporting individuals with autism, ADHD, addictions, trauma, and personality disorders through humanistic and somatic approaches.
Merging clinical expertise with personal insights, I offer a distinctive, holistic therapy experience as a neurodivergent, LGBTQIA+-affirming counselor. My practice is enriched by trauma therapy certification and in-depth yoga and meditation training. In our safe, nurturing environment, you'll explore authentic living and self-acceptance. Leveraging creativity and intuition, we'll uncover and celebrate your unique gifts. My passion lies in revolutionizing therapy, recognizing and cultivating the extraordinary in every individual.
I specialize in supporting individuals with autism, ADHD, addictions, trauma, and personality disorders through humanistic and somatic approaches.
Merging clinical expertise with personal insights, I offer a distinctive, holistic therapy experience as a neurodivergent, LGBTQIA+-affirming counselor. My practice is enriched by trauma therapy certification and in-depth yoga and meditation training. In our safe, nurturing environment, you'll explore authentic living and self-acceptance. Leveraging creativity and intuition, we'll uncover and celebrate your unique gifts. My passion lies in revolutionizing therapy, recognizing and cultivating the extraordinary in every individual.

I specialize in supporting those who have experienced loss, trauma, narcissistic abuse, sexual abuse, physical/emotional abuse, depression, anxiety, co-dependency, relationship issues, work and life stress, and difficult life transitions Together, we will focus on your strengths, prior successes, and your future hopes and wishes.
Specializations: Trauma & Abuse; Grief & Loss; Depression & Anxiety; Relationship Issues; Stress Management; Life Changes & Transitions.
I specialize in supporting those who have experienced loss, trauma, narcissistic abuse, sexual abuse, physical/emotional abuse, depression, anxiety, co-dependency, relationship issues, work and life stress, and difficult life transitions Together, we will focus on your strengths, prior successes, and your future hopes and wishes.
Specializations: Trauma & Abuse; Grief & Loss; Depression & Anxiety; Relationship Issues; Stress Management; Life Changes & Transitions.

I specialize in working with the adult children of parents with borderline and narcissistic personality disorders in my practice.
My guess is that you're coming to therapy to not only get support, but also guidance. While you're definitely encouraged to talk through your feelings in our sessions, you can also expect me to provide feedback, offer suggestions, and help you problem solve issues you're currently facing.
I specialize in working with the adult children of parents with borderline and narcissistic personality disorders in my practice.
My guess is that you're coming to therapy to not only get support, but also guidance. While you're definitely encouraged to talk through your feelings in our sessions, you can also expect me to provide feedback, offer suggestions, and help you problem solve issues you're currently facing.

I have dual-diagnosis experience (co-occurring substance use disorders and mental health disorders), treating a wide variety of mental health diagnoses, including mood disorders, personality disorders, trauma and stress related disorders, anxiety disorders, and psychotic disorders.
My experience as a therapist has also led me to working specifically with folks in the LGBTQ+ community, folks who are experiencing faith transitions/faith crises, court ordered clients/others affected by the legal system, and folks with neurodivergent disorders.
I have dual-diagnosis experience (co-occurring substance use disorders and mental health disorders), treating a wide variety of mental health diagnoses, including mood disorders, personality disorders, trauma and stress related disorders, anxiety disorders, and psychotic disorders.
My experience as a therapist has also led me to working specifically with folks in the LGBTQ+ community, folks who are experiencing faith transitions/faith crises, court ordered clients/others affected by the legal system, and folks with neurodivergent disorders.

Jennalyn Strickland
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, NCC, CADC I
Verified Verified
Portland, OR 97239
I assist adults and adolescents who are experiencing a range of presenting concerns, including: depression, anxiety, anger, acute and chronic trauma, substance and behavioral addictions, relationship issues, psychosis, personality disorders or behaviors, obsessive compulsive behaviors, eating disorders, grief, ADHD, and suicidal thoughts or behaviors.
CURRENTLY ACCEPTING NEW CLIENTS! I believe that everyone is capable of healthy change to achieve their maximum potential and reach a deep satisfaction with life. I value depth and spirituality, identifying as a follower of Jesus. This drives me to show compassion, openness, and hope to all people in a nonjudgmental environment, recognizing that every person is a human being who deserves to live a life they find worth living. My desire is to create a space where people can feel comfortable and safe to be their authentic selves as they engage in the process of delving into the human within.
I assist adults and adolescents who are experiencing a range of presenting concerns, including: depression, anxiety, anger, acute and chronic trauma, substance and behavioral addictions, relationship issues, psychosis, personality disorders or behaviors, obsessive compulsive behaviors, eating disorders, grief, ADHD, and suicidal thoughts or behaviors.
CURRENTLY ACCEPTING NEW CLIENTS! I believe that everyone is capable of healthy change to achieve their maximum potential and reach a deep satisfaction with life. I value depth and spirituality, identifying as a follower of Jesus. This drives me to show compassion, openness, and hope to all people in a nonjudgmental environment, recognizing that every person is a human being who deserves to live a life they find worth living. My desire is to create a space where people can feel comfortable and safe to be their authentic selves as they engage in the process of delving into the human within.

I work with those navigating challenges such as depression, anxiety, ADHD, personality disorders, identity confusion, relationships, pregnancy, and parenting concerns.
I also integrate Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Positive Psychology, and Mindfulness techniques based on your goals and values. In our first sessions, we will focus on building a connection, exploring your history and symptoms, and developing a personalized treatment plan.
I work with those navigating challenges such as depression, anxiety, ADHD, personality disorders, identity confusion, relationships, pregnancy, and parenting concerns.
I also integrate Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Positive Psychology, and Mindfulness techniques based on your goals and values. In our first sessions, we will focus on building a connection, exploring your history and symptoms, and developing a personalized treatment plan.

Additional specializations include working with adults of all ages struggling with finding their own unique meaning, seeking successful relationships with others, treating anxiety, personality disorders, and providing couples therapy.
I utilize an insight and awareness oriented style of therapy that is committed to authenticity and humor when possible. More than half of my clients are involved in or exploring ethical non-monogamy or a queer sexual orientation but the most important thing I look for in clients is just a good therapy chemistry between us. I prioritize new clients with Kaiser health insurance due to a new and specific contract I have with them.
Additional specializations include working with adults of all ages struggling with finding their own unique meaning, seeking successful relationships with others, treating anxiety, personality disorders, and providing couples therapy.
I utilize an insight and awareness oriented style of therapy that is committed to authenticity and humor when possible. More than half of my clients are involved in or exploring ethical non-monogamy or a queer sexual orientation but the most important thing I look for in clients is just a good therapy chemistry between us. I prioritize new clients with Kaiser health insurance due to a new and specific contract I have with them.

Steven Ruiz Bettencourt
Licensed Professional Counselor, PsyD, LPC, CHT, EMDR
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
I specialize in anger management, anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties/couples counseling, motivation, personality disorders, EMDR and hypnosis for a variety of issues.
I have a Doctorate in Counseling Psychology (Psy.D.) with 40 years experience in the Mental Health field as a psychotherapist, Clinical Management, psychology professor and am a Martial Arts Grand Master with 54 years experience as a practitioner and teacher. I am a specialist in Conflict Resolution, Anger Management and Trauma.
I specialize in anger management, anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties/couples counseling, motivation, personality disorders, EMDR and hypnosis for a variety of issues.
I have a Doctorate in Counseling Psychology (Psy.D.) with 40 years experience in the Mental Health field as a psychotherapist, Clinical Management, psychology professor and am a Martial Arts Grand Master with 54 years experience as a practitioner and teacher. I am a specialist in Conflict Resolution, Anger Management and Trauma.
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Personality Disorders Therapists
What are the common treatment options for personality disorders?
Personality disorders are typically treated with psychotherapy, sometimes in conjunction with medication. Therapy can help people with personality disorders develop skills to tolerate difficult emotions, navigate interpersonal relationships, and solidify their sense of self. Medications can treat symptoms that co-occur with the disorder, such as depression, anger, aggression, and impulsivity.
When to seek treatment for personality disorders?
Even though treatment for personality disorders can be an uphill battle, it’s best to seek help if you suspect that you or a loved one is struggling with one, because personality disorders can create substantial problems in life. Symptoms depend on the specific disorder, but overall signs of personality disorders include consistent difficulty maintaining close relationships, dramatic variations in self-esteem, and an unstable sense of identity.
How long does therapy take for personality disorders?
The timeline for treating personality disorders isn’t as clear-cut as it is for other disorders. Change can be difficult, taking from around one year to five, 10, or more. The key is finding a therapist who has extensive experience treating the relevant disorder. For example, a psychologist who specializes in narcissistic personality disorder has specific communication strategies that allow them to sustain the relationship and be more effective with narcissistic patients.
Can therapy help people with personality disorders?
Research suggests that for those who are motivated to address concerns or interpersonal conflict related to a personality disorder, therapy is far more effective than no treatment, and that most people in therapy see improvements. However, since personality disorders involve entrenched elements of identity, they are less responsive to treatment than are other mental health conditions. Finding an expert who has extensive experience working with a given personality disorder is one factor that increases the likelihood of successful treatment.