Infidelity Therapists in Portland, OR
I specialize in working with individuals and couples dealing with pregnancy related/postpartum issues, parenting, and infidelity issues.
Are you overwhelmed? Stressed? Are you struggling with thoughts that you find disturbing? Are you in need of hope, healing, and support? If so, I can help. I will help you identify your life's purpose/meaning, develop healthy coping skills as you grow in your relationships. Beside my professional background, I know firsthand the joy and challenges of raising a family, juggling multiple demands; and have experienced the loss of a child through both miscarriage and stillbirth. If you are looking for someone whom you can connect with on an experiential level, I am that therapist. I look forward to assisting you in your life's journey.
I specialize in working with individuals and couples dealing with pregnancy related/postpartum issues, parenting, and infidelity issues.
Are you overwhelmed? Stressed? Are you struggling with thoughts that you find disturbing? Are you in need of hope, healing, and support? If so, I can help. I will help you identify your life's purpose/meaning, develop healthy coping skills as you grow in your relationships. Beside my professional background, I know firsthand the joy and challenges of raising a family, juggling multiple demands; and have experienced the loss of a child through both miscarriage and stillbirth. If you are looking for someone whom you can connect with on an experiential level, I am that therapist. I look forward to assisting you in your life's journey.
Most couples who find their way here have already tried talking it through — and keep ending up in the same place. The problem usually isn't effort or intention. It's that they're missing a framework built on what actually works. I'm a Gottman Method Level 3 practitioner with 15 years teaching communication at NYU Tisch. I work with couples navigating conflict, emotional distance, eroded trust, and affair recovery — and with individuals dealing with anxiety, burnout, and major life transitions.
Most couples who find their way here have already tried talking it through — and keep ending up in the same place. The problem usually isn't effort or intention. It's that they're missing a framework built on what actually works. I'm a Gottman Method Level 3 practitioner with 15 years teaching communication at NYU Tisch. I work with couples navigating conflict, emotional distance, eroded trust, and affair recovery — and with individuals dealing with anxiety, burnout, and major life transitions.
In my practice I provide relationship focused therapy for adult individuals. It is my passion to support clients as they unfold, progress and discover new insights. I believe the therapeutic process can help increase awareness and lead to healthier choices creating a greater sense of freedom and stability in our lives. I create a non- threatening atmosphere of trust and safety for all people. This environment provides a solid foundation for our therapeutic relationship to develop and prosper.
In my practice I provide relationship focused therapy for adult individuals. It is my passion to support clients as they unfold, progress and discover new insights. I believe the therapeutic process can help increase awareness and lead to healthier choices creating a greater sense of freedom and stability in our lives. I create a non- threatening atmosphere of trust and safety for all people. This environment provides a solid foundation for our therapeutic relationship to develop and prosper.
Hanna Zipes Basel
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LICSW, LADC, CST
1 Endorsed
Portland, OR 97229
Helping couples stuck in conflict, betrayal, or shutdown reconnect, repair, and feel safe with each other again.
I work with couples who are smart, self-aware, successful, and still stuck.
You’ve read the books, listened to the podcasts, maybe even tried couples therapy before. But you’re still having the same fights. One of you pursues, the other shuts down. Communication breaks down. Resentment builds. Trust feels strained. Distance grows.
Helping couples stuck in conflict, betrayal, or shutdown reconnect, repair, and feel safe with each other again.
I work with couples who are smart, self-aware, successful, and still stuck.
You’ve read the books, listened to the podcasts, maybe even tried couples therapy before. But you’re still having the same fights. One of you pursues, the other shuts down. Communication breaks down. Resentment builds. Trust feels strained. Distance grows.
Marriage and Relationship Counseling
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, MA, MBA
Portland, OR 97232
Hello, my name is Steven Cohn. Since the onset of Covid 19 I am currently conducting all of my couples sessions via teleconferencing. I meet with couples who live anywhere in Oregon, including Bend, Eugene, and Ashland. My clients are reporting that our online sessions feel just as meaningful and productive as our in-office sessions. If love, intimacy, and passion has faded from your relationship, then I'm here to help. Poor communications, financial problems, low sexual desire, blending a family, child rearing, an affair, in-laws, and/or health concerns can slowly erode relationship vitality in even the most loving unions.
Hello, my name is Steven Cohn. Since the onset of Covid 19 I am currently conducting all of my couples sessions via teleconferencing. I meet with couples who live anywhere in Oregon, including Bend, Eugene, and Ashland. My clients are reporting that our online sessions feel just as meaningful and productive as our in-office sessions. If love, intimacy, and passion has faded from your relationship, then I'm here to help. Poor communications, financial problems, low sexual desire, blending a family, child rearing, an affair, in-laws, and/or health concerns can slowly erode relationship vitality in even the most loving unions.
Our lives evolve in relationship to ourselves, our partners, our families, communities and other beings (e.g. animals & the land). The journey that brings us to therapy usually involves ruptures that we want to repair. My work with individuals & couples is about bringing back healthy connection, repair, hope and transformation. I integrate emotion focused, internal family systems, and somatic based interventions to help your relationship with self, partner (s) and others from rupture, to repair and transformation.
Our lives evolve in relationship to ourselves, our partners, our families, communities and other beings (e.g. animals & the land). The journey that brings us to therapy usually involves ruptures that we want to repair. My work with individuals & couples is about bringing back healthy connection, repair, hope and transformation. I integrate emotion focused, internal family systems, and somatic based interventions to help your relationship with self, partner (s) and others from rupture, to repair and transformation.
You’re thoughtful, self-aware—and still caught in patterns that don’t fully make sense. Maybe you’ve done therapy before, understand the “why,” and yet something isn’t shifting. I work with people who are ready for more than surface-level coping—people who want real, meaningful change.
You might look like you have it together on the outside, but internally feel overwhelmed, disconnected, or stuck in cycles—especially in relationships. You may be navigating anxiety, identity, or the tension between who you are and who you’ve been expected to be. You want depth, honesty, and a space where you don’t have to perform.
You’re thoughtful, self-aware—and still caught in patterns that don’t fully make sense. Maybe you’ve done therapy before, understand the “why,” and yet something isn’t shifting. I work with people who are ready for more than surface-level coping—people who want real, meaningful change.
You might look like you have it together on the outside, but internally feel overwhelmed, disconnected, or stuck in cycles—especially in relationships. You may be navigating anxiety, identity, or the tension between who you are and who you’ve been expected to be. You want depth, honesty, and a space where you don’t have to perform.
As an experienced Marriage Counselor and an Infidelity Recovery Expert in Oregon and California, I have helped hundreds of couples and individuals, rebuild trust and discover deeper more fulfilling relationships.
As a mature therapist I draw from my own personal experiences and from working with many diverse people over the years. I offer a positive approach that helps couples connect. I have helped many couples when all else has failed. I also offer Tandem Marriage Counseling, meeting individually for a portion of the sessions.
As an experienced Marriage Counselor and an Infidelity Recovery Expert in Oregon and California, I have helped hundreds of couples and individuals, rebuild trust and discover deeper more fulfilling relationships.
As a mature therapist I draw from my own personal experiences and from working with many diverse people over the years. I offer a positive approach that helps couples connect. I have helped many couples when all else has failed. I also offer Tandem Marriage Counseling, meeting individually for a portion of the sessions.
My areas of expertise are intimate relationships, pleasure, infidelity, sexual desire discrepancies, lack of desire, difficulties with orgasm, difficulties with erections and orgasm, pain and discomfort in sex, alternative sexualities and lifestyles, sexual abuse and violence.
Sexuality is often plagued by ideas and expectations regarding performance. I will encourage you to focus on pleasure and on expanding and deepening your sexual experiences. Relationships will engage in open communication as to desires, needs, and feelings in order to build more intimate and satisfying emotional and sexual connections.
My areas of expertise are intimate relationships, pleasure, infidelity, sexual desire discrepancies, lack of desire, difficulties with orgasm, difficulties with erections and orgasm, pain and discomfort in sex, alternative sexualities and lifestyles, sexual abuse and violence.
Sexuality is often plagued by ideas and expectations regarding performance. I will encourage you to focus on pleasure and on expanding and deepening your sexual experiences. Relationships will engage in open communication as to desires, needs, and feelings in order to build more intimate and satisfying emotional and sexual connections.
My areas of specialty are working with adults, either as individuals or in couples, who are seeking clarity and understanding in their lives, either in new situations, in their relationships, or in patterns that seem to come up in spite of best efforts. My clients are curious and motivated people who are used to solving problems and find themselves in search of greater understanding and new ways of being. I work with compassion, humor, and support my client's in their own unique vision for their lives and how they define meaning and satisfaction.
My areas of specialty are working with adults, either as individuals or in couples, who are seeking clarity and understanding in their lives, either in new situations, in their relationships, or in patterns that seem to come up in spite of best efforts. My clients are curious and motivated people who are used to solving problems and find themselves in search of greater understanding and new ways of being. I work with compassion, humor, and support my client's in their own unique vision for their lives and how they define meaning and satisfaction.
My international work in the Middle East and, most recently, Kenya has focused on conflict resolution, human rights, and community recovery. Through my nonprofit, HANDS, I have supported efforts that promote dignity and community well-being. This experience helps me understand how war, political instability, violence, displacement, discrimination, family separation, and conflict can affect mental health, relationships, safety, and belonging.
If you are navigating migration, racism, cultural adjustment, loss, substance misuse, family conflict, or systems that have treated you unfairly, you do not have to face these challenges alone.
My international work in the Middle East and, most recently, Kenya has focused on conflict resolution, human rights, and community recovery. Through my nonprofit, HANDS, I have supported efforts that promote dignity and community well-being. This experience helps me understand how war, political instability, violence, displacement, discrimination, family separation, and conflict can affect mental health, relationships, safety, and belonging.
If you are navigating migration, racism, cultural adjustment, loss, substance misuse, family conflict, or systems that have treated you unfairly, you do not have to face these challenges alone.
Let go of patterns that no longer serve you and build deeper relationships – with yourself and those you love
Let go of patterns that no longer serve you and build deeper relationships – with yourself and those you love
Whether it's pornography or other forms of infidelity we can help.
There are three ways we help our clients. We do couples & individual sessions, workgroups and have 2 and 3 day intensives. For couples we suggest couples sessions, with an option of splitting off and doing individual sessions if needed. For Individuals we suggest individual sessions.
Whether it's pornography or other forms of infidelity we can help.
There are three ways we help our clients. We do couples & individual sessions, workgroups and have 2 and 3 day intensives. For couples we suggest couples sessions, with an option of splitting off and doing individual sessions if needed. For Individuals we suggest individual sessions.
Do you find yourself stuck in the same painful relationship patterns, struggling to trust after betrayal, recovering from emotional abuse, or feeling disconnected from your partner?
I specialize in relationship concerns, intimacy issues, narcissistic abuse recovery, anxiety, depression, self-esteem, life transitions, and women's issues. I also work with couples seeking to strengthen communication, deepen emotional connection, navigate conflict, and restore trust after relationship challenges.
Do you find yourself stuck in the same painful relationship patterns, struggling to trust after betrayal, recovering from emotional abuse, or feeling disconnected from your partner?
I specialize in relationship concerns, intimacy issues, narcissistic abuse recovery, anxiety, depression, self-esteem, life transitions, and women's issues. I also work with couples seeking to strengthen communication, deepen emotional connection, navigate conflict, and restore trust after relationship challenges.
Caleb is Christian Counselor, LMFT, Certified Sex Addiction Counselor (CSAT), Certified Clinical Trauma Professional (CCTP), Certified Addictions-Informed Mental Health Professional (CAIMHP), Certified Autism Spectrum Disorder Clinical Specialist (CASDCS), and Certified Clinical Anxiety Treatment Professional (CCATP). Caleb specializes in helping men work through addiction recovery, anxiety, addictive behaviors, depression, PTSD, emotional abuse, mental abuse and trauma of various kinds. His passion is to provide a safe space for his clients and to walk hand-in-hand with them, guiding them through the healing process.
Caleb is Christian Counselor, LMFT, Certified Sex Addiction Counselor (CSAT), Certified Clinical Trauma Professional (CCTP), Certified Addictions-Informed Mental Health Professional (CAIMHP), Certified Autism Spectrum Disorder Clinical Specialist (CASDCS), and Certified Clinical Anxiety Treatment Professional (CCATP). Caleb specializes in helping men work through addiction recovery, anxiety, addictive behaviors, depression, PTSD, emotional abuse, mental abuse and trauma of various kinds. His passion is to provide a safe space for his clients and to walk hand-in-hand with them, guiding them through the healing process.
I work with couples and individuals who struggle with anxiety, trauma, marital distress, conflict, communication breakdown and/or infidelity.
Online marriage and individual counseling in Oregon, Washington and California. Relationship distress and past trauma leave deep marks, but they don't have to define your future. Healing is possible. My name is Angel. With 17 years of experience as a marriage and family therapist, I am here to help you navigate these challenges and rebuild a secure, loving connection.
I work with couples and individuals who struggle with anxiety, trauma, marital distress, conflict, communication breakdown and/or infidelity.
Online marriage and individual counseling in Oregon, Washington and California. Relationship distress and past trauma leave deep marks, but they don't have to define your future. Healing is possible. My name is Angel. With 17 years of experience as a marriage and family therapist, I am here to help you navigate these challenges and rebuild a secure, loving connection.
Most couples who find their way here have already tried talking it through — and keep ending up in the same place. The problem usually isn't effort or intention. It's that they're missing a framework built on what actually works. I'm a Gottman Method Level 3 practitioner with 15 years teaching communication at NYU Tisch. I work with couples navigating conflict, emotional distance, eroded trust, and affair recovery — and with individuals dealing with anxiety, burnout, and major life transitions.
Most couples who find their way here have already tried talking it through — and keep ending up in the same place. The problem usually isn't effort or intention. It's that they're missing a framework built on what actually works. I'm a Gottman Method Level 3 practitioner with 15 years teaching communication at NYU Tisch. I work with couples navigating conflict, emotional distance, eroded trust, and affair recovery — and with individuals dealing with anxiety, burnout, and major life transitions.
Are you feeling disconnected or stuck in recurring conflict with your loved one? If you’re seeking couples therapy or marriage counseling to improve communication, rebuild trust, and strengthen your relationship, support is available.
As a Certified Gottman Couples Therapist, I provide practical, research-based tools to help couples strengthen their relationship, heal from past hurts, improve communication, and reconnect with your partner. Lasting change is possible when both partners are committed to growing together. I offer practical tools and a clear roadmap to support meaningful progress in your relationship.
Are you feeling disconnected or stuck in recurring conflict with your loved one? If you’re seeking couples therapy or marriage counseling to improve communication, rebuild trust, and strengthen your relationship, support is available.
As a Certified Gottman Couples Therapist, I provide practical, research-based tools to help couples strengthen their relationship, heal from past hurts, improve communication, and reconnect with your partner. Lasting change is possible when both partners are committed to growing together. I offer practical tools and a clear roadmap to support meaningful progress in your relationship.
I am a solution focused therapist who provides treatment for a variety of emotional-social difficulties, including mood disorders, couples counseling, parenting, work conflict and addictions. I have a tremendous amount of respect for clients and their courage to share vulnerable aspects of their lives. I work with men, women, college students, couples, and families to help develop healthy coping skills. I appreciate and respect my clients in their journey to understand themselves and find greater peace in their lives.
I am a solution focused therapist who provides treatment for a variety of emotional-social difficulties, including mood disorders, couples counseling, parenting, work conflict and addictions. I have a tremendous amount of respect for clients and their courage to share vulnerable aspects of their lives. I work with men, women, college students, couples, and families to help develop healthy coping skills. I appreciate and respect my clients in their journey to understand themselves and find greater peace in their lives.
You processed the infidelity for months, but it still feels like you're about to discover it all over again.
Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART) uses guided eye movements to change how betrayal memories are stored in your brain. It's a proven technique that helps your nervous system recognize that the trauma is over and you can relax (no drugs, hypnosis, or homework involved). Research shows ART delivers faster results than many traditional trauma treatments.
You processed the infidelity for months, but it still feels like you're about to discover it all over again.
Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART) uses guided eye movements to change how betrayal memories are stored in your brain. It's a proven technique that helps your nervous system recognize that the trauma is over and you can relax (no drugs, hypnosis, or homework involved). Research shows ART delivers faster results than many traditional trauma treatments.
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Infidelity Therapists
How does therapy for infidelity work?
A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.
How long does therapy for infidelity take?
Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.
How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?
When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.
How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?
Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.