Domestic Abuse Therapists in Portland, OR

During Chris' career, he has worked with over a thousand abusive men and hundreds of female and male victims of abuse.
He also offers a graduate level class on domestic violence at Pacific University. He regularly speaks publicly and offers trainings on a variety of issue related to domestic violence. He is a member of the advisory group to the state attorney general to monitor standards for batterer intervention programs.
During Chris' career, he has worked with over a thousand abusive men and hundreds of female and male victims of abuse.
He also offers a graduate level class on domestic violence at Pacific University. He regularly speaks publicly and offers trainings on a variety of issue related to domestic violence. He is a member of the advisory group to the state attorney general to monitor standards for batterer intervention programs.

Jessica Tolleson
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Portland, OR 97205
I specialize in effective therapy for individuals who witnessed and/or survived interpersonal violence and individuals suffering from depression, anxiety, low self-esteem and assertiveness issues.
Are you feeling down? Anxious? Stuck? Maybe negative thoughts or worries are impacting your work or even your relationships? At times it can feel like these patterns will never change and yet therapy provides a safe space to process thoughts, feelings and patterns. I create a safe environment through mutual trust and understanding. This opens a space for self-exploration, growth and development. I believe that, in working collaboratively, we can identify problems and personalize your treatment direction. With the right skills, each individual has the capacity to accomplish their goals.
I specialize in effective therapy for individuals who witnessed and/or survived interpersonal violence and individuals suffering from depression, anxiety, low self-esteem and assertiveness issues.
Are you feeling down? Anxious? Stuck? Maybe negative thoughts or worries are impacting your work or even your relationships? At times it can feel like these patterns will never change and yet therapy provides a safe space to process thoughts, feelings and patterns. I create a safe environment through mutual trust and understanding. This opens a space for self-exploration, growth and development. I believe that, in working collaboratively, we can identify problems and personalize your treatment direction. With the right skills, each individual has the capacity to accomplish their goals.

Eleni Lazarou
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Portland, OR 97209
Waitlist for new clients
I utilize a holistic, trauma-sensitive approach to support the healing of those who have experienced various forms of abuse, interpersonal violence and trauma.
My practice includes incorporation of the sexual, energetic/spiritual, physiological, emotional and psychological selves. I acknowledge that the client is the expert in their life experience, and work to promote communication, coping skills, boundary setting and interpersonal dynamics that will facilitate the client's transition from surviving to thriving.
I utilize a holistic, trauma-sensitive approach to support the healing of those who have experienced various forms of abuse, interpersonal violence and trauma.
My practice includes incorporation of the sexual, energetic/spiritual, physiological, emotional and psychological selves. I acknowledge that the client is the expert in their life experience, and work to promote communication, coping skills, boundary setting and interpersonal dynamics that will facilitate the client's transition from surviving to thriving.

You're struggling at work and at home and you're haunted by memories of abuse from your past.
Although it may feel unimaginable now, you will have relationships with yourself and others that you couldn’t believe existed. This depth of healing will affect every area of your life. You will be able to feel peace, empowerment, and freedom. You will break toxic relationship patterns and learn to trust yourself and others.
You're struggling at work and at home and you're haunted by memories of abuse from your past.
Although it may feel unimaginable now, you will have relationships with yourself and others that you couldn’t believe existed. This depth of healing will affect every area of your life. You will be able to feel peace, empowerment, and freedom. You will break toxic relationship patterns and learn to trust yourself and others.

My particular focus is on survivors of sexual assault and intimate partner violence.
I concentrate on trauma processing, mindfulness-based techniques to reconnect with the body, and enhancing emotional safety. I use a humanistic counseling style, integrating Emotionally Focused Therapy, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, and Narrative approaches to guide my clients.
My particular focus is on survivors of sexual assault and intimate partner violence.
I concentrate on trauma processing, mindfulness-based techniques to reconnect with the body, and enhancing emotional safety. I use a humanistic counseling style, integrating Emotionally Focused Therapy, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, and Narrative approaches to guide my clients.

Using both my clinical training in trauma and abuse, and personal experience, we will journey together from being bound by harmful rules, experiences, and frameworks to having the freedom to thrive.
Have you experienced harm in your religious environment and/or intimate partner manipulation and control? Are you forming a new world view, but find your body and mind stuck to old patterns? Evangelicalism (which includes many denominations), purity culture, and other high control religious environments, along with experiences with intimate partner harm can leave you struggling for freedom long after your body has left the harmful physical space. Do you want to feel comfortable in your own skin, confident and able to make decisions on your own without feeling indebted to others or at risk of punishment?
Using both my clinical training in trauma and abuse, and personal experience, we will journey together from being bound by harmful rules, experiences, and frameworks to having the freedom to thrive.
Have you experienced harm in your religious environment and/or intimate partner manipulation and control? Are you forming a new world view, but find your body and mind stuck to old patterns? Evangelicalism (which includes many denominations), purity culture, and other high control religious environments, along with experiences with intimate partner harm can leave you struggling for freedom long after your body has left the harmful physical space. Do you want to feel comfortable in your own skin, confident and able to make decisions on your own without feeling indebted to others or at risk of punishment?

I have personal and professional experience in narcissistic abuse recovery.
Do you wonder if your relationship is/was healthy? Are you still reeling from what you've experienced? Questioning what serves you and your highest self? Ruminating and stuck in analysis paralysis? Struggling to move forward? Struggling to trust others and trust yourself? Do you experience flashbacks and anger? Even rage? Trying to make sense of it all? Do you find yourself stuck in pain and shame? Do you want to know how to protect yourself from manipulation tactics and illogical arguments meant to gain control over you? Recovering from MAGA? Co-parenting or FOO difficulties? Do you need a transformative, healing experience?
I have personal and professional experience in narcissistic abuse recovery.
Do you wonder if your relationship is/was healthy? Are you still reeling from what you've experienced? Questioning what serves you and your highest self? Ruminating and stuck in analysis paralysis? Struggling to move forward? Struggling to trust others and trust yourself? Do you experience flashbacks and anger? Even rage? Trying to make sense of it all? Do you find yourself stuck in pain and shame? Do you want to know how to protect yourself from manipulation tactics and illogical arguments meant to gain control over you? Recovering from MAGA? Co-parenting or FOO difficulties? Do you need a transformative, healing experience?

I am passionate about the care and recovery of those who have faced trauma caused by domestic violence, sexual assault, generational harm, emotional neglect, attachment wounds, divorce, singleness, and more.
Together we will help you discover healthier coping skills, boundaries to keep your relationships healthy and happy, mindful body awareness, and decision-making skills. We all make decisions based on the information available to us, my goal is to give you a wider perspective and learn about you through a holistic, scientifically based way of thinking.
I am passionate about the care and recovery of those who have faced trauma caused by domestic violence, sexual assault, generational harm, emotional neglect, attachment wounds, divorce, singleness, and more.
Together we will help you discover healthier coping skills, boundaries to keep your relationships healthy and happy, mindful body awareness, and decision-making skills. We all make decisions based on the information available to us, my goal is to give you a wider perspective and learn about you through a holistic, scientifically based way of thinking.

Shayna MacLean
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
Additionally, I specialize in working with folx transitioning into adulthood, individuals exploring their various identities including gender and sexuality identities, and survivors of trauma related to domestic violence and sexual assault.
I provide individual therapy services that pull from modalities including: Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Emotion Focused Therapy, Person-Centered Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, and more to create a trauma informed, supportive space. I additionally practice with a Health at Every Size approach, and believe in every client where they are at.
Additionally, I specialize in working with folx transitioning into adulthood, individuals exploring their various identities including gender and sexuality identities, and survivors of trauma related to domestic violence and sexual assault.
I provide individual therapy services that pull from modalities including: Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Emotion Focused Therapy, Person-Centered Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, and more to create a trauma informed, supportive space. I additionally practice with a Health at Every Size approach, and believe in every client where they are at.

JoLee Scott
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
I understand personally: abuse, narcissism, problematic marriage, hostile divorce, raising children in this dynamic, religious abuse and addiction.
Are you confused? Exhausted? Scared? I can help. I have a unique understanding of unhealthy relationships and how they operate and impact the lives of those in it. Most relationships start out hopeful and happy. Many turn at some point and this is where confusion lives. I work with individuals who have had difficult relationships. Healing takes a lot of work, and a lot of commitment, I won't sugar-coat...but it can be done. Or, perhaps you have issues with non-intimate relationships, maybe a parent, sibling, or child. Or maybe your child has conflicts with your ex. This too can be made healthier.
I understand personally: abuse, narcissism, problematic marriage, hostile divorce, raising children in this dynamic, religious abuse and addiction.
Are you confused? Exhausted? Scared? I can help. I have a unique understanding of unhealthy relationships and how they operate and impact the lives of those in it. Most relationships start out hopeful and happy. Many turn at some point and this is where confusion lives. I work with individuals who have had difficult relationships. Healing takes a lot of work, and a lot of commitment, I won't sugar-coat...but it can be done. Or, perhaps you have issues with non-intimate relationships, maybe a parent, sibling, or child. Or maybe your child has conflicts with your ex. This too can be made healthier.

Whether you are having relational/marital issues, have been a victim of domestic violence or abuse, struggle with anxiety or depression, or one of many other life issues there can be peace again.
I additionally have a love for military and veterans and have worked with them for years. Whatever your situation feel free to reach out with any questions you might have.
Whether you are having relational/marital issues, have been a victim of domestic violence or abuse, struggle with anxiety or depression, or one of many other life issues there can be peace again.
I additionally have a love for military and veterans and have worked with them for years. Whatever your situation feel free to reach out with any questions you might have.
Meet Our Domestic Abuse Therapists

My qualification and license: I am a Certified Social Work Associate in Oregon state. I received a Masters Degree in Social Work and a Bachelor of science in Psychology from Portland State University. My professional Background involves many years of experience serving vulnerable populations of people and providing case management, as well as trauma informed care and crisis intervention. I have cultural competency working with the Latinx and marginalized communities. I have worked alongside many community partners including Department of Human Services, the Domestic Violence Resource Center, Sexual Assault Resource Center and
My qualification and license: I am a Certified Social Work Associate in Oregon state. I received a Masters Degree in Social Work and a Bachelor of science in Psychology from Portland State University. My professional Background involves many years of experience serving vulnerable populations of people and providing case management, as well as trauma informed care and crisis intervention. I have cultural competency working with the Latinx and marginalized communities. I have worked alongside many community partners including Department of Human Services, the Domestic Violence Resource Center, Sexual Assault Resource Center and

I work with a wide variety of clients and work in depth with trauma/ abuse, women’s issues, postpartum struggles, anxiety, depression, young adult/phase-of-life challenges, and childhood & relationship issues.
Real life is complicated and often times, it hurts. The struggles that we experience can take on a variety of forms, ranging from depression and anxiety, to trauma. As a Licensed Therapist (LMFT), I am dedicated to supporting my clients on their journey towards healing, empowerment and hope. I strive to offer a personalized and collaborative approach in therapy that focuses on developing strong, trusting relationships with my clients. I utilize a trauma-informed, humanistic, strength-based, non-judgmental style to provide a safe space for my clients to explore, heal and grow.
I work with a wide variety of clients and work in depth with trauma/ abuse, women’s issues, postpartum struggles, anxiety, depression, young adult/phase-of-life challenges, and childhood & relationship issues.
Real life is complicated and often times, it hurts. The struggles that we experience can take on a variety of forms, ranging from depression and anxiety, to trauma. As a Licensed Therapist (LMFT), I am dedicated to supporting my clients on their journey towards healing, empowerment and hope. I strive to offer a personalized and collaborative approach in therapy that focuses on developing strong, trusting relationships with my clients. I utilize a trauma-informed, humanistic, strength-based, non-judgmental style to provide a safe space for my clients to explore, heal and grow.

I can help with all kinds of addictions, existential crises, grief, abuse, eating disorders
The therapeutic relationship is crucial to the healing process, whether the problem is with external relationships, traumatic experience, or one's relationship with the self. I use psychoanalytic principles and relational dynamics to explore the internal conflicts and patterns that are at the root of emotional, psychological and relational problems. I am also sensitive to spirituality and the existential problems inherent in being human, and how these affect us all. I have a special interest in the psychology of twins and intersubjective relating in general.
I can help with all kinds of addictions, existential crises, grief, abuse, eating disorders
The therapeutic relationship is crucial to the healing process, whether the problem is with external relationships, traumatic experience, or one's relationship with the self. I use psychoanalytic principles and relational dynamics to explore the internal conflicts and patterns that are at the root of emotional, psychological and relational problems. I am also sensitive to spirituality and the existential problems inherent in being human, and how these affect us all. I have a special interest in the psychology of twins and intersubjective relating in general.

Elizabeth Fisher
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, PhD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Portland, OR 97219
I specialize in emotional and relational disorders arising from trauma, sexual abuse, attachment disruptions, and less-than-optimal early childhood experiences.
Many of my clients find it helpful to address early attachment issues. Attachment disorders may surface as relationship instability, clinginess, relationship avoidance, jealousy, anxiety, depression, aggression, and/or a generally high level of reactivity. By working with early attachment ruptures, it is possible to heal and enjoy healthy relationships.
I specialize in emotional and relational disorders arising from trauma, sexual abuse, attachment disruptions, and less-than-optimal early childhood experiences.
Many of my clients find it helpful to address early attachment issues. Attachment disorders may surface as relationship instability, clinginess, relationship avoidance, jealousy, anxiety, depression, aggression, and/or a generally high level of reactivity. By working with early attachment ruptures, it is possible to heal and enjoy healthy relationships.

I specialize in survivors of narcissistic abuse, especially within adult children of narcissistic parents and intimate partners of narcissists.
I have ample experience working with those impacted by abuse in many different forms. I am EMDR trained and enjoy working on trauma recovery. I love to incorporate different mediums into my practice, including but not limited to art, writing, and body movement. I operate from a radical acceptance model around body neutrality and self-esteem.
I specialize in survivors of narcissistic abuse, especially within adult children of narcissistic parents and intimate partners of narcissists.
I have ample experience working with those impacted by abuse in many different forms. I am EMDR trained and enjoy working on trauma recovery. I love to incorporate different mediums into my practice, including but not limited to art, writing, and body movement. I operate from a radical acceptance model around body neutrality and self-esteem.

Providers at Resonance can treat a variety of issues and clients, including adult survivors of child abuse, ADHD, Autism, CPTSD, PTSD, and Post Traumatic Growth, racial trauma, multiracial identity development, grief and loss, intergenerational trauma, religious trauma, and families impacted by severe and persistent mental health issues.
Resonance clinicians draw from a variety of modalities, including Anti-Oppressive Practice, Afrocentric Paradigms, Relational Cultural Therapy, Person-Centered Therapy, Interpersonal Neurobiology, Ecotherapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Emotion Focused Individual Therapy, and Crisis Intervention.
Providers at Resonance can treat a variety of issues and clients, including adult survivors of child abuse, ADHD, Autism, CPTSD, PTSD, and Post Traumatic Growth, racial trauma, multiracial identity development, grief and loss, intergenerational trauma, religious trauma, and families impacted by severe and persistent mental health issues.
Resonance clinicians draw from a variety of modalities, including Anti-Oppressive Practice, Afrocentric Paradigms, Relational Cultural Therapy, Person-Centered Therapy, Interpersonal Neurobiology, Ecotherapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Emotion Focused Individual Therapy, and Crisis Intervention.

Samuel Stem
Licensed Professional Counselor, PsyD, LPC, CADCIII
Verified Verified
Portland, OR 97211
I work with clients concerned with substance use/ abuse, self-esteem, depression, anxiety, life transitions and emotional regulation concerns.
I specialize in confidential and non-judgmental addiction and mental health counseling, paired together for the most effective approach. With more than thirty years of practice and training, I assist individuals and families struggling with chronic health illnesses, disabilities, severe mental illness, and substance abuse/dependence issues.
I work with clients concerned with substance use/ abuse, self-esteem, depression, anxiety, life transitions and emotional regulation concerns.
I specialize in confidential and non-judgmental addiction and mental health counseling, paired together for the most effective approach. With more than thirty years of practice and training, I assist individuals and families struggling with chronic health illnesses, disabilities, severe mental illness, and substance abuse/dependence issues.

I treat ADHD, anger/ abuse, and anxiety/depression by incorporating CBT, ACT, and IFS into mindfulness-based existential therapy.
The human experience is not easy. We wear masks, we put on armor. Our true self gets hidden away… and we may even forget who that is. Casting away those masks, those layers of armor, can take us to dark places. I’m here to support you unconditionally until, together, we find that inner light again. In vulnerability there is a deep well of strength. With self-awareness and greater focus, we can take back control of our own minds, forgive ourselves, and heal relationships. By reuniting with the lost and damaged parts of ourselves, we find authenticity, what matters most to us... our true self is revealed!
I treat ADHD, anger/ abuse, and anxiety/depression by incorporating CBT, ACT, and IFS into mindfulness-based existential therapy.
The human experience is not easy. We wear masks, we put on armor. Our true self gets hidden away… and we may even forget who that is. Casting away those masks, those layers of armor, can take us to dark places. I’m here to support you unconditionally until, together, we find that inner light again. In vulnerability there is a deep well of strength. With self-awareness and greater focus, we can take back control of our own minds, forgive ourselves, and heal relationships. By reuniting with the lost and damaged parts of ourselves, we find authenticity, what matters most to us... our true self is revealed!

DBT, trauma, substance abuse, and borderline personality disorder are my specialties.
With the state of the world, mental health is at an all-time low and we are all experiencing collective trauma. I take climate, pandemic, economic, political, societal, and cultural problems into account, on top of personal issues. My goal has always been to help those with trauma, personality disorders, and depression/anxiety by diving into the unconscious, cultivating self-awareness, and creating practical solutions. My clients are diverse and range from 13-65+ yrs old.
DBT, trauma, substance abuse, and borderline personality disorder are my specialties.
With the state of the world, mental health is at an all-time low and we are all experiencing collective trauma. I take climate, pandemic, economic, political, societal, and cultural problems into account, on top of personal issues. My goal has always been to help those with trauma, personality disorders, and depression/anxiety by diving into the unconscious, cultivating self-awareness, and creating practical solutions. My clients are diverse and range from 13-65+ yrs old.
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Domestic Abuse Therapists
What are the most effective ways to recover from domestic abuse?
Leaving an abusive relationship requires tremendous courage, so survivors in treatment should recognize that they have already completed the most important step. Still, the trauma of physical or emotional abuse can be difficult to process and overcome. Therapy can help survivors process trauma, grief, and difficult emotions, treat relevant mental health symptoms, and create a new framework for boundaries and relationships in the future. For some, support groups can also be an invaluable outlet for healing.
When should an individual seek help for domestic abuse?
Victims of intimate partner violence should seek help immediately. It can take substantial time, planning, energy, and courage to leave an abusive relationship, but starting the process—by seeking therapy, calling the domestic violence hotline, or simply confiding in a loved one—will help them get there. Those who have left abusive relationships but haven’t sought treatment can also greatly benefit from therapy to process and heal from the experience.
What are the consequences of staying in an abusive relationship?
Remaining in an abusive relationship has serious repercussions. In addition to the ongoing threat of physical danger and emotional abuse, research shows that intimate partner violence is associated with a range of mental health disorders including depression, post-traumatic stress disorder, anxiety, and substance abuse. Therefore it’s important for individuals in an abusive relationship to seek help as soon as possible.
How can you get domestic abuse treatment for someone else?
It can be very complicated to identify and leave an abusive relationship; barriers include the threat of violence, financial instability, and family pressures. Those concerned about a loved one in an abusive relationship should talk to them about the situation, provide them with resources such as the domestic violence hotline, and introduce the idea of seeing a therapist due to their concern for the person’s safety and well-being.